Sitting here like uninvited company
Wallowing in my own obscenities
I share a cigarette with negativity
Sitting here like wet ashes with X’s in my eyes
And drawing flies
Bathed in perspiration drowned my enemies
Used my inspiration for a guillotine
I fire a loaded mental cannon to the page
Leaning on the pedestal that holds my self denial
Firing the pistol that shoots my holy pride
Sitting here like wet ashes with X’s in my eyes
And drawing flies
And I said “Hey what you yellin’ about
Conditions, permission, mirrored self-affliction?”
“Hey what you yellin’ about
Sadists’ co-addiction, perfect analogies?”
“Hey what you yellin’ about
Conditions, permission, mirrored self-affliction?”
Leaning on the pedestal that holds my self denial
Firing the pistol that shoots my holy pride
Sitting here like wet ashes with X’s in my eyes
And drawing flies
Dear Rollo, Having recently discovered your work, I would like to thank you on what has been a revelation, and will be, an ongoing revelation for me. I come from quite an interesting dynamic in that my appearance is now quite Alpha in traits (although this wasn’t always the case) and I get IOI’s and attention from very attractive women, sometimes overtly. However, growing up in a very fem-centric household my mindset has always been ultra Beta, to the point where I just bail on situations where I could fuck a very attractive women. I kind of freak out and… Read more »
Hi Rollo. I as listening to Candace Owens speaking on her March 10th show mention that radical feminism is the newest form of white supremacy. I am not sure if you would like to tackle that issue on your show given the political climate. It would be interesting to have a panel discussion with the regulars on your show. Thanks
Please email me. I have been reconciling the bible with the red pill and I have had some illuminating thoughts. jeremy.gesco@gmail.com
Just read “The Rational Male”. It took just two sessions of reading and it really resonates with this 69 year old Stoic. You really need to find yourself an editor though 🙂
“The prime directive of feminism is:
Never do anything for the express pleasure of a man.”
AMen
Hi. Do you need someone to translate “Rational Male” into Finnish?
Dear Mister Tomassi, I am an 34y old german man, teacher, who finally found the red pill content a couple of months ago. Your book has just arrived and I will start to read in the following days. Indeed my english skills are solid, but honestly I have realized that a couple of vocabularies I dont know. So I decided that my next project is reading your book and translating it into german simultaneously for myself. I would be honoured if you want to have the final document. So if you are interested, let me know. Many thanks in advance… Read more »
Herr Chris,
Viele jahren haben gegangen, Ich habe deutsche lernt in einem deutsche kinderschule.
However, many decades have passed since then and my German hasn’t improved with age. 🤣🤣🤣
I was reading that English has over 300,000 words. Since German has over 5 million, perhaps your brain is simply running out of space. 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for your books and your willingness to help men. In the last 6 weeks I have learned so much, I wish that this information was available
when I was younger. Thank you sincerely!
@Rollo , I saw a comment on Rule Zero That alluded to the passing of your mother. I offer heartfelt condolences for your loss.
Rollo, unplugged artist. I unplugged myself after marriage and entering dating. I actually logged dates in cartoon form. They reflected the unplugged mindset and the feminine strategies used by women you have documented. My make single friends love them. Female friends ask me where I meet ‘these women.’ I reply, the general public. If you’d like to see them, let me know. They are real and red pill hilarious
Sysiphean Cipher
Hey, guys, this year I finished my University studies (I’m 22) and just found myself like awekaning from a kind of dream. Always been normie AFC, even had a LDR during my Erasmus year so you can imagine, but after I finished my studies and broke with my ex I found myself like in no man’s land, rethinking what has been taught to me and my views of the world and my role on it. I bought The Rational Male thanks to a friend’s recomendation and readed it like in 4 days, it was a crazy feeling like reading the… Read more »
Believe in your opinion
Test that belief
Avoid debt
Avoid partnerships
Act
@Carlos props on getting started on your adventure!!!…lol per @Sentient… Believe in your opinion Test that belief Avoid debt Avoid partnerships Act +1… all the way… those tips are mostly self-explanatory… but here’s a practical application tip for how to ‘test that belief’… https://explorable.com/confirmation-bias also… (here are my 5… very similar to @Sentient’s bc those are solid tips…) 1) AWALT… = girls are girls… they ALL follow the same basic programming… (see TRM for more info…lol) 2) SEE what is right in front of you… (practical application of improving that… = test that reality through action (imposing your will upon… Read more »
Not everyone is out to get you, but everyone is out for themselves one way or another.
