Balancing Sexual Pluralism

Homecoming I had an interesting occasion to do a bit of social observation this weekend. I drove Bebé Tomassi to her first high school Homecoming dance and got a glimpse of the Ghost of Hypergamy Future. As you might guess from growing up in the Tomassi household, Bebé is an exceptionally attractive girl, and this is coming from a red…

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Kill the Bunny

New Case Study today. Reader JAS at SoSuave wanted help with his most recent target (edited for length): I am 42. So here is the deal. I moved to a new city a year ago and started a new job. There is a 35 yr old, hot woman there who I will call D. D is hot- about a 7,…

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Tickle Me Emo

A Rational reader asks: I realized some (not many, but some hot) chicks tend to fall for the sensitive sissy – the one labelled as “Wimpster” or “Emo” (I guess you know what I mean). I think, these “men” are as pathetic as it gets. How do they manage to get hot chicks? I really saw some couples HB+Emo-Kid during…

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The Slut Paradox

Every man wants a slut, he just wants her to be HIS slut. ANDREW DICE CLAY: Hey, is that your chick there? GUY IN THE AUDIENCE: Yeah! DICE: Damn she’s pretty hot! GUY: Yeah,.. DICE: You been together a while? GUY: About 6 months. DICE: Nice. She faithful to you? GUY: Oh yeah. DICE: She good in bed? GUY: *nods head enthusiastically* DICE: She…

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Pseudo-Virginity

There’s a lot being made of sluts recently. Vox, whom I’ve got a great respect for,  just made an (admittedly unscientific) poll attempting to estimate mate worthiness and establish some hard data amongst those aware of it, on rates of fidelity by asking the right questions. I took part in it, but to my disappointment my particular input was useless…

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The Feminine Imperative – Circa 1300

A lot of shit got slung at me last week about making comparisons of chivalry being an antiquated social extension of the Feminine Imperative. I’ve written about the concept of chivalry and its impact on the intergender landscape of today, but as I read through certain select comments in Sanitizing the Imperative and after reading the misconception about chivalry on other…

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