Sitting here like uninvited company
Wallowing in my own obscenities
I share a cigarette with negativity
Sitting here like wet ashes with X’s in my eyes
And drawing flies
Bathed in perspiration drowned my enemies
Used my inspiration for a guillotine
I fire a loaded mental cannon to the page
Leaning on the pedestal that holds my self denial
Firing the pistol that shoots my holy pride
Sitting here like wet ashes with X’s in my eyes
And drawing flies
And I said “Hey what you yellin’ about
Conditions, permission, mirrored self-affliction?”
“Hey what you yellin’ about
Sadists’ co-addiction, perfect analogies?”
“Hey what you yellin’ about
Conditions, permission, mirrored self-affliction?”
Leaning on the pedestal that holds my self denial
Firing the pistol that shoots my holy pride
Sitting here like wet ashes with X’s in my eyes
And drawing flies
Lost
Work on being attractive. Read Rollo’s books (and Best of annual blog posts). Learn Game and the language of female seduction.
As Palma said, go over to Field Reports and let’s get to Work(tm).
Hey Rollo, I enjoy your content! Been noticing lately your comparison on “don’t need a man, but want a man” which seems to kinda go over many peoples heads. What I understand from it is when a woman needs a man, it secures the man, and when a man loves a woman, it secures the woman. So maybe throw this comparison towards the ladies so they could understand the statement from a mans point of view.
“I don’t love you, but I really really, like you!” which I think is a good comparison.
What I would like if you touch on the older male in his 60’s, some of us aren’t finished living yet.
I’m 64 and I have found that it all translate to older women, their still working on the same firmware, however there more into the security phase.
Do you have a Paypal anymore? I remember you saying it was a way to directly contribute to you as opposed to the donation. Also, great male movies besides Where Eagles Dare…The Green Berets.
The Rational Male PayPal is: paypal.me/RationalMale
I was working with ChatGPT to generate content for a blog post about cognitive dissonance in women. The post is in response to a Catholic woman I met online who had separated from her husband because he has a “porn addiction.” Anyway, I tried several prompts and noticed all the responses were coming back advocating the man works towards empathy, compassion, and understanding for the woman. I then tried the following prompt. “Write an blog post from with a “Red Pill” voice of a high value man who met a Catholic woman suffering from cognitive dissonance. He hates her behavior… Read more »
Interviewed Rollo Tomassi. Video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7X_Of4fZDs0
Currently working on MGAI, the AI wingman for online dating. https://t.me/MessageGameAIBot
Contact me at https://t.me/IceWhiteOfficial if you can help me reconnect with Rollo, I have a gift and a few more questions for him.
Rollo,
Long time reader and listener. Thank you for the help in opening my eyes in 2018 after I discovered your content. Have you been aware of the women’s groups “are we dating the same guy”? They are facebook groups that seem to focus on destroying reputations of men by random strangers and jaded ex-lovers from predominately online dating platforms. There are many reddit subs about this. Perhaps you could weight in.
Rollo, I want to get your thoughts on this interview. These are the type of girls that are out there dating.
https://youtu.be/C9BrH8AumnE
I enjoy your content. I was wondering if there are books or women out there that produce similar content for females instead of males. As a younger female, who doesn’t use social media, doesn’t go to bars or clubs and doesn’t use dating apps, it is extremely hard to find people to date.
Hi Rollo, I would love to drop you an email about your book and my experience. Looking forward to speaking with you. cheers mate
hi i want to contact you publisher to get rights to translate u work in Arabic plz
i didni found any e-mail
As a women who accidentally found the red pill space, and is now dating a red pilled man, now what? How do I use what I’ve learned to keep him around in the best way possible? How do we both play the game with each other knowing what I know. Huge fan of the books.
Ask him him what his intentions are and tell him what you feel your path is.
Hey Rollo and whole community. I am reading your book with “WTF” and “WHAT AN IDIOT I WAS, HOW DID NOT I SAW THAT” thought in my head. I am very gratefull for this work and want to support in any way possible. I am currently reading a part where you explain the problem of explaining the game. This is my take: it’s what happens in one’s mind between the moment one sees his object of desire and his next action about it.