@Carlos The one thing I didn’t fully understand was that most older men really don’t have your best interests at heart. Even close family. If you start to have ambition and work hard and take risks – as a general rule older men will hate and be jealous of your potential and they’ll try and clip your wings with “well meaning advice” to avoid risk – don’t do it etc. Don’t ask the advice of old losers or career salarymen that have never taken a real risk about taking a risk. They’ll say don’t do it, and they’ll try to… Read more »
@Carlos
understand the concept of ‘sunk cost’ bias/fallacy… and don’t get bogged down trying to ‘fix’ the world (especially wrt girls…lol)… if something’s not working, it might be better to cut your losses… take the lesson… and move on…
This is probably the same as my philosophy of “taking the first loss”
So when it’s obvious you’ve made a snafu and got hit with a loss, swallow that loss right now. Don’t torch more money and resources trying to polish a turd.
It’s a turd and the money is gone. Learn from it.
Hello Rollo, I have yet to read your latest book about religion. Did you discuss Mormons and Mormonism? The divorce rate among Mormons married in their temples is extremely low, far lower than that of Evangelicals. I suspect this is due to the years of social conditioning and the strict rules of behavior required to be worthy of entering into the Mormon temple marriage covenant. And should infidelity happen, church discipline and shaming can be severe by modern standards. This helps to keep people in line, and to make them think twice about giving in to temptation. What do you… Read more »
Love you use the moniker from LA Confidential for the unknown killer who was never caught.
Rollo, some more evidence for your theory that women are far more communitarian than men.
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/desc.12750
Enjoy your day.
Rollo, are you still doing online coaching ? If yes how can I contact you ?
Rollo,
I bought both The Rational Male and Preventative Medicine. While most of your concepts I knew instinctively but never pondered, your detailed explanation of Frame really improved my rapport with women (and men to a lesser extent) for the better, as the Frame of the conversation is now always in my head during interactions.
Keep up the good work.
Just wanted to congratulate you on the occasion of your birthday, your books have helped me significantly in unplugging from the childhood trauma I grew up with, so once again A Very Warm Happy Birthday from a young man .
Cheers man!
I like this blog. very informative.
I would be VERY interested in your response to the article below? And if this isn’t the best place to post questions, is there a better place?
https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/advice/carolyn-hax-paternity-test-bad-husband-marriage/2021/05/02/f553dfd4-a434-11eb-85fc-06664ff4489d_story.html
The absolute ultimate Matriarchy Song in this proud land we grew up strong we were wanted all along I was taught to fight, taught to win I never thought I could fail no fight left or so it seems I am a man whose dreams have all deserted I’ve changed my face, I’ve changed my name but no one wants you when you lose don’t give up ‘cos you have friends don’t give up you’re not beaten yet don’t give up I know you can make it good though I saw it all around never thought I could be affected… Read more »
Just about sums it up…
https://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/advice/a234/beta-husband/
Feminism has destroyed the socially enforced monogamy that has created advanced civilizations (the West), and MGTOW is the response or result of this. Hypergammy has been unleashed which means that as much as you try to get ahead (and know that you are restrained by your biology (IQ, looks etc)), there will always be a top 20% of males that take all the ladies and reproduce. MGTOW’s are men that have understood this, and chosen to use their free will to become happy in a different way. Without socially enforced monogamy, a civilization is bound to fail and therefore feminism… Read more »
After eating the metaphorical Red Pill, when I play back the reels from the memory, I am often like “Damn, why didn’t I see this earlier!” I have often called women 5-6 times in the hope they would call me back. Rollo answered, “women don’t want men who put them on the pedestal”. Women have often told me that they would call me the next day before hanging up, and the next day they didn’t call, while I kept waiting. Rollo answered, “women are always spinning the plates subconsciously.” I am so happy that I discovered this now when I… Read more »
Can a Woman imprint on Man? Alpha Widow style?
