Field Reports

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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

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OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

Also, a girl in my son’s school has come out as a lesbian (aged 10).

Is that even a thing? She’s not even hit puberty yet..

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

This might lighten the mood up a bit

Looking for unvaxxed dick…

Lol

https://imgur.com/a/6S9J0UT

Silent Bob
Silent Bob
1 month ago

https://nypost.com/2021/11/02/men-with-golden-penis-syndrome-ruining-romance-for-women/

Lol

It’s a shame Rollo don’t post here anymore. Part III of the last post missing since July, whodathunk.. Who with a real life has time to watch hours long videos on youtube or keep up with brain numbingly stupid twitter “conversation”? Though I guess it’s a choice, that’s probably where the biggest beta audience is at.. Well, at least this section is still somewhat active here and worth following.

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Haha Golden Penis Syndrome…

So men are acting like women do. 🙄

But I thought Sarah Lawrence was all LUGs?

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

“Is that even a thing? She’s not even hit puberty yet..”

Yes it’s a thing called child abuse.

stoinkinbox
stoinkinbox
1 month ago

LOL , UVD & GPS

Take the 80/20 down to 90/10 then 3-2 ratio= 4 men with GPS the 50/50 UVD leaves 60 women after 2 men I would call that PDS for platinum dick syndrome.

Go to college to meet Sadie Hawkins your educated dream girl.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@Sentient The whole burden of performance thing has come starkly into contrast in the last few days. The RD had only been gone a few days when I got stuck in last Saturday night getting back home bruised and cut up. Then, the day after the fight the RD phoned (we never talk on the phone) to ask “if I’d had enough personal space, because she was thinking of coming back”. She had been here for 2 months again, and I have been living alone for over a decade. Believe it or not she has also lived alone for a… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

While I might not really feel sorry for them, I need to say “probs to you Palma”! By the way: Does anybody know what happened to habd? Last thing I got was he caught CoViD, probably treated himself with Ivermectin – although I know no single study where this would help substantially. Anyway, this winter everybody is gonna get CoViD, either unvaccinated or vaccinated – wich, for all we know, will dramatically reduce your risk for serious illness yet not rule out that option copletly. Anyway, social life here on campus has practically gotten to a halt and I definitely… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Palma Congrats, a year and going strong. A study for the guys on this board who never try… The “old alpha” thing. Starting to see it among guys 10 years older than me, 60’s… Just think of how long that guy’s dick didn’t work before it got to the current state… ^^ Immediate reaction is revulsion and desire to put it down… I imagine it’s much stronger to the hamster, red flashing signs and horns – this guy can’t protect or provide!!!!!!! NNN1 I just don’t feel like this “competence” and capability to work is what my generation really is… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@NNN1 I just don’t feel like this “competence” and capability to work is what my generation really is looking for. You’re confusing their forebrain and hindbrain, and you should know better. Ignore what they say, watch what they do. Also – competence is so rare, they’ve probably hardly ever experienced it. You need the flambé picture, the chainsaw picture and some pictures of you with other women. Pre selection. @Sentient Just think of how long that guy’s dick didn’t work before it got to the current state… I hate to think. start a fire etc Interesting comment, the RD and… Read more »

kfg
kfg
1 month ago

I have noted here a number of times that if you wish to improve yourself compared to Other Men These Days, all you have to do is put in an effort. Any effort, as the bar is currently so low that a 10 percent effort can raise you to the 90th percentile. As an example I have told the anecdote of a young man of about 20 who came to my door asking if he could borrow a screwdriver. I said, “Sure, what kind?” He didn’t know. He didn’t even know that that was a question needing to be answered.… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Palma

The old joke…

A man gets a bill from his plumber and says, “I’m a lawyer and I can’t charge this much for my time!”.

And the plumber says “neither could I when I was a lawyer”.

Now Wahoo will roll in with tales of trade millions…

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@kfg

What’s more, it was a hex head bolt that if removed would effectively destroy the device

It was a hex headed bolt on purpose……

You knew but the kid didn’t.

