The Best of Rational Male – Year One
The Basics
- There is No ONE
- The Cardinal Rule of Relationships
- The Desire Dynamic
- Schedules of Mating
- Buffers
- Imagination
- Social Matching Theory
- Alpha
Plate Theory
Plugged-In
- Enter White Knight
- Average Frustrated Chump
- Playing Friends
- Letting Go of Invisible Friends (LDRs)
- The Honor System
Unplugging
- The 5 Stages of Unplugging
- The Bitter Taste of the Red Pill
- Dispelling the Magic
- Compensation
- Identity Crisis
- Dream Girls & Children with Dynamite
- Appreciation
- Kill the Beta
- Truth to Power
- Have A Look
Game
- Beta Game
- Rewriting the Rules
- The Pheromonal Beta
- Meta-Game
- Just Be Yourself
- Three Strikes
- Dread Games
- Navigating the SMV
Communication
- The Medium IS the Message
- Qualities of the Prince (my personal favorite of 2011)
- The Gift of Anxiety
- Just Get It
Social Conventions
Hypergamy
- The Disposables
- Mrs. Hyde
- The Hypergamy Conspiracy
- The Pet
- Hypergamy Doesn’t Care
- Relational Equity
- Women & Regret
Iron Rules of Tomassi
- Iron Rule #1
- Iron Rule #2
- Iron Rule #3
- Iron Rule #4
- Iron Rule #5
- Iron Rule #6
- Iron Rule #7
- Iron Rule #8
- Iron Rule #9
Mythology
- Myth of the Lonely Old Man
- Women & Sex
- Good Girls ‘Do’
- Myth of the Biological Clock
- Looks Count
- The SMV in Girl-World
The Feminine Imperative
- The Feminine Reality
- Fem-Centrism
- The Feminine Mystique
- War Brides
- The Tool of ASD
- Sexy
- The Threat
- Could a Man Have Written This?
If you have any other favorites that really spoke to you, but didn’t make my list, please link them and tell me how it helped.
You did all this in just a year? Nice collection! 🙂
This is an outstanding collection of posts. Keep up the good work mate.
terrific!
I, single guy, was just turned on to your site by a good married friend of mine. I know he wishes sites like this existed pre-marriage for him. 😉 Great site! Please keep up the good work.
I’m not one to leave comments but for a website that has changed my life, I would have to make an exception. Thank you so much for these mind blowing pieces of work. Keep them coming
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Wow! I just read all this in the space of 48 hours and it has really opened my eyes thank you!
Haha, totally convinced about the greatness of the ‘alpha male’ as all a woman ever wants. Well, the ‘alpha male’ is not much more then a woman’s disposable tampon. Easy to use, easy to dump. The ‘beta male’ is more difficult, as he is more interested in depth in relationships and something long term and love and love is a scary thing. So yes the beta gets less pussy but pussy is not his main interest anyway his main interest is the depth of the connection he can have with being with a woman.
Você só pode estar dando a bunda!
I’m quite happy that a guy like this didn’t found your blog in his younger years and decided to spend his time in the gym and start some business and earn lots of money just so he could fuck woman. He shines much brighter as he is now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n8V94WQjMAw
I think the vision most people on this blog on what a man should be is very limited and narrow minded.