Question is I’m having trouble telling y ex that I’m now married. I know I should have some balls and not give a fuck as an Alpha should but what is the monkey brain concept that is holding me back?
Appreciated any comments or ideas.
Yes, it’s called ONEitis
Hey y’all! I’ve read all 4 of the books and I’m wondering how I can get mentorship from you all? I really want to change my underlying thought processes and update them with healthier ones. Could you all help? Nolan.willson11@gmail.com. Thank you for all the wisdom so far!
Post your questions and issues in Field Reports.
I just want to share my sincere appreciation for the book and query whether I could send you an email regarding this.
Please hear me out. First of all a big thank you to Rollo, your work has saved my life. Okay so I’m 22 and at a point where I’m just starting out in my career, and it’s good. I also have a lover and we’ve been together for about 5 months now, and it’s been great(thanks to the RP). Lately we haven’t been seeing each other that much because of work. I’ve been talking to other girls but she just checks all of my boxes and she’s so submissive, other girls just can’t compare. The problem is my male friends.… Read more »
I have a burning fire in the pit of my soul to express my gratitude for your work. I’m a 37 year old female who is absolutely disgusted with the feminine imperative and I’m utterly embarrassed to share a gender with the “women” you’ve had on your YouTube channel recently (Brittany Renner). I have a lot to say about the only fans culture as well, but I’ll save that for another time. I don’t say this lightly or speak without experience. I divorced an active duty military man after 10 years of marriage. I took NOTHING I was “entitled” to,… Read more »
Rollo please check these 2 vids out and do a show on the political inversion of the sexes
Getting girls from an all-girl school to sign a Petition to end women’s suffrage
Woman Uses Tinder As Man And Is SHOCKED How Awful Women Are To Men, The Culture War Is A Gender War
Rollo, have you read The Master and His Emissary by Iain McGilchrist? His work on our divided brain, when compared and contrasted with much of your work, has some amazing insights into male and female nature. Most importantly, it is men who are actually right brained, and women who are actually left brained… as demonstrated on dating apps and IG every single day.
Shout out to Rollo. The red pill saved my marriage. We were in a very bad place, I had been exposed by fresh and fit, and moved over to the RM. took your information and pulled the pin on the red pill grenade during a huge fight. Wife was extremely aroused by leading and being masculine. That was June, and we have had nightly bedroom fun since, minus a couple of nights. Keep saving lives sir. Cheers.
Hi Rollo,
I would really like to reach out to you and give you a take on my story and the sad situation in Ireland. Every topic you touch on is 100% on the money, its truly fantastic that your doing this research and analytics of so many men’s life’s will be saved by your courage here.
Please do let me know how I can contact you, or perhaps you can reach out to me… sorinn.int@gmail.com
Best regards,
Sean O’Rinn.
Hi Rollo, I enjoy your podcast. I do need to read your book. I stopped dating long ago. I saw through the games and hypergamy going on. I was waiting for others to wake up to it as well. I am glad you are preaching this stuff. I have an observation/idea for the podcast. I have noticed for years that talk shows like Maury, Steve Wilkos and other beta cucks have public executions of men every day on their shows. The audience eats up when a man is “put in his place” or caught or even physically hit. It is… Read more »
I’m a pastor who stumbled upon your material and read 2 out of the 4 books so far. They are incredible. The advice and wisdom they bestow on men is invaluable. However, take care because if your church finds out you read or even may have listened to his amazing content, you may get ejected of your church. This is what happened to me this year! But I’d rather cling to truth any day of the week. Thank you for your amazing work, Rollo!