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

“@HABD will be fine. Da Rona has a 99.7% survival rate. ” probably… I still believe in the math… got better from that first time… I think I caught a LOT of shedding from a couple of vaxxed people at a different meeting… but… I’m back in the er for the third time ER visit on a late Sunday night… got covid diagnosis… no blood clots… heart ok… etc… lungs didn’t indicate they were bad… so they sent me home… survived the first part of the week but got worse… hard to breathe… went back to ER Thursday am… they… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

FR for that^^^

just what you expect… wife freaking out, etc… everything in line with RP teachings…

good luck

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@HABD good to hear from you. Anecdotal evidence from both the nurse I was banging, and the RD, it’s the same (even though one practiced in southern England and the other in Mockva): If it’s gonna get you, it gets you within 5 days of the onset of symptoms. If you remember I had 4 days of feeling bad followed by “night 5” and I woke up clear. It might be a rough ride, but on balance, you’re gonna make it. Of course they have no experience with Vulcans, so that may prove to be a glitch on the matrix..… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

OXygen tank openers anyone?

“Baby you take my breath away. Stop it!”

Hang in there HABD.

Powers from Zeus at you 💪🌩⚡

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

I’m not sure this sh’t actually is covid… there’s also been a super bad viral pneumonia bouncing all over town/ region… two different friends got the same thing… and I didn’t see them before/ after they got sick… although the hospital pushed that diagnosis for both of them… = down for the count… expected months/ years for recovery… with O 2… but they haven’t had any back sliding… just slow progress forward… and I’m naturally sceptical about all the covid sh’t anyway…lol… but the docs here all have a good attitude… either way, I need to find out why my… Read more »

stuffinbox
stuffinbox
1 month ago

@HABD Ive heard that same thing is going in AK Damn I was sure you were good.I am on the cinchona bark tea add a bit of cinnamon for flavor , helps zinc absorption in cells = changes ph bal so virus can’t replicate . In some places with maleria they call it the sunday pill. Even lewis and clark took pounds of quinine on the trans continental journey. Also 10 years ago was some stubborn shit goin around that wouldn’t spike a fever to kill it, goldenseal/echinacea will rais a fever high enough to kill most crud. Cinchona seems… Read more »

kfg
kfg
1 month ago

“It was a hex headed bolt on purpose……”

It was a thin head hex . . . to keep some idiot with a one pound fifty adjustable wrench being able to get a grip on it.

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

HABD – glad to hear you’re well enough to at least post here and still fighting. Praying for you. Hang in there.

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

just got back from the CT scan… pulmonary fibrosis progression… this time the follow up report is going to be more helpful…lol asked the doc for a really detailed report… like a med school level of detail… he agreed to do that… my brain has been so foggy I didn’t think to ask the last couple times… so now I’ll have a target, which with my newly O2d brain I think I can work out a path to daylight…lol plus the docs are somewhat trying… they are actually only 2 steps behind where my protocol should be… bc I’m not… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

On the subject of alpha males who are past their Prime – My oldest friend died on Thursday night. Despite him living some 400 miles away We’d been friends for 34 years. Since I was 20 and he was 40. I started talking to him daily before mobile phones when he was a contractor for a bank I was working for, and it’s continued more or less ever since. Despite almost daily contact for 34 years there never seemed to be any shortage of things to discuss. The friendship endured 3 marriages. Two of mine and one of his. In… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

@habd Glad to hear you’re still alive and on a track for recovery! So I installed Tinder again, uploaded: Picture of me holding the pan with a one meter high flame. Video of me pouring the liquor in the pan – catching fire instantly Picture with me and working the chainsaw on a log pile Selfie of me with a friend sitting at a table with a glass and a decanter of wine. Picture of me operating an excavator scooping out a large stump. Picture on this year’s university bar crawl. Text: Hi, I’m NNN1 and when not studying in… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Nnn1

Is that a boyfriend material profile or a fuckboi profile?
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Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

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Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

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PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@NNN1

Your pictures are ok but no pre selection, and your words look like you’re auditioning for the church choir.

This was mine back just prior to lockdown and just logging back in I’ve received about 50 messages I haven’t replied to. I also had several pics with other women. None with other men.

“Fun, fit and attractive man with own hair / teeth / business etc.. seeks to replace his social life which is due to be annihilated from Thursday for the foreseeable future.