mr wazimbo, Quote: Haha, totally convinced about the greatness of the ‘alpha male’ as all a woman ever wants. Read the blog more carefully. AF/BB. Rollo never states that women only want AF. Quote2: Well, the ‘alpha male’ is not much more then a woman’s disposable tampon. Easy to use, easy to dump. Captain Obvious!? You’re alive! Quote3: The ‘beta male’ is more difficult, as he is more interested in depth in relationships and something long term and love and love is a scary thing. Different doesn’t always means difficult. Competing in other field. Just like you can’t compare soccer… Read more »
Yes, I have opinions. No opinions allowed in a reply? I have more opinions: Like that all this differation between man and woman doesn’t make so much sense. People are complex mixtures of conventions, backgrounds, hormones, genes, brain chemistry, education, skills, affected by social environments etc. etc. and that makes up a Person. Why talk so much about ‘man’ and ‘woman’ Man should be like this, woman are like that, bla bla. Well guess what, what might work on one person might not work at all on an other. Why talk about games, competition, winning, losing, scoring? Why not talk… Read more »
Quote 1: Differation between man and woman doesn’t make so much sense Since we both agree that this is an opinion – why don’t you prove your point? If you don’t understand it, it doesn’t mean it is wrong. https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/personal-incredulity Quote 2: People are complex mixtures of conventions, backgrounds, hormones, genes, brain chemistry, education, skills, affected by social environments etc. etc. and that makes up a Person. Yes they are, and when generalizing you should always be aware of that. But in studying dogs, one may assume all of them hear better than they see. Generally. And this is the… Read more »
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Hey Everyone, Long time AFC, first time Alpha. I just want to say, I’ve grown to love the community. You guys are amazing. I also have something I hope you guys can help. To keep it short, a while back (5 months), I became reacquainted with an old friend, who used to be the girlfriend of my old friend, up until he cheated on her; or so she told me. Fast forward, we meet up for drinks on the basis of catching up and we ended up making out, which ultimately led to us getting out in my car. Things… Read more »
Thanks Noe
To get a better answer you should probably go to red pill reddit. There is not enough info on her, so “probably” will become a star here. As far as I see it: She reconnected with you 5 month ago. Probably she has been checking her “surroundings” for some time. You are (most probably) one of her “cash in” pool. Of course you don’t know that. Probably she is in her epiphany right about now and on the lookout for the best BB she can find. This should be apparent to you because “when she wants to fuck you –… Read more »
Hi Rollo, I’m a dedicated follower of the Rational Male blog for cca 1 year now and I’ve got your paperbacks as well. Your insights have completely changed my life… for the better, and I’ve directed several friends to your site for advice too. But, unfortunately, not all of them speaks english well enough to be able to read your articles. So I’m thinking about translating your books to my native language. I’m a good and experienced translator, I’ve translated professional texts as well as literature. I have MA in philosophy but I work in the IT industry now. I’m… Read more »
What does afc stand for ? Thanks
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I’m in the same boat as many other men that have commented on your blog. I’m in the military, and had a somewhat “invincible” mindset for years. That is until a very disgusting end to an LTR completely shattered me. I was searching for answers and saw a link to your blog. I spent 10 hours straight reading anything that caught my eye. I just finished reading The Rational Male, and I’m looking forward to Preventive Medicine. Thank you for sharing your insights with us. I’m new to the community and facing my own blue pill conditioning head on everyday.… Read more »
Thank you Christopher, I’m glad you benefitted from it.
Great work. Except from your writing skills and insight, I’m amazed by the order in wich you present your posts. I really love this site.
Thanks Thomasso I see you going through all my posts
I am, Rollo 🙂 Couldn’t it be an idea to make a page with all posts grouped by year? As is now we’ll have to dig through them all except the ones you chose to be the best.
I would love a complete list so that I can see which ones I haven’t read yet.
Thanks brother. Keep it up!
Archives by month and year are on the side bar.
@Rollo, I see that now 🙂 Thanks!
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I’ve made typos, sorry, I have the flu my brain feels a bit heavy. I meant to say answer to my question. Not yourself. Thank you.
Rollo. Your blogs, videos,and, most of all, your book has helped me to finally unplug and see things for what they are. I feel smarter and more self aware now. I’ve begun to take some more time out of my life to focus on my passions, not for women, but for myself and I’ve never felt more determined. Be that for what it is (nothing short of revolutionary), I still can’t get a date to follow through. The hot ones always cancel last second and I don’t know exactly why. I know it’s something I’m either doing or not doing… Read more »
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I keep coming back to this important idea: “desire cannot be negotiated” You do a good job discussing men in LTR’s attempting to rekindle attraction through misguided attempts to properly align himself with his woman, which of course only leads to failure and further frustration. But this also has important ramifications for physically unattractive men such as myself. When I analyse my previous actions and mistakes, I realize how much of what I did was motivated by a desire to preserve my ego and skip over this fundamental principle. So many bluepill rationalizations and strategies for winning over the women… Read more »
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Thanks, I’m glad you could benefit from all of it.
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Hey Rollo. I have to say I feel the same way about you as I do about Tom Leykis when I first discovered him. You’re awesome and I read your first book. Not one inch of fat in your book. It’s all muscle. Anyways, starting the second book now and I’m sure I’ll love that too. Great work!