Hanlon’s Razor is “Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity.” You’ve turned it on its head, thus, Tomassi’s Razor: “Never attribute to stupidity that which is adequately explained by malice.”
Viriliter Age.
Hello Rollo,
I read your book The Rational Male a few days ago and I thought it was great. Today I one-shot Winter Notes on Summer Impressions by Dostoevsky, and the last chapter of Winter Notes contains an amusing example of both the wall and hypergamy. I transcribed it into a pdf for you here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1zjbJ3huxD5ZlEXnbldaKNaYMr37tHp3u/view?usp=sharing
Thank you for writing the rational male. I purchased your newest one on religion and it’s in my stack for winter break. After I finish some others I’ll crack it open and absorb.
–Johnny M.
Hi rollo
You said you published four books. In Korea, the book You Written by Rational Man (Part 1) has been published in a translated version. Please publish the rest (Parts 2~4) in Korea, too.
You can’t define MGTOW because you’re beta. Debate me.
Hi Rollo. Sent you an e-mail last week Friday at the rtrationalmale GM account. I realize you’re a busy guy, are traveling, and it’s the holidays. Just looking to get involved somewhere and help and wanted some guidance on that. I don’t need consultation of the typical kind; your books are more than enough and I’m grateful for that. I want to get my hands dirty and be a giver, not a taker. I sent the email from my titansynthetics.com domain email address. I appreciate any guidance you can offer.
Merry Christmas,
Andrei
Hello Rollo
I want to ask you a few questions.
This is my email I’d appreciate if you respond to me.
Sinabahr15@gmail.com
Hello guys, I realize there have been no comments for a VERY long time, but as a guy trying to unplug himself from this shitty matrix, I hope my words reach someone. I recently started realizing that game is actually a real thing after spending all my life on steps 1, 2 and 6, and I’ve been going through as much game info as I can find and applying it with some smoking hot women I forced myself to meet (despite my massive approach anxiety). However, I was hoping you could help me out finding the most optimal way to… Read more »
My bad, I just realized that the most recent comments go to the far back of the blog.
Enrique
Take it over to Field Reports
Rollo,
I was planning my own suicide a few weeks ago. Your work literally saved my life.
Thank you
Dr B
ROLLO is always right… check this STUNNING hibristofilia case in argentina (use google translate and you´ll get the idea): https://tn.com.ar/policiales/2022/01/04/mariel-suarez-la-jueza-que-beso-a-un-preso-es-defensora-de-la-paridad-de-genero-y-especialista-en-cibercrimen/ (basically a feamale judge, that took part in a tribunal that convited to life in prison to a guy for killing a cop, was filmed later visiting and kissing the dude!… yhea
Science the sh** out of this, from The Martian, is one of my coping regimens. Male(71) twice zeroed. With any progression into the unknown, small increments serves. Am now maroon pilled back from the dead thanks to you guys. Aaron, Rich, TFM, Think Before You Sleep, Sandman, BB, Replicant Fisch(TV) and others. Gotta say thank you Rollo. Please continue what you are doing. Your army survives.
I discovered your site after several years of anxiety trying to understand the opposite sex in the workplace. I would love to see you do a piece about female dynamics in the workplace. A few observations that I have made: older women gang up on younger women because of the attention they get. Male managers get pulled into HR investigations because women accuse each other of sleeping with the boss. Transference where women develop amorous feelings for male supervisors that mentor them. Using sexuality to gain advantage when convenient. Colleagues perceiving encouraging comments to female subordinate as grooming behavior. All… Read more »
Amazing content in your books. How would you handle spinning plates in a work environment where there are many plates 18-30 but most of them know each other and certainly gossip to one another.
