Field Reports

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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

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Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

By chance, looking for that $40K a month girl original FR…

Man page 40 is gold…

https://therationalmale.com/field-reports-comment-page-2-comments/comment-page-40/#comment-215447

Tiny penis…

And NNN look at this, this is called an “infield video”, they used to exist in the time before me too and ghey…

Take note of the leading…

Apoc
Apoc
1 year ago

Really appreaciate the welcome messages. Idk how to reply to someone directly. I’ll just leave my answer here: what I expect is to learn social skills, real game to get real results which I know will also be reflected in other aspects of my life. I want to be able to approach girls on the street without any problem, to disect social interactions and make them work.I hope to learn, share ideas and cooperate with people on all of this, since I have no one to talk about this neither where I live nor online. My knowledge about red pill… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

Apoc

what country are you in?

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 year ago

@HABD – very interesting breakdown of Sentient’s FR. Also interesting how all of us have slightly different takes on the nightclub picture. I think the key point from your breakdown of Sentient’s FR is that it was all in full BB frame. She liked Sentient and would have enjoyed banging him, but purely BB sex (same as the other rich guys who had her on retainer – as I said in my first comment, Sentient’s biggest problem is that he fell exactly into her target demographic and never got out of the box). It reminds me so much of the… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 year ago

@Apoc The way you reply to someone specifically is by @ and mentioning their name at the top of the message like I just did there and then everyone can chime in. Overall I think you’re in a good place. You’re not as bad a hard case as many of the people who used to post here and improved. You have some experience with girls, a decent job, some social skills etc as well as a basic theoretical knowledge of Game (I would recommend reading Rollo’s book or the Year One posts, and the Mystery Method book/or watching 1 hr… Read more »

kfg
kfg
1 year ago

” . . . interesting how all of us have slightly different takes on the nightclub picture.” I have to confess that I waited for other people to reply and then crafted my take to be reasonably arguable . . . but different. My gut reaction on first looking at the photograph wasn’t to focus on the people at all, they’re just NPCs doing what NPCs do, but to be drawn to the two oddities: the bag, and not the number drinks, but the number of empties. And so, if I were at the bar for some strange reason, my… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@kfg

thanks for posting that… i thought i was missing something…lol

and now that you mention it, that bag does look a bit overstuffed…lol… which i think is more likely to mean that she would be a player character and not NPC…

good luck!

Apoc
Apoc
1 year ago

@OldTimePoster Thanks! I’ve been reading the replies to Flushed comment and it’s been great. Love the honesty and I’m amazed by the time you guys invest in helping us. Hope to give some of it back once I learn it. I live in Medellin, Colombia. A great motivator since this place is full of beautiful women (known for tourists coming here to hire hookers lol). I finished reading the first book couple months ago, but I’m planning to do it again, to internalize more of its concepts. I can’t find the Mystery video, but I’ve been watching a 3 parts… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 year ago

@Apoc – good luck, and report results back here – it helps you to write Field Reports and reflects and also holds you accountable cos you have to think about what someone like PalmaSailor will say (lol).

You will find that the more you do it the easier it gets – it’s the first few approaches that are the hardest. So if you do 5, then actually it probably won’t be that hard to do 10 or 20 – you’ll be in the groove.

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

APOC

Mystery overview of attraction model.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@OTP

what someone like PalmaSailor will say (lol).

Don’t worry about me. Too many people are taking or trolling, and not enough are contributing.

I’m reducing what I’ve got to say until some of these chumps have got past first base.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@NNN1 OK, so my report from the weekend: Good — you’ve already won a prize for making the effort and not being a complete whingeing twat. Friday night was scheduled two events, 1st a birthday of my cousin and 2nd a bigger county party some miles away. What did @Sentient say about reverse engineering? How would the logistics play out? Yeah, I can and have put them on a train / in a taxi and we’ve done an hour back to my place, but now would you have done it. And serious question, would you have been better off on… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
1 year ago

@Palma How exactly did you open? While I seem to not do my openers very consciously, I think I stood next to her just a second, looked at their card game and said sth along “Never seen that crazy shit here before, what is that?” (Because I have no real opener game) But I also didn’t really have trouble with my openers, but on super-loud venues like the party barn on Campus. Plus looking back I seem still terrified of imagined negative consequences of going for the make-out – as you have pointed out on several occassions right now. Which… Read more »

IAS
IAS
1 year ago

@NNN1: Palma is right on the money. The Irish girl wanted you. You missed out because you were terrified of moving in for the kiss. I understand that. It is scary (right now). I’m recently up to N=16 and it still gave me quite the adrenaline rush when I moved in (my hands were shaking after, not sure if the flambé contributed to that – I think she didn’t notice). You just have to do it. Even if you botch it up, after all those IOIs from them, what can realistically happen? You either get the kiss, or you get… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 year ago

@NNN1 – You’ve read enough to know this, but when you move in for the kiss, do it slow. Lock eye contact, smirk, and move in slowly. It’ll be pretty obvious if she’s up for it (that hot Irish girl 100% would have closed her eyes and moved in for it).