I have all three books, I am on the first one. Let me tell you…. the little bit of stuff I been reading have been REALLY leading me to enlightened self-interest and having those “ah-ha!” moments. I am completely shocked that I did not learn of these things sooner. But the good part is what I read by far, I am able to build on what I already have naturally. And it is really FREEING rather than having fear of losing one girl or whatever. Way too long I have made this horrible mistake but I been working on this… Read more »
Thanks Heath, glad you’re benefitting from it.
I have a 24 year old son, that definitely needs your advice. What book would you recommend for his first read?
God bless you rollo you changed my life forever with your knowledge
Thank you for providing these lists for the first five years of the blog. I’ve been collecting all of them (archiving, really, just in case); do you plan on every making something similar for the following years, or no?
I am a 60 yo man in exceptional shape who looks 40. I’m twiced divorce and have decided that I don’t want to get married again.
I easily attract 30 somethings and go on dates but the problem is I keep getting put in the friend zone. After reading this book I finally figured out what I was doing wrong.
After making a few adjustments I can see an immediate impact.
Thanks Rollo
Thanks man, good to read this
So i have this question that I have been thinking about as i go through the book. Since this book was written 6 years ago a lot of things have changed in the social world. The main thing being the rise of activity on two social media platforms: Snapchat and Instagram. Does anyone have any advice that relates to intergender dynamics when it comes to social media? (youtube links, articles, videos, etc…) I find myself following attractive girls on instagram, DMing them, getting their snapchat, etc. Is this the way to use this platform? Should i ignore the convenience of… Read more »
I hate online game but if you wanna get good at it maybe check out Modern Life Dating on YouTube, he’s on Rollo’s videos sometimes under the Rule Zero label, he does encourage online game and has material about it.
After 11 years of marriage, being a good husband and a good father to my two beautiful children, my wife informed me that she no longer loved me and thought we would seperate. After going crazy trying to figure it all out an acquaintance of mine passed me your book and things are beginning to come into perspective that I had never connected the dots to before. I have spent the better part of the past year trying to work things out and reconnect , but have decided to stop wasting my energy and let her go. But I have… Read more »
Thanks, I’m glad you could benefit from it
@Jody
details matter… it might not be too late to turn it around… most importantly, what do YOU want?
+1 on Palmasailor… FR section ftw!!!…
good luck!
Hey Rollo,
I just read the RM book and all I have to say is that I am extremly grateful for your endeavors of constituting this type of work. It truly chnaged my perspective on gender relations and life in general. Looking forward to read more of your books in near future.
Big
Thank youand keep it up !I have to admit this blog help me a lot ! . 2 weeks and 2 girls. It’s just fucking amazing.. I have to rea read it in order to not make the mistakes once you get to this point. Greetings from Colombia.
I dont know if there is, but i cant find it but you should definetly put some abbreviation interpreter because when i am am reading for the first time i am a bit lost…
Hidden in the blogroll where you wouldn’t expect to find it there is a link to a Manosphere Appendix of Acronyms (and terms). Trigger warning for having to click through a trigger warning to get to it.
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Hey Rollo. Listening to the rational male volume 1 now. Just wanted to point out a factual mistake u made in it: U say a mans dick gets limp (and various other things) post sex because of “oxytocin”. While that may be a factor, the main force of this phenomenon is the hormone “prolactin”. At least that’s what the scientific medical consensus is. Maybe it’s both, but if it’s only one it’s prolactin responsible for the dick and dopamine related post sex changes. This is further proven by using dopamine drugs like pramipexole or cabergoline and how they lower prolactin… Read more »
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Rollo,
Thanks for opening my eyes and connecting the dots like nobody was able to do it for me ever before.
This is life reversing experience
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I am 21 years old and i never had a girlfriend(or being intimate in poligamy language) with any girl.I havent even had a kiss.Never any girl in my life was attracted to me.Now,i dont even have any options.The university i attend is almost entirely populated by males,becase it is some of a traditionaly male job that requires higer education.I dont know where to meet women.Also i used to be confident but after so many time without any sucess and playing hard to get that lead to nowhere i feel uncofident and i have becomed needy.I feel like i have to… Read more »
@Lucas You are not running out of time. You are just frustrated. You can also learn getting along with other men skills until you get up to the plate with women. Other men as mentors or role models can teach you and you can learn from them if you pick their brains or become buddies, friends, team members, competitors, group sports or martial arts, wise. How was your growing up experiences in your family and how were your parents? And there was a blogger that wrote some advice for men like you quite a while ago. (2013) The Blogger was… Read more »
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Hi Rollo – I have 2 young daughters and I was wondering, since you have a daughter yourself, if you have any opinions/recommendations about raising a girl in this day and age? I really want my daughters to live fulfilling lives and not be sold on modern feminist ideals, but it is tough since they are bombarded daily with these empty messages. I respect your opinion and look forward to a response.