The role would be ideally suited to a cheerful pub owning nymphomaniac.”

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

@Sentient
is that a boyfriend material profile or a fuckboi profile?

lol, that seems to be the question.

Used all my swipes for today, would have to buy tinder gold otherwise – which I clearly won’t do.
BTW: bars, clubs and other parties are now officially verboten in the state.

Yet my concert cards for tomorrow and Monday seem still valid – gonna go there with a friend.
It’s Mozart symphonies…

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

Sorry to hear about your friend Palma – it sounds like he had a rich life and lived it to the full on his terms.

CatchersIndifference
CatchersIndifference
1 month ago

Ran into an interesting scenario over the weekend and would be interested in some feedback. Was out w/ my girlfriend shopping for groceries @ the local supermarket and head to the register to pay. We’ve been seeing each other for just under 2 mos and have been spending the weekends together lately. We’re floating around the store together and it feels great, we just had a great afternoon and are obviously in very much into one another and in love. The cashier is early to mid twenties average looking girl with glitter eyeshadow that I barely pay attention to aside… Read more »

kfg
kfg
1 month ago

@CatchersIndifference:

Your search term for today is “NPD”.

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

Interesting, Catchers.

I’d say it was an abortive attempt to get your attention/flirt/joke around. Possibly a shit test too. It depends a lot on the tone of the words and the emotional “vibe” of the interaction which you haven’t specified.

Are you the guy who used to post that you swam a lot? I seem to remember an FR from a long time ago about a girl who swam at the same pool as you or something.

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Catchers

What the fuck happened? My instinct tells me she was shit testing me. Maybe I’m reading too much into and she’s miserable in her job and wanted to try to make someone else feel her pain?

Ease up hoss… This just reads like a girl flirting with you, not “vitriol”.

[BTW – it is good practice to simply ASSUME the girl is flirting with you and handle it from that frame…]
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Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

How this reads in Catonense

“My hot girlfriend started bragging to the single cashier that I have a huge cock and know how to use it. The cashier says to “Oh you do do you?…” We lock eyes and I smirk “Yeah”… and she says “you gonna prove it to me or what?”… My GF says to me after “that girl really wants to fuck you”.”

[End Scene]

liz
liz
1 month ago

Back when I was an expert grocery packer, the bags were made of wood.

liz
liz
1 month ago

To be a full, gold star bagger, one had to whittle one’s own bag with a pocket knife.
Blindfolded.
(for when the candles went out)

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@Liz

To be a full, gold star bagger, one had to whittle one’s own bag with a pocket knife.
Blindfolded.

That’s what you think- it was actually just the patriarchy making sure you could still handle a cock /under the covers / in the dark… glad you passed 😉

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@Catchers There’s a few things here. Several different takes, and @Sentient could well be on the. Only with your GF. Ragging about your cock to the plain girl that isn’t getting any.. A few points remain though We’ve been seeing each other for just under 2 mos and have been spending the weekends together lately. We’re floating around the store together and it feels great, we just had a great afternoon and are obviously in very much into one another and in love Under 2 months is early doors to consider yourselves in love. I’ve never mentioned the word with… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

Actually it was at least 3 shit tests First she compliments you (you’re good at bagging). It’s a compliment and therefore a shit test. Are you used to getting compliments and shrug them off because they mean nothing = DHV Or Are compliments so rare that you respond with something gushing and lame (awwww honey, it’s so nice of you to say that, that’s why I wuv you soooo much” you get the picture = DLV My guess is she got no response to the bagging shit test apart from perhaps a smirk which could have been interpreted either as… Read more »

CatchersIndifference
CatchersIndifference
1 month ago

@oldtimeposter Yes, that’s me – I had met a former girlfriend of mine at a local pool and we dated for just under a year then I broke up with her as I thought I could do better and she had some weird behavior around following my lead and displayed some extremely selfish tendencies (pretty sure I detailed them here). She came out to the local bar where we dance here months later and I caught her staring at me from afar on the patio – ended up walking out that night with two women in their 20’s that I… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@ Catchers Don’t tell me, she’s about 34… On one of our meetups she kind of waved her hand at her dating life in NYC and alluded to serial dating / casual sex for the many years she was there followed by dating a guy that ultimately wasn’t into her. Her words “dating in NY was a bit of a blur” Yeah that carousel can spin super fast for a short time, if you’re on it at that speed everything will be a blur. Was it a blur because it was blurry or because if she shared the details of… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