@IAS- congratulations on No 16. Looks like textbook smooth overall..what do you think you could have improved/done better?

IAS
IAS
1 year ago

@OTP: It went pretty well. One can always do better of course. She had a little bit of LMR which indicates I probably messed up somewhere prior, but she was also helping me throughout the last stages. I don’t know if I should have sexualized more / earlier, but I didn’t want to trigger ASD before she actually arrived at my place. She genuinely seemed a bit surprised when I kissed her first, which made me nervous. As I mentioned to NNN1, I had an adrenaline spike and when I was serving the flambé banana my hands/arms were shaking. I… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

IAS

Dying to know what this so mysterious “sport” is that guy’s and chick’s do topless… 🤔

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@NNN1 Firstly you’re going really well and that ^^ wasn’t meant as the criticism it seemed like.. While I seem to not do my openers very consciously, I think I stood next to her just a second, looked at their card game and said sth along “Never seen that crazy shit here before, what is that?” Good. But it’s environment centric, they’re using the equivalent of a peacock which gives you an excuse to open. You might want to think of some more generic stuff you might use if they “don’t give you the excuse” 
(Because I have no real… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@IAS

She had a little bit of LMR which indicates I probably messed up somewhere prior

Actually reading your FR I thought you could have moved it faster had you stopped with the covert communication, ie talking, and just led by the hand to the bedroom after the flambé make out.

I thought she was ready to go a lot earlier and all that other stuff actually went against you.

I actually thought you went too slow and THAT may have caused the LMR, if you really had any.

Incredible progress though, well done,

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 year ago

Looks like you’re on the right track IAS If I remember correctly you’ve had some LMR (nothing serious, but some) on several of your last few lays? Have you considered (especially after isolation) teasing them and getting them worked up enough to jump you or at least make LMR a non issue? Not necessarily slowing down the time taken – as Palma says it’s already fairly slow, but getting them to chase you because they are horny. So for eg, one thing I do a lot is tease the girl by going in for the kiss when I know she’s… Read more »

Flushed
Flushed
1 year ago

Hey, still here. Just very busy these days, some of which entails the game. The PUA stuff is too damn technical, I’ve hardly got the bandwidth with everything else going on in my life. But anyway, after a couple ghosts, some Tinder matches leading somewhere, and this night, it’s time for a Field Report. So I’ve been having a back-and-forth with this one Tinder match for about a week, she was very receptive to meeting, and more than any of the others. She’s turning 29 this week, and has been out partying more than usual to celebrate. Mind you, she’s… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 year ago

@Flushed – good job on taking action. It’s fun like going to the gym is fun. You’re tired after the gym too aren’t you? But you still go because you want to get stronger? At least I hope you do because being fit has a lot of health benefits. She was just shit testing you. I assume you’ve read Mystery Method by now – what are the 3 standard ways to respond to shit tests? Did you apply any of them? BTW never have a date at a group event (or at least not until after you’ve slept with her).… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@Flushed

+1 on @OTP…

props!… just keep playing… the more you do it the more natural it gets…

good luck!

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@Flushed

you really should cut and paste then answer that last set of questions I put up for you… it really will help you if you can understand the evo/bio/psych reasons behind how this stuff plays out in the real world…

good luck!

Flushed
Flushed
1 year ago

Had a meeting with the counselor and brought up this last field report, and he spent the whole time essentially saying I’m teasing women and treating it like a game instead of “just going out to meet someone and be yourself” because I was hurt in the past when I was vulnerable. He says this doesn’t sound like a “shit test” and that she was genuinely insulted, that joking about a woman’s period is a no-fly zone. I got pretty upset about all that. Like, women constantly and publicly question a guy’s worth, but we can’t make a passing, lightweight… Read more »

Flushed
Flushed
1 year ago

Ha, she unmatched with me on Tinder, as well. Maybe even if there is game, it’s all been destroyed by modernity, and it’s robot sex dolls and artificial wombs from here on out.