Does somebody has a good recommendation for a good Book on Game?
Troy Francis’s approach her like Chad, Tucker Max Mating (he’s purple pilled and I agree, I understand why, but parts of the book are helpful.)
I could have saved myself so much trouble if I got to read about this manosphere from the beginning. My story started years ago I was unconcerned with the imperatives that have consumed the society at large. My motivation came from the fundamental insight that there was a moral decay that ironically didn’t have a core beginning and as I was doing a walk I was met with the idea that men had given up their core responsibility in showing direction. I then went on to pray and ask God to bless me with a girl that will hurt me(reason… Read more »
I read this after my boyfriend passed it on to me…while there are some good points, much of it is disgusting and it merely encouraged and brought on MUCH abuse, verbally, mentally and physically; manipulation and heartache toward myself. It began turning him into a monster instead of helping him to step up and be a better man. Disappointing!!
Oh really? Define “Better Man”.
Better for you? Or hot him?
Thank you for coming. Don’t let the door hit your arsenic the way out. Ciao Bella..X
Hello Mister Tomassi, I apologize in advance for my English I’ve came across your masterpiece “Rational Male” volume one after reading “No more Mr Nice Guy” from Robert A. Glover, your two other volumes are on my wishlist Seeking for self improvement and a kind of “how to….seduce the chicks to get laid” I’m 29 years of age and have no experience at all at picking girls up and the major thing that I lack is “what to talk about” I’m a complete newbie, which doesn’t mean I never met girls in my life nor that I’m a virgin Your… Read more »
You should ask this same question in the Field Reports section.
https://therationalmale.com/field-reports-comment-page-2-comments/comment-page-157/
Rollo, Sir, I am a nineteen year old guy from south Asia. These matrix things prevalent in western society that you talk about are catching up in east too. I just had been dumped by my first teenage girlfriend of 1 year when I found this blog few months back. I never had a father figure and I would really like some advice on few problems. Please tell me how I can contact with you personally.
I’m thankful I found this blog at such a young age.😊
Why do my not only hurt but I actually can’t stop crying after all this information
It’s a bereavement. The set of rules you thought were in play aren’t, and were never in play.
Just be thankful that you can see it now and move on.
It gets easier.
It’s one step in grieving the loss of illusions and pretty lies.
https://infogalactic.com/info/K%C3%BCbler-Ross_model
I felt like my own mother new what I was going through but couldn’t tell me exactly what to do all she was able to do is give me some hits now I know why
They don’t actually know themselves. They’re cats, and we’re dogs, we’re not the same, and they don’t know how they work.
Your mother probably would have helped you if she could have, but she doesn’t even know how she works or in practical terms how to help.
I have to make a big decision and I really need your help after I learn about The Medium IS the Message I was able to figure out how my wife that I married for 18 years had a alpha boyfriend in her teenage years was able to had a long distance affair with him for 6 months and she decided to end it and I know for a fact if that guy was in the USA she would find a way to fuck him and she still think about him I was able to find out two month later… Read more »
@Sean
or work on my self to prove to her
Or work on yourself to prove to who ?
Others here have turned this stuff round and it’s not easy but take it over to field reports and I expect that they’ll step in.
Anything you do should be for you.
So what do you want?
Son call her out on it yet, ultimatums are declarations of powerlessness.
Sean
Your worried and anguished about something that happened 18 years ago?
Let it go. Just part of the red pill process…
Anger stage…
You can’t change it. And she will spin it 100% different today.
Now is the time for you to stop thinking about her and focus on you and getting better.
Once that process results in positive attention from her, then you can start to think about her.
Do The Work.
Post on Field Reports.
Yes I believe I miss explain myself this situation is happening right now after 18 years of marriage she decided to go have a affair over the phone to her ex boyfriend From May 2020 until November 2020 I was able to find out in February 2021 my question is even though I still love her but I do not trust her anymore at the same time I need to know should I confront her all Or let it go and work on myself
Sean
Well that is different.