@Bobo76 Women in the workplace are just women. You only have to look at the way the allegations were dealt with between Weinstein and Christiano Ronaldo. Weinstein was thrown under the bus, and Ronaldo walked. Weinstein was the worst type of rich powerful beta, and thinking about it that may have made him appear to be a (situational) alpha. Women HATE betas. And they would have hated themselves for doing what they did with him to get on. So he could be, and always would have been thrown under the bus. Ronaldo is an apex alpha. Everyone knows it, and… Read more »
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Dear Mr. Tomassi, I am a great admirer of your work. I am a psychiatrist and the results of your work have greatly inspired my work as a psychiatrist. I wanted to ask you if you would allow your books to be translated into German and marketed. I have a publishing house, it used to be called “sunflower-Verlag” and now it is called “Verlag Weisse Rose”. I can imagine that we will be able to get a contract.
I look forward to hearing from you,
best regards
dr. Klaus Maurer
Thought you might want to cover this story: https://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/mexico-woman-accused-abandoning-newborn-dumpster-82188058
Id like to offer a critique/question about ldr. Can an ldr to a experienced man not be one of the group of spinning plates? If the ldr is agreed upon to be non exclusive.
Hi Rollo, I just recently watched a video that brought awareness. Why is there more trans women than trans men? I can’t remember the title but it reference to sedating men. It made me twist in my gut. I am a trans man. I was BORN that way, I wasn’t taught or conditioned, and at one point in my life there was no confusion because my parents were at the time strict Christians clear between man and woman. but unfortunately I was taught the blue pill stuff for men and that’s how I acted most of my life. Blue pill… Read more »
The amount of confirmation in this video is astounding. Might make a good breakdown video for you.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1i4_ejqycZY
Hello.
What is a sincere love that woman can provide?
I’m korean and a recently read your book translated in korean.
You said if someone belive in one true love, he wouldn’t be able to get a sincere love.
Then what is the sincere love?
Maybe it was translated in a wrong meaning.
I really appreciate your work.
You helped me see the truth.
Your blog and your book is a true eye opener.
Are there ever alphas masquerading as betas? Essentially the reverse of betas masquerading as alphas to get by the hypergamous filter…. (alphas hiding so they don’t have to deal with too much female attention they don’t want)?
Rollo, From a red-pill perspective, why do women fall for romance scams?
L,
Before you read this, know that I am collected. Not for an outcome, only to say that I am not unaware of our conflicting journeys
In looking at our behaviours, I have learned that there are fears of loss, and tendencies to swallow false narratives. They are not irremediable. but they are, nevertheless, there.
For the sake of communication, I welcome a conversation once the dusts have settled. , consider it done. I hope you are well, you most likely will be
A
After she broke up with me, my thoughts. Would love to hear some advice
Hi Rollo I consider myself lucky to have discovered your writings at the age of 23. You have really helped me understand inter gender relations and how to deal with women. I can’t thank you enough. I have a question though. What is your advice to men who have become high value and find themselves surrounded by women? How do they deal with this situation and bend it in their favour? How exactly do you go about spinning plates when you know every woman you talk to will be showing you off in the same environment? Please shed some light… Read more »
Follow, I’m curious if you are familiar with this study from 1968 I pasted below? It’s both frightening and prophetic. Appreciate all that you have done for the male community, and for me in particular. You need a totem to record every set of balls you have helped men to reclaim. If Western civilization survives, I believe you will be seen as a hero for women in the future, because you will have helped give them back what they have lost – Men. Below is an excerpt of the article. It is absolutely worth skimming and perhaps even doing further… Read more »
OK. I finally get it. Listened to TRM twice on Audible. Only problem is I got crushed at an older age. I lost my mother (number one support female) to death 10 years ago and then a few years later my relationship of 25 years. She was 15 years younger which I liked. However, now my smv is highly reduced as I am in my early 70’s and looking at nothing but elderly, very unattractive women either via internet or referral and I am just not interested as there is seemingly no upside and so far no spark. I am… Read more »
@Ryan
Take it over to the field reports section and it can be worked through.
It’s a lot of work but it can be turned around .
Thanks.
BTW. Do I have to enter email etc. every time or is there a login?
Ryan
Yes, second going to field reports, let’s get to work…
https://therationalmale.com/field-reports-comment-page-2-comments/
My browser knows it’s coming, I click in the box and it’s auto fill…
No log in…
We’re all outsiders here lol…
Do you do one on one consulting?