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 year ago

Flushed I’ll let HABD say his piece about cognitive dissonance (actually he already said it you just have to go look at his older reply) re the counselor or whoever you spoke to. Of course a blue pill guy who is clueless about women is going to say that. You gotta decide whether you want to learn Game from Mike Tyson or the guy Mike Tyson knocked out – Tyson can tell you how to replicate what he does. The other guy can tell you how it felt to have his fist in your face and then lights out… Please… Read more »

Flushed
Flushed
1 year ago

@HABD I just saw your other bit of feedback on the last page, thanks for that. It seems that one went a lot better than the one I had last night, where there was this emotional spike from this person being so insulted by the first joke of the night that she unmatched me on Tinder lol. I did see that other lady from last week again, and we walked around the city center. She showed interest, but I don’t know how to take it anywhere else. I can’t find the questions you shared with me. Which page is that… Read more »

kfg
kfg
1 year ago

“just going out . . . and be yourself”

Rooooooooll credits on therapist’s career.

“. . .she. . .” knows what about being a man?

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@Flushed “that wasn’t what i asked…lol… try again… and i don’t want the ‘internet says’ answer (bc that is the ‘incellish’ mind cope (ego defense)… of not stepping into your own actual reality…) if YOU were the girl: 1) how many offspring can one girl (you) have?… added question: 1a) what age would you want to be when you have those offspring?… 2) how long does it take (how much investment) to raise YOUR child?… added question: 2a) who would/could you get to help you raise YOUR child to maturity?… 3) how long would YOU take to ‘get it right’… Read more »

Flushed
Flushed
1 year ago

@HABD if YOU were the girl: 1) how many offspring can one girl (you) have?… Several, probably. It becomes harder as I get older, and depending on the country I’m in, I will be able to support them via the government. It’s easier to support them with a partner who can provide. To that extent, the wealthier or better he is at providing, the more children I can keep alive and healthy. 1a) what age would you want to be when you have those offspring?… Whatever age that allows me to have had my fun first and then I’ll pick… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 year ago

Flushed, it seems to me that the wax-on, wax off treatment worked for Daniel when he trusted Mr Miyagi and committed to the process.

So make of that what you will…

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

Troll

No doubt

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

Correction

Incel troll no doubt

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

Or a woman troll

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@Flushed

good try… now answer the questions again but assume your goal is to have your offspring survive long enough… and have the capacity to… procreate themselves…

(hint – there are different strategies for each sex… so you need to address each type…)

also assume that there is no .gov… or any other functional system besides a small tribe of people like you… also, no hospital or other med care for birthing… and younger girls are more likely to survive… and deliver a stronger baby…

wax off…lol

good luck!

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@HABD – a bit of boring tedium for you… Looking at what’s gonna happen to utility bills over here from October the 1st, and bear in mind it goes up again in January. Just my modest IT shit (without the laptop) in “sleep” mode consumes this: HP CLJ laser jet – 18 watts Time capsule – 10 watts BT hub – 8.48 watts Mac server mini – 6.8 watts IP over power adapter x 2 – 8.52 watts 51.8 watts / hour = 1243 watts a day x 365/12 = 37.814 kilowatts a month X £0.5189 per kw/h = £19.62… Read more »

Last edited 1 year ago by PalmaSailor
NNN1
NNN1
1 year ago

Nice Calculation you did there. Just to quote my families situation: Gas went up to 22€ct per kWh beginning in September, the last years it was around 6 €ct per kWh. This as our 150 y. old house is giant, but with thick walls as well and new windows + we already support our heating alot with one woodstove firing 16 hours a day. Our gas bill usually was short off 2.000 € a year. 2k€ * (22 / 6) =7.300 € / year. Now this doesn’t hold true completly as for this year we already had 8 months with… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@NNN1 Yeah these liberals think the military is the answer to everything. Prob because they’ve never served. Round numbers In terms of .mil you got 280,000 (180k regular and 100k reserves) You got at least 2 mil migrants, prob a lot more. So them alone is a 10:1 ration. Before you start with the other 83 million population. They might be able to contain it with fear tanks and tear gas for a bit. Until it gets serious. I can’t comment about the “quality of the military” bc I don’t know but there is a problem getting men to actually… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

like I said… interconnected…lol

https://www.zerohedge.com/geopolitical/germany-venezuela-toilet-paper-shortage-looms-amid-energy-crisis

stock up and this could be a way to isolate that HB8 in a red dress…

“hey, you should come over to my place and see my tp stash…”

lol…

but now that i think about it, that would be a good line anyway… even without stocking up…lol

good luck!

stuffinbox
1 year ago

“So I’m not saying they won’t use the .mil, and it will succeed for a bit, but if it goes beyond that then they won’t stand much of a chance.”