Athol Kay used to say at MMSL the stay plan and the go plan are the same. You need to fix you.
So get to fixing. Then if you want to get rid of her you work to optimize that outcome.
I really want to get rid of her I just don’t know how if I should confront her about what I find out even though I know i was Wong to go in her phone invade her privacy But I needed proof since I invest so much in the relationship I just need help how to go by doing this thank you
You go see your lawyer.
That’s it.
Can somebody please explain What causes a men to fall under scarcity mindset
Have you read The Rational Male books?
Yes all three book
@Sean
https://therationalmale.com/2017/06/13/kill-your-idols/
“A lot of guys reeling from having the Blue Pill rug pulled out from under them resort to either suicide, self-improvement or a long-term dwelling upon what they believe was a loss they will never be able to replace.”
Best not to get in the habit of dwelling on it. Instead work on self improvement , ad value to you.
Hi Rollo,
Thank you for writing the Rational Male books. I have read the first book The Rational Male and found the information contained in the book of great value to me as a man on my journey through life. I am now reading The Rational Male, Preventive medicine. The 9 Iron Rules are a great guide to follow.
Cheers Paul
Hi Rollo. Thank you for your work.
When will your new book “The Rational Male – Religion” be released on Amazon audiobook/Audible?
Kind regards
Charles
I’m not one to visit sites…but this…definitely gonna be coming back almost daily…Thanks Fortunate O
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I just ordered and finished reading your 1st book. All I can say is that it was like watching a Don Cherry’s rock em sock em video, frame by frame, with my past relationships. I had no idea how badly I was losing frame and lost control of my relationships, due to a beta mindset.. I can’t really express my gratitude in words, I’ve watched friends do even worse in relationships and hope I can introduce them to your books before anymore are trapped into miserable marriages, baby traps, or worse, suicide because of one-itis. Thank you so much!
Assuming you decide to enter into a relationship, is there any way to spot how alpha or beta you are to you girlfriend? I mean, from her perspective.
Turula
1 hour ago
“Assuming you decide to enter into a relationship, is there any way to spot how alpha or beta you are to you girlfriend? I mean, from her perspective.”
Good question, IMHO if you are in any way concerned how you look from her perspective you will be spoted as a beta. See RT’s Iron rules.
1; Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.
Hello! I’m Korean medical Univ. student and I read your book, “the rational male”, published in Korean. Then I visited this site. After reading some posts, I knew the need to share this with my friends, neighbors, and the males in Korea. But, as you know, English is foreign language to us, so I started to translate the posts in here. So, I want you give me thumbs up about sharing the translated version on instagram. Of couse, I reveal the source of that. I expect your positive answer. Thank you.
Thank you Rollo for your work and sharing your passion you have to help men understand the dynamics. I wish you the best in everything you do and continue to do. I just fisnish reading Rich Cooper’s book the unplugged Alpha love the part you had in the book and Rich did an amazing job in the book a most read for any men who is pursuing his purpose. Again,Rollo thank you.
Thank you, Rollo, for writing the Rational Male. Great website with useful information for people to learn the truth. I read the first book in 2020. When I first heard about the book through Rich Coopers book the unplugged Alpha and his You Tube channel. Both books provided me with answers to questions I was looking for and I was able to connect the dots to my experience with women in my life. I’m a 47 unmarried male from the UK. I have now completely changed my mind set and becoming the best version of myself thanks to the information… Read more »
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Why a man have to learn a game and women have not ?
wow thanks Rollo for bringing all that to me, now I’m coming up with a problem that I find it difficult to buy a real book of , do you have an amazon link for it?
The rational Male saved my Beta male ass.
Rollo, Did you revise the first book, as you said you would on your weekly Sunday vids, correcting both grammar and punctuation? I’m waiting to buy one. Thanks.
I just finished reading The Rational Male now I’ve realized how the society conditioned me to feminization. By reading this book has inspired me to assert masculinity. Thank you.
Very interesting interview with Tim Pool. The only thing I’d disagree with is that none of the post 1965 social changes were not engineered by a cabal. You might want to read this books by a whilstleblower from 1969.
https://archive.org/details/dunegan-lawrence-the-new-order-of-the-barbarians/page/n1/mode/2up