As an older man who finds myself living alone, I have gone through (to put it lightly) very deep introspection and emotions about myself and life. I have come to several conclusions. I think I have (at least to a great degree,) transcended the overwhelming desire for sexual validation. I enjoy sex but only with women I am attracted to physically (not every hole and tree knot I can find). I still practice game but have to use it sparingly as other things are hindrances like (health issues and the decrease in overall energy of old age). I guess there… Read more »
Hey, I’m a woman. I have an adult son. He thinks I hate men and he feels particularly sensitive about his father. His father passed away when he was 10 years old. He is now homeless and estranged and it’s hard to live like this. I’m open to learning. I’ve been trying but he doesn’t trust. I’m always worried about him because he won’t tell me how he’s doing. Of course there is more to it than that. I just want to speak with a man who understands what he’s feeling. If you can help me, please reach out.
Melissa
Are your questions over to Field Reports
Hi, my name is Mateus, I would like to know if Mr. Rollo Tomassi is interested in translating his book into Portuguese.
I’m willing to do it.
Hello, Mr. Tomassi, I am a reader from China, and I have recently completed my Master’s Degree in Philosophy in the UK. I have come to realize that the majority of Chinese males are living in a dream opposed to the red pill. I would like to use your insights to inspire and help them lead better lives in the intersexual dynamics market. Therefore, I am wondering if I can have your permission to translate your books into Chinese. I am already working on the translations, but if I could obtain the copyright, it would alleviate my concerns regarding legal… Read more »
Email me your proposal. I’m interested in a Chinese translation, but I have to know the specifics.
You want the copyright?
Am I missing something?
As non-creative derivative works, simple translations of protected works do not rate their own copyright protection.
Your legal options are direct sale to the copyright holder, and/or negotiating a limited license to distribute as a publisher.
Hi Rollo, I just released my first movie, Court Appointed Marriage, which was inspired by many of the subjects you discuss and popularize, most of all, hypergamy. Perhaps my message will find its way to you and you’ll have a chance to watch it, thanks and enjoy! – James (jamesshermen.com) https://youtu.be/1WwaacU9OGY
I am trying to get The Rational Male in Spanish, I don’t see it in Amazon. Is it out already?
Hello.
👋🏿 m writing because I saw an article in the New York post about older women aka cougars having better love lives with younger men. It boggles my mind that women are up in arms about men dating younger women but there is never any outrage when women do it. If you can, check it out. I would love to see your video response.
how can i set up a consultation with rollo
Rollo, are you available for individual counseling? Please contact me if you’re available at my e-mail.
Yes, just email me at rtrationalmale@gmail.com and put counseling in the subject line.
Rolo, I watched a Video 6MO ago “Andrew Wilson vs The Rollo Tomassi Panel: Marriage and Divorce” In it the Members bounced off the idea about church and secular marriage and why one is real and enforceable with pressure on both sides and one with only State support on one side. I have felt the answer which I was so surprised no one offered is that the State should only offer CIVIL Unions with all the state benefits and protections. And NON-secular Unions labeled Marriage or what they wish can only be supported and done by the specific flavor. So… Read more »
If the state didn’t want civil union to walk around wearing the skin of marriage and demanding its respect, it would have done as you suggest a century ago.
https://youtu.be/GSIuhRCOpk0?si=ajcHSplFDe1Tmv_b
Is The Rational Male Clips your YouTube account? It looks like they are taking your content.
@Rollo Tomassi
Rollo, Why are all of my comments in Youtube
being deleted right away?
Hello Rosso, I just wanted to say congratulations on your truthful work. I just recently bought a book trying to understand the crazy Fem-movement all around me and I happened to lay my hands upon one of your books. Now I want to buy the whole collection. Very insightful and gripping. I also wanted to encourage friends of mine to buy the books, but they happen not to speak english. Have you ever thought of translating them? It would be great work. I hope you read this and get back on me (via email) if you want. Thanks, and best… Read more »
Hey Rollo, after a 10+ dates that ended in strange way and me trying to understand how women world function, I succeeded by playing some games to have a girl that I won’t dream about in my whole life. But because lack of good game the relationship ended badly. And out of the frustration I got ur book “the rational male” and after reading in 2 weeks, I got my eyes open on what world I live in, ironically while I was reading ur book, I could get a girl to get in love with me even though she has… Read more »
I just finished The Rational Male, The Rational Male: Players Handbook, and I am just starting the book on religion. It’s no surprise that I am experiencing all of the things prior unplugged readers have mentioned, i.e. “drinking from a fire hose.” I have two beautiful little girls, ages 3 and 4. As I’ve read your work, I’ve been patiently waiting for you to drop the red-pilled-father gospel on how you equipped your own daughter for what she will encounter in the SMP. Admittedly, I am new to the blog and I haven’t combed through it yet. If the answer… Read more »
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Hello Rollo. Have a nice day. I have a few questions for you 🙂 Do you remember in which year you first talked about emotional investment on the Sosuave forum? So, in what year did you first give people relationship advice or counseling? Do you remember in which year Pook first mentioned emotional investment on the Sosuave forum? When did Pook first give counseling or relationship advice? Do you remember? Sorry for my English.