Word on the street, UK hotels under contract with govmt to house un troops, under guise of housing imigrants.

Ready for civil unrest?

NNN1
NNN1
1 year ago

it will succeed for a bit, but if it goes beyond that then they won’t stand much of a chance. Little bar report behind the first part. Certainly, and therein lies the real question for this winter: How bad is it really gonna get? And there are a few scenarios. S1: We shut down some heavy industries for weeks and the state pays the wages to the workers. Everyone can keep his job. We saw this while Covid lockdowns, although companies had to shut down back then because of supply chain disruption (they were not forced to shut down by… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@NNN1 “conspiracy theorist”…lol… I predict S2++… I mean could the German .gov work any harder to p*ss off Putin?…lol bc the GOAL is to crash the German econ… bc THAT is main econ support structure for the whole EU… as well as killing off that german industriousness… remember, your ‘leaders’ are playing for Team Evil ™ also known as the wef… and they WANT to kill billions of people…and ESPECIALLY white euros… so have a plan… again: having a bad day’s rules of reality: 1) reality is always in play… 2) what you see happening in the world is the… Read more »

stuffinbox
1 year ago

@NNN1 Congrats man! You are doing 200% better than when you first got here with that hopeless handle. You should take @Palma up on that wingman -party offer before you run out of petro. Don’t worry Mrs Sailor won’t waste you with her AK for keeping him out late. LOL “When people try to somehow get fuel or into heated buildings – especially for their families, they will be ready to do literally everything and military can’t protect homes and properties. This would get a big problem for me (e.g. securing my fuel-wood).” One of my employees lived on hippy… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

Nnn1

I’m totally fascinated how nice the place was: Music loud enough for the atmosphere and to get some energy, but low enough to keep conversations going without shouting at your opponent.

Welcome, welcome…

Re security – get the weaponry by any means necessary, now…

That’s what’s gonna protect your place. Because they are coming. That’s the thing, they, the crowd, are going out in search of stuff they don’t have, but you do…

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@Stuffinbox Word on the street, UK hotels under contract with govmt to house un troops, under guise of housing imigrants. That’s the first I’ve heard of it, but it really wouldn’t surprise me and I don’t move in the circles that would know that anymore. @NNN1 First the important bit… 
I took my homie to a nice cocktail bar in the next city yesterday. Well done. Going out of your comfort zone. I’m totally fascinated how nice the place was: Music loud enough for the atmosphere and to get some energy, but low enough to keep conversations going without shouting… Read more »

Last edited 1 year ago by PalmaSailor
stuffinbox
1 year ago

“But I wonder quite how we have got to the stage of THAT ^^ much anger? People must actually be very worried subconsciously. There must also be a thing where someone disagreeing with them prompts some massive type of insecurity, like you’re directly threatening their very existence..” Was in the same discussion with a creteur(a big wirey man that specializes in concrete)a few eeks ago,different scene as we were relaxing withbeer on a patio we had built for the welder. He goes on about russkies and pootin bad and weel show them, same breath fuel prices electric etc. Me ,… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

Stuff

What will the poor have worth stealing? Maybe women.

Palma

Same thing here. You can’t express any even questioning sentiment around Russia. That’s what 70 years of psychological warfare and propaganda have wired in.

So (that + ignorance) x stupidity = cogdis rage.

The fat faggots here can’t hack a week shift at McDonald’s, they’re going to ship out for a Russian winter war? Lol. Real questionable if a draft could actually work, be enforced anymore.

You wielding a level… 😆 classic Palma.

kfg
kfg
1 year ago

“What will the poor have worth stealing? ”

a) Their existence outside a controlled city.
b) Their lives.

Know what a light tactical is, that they will be coming and how to deal with them.

kfg
kfg
1 year ago

“You can’t express any even questioning sentiment around Russia.”

I was shadow banned at nominally conservative, anti-Biden, pro Putin/Orban PJ Media for doing so.

Go figure.

stuffinbox
1 year ago

@scentimint

“Stuff

What will the poor have worth stealing?”

Easy does it dude, just messing wth you. the list of things that money can’t buy is growing daily. LOL

“Maybe women.” There you go with those rich Beta bucks can buy you some starfish. While the poor bastard pool boy is knocking it out of the park with your old lady.