@Catchers Interesting about your “platonic friend” girl experience. I think you can see from that experience how a woman like that (really any woman) would rather share a man she finds sexy (or a married man etc) than someone who gives her the emotional response of a dial tone. One thing I’ve found with the women I’ve been with over the years (of course this is self-selecting to some degree) that very very few actually care that I am married. Speaking of which – FR from me: I still dabble in sugar dating sites from time to time when I’m… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@OTP

and even then I didn’t answer her question directly – I complimented her on something else

I’m really unsure about the compliment thing. I’ve got this nagging thought that it’s a DLV and you just shouldn’t do it. I don’t ever issue compliments.

I’m pretty much certain any compliment coming from a woman is a shit test as well.

There’s a motive to all compliments and the hamster picks it up..

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

So I created a Tinder profile with the mentioned pictures which yielded 11 likes in under 5 days, which is beyond comparison to last spring. Back then I looked at a profile of a non-successfull friend and thought man, that dudes’s profile nails it and now I saw it again (unchanged) and thought man, no wonder he’s missing any success So it definitely got better. Still only one match, which didn’t text back. Now on some forums I found the urgent advice to get the gold version. Has one here experience with that? Or just thoughts about getting Tinder gold?… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

@Palma Compliments are fine depending on context. There are two factors in play: Validation: You don’t want to give her too much validation. This is a balancing act depending on the girl’s personality and a bunch of other factors (the hotter the girl the less validation you give her) – ultimately you want her to get her validation by having sex with a high value man. So don’t give too many compliments, but you can give some (to be precise it depends on how much the value disparity between you and the girl is – the higher you are, the… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@NNN1 Yeah I’d go for the top Tinder option. That’s what old friend did and he hit it brutally with the numbers. He is different to you because unfortunately they’re all after his money – which they don’t actually ever get much of but they do bang him thinking they will… lol.. which sounds BB.. but he’s a peculiar case. I’d still say that you need a picture with another women. I know it’s VERY counter intuitive but it works. And ALL the women you know will say it’s STUPID to post a picture of yourself with other women when… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

Palma, The Game purpose of a compliment is to qualify the girl. It’s textbook Mystery Method. Of course it won’t work if you do it from the wrong frame (supplicating beta as opposed to a high-value man judging a girl and seeing if she meets his standards), or for the wrong reasons, but that doesn’t mean all compliments are bad – it just means you have to do it for the right reasons and in the right way. Same with anything really – you tell newbies “never buy a girl a drink” because it’s a good rule of thumb for… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

@Palma You’re definitely right with the dinner party. That’s why I do dinner partys + they’re real fun if done right. Yet I do them mostly with (male) friends of mine. And nearly always I flambé a desert (the way you told me) and the flames rarely end beneath the height of my chest. So by now and primarily them posting on their snapchat probably half my semester knows I do formidable flambés. But I’m also somehow scared of social circle game – as both the girls I dated once this year have cut me out of the circle. So… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Remember the IOI IOD loop.

And the maxim “the game is won in comfort”.

A compliment after you have strong attraction and are in the comfort stage is a reward from you to her.

Often the difference between strong game and over gaming. When to shift down the attraction stuff (not eliminate it, just gradually less) and increase the comfort stuff.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

Interestingly I’d almost forgotten about it. When it comes to other women I’m in permanent IOD mode these days, and that is actually catalysing attention. Yesterday I was on my own in the local pub having had a meeting and I was sitting writing it up in notes on the phone and there were two age appropriate women who had been there for most of the afternoon on Prosecco. They opened me asking that I keep my eye on one of their coats while they went for a cigarette. There were plenty of other people they could have asked. When… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

If you rub their nose in their decline they will reliably lose their shit…

Italian waiters… lol

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=993nvsfwvnY

kfg
kfg
1 month ago

“Tomassi’s Razor: Never attribute to ‘validation’ seeking that which is more adequately attributed to ‘attention’ seeking.”