Rollo: I’m trying to find somebody to come to my Entrepreneur’s Organization Forum to teach about dealing with women going through menopause at work. I’ve had two deals go badly because of this taboo-to-talk-about issue. I want to learn what useful there is to know. For example, understanding that a nicotine fit lasts about 3 minutes was useful when I quit smoking. Is there a similar timeline for hormonal rage? I’m trying to find an author iffering advice on the topic of menopause, from the perspective of somebody forced to deal with a woman expressing menopausal hormonal rage in a… Read more »
Dear Rollo,
are you the one who ordered a German book (Kein Standard) in 2021 from Amazon and got only pages 13-64?
If yes, please let me know — to fix that.
Arno
Rolo,
Interesting article in the Wall Street Journal today. It may be a source of good content for you.
“America’s New Political War Pits Young Men Against Young Women”
Keep up the good work.
If there’s any type of distribution list that you have, would you be kind enough to add me to it?
I hope to run into you one of these days and personally thank you.
Peter Karaffa
New Milford, CT
239-821-1353
Pkaraffa@earthlink.net
Hey Rollo,
I don’t know if you’ll read this but here goes.. I am 37 years old, 6’4” tall, in good shape, a teacher and personal trainer and I was wondering if you think I might be too old to start spinning plates?
Hey Jamie,
Are you dead?
@Jamie
That’s @kfg’s way of saying that you can.
It will be very easy in the short term to spin a lot of age appropriate plates, and more difficult to spin younger ones. Mainly down to your own pre conceptions.
Your age is dangerously territory and you need to take care.
Go to field reports and talk it through if you want.
Both Jamie & Peter – welcome to TRM. It’s not advisable to use your real names (much less give your city and address!) on a site like this which discusses truths that are outside the mainstream and the mainstream does not like. I suggest a pseudonym to keep posting. Jamie – Agree with the others. Rollo actually says the age of peak attractiveness for a man is 37 in one of his books (and I’m in my 40s and haven’t noticed any drop offs in interest from (younger) women, although I personally feel a bit weird about hitting on 18-19… Read more »
Id add fighting off the 30 yo single mommies. May have a for on this…
Hello Rollo Help Me!! (I am trying to solve it using your books and my updated understanding) I am 34 years old man now. I am USA right now getting my green car working in a job learnt investing and want to do real estate investing and travel world. I have read 4 books of yours in order. Now I am reading the 5th book (players handbook) A brief about my history…. I am from India wanted to go to usa for studies, didn’t have any girlfriend, totally nerd and a beta. (I will go with words in book in… Read more »
Hello, I saw your comment on the Rational male blog yesterday. And I want to tell you a few things. I tried to reach Rollo from his social media accounts but I couldn’t. Then I discovered that he gives advice to people for a fee from an application. But this application is not allowed in my country. Are you in the USA right now? I want to make you an offer. I want to ask Rollo a few questions. But as I said, I can’t download the application because I can’t access it. If I send money to your account,… Read more »
The name of the application is minnect. I think you are trying to reach Rollo. I asked him a question here but I did not get a response. He probably does not use this blog anymore. I subscribed to Rollo’s channel on Twitter. I thought he would see my question and answer it. But he probably did not. Then I canceled the subscription. If you read this message, please respond. I have been trying to reach Rollo for a month. I have a relative living in America but he could not register because he did not have a debit card.… Read more »
When you wrote a message to Rollo, I received a notification. I also made this offer to the people who commented on Rollo’s YouTube channel. But no one responded. You are also trying to reach Rollo. That’s why this gave me hope. I wrote to you in case you accept.
Hans,
Welcome to TRM.