Apoc
Apoc
1 year ago

Today I decided to start with the approaches, spoiler:got scared. I texted a couple girls I matched with on social media, nothing happened. I was getting the courage to do it, casually found this book by some old PUA called Roosh, thought for a sec it was too convenient that the page I went to was just about what I was experiencing (approach anxiety), got a little bit more motivated, went out to the mall nearby, took a walk around, saw a couple people from my work, thought I’d do at least one approach but chickened out, basically I just… Read more »

kfg
kfg
1 year ago

“Any tips on how to do this first approach ?”

Just say “Hi” to someone as you walk past them going in the opposite direction.

Anyone. Young, old, male, female. Just say “Hi” and keep on walking.

Make note of the result and think about it. Were you struck by lightning? Were you swarmed by security? Did they call you a poopy head? On a scale of 1 to 10 how horrible were the consequences and how were you able to recover from them?

Report back.

NNN1
NNN1
1 year ago

@Palma Did you see your Dad angry before He rarely shows emotion, for a long time I had him as not assertive enough. But later I realized that was his way of dealing with things. Calm, rational – and actually super assertive if needed. And I try to mirror that in business, calm and rational as long as usefull – but super hard if need be. Apart from that, even messages (outside decisions) seeming to wreck havoc on his business didn’t move him close to this. He’s contained, but if you know him, he’s feeling something’s gonna come for everyone… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@Sentient *You wielding a level… * I been carrying the damn thing around since last November when @SIB told me I needed a “leveller”. 😉 @SIB Do you realise what you said here: big corp cant be botherd with specialty items They can definitely be bothered with specialty items if there’s a load of profit in it. Basically the man works so hard They got him screwed down on price then. Could be that if they bought it in house they couldn’t make the same profit. They’re getting the bargain. If he can see clearly enough he should look at… Read more »

stuffinbox
1 year ago

@Palma @SIB “Do you realise what you said here:” big corp cant be botherd with specialty items “They can definitely be bothered with specialty items if there’s a load of profit in it.” What is profitable for the owner operator isn’t so for the big corp. Hence they want us gone. “Basically the man works so hard” Talking about the creteur ,vaxed, anti capitalist woke libtard here not the welder. “They got him screwed down on price then.” This is what happens when you compete with migrant workers that live 20 in a house and send the money home to… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@PalmaSailor The “tutor” was an old school bricklayer without any teeth who had been in far too many fights on sites and elsewhere but was past it now and so he was teaching. Actually quite liked him. Then another guy older than me, plus 3-4 men in their early to mid 20’s. Sleeve tattoo type and fit. They were all banging women. Quite decent lads actually. Liked them too. sounds like my kind of folks…lol Usual shit for a building site, one of the lads was getting mercilessly picked on and getting it ripped out of him. He couldn’t win… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@HABD i would have clued him in… he probably doesn’t have any good male role models in his life… Have you ever tried the unsolicited advice thing? It’s bad enough when they ask for advice, never mind when they don’t. Almost no one has ever acted on my advice (if they’ve asked for it) and most regret asking for it bc they get it and most don’t like the advice they get. Anyway, I started to talk to him, but I only had 5 days bc that was the course for me, and these guys had known each other months… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

All right HABD

Enough of this EOTWAWKI stuff…

Back to the picture…

Go!!!

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 year ago

@APOC Good start – at least you went out. I’ve had plenty of nights like that where you go out but can’t make yourself approach – it happens to everyone. Approach anxiety is a real thing. There’s no easy way to solve it – you just have to force yourself to do it and train your brain that nothing will happen. Even advanced guys get it (mostly) – but it’s less and there’s a process for getting through it quick. A few tips – the first 1-3 approaches are always the hardest. If you push yourself through them the rest… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 year ago

I’ve also encountered the crazy anti-Russian kind of stuff Palma talks about.

Even the people who were relatively sensible about the damages of lockdowns and COVID restrictions, even the people who were a bit skeptical about the vaccines – everyone seems to be totally locked into the Putin-is-Darth-Vader-and-we-will-crush-him stuff. It’s nuts – I can’t believe I’m saying this but the groupthink seems to go deeper than the COVID stuff.

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

I can’t believe I’m saying this but the groupthink seems to go deeper than the COVID stuff.

Believe all women?

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 year ago

All right gang. Question on an action strategy for getting back into the Game. I’ve been tied up with crypto stuff and family and exercise and stuff and got embarassingly out of touch with Game stuff (as everyone pointed out with the waitress incident a few weeks ago). I still have the other stuff going on but it’s time to fit some Game stuff in and just start easing back into it. I could go back online and pull some 40 year old easily enough from some affair website or something (I deleted my sugar daddy accounts btw – that… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@OTP

Just compliment one woman on her look every day

Ugh…. Man… how rusty are you?

Direct contravention of one of the commandments..

Plus..