Following up on previous comment, to a Narcissist they are the same thing.

Jack
Jack
1 month ago

Y’all really overcomplicate everything. All these cute theories on sex, relationships, women, etc. Brothers stop sipping the juice of this poison, work on yourselves and keep no expectations. With confidence in self, anything is possible. Most of these ideas and theories are malarkey. As if all women are easily fit in a box? As if the only way to a relationship is a “power dynamic”? Alpha and beta males? The fuck is you talking about? It’s all nonsense to distract you from the necessary work of building yourself up and creating a confident self. It’s simple. Put in the work… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

“I dunno man – what’s all this nonsense about “internal combustion engines” and “fuel injection” – all that’s malarkey. Why are you overcomplicating cars? That stuff isn’t real. You just have to get into the car, turn on the ignition and go wherever you want”

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

It’s good to see the high school crowd are reading TRM.

Just be your best self Jack!

CatchersIndifference
CatchersIndifference
1 month ago

The second part involves an older woman who I also met at the pool and had expressed some interest. Again, I knew that ultimately she would not be LTR material given her age but was attracted to her nonetheless. We had polite convo in line at the pool a couple of times and picked up some IOIs so one day we sat down and talked for a bit. I was ready to leave for the day and she followed me out of the pool and we walked to her car as we were both headed the same direction. We hugged… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

@catchers Probs, although I wonder if you couldn’t just have had more sex with her – I mean, when you meet anyways. Mini report: 1. Didn’t buy tinder gold yet, decided to wait a bit – although it becomes clearer it might be necessary. Up to then I might recreate the account with age 22 or 23 instead of the 21 as that probably makes a huge difference (yet the 21 are souped already). Palma’s DinnerParty idea catched me again and as an insta-implementation I invited a freshman girl over for dinner, as I already planned that with a friend… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Catchers

“I had just gotten back to my place after dropping her off when I get a text from her “I think CatchersIndifference and I are headed towards a relationship – lots of kissing last night etc”. The text was meant for her female friend but she had mistakenly sent it to me and just like that the mirage of being friends with her vanished.”

Yeah… I doubt this was an accidental text. lolz

Another example of hypergamy working, women gets high status D and is willing to share the guy if needed.

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

NNN1

He left early (made him take the empty bottles to the container) leaving her with me in the kitchen.
There we chatted about our childhood (and the parties back then), classes in the first semester, etc.

Did you forget attraction? IOI IOD loop etc. Man to woman frame?

Do you want to be a caterer or a fuckboi?

zzzzzzzzzz.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@NNN1

After chatting on a bit it appeared pretty clear nothing was gonna happen again

Why not?

Cooking gives you DHV and proximity, emotional spikes etc… It doesn’t remove their knickers and put them in your bed on their back in starfish formation for you. It’s still up to you to bust a move. Your expectations of it are too high, it’s still up to YOU to make it happen.

Do you want to be a caterer or a fuckboi?

Yeah.. think about that^^.. you don’t want the rep for being the nice guy college caterer.

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Rollo going mainstream, NY POST

https://nypost.com/2021/12/18/former-gop-director-patrice-thibodeau-now-working-as-porn-star/

What will the Tradcons make of this? 😆

Centuries
Centuries
1 month ago

hmmm Jack or Jack ass – well maybe if he is a jack ass he has channeled the alpha jerk and won’t learn the hard way

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
28 days ago

Update So we’re 2 days from Xmas day and it was my 54th birthday 2 months ago. I didn’t get a kiss my arse on my birthday, which I ignored and subsequently invited him out and he declined. As we stand I’ve received no card or merry Xmas. Unusually I haven’t sent him a card either. To recap, On the face of it things were improving when I moved back from the PRG, but looking back, all I got (and my gut told me I was getting at the time) were strictly reinforced 2 hour window “prison visits”. His mother… Read more »

IAS
IAS
27 days ago

@Palma: hold the line, man.
Your son is an hostage, even though it sucks for you to see him do her bidding to screw you over.
Neither you nor him will forget what happened, and some years down the line when he (hopefully) isn’t living with mom anymore he may be able to see that she was using him this way.