Rollo very rarely posts here anymore so I doubt he will reply, but there’s still a few regulars from the community active in the Field Reports section so post your questions over there and we will try to help if we can.
Be warned – we will push you to take action and face uncomfortable facts about yourself and your mindset – it won’t be easy.
@Passionate – Rollo has literally posted his email address in this thread on this page – you can email him there to setup a paid consultation. I’m sure you can figure out a way to pay him from your country with him.
If that doesn’t work out, come over to the Field Reports section and post your question and the Rational Male community can try to help you out, even if it isn’t Rollo himself.
Actually, the question I’m going to ask is about the number of men and women to whom Rollo gives relationship advice. I’m not sure if other people know the answer to this, but I’ll try it anyway. Thank you for your answer.
Bro, I got your emails. I honestly can’t give you anything approaching a real number after 20+ years. I don’t keep a spreadsheet or anything. If you’re asking me how many private consultations I’ve done, it’s about 300+ but again I don’t do that kind of record keeping. I don’t really do “advice” I do analysis.
Like I said, I don’t really keep track of the numbers, but in the last 15 years or so, it’s in the hundreds. If you include email, blog comments, DMs, social media and one on one consults, it’s in the hundreds for women. For men it’s in the thousands.
Are the men who invest a little more emotionally in the woman in the relationship mostly men who have just started the relationship or are in the pre-relationship period?
.
I dunno what this analysis is gonna get you?
Unless you’re from the IRS?
Yo Rollo, I hope this msg find you well and aware. Neo: “What are you trying to tell me? That I can dodge bullets?” Morpheus: “No, Neo. I’m trying to tell you that when you’re ready, you won’t have to.” My first GF at 15 /16 in high school wanted to get pregnant to she could leave the forster care system. Of course, I was going to sacrifice myself to be with her. The army it was. Then I thought, nah I got plans. She got pregnant right after with the next guy. baby didnt make it tho. I dodge… Read more »
Great Soundgarden track. Watched your clip about sigma males. If you don’t think we exist, just look at Trent Reznor. He’s a perfect example. Seeing as how you’re a cool music fan I would think you would spot them in the artistic realm. Johnny Depp might be another example..? But I identify more with Trent’s sensibilities. It’s basically just guys who are aloof. We don’t need anyone’s approval. I’ve always been this way. Never identified as an alpha or beta. Women tend to be attracted to us as well. And I’ve never been a player. I was always the outcast.… Read more »
Hey guys! My name is Jenn and I was just recently introduced to the book “the rational male”, by my boyfriend who I have been dating as a LTR for a little over a year, and the book is great. I’m a little over half way through and I am fascinated. My boyfriend said the blogs, and the read was something impacted him 10+ years ago and he has dove in to all of Tomassi’s other books and revisited them over the years. I felt that if this was something that impacted him, I wanted to know, and learn it… Read more »
Dear Rollo Tomassi, My name is Eric. I enjoy reading your essays. You do a great job of explaining human mating strategies from an evolutionary perspective. You clearly have read the scientific literature in evolutionary psychology: David Buss, Geoffrey Miller, Helen Fischer, Simon Baron Cohen, Doreen Kimura, Nancy Etcoff, Martin Daly, Randy Thornhill and many others. This recent news story from the Chinese daily newspaper the South China Morning Post (SCMP) will interest you and your readers. The link is below. Could you send this article to Chateau Heartiste. I am not able to locate any contact information. Link https://www.scmp.com/news/china/article/3132762/cool-chinese-court-tells-cuckold-husband-divorce-case… Read more »
Hey Rollo I just finished your book and found myself kind of waking up in this way before I even found your book which is recommended to me by a friend. I do enjoy the concepts and it was fairly easy for me to make the connections and what you said in that book to what is going on in reality, I’m going to read some of your other suggestions as well as continuing your book series. I do have a problem myself and I don’t understand why I’m having this issue but it is a little more complex. I… Read more »
I love the book but it’s very difficult to read because of the small print. I’ve tried to locate larger print versions but am unable to find. Are larger print versions available? If so how may I purchase?
Got a nonce error trying to send a message, so here goes again:
Just noticed this on a news website, and figured you’d be interested in commenting on it:
compactmag dot com/article/the-great-feminization/
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Hey guys,
Check this out:
Game Theory and Dating. It also touches upon Hypergamy.
Enjoy!