Issuing an unearned IOI is a DLV.

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

OTP Yeah, let’s leave the work situation alone. I don’t think your in the right headspace, for a couple of reasons a) calibration is likely off b) calibration is likely off and you’ll ramp some poor girl up and freak her out. Really, why work girls? Is it because you think there is a governor on the interaction? You know attraction isn’t like that. Slippery slopes are slippery… If you really want to get back on the horse, go hit some places on the fringe of your area, and cut loose, playing for real and not fluffing about. Or just… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@OTP

Thoughts and suggestions?

your whole issue is rooted in the concept of ‘blitz’… THAT’S why we told you to get rid of that sh*t…lol…

you need to internalize the RP… ie swallow harder… not put it on like a cheap suit…lol

you KNOW what you have to do…lol… = just be a social AF dude… ALL the time… we told you this before, but it WILL feel like you are a walkin’ hard-on…lol

you just can’t seem to break lose from that FI hand on your shoulder…

good luck!

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@Sentient All right HABD Enough of this EOTWAWKI stuff… Back to the picture… Go!!! ok!…lol… we got at least a couple of weeks to watch the eu implode…lol… sooo, on to more important things!…lol gonna be hard to beat your open… but (for the newbie/lurkers) conceptually, you need to 1) get into the set through the near-side brunette… bc that is the most socially congruent approach… “looks like you are too dry to be in a place like this…” “that’s a huge bag. are you from out of town?…” 2) get into the other set (blonde’s set)… comment on the… Read more »

GMan23
GMan23
1 year ago

I’m a 50+ year old guy with 2 kids, facing that “what the **** just happened” moment. Been separated for 9 months or so but the relationship has been dead for years. I look pretty good for my age and although I accepted redundancy recently I have direction and pretty good prospects. When I was younger I definitely had more edge and reaped the benefits of that. I recently fell into a classic AFC moment with a girl I was very attracted to … unsurprisingly I have now been friend zoned …grr. I know I need to pull back from… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

One step at a time GMan

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=04eF1qxvuG4

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@Gman

Firstly welcome.

Some of us have been there and got through.

Feel free to let rip.

It’s a journey, and it probably seems a long way off, but you can flip your relationships with women to being on your terms.

A lot of work to be done though so please download and we’ll see what we can do.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@All Couple of questions for debate about the @Sentient / HABD picture challenge, First has anyone actually opened that type of set, AMOG’d the guy and got the threesome? If so how did the guy handle it? I ask bc it brings to mind a set in the PRG about 3-4 years ago, I had opened a woman and a guy tried to AMOG me by saying to me “hold my drink” – and I said “I’m not holding your drink, you need a wife for that” whereupon he simply walked off. That was it, he had no more to… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

Palma First has anyone actually opened that type of set, AMOG’d the guy and got the threesome? Yes, yes, and … threesome? No… 😆 But sure I’ve had a few situations where amazing worked and got the pull. Both short term and longer term. There are a lot of dynamics at play – if they are really together, how long, the venue, the social scene… all will effect the speed at which this kindn of amog stuff will play out. Most common 70% of the time, they don’t know each other, guy is just trying and she has no investment… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

Palma

like immediately the bf might have a tantrum, walk off and leave the woman open for action.

Or she sends him to go get drink for her, get her coat, check on the kids, etc. Etc.

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@PalmaSailor

yes… yes .. and… ‘yes’… lol… I actually spun the girls up and threw them at another dude…lol… just to do it…lol

turns out that whole buying temp transferability really is a thing…lol

but to be fair, it was at a wedding…lol… so the girls were already ’emoting’ pretty hard…lol

question… if you wanted the nearside brunette, what are your options to DHV in situ?…

and which DHV type might mean more to her hindbrain?…

good luck!

NNN1
NNN1
1 year ago

@HABD question… if you wanted the nearside brunette, what are your options to DHV in situ?… and which DHV type might mean more to her hindbrain?… I’m not anywhere a pro, but just for practice: It’s always better to have her experience / observe the value than to have her told by someone (not yourself), which is still miles better than you telling her off your value. So, best would be to AMOG that guy engaging the blonde and bring the brunette in that set. If you succeed in that, i.e. obviously divert the blonde’s attention from that dude, you’re… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@All I’ll get a full reply tomorrow but for @NNN1 Mystery issues a warning of going for seduction before about I think 6 or 7 hours of interaction. Mystery’s agenda was for women to fall in love with him. It can actually be done in minutes, when you can pick up the signals, but more usually, about 3 hours. At least half my N count have been same night lays, which conservatively I met at between 7-8 pm, and the job was done before midnight. Most of those women wanted to stay around me, but I got bored with them.… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