Sentient
Sentient
27 days ago

Palma He’s an 18 yo boy. Don’t read anything into the lack of birthday or Christmas text. My son is at college and he didn’t text me know my birthday. That’s just how it is with them. Same with responding to texts, very spotty. Just keep on be available and reaching g out and being outcome independent as he matures. On the ex, just do what you need to do to win. The boy may not like it but he will respect title one day. Probably in the haze of his 1sf big break up. Merry Christmas 🎅🎄 fellas https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=K1y10qB1Y5M… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
26 days ago

@IAS – thanks

@Sentient – thanks – and thanks for providing the reference points.

Have a happy Xmas

Sentient
Sentient
26 days ago

Palma

I should add for reference his sister’s are 100% the opposite.

And to be clear we have a very good relationship, no I’ll will etc.

I think unless boys are drilled in manners and expectations, and drilled hard, they tend to be pretty lax. I lraised him in a pretty polite and mannered culture, and he does know manners – more displayed socially with strangers. I’d say the exception are the ex military dads and the real old line families.

Boys should be in all boy military schools…

Centuries
Centuries
26 days ago

@Palma Sailor

Plan to be there for your son when the inevitable hits. He most likely will falter without manifesting hardcore redpill in his life. Your son will need you and you need to plan to be there for him when he needs you after that first trauma event. Push into his live just enough so that he knows he can come to you in that or any situation.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
24 days ago

@Sentient I raised him in a pretty polite Yep we’ll I have to say mine is the same, at times he’s too polite in some ways, though there is a slight edge to him which is barely discernible. There remains the 48 laws of power thing which he said he couldn’t discuss reading with his mother or her new bf.. so him disclosing that to me was either him being genuine or him saying something like that to appear to be genuine / sort of still bonding with me. @Centuries Thanks He’s (wasn’t) entirely brainwashed by the blue pill. About… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
24 days ago

Palma “serving a man, particularly in small and humble ways, probably for biological reasons tends to be sexually arousing for women”” That new western show 1883 is looking pretty red pill. Episode three a recent widow century on the the trail boss leading a wagon train across country, promising to be a good wife and starts running his cock to prove it. The survival instinct for her and her kids on raw display. It’s quite obvious that she and kids are dead on that Prarie without a man. On the age thing with kids and younger women, have to say… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
24 days ago

You know Palma, I agree with what the others have said of course, but it seems to me there’s a broader point here. I’ve seen quite a few of your posts about your son over the last year and while the details are different there seems to be an underlying theme about how he’s basically acting like your ex-wife’s puppet and acting in her interests against you (keeping tabs, finding out your address etc). The general consensus of the advice here has always been along the lines of how you should give him time and not blame him for being… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
23 days ago

@Sentient I think the perception of general security is a serious consideration in females’ behaviour. The RD has a real fear of going to prison and she considers this consequence a lot. Apparently they like to imprison doctors, and will do so on a whim. The Russian health service is understaffed and it is impossible to do the job in some instances without breaking rules. For instance someone arrives in accident dept who needs drug A (any drug) or he’s gonna die. It needs two doctors to sign off on drug A(Any drug), and there’s only one doctor on duty… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
19 days ago

RIP Tom Torero. Killed himself after being deplatformed as a result of a Newsweek hit piece last month.

Tom was an early London Daygame pioneer.

https://docs.google.com/document/d/17g0dzkaufjMZTtf4LSF_W6Weh4DeHfuXu-pAeRgQOFE/mobilebasic

A casualty of the culture war.

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
19 days ago

Jeez.

I know he was caught faking infield footage and all, but this is so sad – he was a pioneer in teaching day game and taught and helped a lot of men through his business.

Sentient
Sentient
19 days ago

This cunt went after him, contacted every single tech provider he used for every facet of his business and they wiped him away.