Maintenance to aisle 3
Someone’s shit the bed
I’ve listened to your first 4 books. (As soon as Player’s Handbook is published in audiobook, I’m listening to it.) I live in Atlanta, GA. I’m a teacher (and male!). Now I’m in Poland and I’ve been in Spain this summer. MAN! European men need to read your books URGENTLY! This is even worse than the U.S., if you can even start to imagine that. We need your books in German, Italian, French, Polish, you name it! Keep up the good work!
I feel consultation is important.
email is mjvertannes@gmail.com
I’ll count my lucky stars.
Hey Rollo,
I’d like to purchase a consultation. Please reach out via email. Cheers.
We have come into a gynocentric world because women control finance [hold the purse string] in the family. Who controls the money rules. And so everything has been geared/oriented towards capturing the purse string holder, namely the woman.
Each and every guy should know how to handle finance, and should be able to articulate why it is the husband that should handle family finance.
Therefore financial how and why education is necessary for every man to change the world for the better. This should be an essential part of red pill education/mentoring/activism.
Hey why don’t you debate Destiny? Dude’s a blue pill cuck. His “wife” cheats on him It’s an easy W
Bro u da bro!! So Fr man I love everything your doing. And look up to u, at the highest. I’m just a country bumpkin form Hillsboro Ohio, that got pulled out about 8 months ago. And still learning so much. Man I would do anything/fix to be mentored by the father of all fathers. I have one hell of a nasty bad story that’s still going on. Anyhow I hope the real Rollow looks at this, instead of the many peps u have working for u.
hall8093james gmail
Does money play an important role in attracting women, or men’s mentality, or both?
I’m an “older” guy and interested in what you have to say about women 55+ who are passed the age of procreation and likely post menopausal or post hysterectomy. What makes them tick? Is there a source you can recommend?
I’m in my sixties and they are still working on the same firmware.
Max
They tick the same, just don’t have the asset side to support it.
Await
VRyan few are going to have a moment of clarity and realize logically they are spent. Just isn’t going to happen.
How old is “older guy”?
And why do you care?
@Max I’m an “older” guy and interested in what you have to say about women 55+ who are passed the age of procreation and likely post menopausal or post hysterectomy. What makes them tick? Is there a source you can recommend? They tick just the same however their level of anxiety / neurosis and level of just flat out being a pain in the arse will be inversely proportional to their level and security of provisioning. If they have enough resources then they won’t be a pain in the arse and they’ll be very careful who they let in and… Read more »
Mr Rollo Tomassi just finished reading your book today 10-05-2022 at 22:34 Im located in Montreal Canada came across you in Patrick Bet David interview early in the year and at the end of your book you wrote I quote " people with questions dont scare me, it`s people without any that do” there feel this obligations to ask or comment your book. Let me say I agree with almost everything you mention in the book I don’t seem tp have any question contradicting any of the rules except adding that being a full on red pill now. So i… Read more »
Dear Author! Im reading your second volume book and I have a question in mind which i don’t know the answer to. It happened to me several times. When i had a short relationship or hookup with a woman and ended on their end basically ghosted me they still followed me on Social Media for a while after “breaking up” like for a week or month. WHy that happens? If they had enough of me or what i offered which was sex most of the time why checking me out after it? I always unfollowed all of them right after… Read more »
Not related to the article but This can’t go unnoticed….Jason David Frank the Green Ranger dead from suicide at 49, divorced in 2022, coincidence? I think not!
Thank you, Rollo, wouldn’t be here without you. You inspired me to write a red-pill awakenings book, Map of Dragons: A Journey through Red-Pill Apocalypse. I’ve launched a free, lightly redacted version of it temporarily for review and comment on my new Locals channel: https://kjfrederickson.locals.com/
Much appreciated,
K-Jån Frederickson
Where can I find your group on Discord. I can’t seem to donate $ on the page. Is there any other eay I can contribute my friend, Rollo! 🙂 Perhaps PayPal – is the best?