Mystery describes that as a fools friend – working out only very rarely. I don’t know why that is, but it’s not true. It may not have worked for him in the context of his exact formula but it worked for me almost every time with a lot of women. What Mystery says is “fools mate” and it’s about understanding that if a girl just throws herself at you, i.e. “free ioi’s” it’s not something that is replicable, it’s “chance” or luck. So don’t take comfort in it or rely on it. It’s not good game. Now on the 7… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
1 year ago

@HABD We’ve got a few weeks to watch the EU implode true that! We now have another policy package designed to “compensate the problems of the Ukraine war”… A lot of blabla, most importantly mainly issuing checks to everyone to pay for the energy that’s not there. To blame unblamable small energy producers, mainly those with solar, wind, hydro and coal, they want to cut the earnings paid from the energy exchange … – meaning my energy could be sold for whatever high price out there, but the government cuts that and I only get what part they assign to… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

NNN1

they’ll come for me.

Make NO mistake they ARE coming for you. Whoever they may be – predatory govt bureaucrats, local gendarmes, roving gangs of orcs, long lost relatives and fallen women…

That’s the entire point of these exercises. It’s not going to be simply you having abundance and making mint on energy and sitting in the garden roasting a hog and watching the teevee.

KFG once posted he could get whatever he wanted for the price of a .22 shell.
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OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 year ago

Thanks guys. I clearly need to reset my mindset – partly because I’ve regressed since the pandemic began and partly the sticking points I never fixed even when I was more active.

I’ll do what it takes to fix it and get to the other side. I’m not settling for this. HABD once described it as me standing on a rock in a stream and just needing to take a step to get to the other side, but believing it was like a vast chasm or something.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

Still not had time to catch up but this For this I have to bridge the meter measuring my private consumption and I get at this now. In principle yeah but don’t just jump and think it through. You still need some personal consumption. I know you got 3 phase output from your hydro but how many phases you using in the house? Prob only one? Could do with seeing the breaker box. Good idea to split the high consumption items across another RCD so you have plausible deniability = bc COSTS – yiu thrnwd all that shit off now.… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@NNN1 but the government cuts that and I only get what part they assign to me. Yeah, they consider what you have as belonging to them. That applies to everything you’ve got. I personally hoped for some sort of windfall tax I could evade by heavy investment in machinery needed in the future anyway – but the current approach won’t let too much room for that. Correct – They want that money / energy and leaving loopholes won’t get them paid. Those politicians see more chairs taken out, but hope letting the music play longer will cover the problem. They… Read more »

stuffinbox
1 year ago

“Of course it needs to be done in a way not obvious to the officers controlling compliance with this command production. Because I now expect ones like that, although some part of me still hopes my micro operation flies under the radar – but it probably wont.” What they do here in Merryka is hire an independent contractor to fly a camera drone along the powerline to each home meter. One man at a monitor can view miles of line in a day looking for leaks. The meter is a switch that closes the circuit between the plex from the… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@NNN1 @HABD “question… if you wanted the nearside brunette, what are your options to DHV in situ?… and which DHV type might mean more to her hindbrain?…” I’m not anywhere a pro, but just for practice: It’s always better to have her experience / observe the value than to have her told by someone (not yourself), which is still miles better than you telling her off your value. lol… you HAVE been paying attention!… So, best would be to AMOG that guy engaging the blonde and bring the brunette in that set. If you succeed in that, i.e. obviously divert… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

KFG once posted he could get whatever he wanted for the price of a .22 shell.

22s are VERY useful…lol

and out to a couple hundred yards or so too…

good luck!

NNN1
NNN1
1 year ago

@habd what if you actually wanted the brunette? Well, just for practice: make her jealous… Go for the blonde for a while enough while engaging the brunette to keep enough tension to keep her around. This^^ is gonna be the next DHV, as we now have the world-famous uber-DHV preselection She will fall for it, she can’t help falling for it. But now we would be in a bad situation, as we would have to get rid of the blonde. Now this is hypothetical, but I suggest – when logistics work for that – just take both with you and… Read more »

Tres leches
Tres leches
1 year ago

There’s a video of the dude who made transformers that I would also like a answer too. When do they tell you you are a man? Aside from the Menu a man could choose from( blue,red,purple etc) what is a men in 2022?