Poof! Zeroed out after targeting.

https://www.newsweek.com/pick-artist-sold-sex-audios-targeted-teen-girls-using-major-tech-firms-1648461

Sentient
Sentient
19 days ago

Krausers In memoriam

https://krauserpua.com/2021/12/31/tom-torero-daygame-legend/

Pour one out for poor Tom. And be wise men.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
18 days ago

@Sentient I haven’t read the article but I did read the comments. They’re worth a read. Several marriages and children attributed to this guy because the men involved admit they would never have approached their now wives if it hadn’t been for him. As for the Karen herself, she studied in the Peoples Republic of Ghey over here. Enough said. If you follow her articles she’s also had a go at a NY based PUA – and the comments in that piece refer back here to RM. A pox be in her together with a lifetime of anti depressants she… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
18 days ago

Newsweek has a whole mess of targeted anti pua deplatforming hit pieces

They got SquattingCassanova in October with the same “he used Big Tech to hurt waman” bullsgit.

It’s war…

https://www.newsweek.com/exclusive-pick-artist-used-youtube-paypal-run-business-that-covertly-filmed-sex-1641377

Neo-Rio
Neo-Rio
17 days ago

If you’re ever strung up by journalists or the media and asked for comment about guru activities, just say “I refuse to help you make money by selling lies and tabloid level garbage to impressionable people, just because two adults happily consented to sex” and get them to quote you in their article. No reason for anyone to kill themselves over this. Just don’t break the law and get convicted for it. Only laws are objective in this world. Morals and ethics are entirely subjective from person to person and culture to culture, and your morals should only be based… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
17 days ago

@Rollo You prob know but overnight Joe Rogan now has more followers on Gettr than he has on twatter. Several players have tried to enter the twattosphere, without much luck. My money, joe is pissed that they deleted his interview with Dr Robert Malone and I think he’s gonna delete twatter. That would be a first. With all these things a tipping point is reached and the tide turns. Twatter could collapse overnight. It’s definitely overdue. Just inertia that’s keeping it going at this point. Nobody sane actually likes it, there just hasn’t been another realistic option. @Rollo Tomassi is… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
16 days ago

I’ve nver heard of Gettr – it just seems to be like Gab, and Parler before it. Have any of the alt-Twitter sites really pulled ahead of the pack yet? I don’t mean versus Twitter – just versus each other? I thought Parler was kind of on the way to do it until Big Tech pulled the plug on it a year or so ago? It’s certainly a good idea for Rollo to spread his social media footprint out and make it a bit more antifragile, but even the alternative sites are vulnerable to the kind of thing that took… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
16 days ago

@OTP Gettr is the same as twatter except that it’s not woke and it’s been started by an ex trump advisor. I think the other wannabes hit the market too soon, and what they all needed was one very big name to switch. Like Joe Rogan. As of just now Joe Rogan has 8.6M followers on Gettr, but only 7.9M on twatter. What does that tell you? It’s obvious, here are people like me who want to follow him, and @Rollo as well, but we won’t participate in twatter so they don’t get the follower. So having moved to Gettr,… Read more »

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OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
16 days ago

Well they (ie, Big Tech) managed to keep that quiet! It launched 6 months ago and I’d never even heard of it till now? The news blackout worked even on someone like me who looks at alternative sources..

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
15 days ago

@OTP

It worked until someone like Joe conducted what was arguably the most interesting and pertinent, if not important interview of the decade that just about everyone wanted to listen to and twitter censored it, and JR called them out for it on their own platform.

Having just checked this morning he’s at 8.7M GETTR users, so he’s nearly at a million extra followers over and above twitter.

Being on twatter is actually costing followers as opposed to attracting them. Once THAT^^ idea gets out it’ll be over for Twatter.

IAS
IAS
11 days ago

I came here to post some short FRs and saw the “news” about Torero. Makes me sad that he’d have such an extreme reaction to the persecution.

IAS
IAS
11 days ago

I have a couple of LRs with girls from Apps. Like the previous, there was one from each app I use (non-Tinder and Tinder), and it was in short. I matched with these girls either in the last few days of 2021 or the first of 2022, chattem them up a bit and set up the meet. N=09. This girl is a chubby / fat but passed the boner test. Good practice. Not sure if I will plate her for long. So I set up the meet at a park, twirl her when I arrive (after her, she arrived before… Read more »

Centuries
Centuries
11 days ago

@Rollo – here is one for the twatter crowd

Equity of outcome coming to a town, career or business near you…….they are actively looking to generate this data – there is an agenda……got boxes of popcorn….going to be a trip….