Thanks,
Rob
rek9178@gmail.com
How do I send something to Rollo????
Thx, Rick
Well written. Very well written
hello, I am a 28-year-old woman, I am married, the question is, should I read these books?
Hey Rollo,
You insights are quite interesting and I was wondering your thoughts on the below topic. Feminism has fought against male oppression, even though only a small elite minority of men oppressed men and women in the past. Now women are seeking to submit only to the class of men who could have oppressed them in the past. Have we come full circle?
A thought I’ve had on my mind for some while is in regards to Karen’s. We’ve all dealt with solipsistic women of varying degrees. But the one that stands out the most in my mind, is Karen. The woman that just can’t leave well enough alone. The one that comes out of nowhere and says “you can’t smoke in the park”. Now how does this effect her? Why did she have to walk all the way across the park? Same thing goes with veganism and climate change. If women’s solipsistic nature were based on the attention required to raise an… Read more »
Hi I am from South Africa. My girlfriend recently left me and I was struggling and calling from time to time. Reading your book changed the way I think. I now have a whole new perspective. I have tried to be the nice guy and you are right I was conditioned that way. This book made me stop chasing and looking like a chump. I started to think….and I have done this twice and truth is once you start being too nice and accomodating then you are taken for a fool…..I would like to learn more about GAME. Any Sources?.… Read more »
J
You know RT has a bok on game right? The Players Handbook.
https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/5094943375?utm_medium=api&utm_source=custom_widget
I’m in a very unique situation fellas, my ex & I broke up approximately 7 months ago, she had moved abroad for a bit so I decided to call it quits when she did that (her stay was 5 months). During that time period she was still calling me all the time, I did not reciprocate. I did answer her when she was down bad but I told her to leave me in peace most of time. Then she stopped calling, I figured she found a new boyfriend, at five in the morning she called to say she’s with someone… Read more »
Sounds like you are a cuddle buddy…
Sean, welcome to TRM. You’ve come to the right place for help and understanding on your issues with women. First off – you look like you’ve used your real name. It took me about 5 seconds to google you. Change your name to something anonymous when posting here. Many of us also don’t mention our exact location but that’s up to you – some of us do. The kind of things we talk about here are the opposite of “politically correct” and you really don’t want anyone in “real life” googling you and finding you posting here. Too easy to… Read more »
@Sean
Welcome.
I’m in London as well.
First things first, throw her out.
You’re not in the business of subsidising women you’re not banging.
If she need somewhere to stay, the guy she IS banging can sort that.
You’re not the ducking YMCA.
If she banging someone else she needs to get the fuck outta your life.
Then take it to field reports to talk through.
Hey Rollo,
Great Blog! I have a suggestion. For guys who don’t have a lot of status/money. If they live in an area where disabled sports are done, they could volunteer or donate. The games are free to watch and would be a great cheap date. Could also offer to help carry equipment which isn’t very heavy. Telling a woman you support this stuff for many would be displaying higher value. https://www.nwba.org/findateam email the contact and as for their schedule.
Not sure where else to put this. Report on PHL airport. Maybe 1/5th not fat or obese. Two hot gals in their 20s, one was in PJs. Judging by their hair, neither showered. Knowing what’s out there, shit I didn’t either.
Rollo, I’ve just read the first book in your series. I felt I could relate in so many ways and quickly it became my favorite read. Previous to reading it, I’ve gone over in my head about many of these ideas. I felt I must be crazy or a sick individual, but having grown up around women it was hard to ignore. I’m sure many others could relate, as you laid out in the book – this is the reality of the “matrix”. I have Elliot Hulse to thank for the recommendation and look forward to reading more of your… Read more »
Please have a hard copy 1-5 book collection go on sale. These books deserve a long ass shelf life.
Rollo,
I am in 7th year of my marriage and i have known my wife since childhood. We dated for 9 years before marriage and now i feel she is getting everything by her own way and not accommodating my needs, she ears bit more money than I do. I am not sure how to get the control back before it is too late for our marital relationships. What can i do in this case?