NNN1
NNN1
1 year ago

OK, so the EU Comission seems to have figured out their “solution” which boils down to only a 100% windfall tax. As it appears they want to keep up the price mechanism at the energy exchange (better for the functioning of the market after all) but then the european states shall rob us energy producers of every single penny of the difference from the price we got to the EU’s set 18 ct per kWh. Now that’s not even half the current market value, to not say anything about the upcomming market value in the next months and years. Although… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@NNN1 OK, so the EU Comission seems to have figured out their “solution” which boils down to only a 100% windfall tax. As it appears they want to keep up the price mechanism at the energy exchange (better for the functioning of the market after all) but then the european states shall rob us energy producers of every single penny of the difference from the price we got to the EU’s set 18 ct per kWh. Now that’s not even half the current market value, to not say anything about the upcomming market value in the next months and years.… Read more »

kfg
kfg
1 year ago

“… it’s that sudden stop at the bottom…”

Down the hall and to the left.

Sentient
Sentient
1 year ago

Bitter is beta SFG

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@NNN1 (@PalmaSailor… bc this affects you too…)

having a bad day’s rules of reality:
1) reality is always in play…
2) what you see in the world is the intended result of a different agenda…

here’s that ‘different agenda’ i was talking about…

https://redpill78.substack.com/p/newly-leaked-report-from-rand-corporation?sd=pf

just need to read the executive summary…

and note the date of the analysis release… AND it takes time to get these reports out…

= well before (at least a month) putin popped off the special military intervention…

how did they KNOW?…lol

good luck!

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

here are a couple of companion articles to that^^^ idea…

https://www.rand.org/pubs/research_reports/RRA720-1.html

https://www.rand.org/pubs/research_reports/RRA720-2.html

indicating that it is entirely possible to provoke russia…lol… and they do actually know how to do it…lol

as well as reinforcing the concept that they really don’t know when or where sh*t is gonna pop off…lol

food and ammo…

good luck!

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@HABD Everything is affecting me. Just hoping that the normalcy bias sticks to the systems long enough that I can complete (close) the purchase of a bit of property in the semi boonies here that I’ve been working on for the past few months – and is the part culmination of the other reason I spent 3 years in the PRG. Thinking I’m gonna manage that ^^.. it has planning potential at about 3x its current value so is an inflation hedge at that FV (assuming I can build it out – that means get the materials). It has (will… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@PalmaSailor @HABD Everything is affecting me. Just hoping that the normalcy bias sticks to the systems long enough that I can complete (close) the purchase of a bit of property in the semi boonies here that I’ve been working on for the past few months – and is the part culmination of the other reason I spent 3 years in the PRG. Thinking I’m gonna manage that ^^.. it has planning potential at about 3x its current value so is an inflation hedge at that FV (assuming I can build it out – that means get the materials). It has… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@PalmaSailor

here’s an example…

https://www.dragondoor.com/shop-by-department/kettlebells/p10b/

adjust starting weight kettlebells up or down as needed… and keep it balanced in case some russian dude decides to try it out…lol

good luck!

NNN1
NNN1
1 year ago

Fascintingly enough the temperature even among conservative market-liberals might be suddenly changing. The EU wants to destroy the energy market, nothing new – but we now see even on the most conservative newspapers people in anger and jealousy, paired with missing understanding of what is happening, people actually support the EU-Commission’s plans. I think they realize more and more they’re kinda doomed and someone must profit from it. Of course they donot attribute it to certain elites but to the ones they talk about, now mostly energy producers. On the other hand, industry production cuts and reductions already reduced industrial… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@HABD great!… how is the food production potential… and water?… Enough land to grow some, but not enough. However the place is bang in the middle of a large farming area (backs directly onto farmland and farms in every direction outside the cluster of about 4 roads that form the small village – Which I know doesn’t mean access to food) not super rural by our standards, bc it is still in a “road of houses” but it’s too far away from “trouble” for marauding gangs to be speculating bc they don’t know it’s there, and if they did they… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 year ago

@PalmaSailor “how are your russian lessons going?… ” Not started those. Struggling on the bandwidth front. that’s no excuse…lol… you live with a russian speaker…lol… start slow and work up… with one ‘daily life’ request/convo per chunk… “what’s for breakfast?…” “I want eggs and bacon”… etc… then repeat that everyday (with new food items)… and add a new (daily life) concept every three-seven days… and when you add that new concept (have some mastery of the old phrases), Mrs PS should not ‘understand’ what you saying if you don’t use russian…lol… = immersion… easy peasy…lol So I’m still erring in… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 year ago

@HABD

that’s no excuse…lol…

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=lGRiYyzMuk8

Yeah you’re right I’ll get on with it

@NNN1

Same applies to you…. Lol… where are the field reports??…lol…

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