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/jan/04/women-more-likely-die-operation-male-surgeon-study

At what point will a guy determine it is time to exit to elsewhere – the eventual fall of the west is almost guaranteed

Sentient
Sentient
11 days ago

Good stuff IAS. You’ve got the app model down. Old Kant used this same model to rack up 100 notches in a year, which was his goal.

Are you doing any cold approach? I’ve found nothing sharpens the skills as much. Don’t let your skills plateau…

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
10 days ago

Good stuff @IAS! The biggest roadblock in online is getting matches and converting those matches to the girl actually turning up in person to meet you. Once she does that it is (as you found out), relatively smooth sailing. I have a different routine (meet in hotel bar and up to room when travelling) is the best but as long as it ticks the relevant boxes on the M3 model it’s fine and yours looks good too. I found that after you do this consistently for a while it will really become quite boring (unless the girl is particularly special… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
10 days ago

IAS

Just to be clear, it’s not an either or. You CAN do both. Do your online but work in some cold approach as well.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
8 days ago

I do think the smp is changing. In all my life I haven’t seen much of this, which essentially Is older men getting younger women. But it’s happening now: https://imgur.com/a/lBPuikI And now I am one. I’m definitly better than Benjy, and probably on a par with DoublebOH. Apart from the height. The RD is on a par with both of the women. Both couples are looking for single women to join them. Then at the other end of the spectrum you have this shit: https://imgur.com/a/IS0RIZL I mean WTF is all that ^^ about, and how devoid of options would you… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 days ago

Econd the wellness check HABD

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
7 days ago

Third the call for HABD. He didn’t reply when I asked him to post a week or two ago either. Sometimes he goes away for weeks on end, but if he’s not replied in the next few weeks I fear the worst. Sentient – btw, I sometimes glance at PA’s blog when I have time and saw your recent COVID summary post – sort of “how we got to here” – probably the best short summary of this mess that I’ve seen. Only thing I’d add to the list is a healthy dose of sheer panic and incompetence and cluelessness… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
7 days ago

OTP

That’s a good addition. They bros over there lurv them some CT… I was trying to point out we can get here without a top secret top down pre-planned multi decade action to eliminate the population, just via opportunity and self interest.

kfg has been chiming in a bit over there, which is nice.

I really with Rollo would just post whatever new episode he shoots as new blog entry to kick start our discussions. Lost opportunity.

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
7 days ago

Gang, what views on private school vs public school for my 10 year old? We are in a very good school district and current school is very desirable for “UMC” parents but they are not good for all kids. Great for my daughter but not son, who they have basically abandoned as a jock who’s good at sports but academically bad (even though the issue is that he has moved around so much internationally that there are gaps in what he’s been taught and they never tried to fix it). They keep trying to suggest he has ADHD and I… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
7 days ago

Great topic OTP. I have a ton of experience with private, 5 kids prek to 12 etc.

Look for an in depth reply in a few days.
Bottom line – private is worth the 7 figures I spent on it.

Sentient
Sentient
6 days ago

In the meantime, park this here for future reference before PA deletes the entries. DEFINITIVE STATMENT ON COVID19 (Occam’s Razor) A “novel” coronarvirus was released from Wuhan lab. Like most coronaviruses, it is not particularly deadly (sub 2% even if using all their numbers) and is easily transmitted. Leftist forces see the ability to weaponize the virus, initially and specifically to hurt Trump’s reelection. This expands into typical military industrial complexesque big business interests. Leftist media piggybacks on daily news value of “pandemic” amplifying profits across the board. Big pharma rushes a poorly designed and ineffective savior vaccine to mint… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 days ago

@all thanks for the concern… i’m still dealing with my lungs being f*ked up… they are getting better though, i just weaned myself off the extra O2 last week for during the day… another week and i should be off it at night too… i’ve got an appointment with a ‘pulmonary specialist’ in early feb… so i should know how much i still have left to work through… i’m super weak too… i went to put away the christmas tree in the garage but i couldn’t get it onto the overhead shelf…lol… it only weighed about 20# but after carrying… Read more »

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