The Empress has no Clothes

Tomi Lahren vs. Rollo Tomassi.

I’ve had a lot of my YouTube subscribers tell me that my admittedly “long form” live stream videos are being chopped off at the 2 hour mark. I’ve been aware of this problem for a month now and as much as I’d like to suspect it’s YouTube/Google censorship, it’s really a compiling error between StreamYard (my streaming app) and how YouTube saves the video after it streams. I had to search for a fix right after the Will Smith / Jada Pinkett breakdown video I did was likewise chopped at the beginning. That was easily my most popular and best watched video on the channel and people wanted the whole damn thing.

I discovered a workaround. I noticed the entire video was in fact compiled on YouTube when I opened it in their editor software. However, the playback was limited to only 2 hours from the end of the clip back up to wherever the 2 hour mark was. The fix was simple: delete about 6-10 seconds of the silence before the intro music starts and then resave/recompile the video. Presto! The whole video is now watchable. Well, not exactly Presto!, it takes about half a day to recompile a 2:45:00 video on YouTube’s very slow encoders.

Needless to say, this is kind of frustrating when I dig into videos like Will Smith and now my dissection of Tomi Lahren’s dating/men ragequit video. Tomi’s fem-screech has been all the rage du jour in the Manosphere and on ProRevenge doompill YouTube since last Wednesday. You just can’t pass on that kind of Grade A, USDA Choice, Red Meat. Even Trad-Con women holding “legitimate” opinionist positions at some of the bigger news aggregate blogs had to put something out about raging Tomi’s meltdown. And as expected they were either piling on with her frustration about men not “living up to the responsibility of being Real Men® or else it was more unwitting anti-feminist feminism; the same thing Tomi has suffered from since she was 20.

Even with that ‘fix’ of recompiling the original video I’m still getting guys emailing/Tweeting to me that they can’t watch the whole thing on various formats (mobile, web, tablet, etc.). Maybe that’s because they need to clear their video cache, I don’t know, but I’ve taken it upon myself to host the full video on my own server here. This is the whole analysis of Tomi’s PSA to Boyish Men.

The Empress has no Clothes

This task gave me an occasion to review the whole thing in a better light. There’s so much going on in this video it’s hard to sum it up. Tomi’s will be 28 this month (August 2020). She’s right on schedule for her Epiphany Phase, and as a Farm League celebrity who happens to be reasonably attractive the end of her 20s are weighing heavy on her ego. For the record, I’ve been privy to some DMs from guys in my and Jon MLD’s communities who’ve dated (banged) Tomi and had some interesting details as to what prompted her to this ragequit. I’m not going to make these public. Honestly, it’s TMZ style salaciousness, but these conversations confirmed my initial assessment: Tomi is barreling headlong into the Epiphany Phase and it’s not pretty.

In the video I mention that Tomi needs to find some kind of humility. She’s arrogant, entitled, self-aggrandized and completely oblivious to the fact that her opinions of herself and her “attractive” girl-friends are in fact the product of the feminism she claims to despise. Insight, humility, grace and poise are among the many conventionally feminine characteristic the women of Tomi’s generation (and older) desperately lack. I’m sure Tomi and Co. would disagree, but increasingly more men today are realizing the Empress has no Clothes. Women today like to believe they already have these feminine traits – this is part of the Fempowerment narrative that teaches women they uniquely hold the attributes that make a woman a Quality woman, while also possessing all the best traits that make men admirable and respectable.

As mentioned in An Essay for Women, feminist ideology and gynocentrism has conditioned four generations of women to believe they can be the embodiment of the best of both genders. Self-fulfilling, independent and needing for nothing outside themselves (“You are enough girl.”), the women of Tomi’s generation are now discovering that the elite men they desire the most have the least use for them. Why would they? I’m not talking about MGTOW here, I’m talking about high SMV men in the global sexual marketplace who are in the Game and would like to eventually start a family with a devoted wife who needs him. If the best a woman of can be is a self-fulfilled, ego-assured, independent thing with no needs outside herself, why would she ever seek out an elite man? Why would a man be attracted to a woman who screeches at the top of her lungs,…

“It’ll be a cold day in Hell before I EVER CHASE A MAN!”

By definition, high value men – the men with their “shit together“, the men with a plan, the men who “value value” – have no attraction for a woman who publicly expresses she doesn’t need him. Now, Tomi and her Sisters doth protest too much. Her frustration with men is the result of her inability to accept that she does, in fact, need men; and her standards would predictably crumble given the right incentives. Granted, Tomi correctly assesses that the men of today are increasingly more effeminate, pussified, rudderless and apathetic than any generation that came before them. But ironically, she misses that the sad state of men today should make her even more hyperaware that her bitchy, self-entitled and decidedly masculinized sense of self is unattractive to the elite men she believes she and her sisters deserve.

The prime directive of feminism is:

Never do anything for the express pleasure of a man.

Since the post-Sexual Revolution rise of gynocentrism, this feminist maxim has played well with women’s empowerment messaging. There was a time (from the late 60s to late 90s) when men identifying with the feminine – getting in touch with their emotions – was a form of Game. Misguided as it was, men were taught that by supporting, identifying with, and empowering women they would be adapting to that era’s sexual marketplace. Today, this is old order thinking, but the legacy of those generations’ beliefs about women are what is causing such frustration in Tomi’s generation.

It’s too easy to just dismiss her as another entitled, stuck up bitch heading for her date with the Epiphany Phase and the Wall. The problem, and the solution to it, is right in front of her generation’s face. No man needs a woman who has no need for him. Men and women evolved to be complements to one another. This Complementarity and gender interdependence is one of the greatest adaptive strengths of our species, yet the surest way to debase and destroy it is to foment the idea of autonomous, androgynous, independence of one sex.

Tomi Lahren is a Feminist in the truest sense of the term. In one breath she screams men are trash, and in the next she claims to love men. This is the cognitive dissonance that generations of feminism embeds in women. Years of socio-psychological upbringing trains them to distrust, despise and emancipate themselves from men, while at the same time their evolved, biological, mental firmware cries in frustration for a need of men to love, protect, provide and sexually satisfy them.

This inner conflict becomes more and more stressful as this generation of young women approach the Epiphany Phase. One conflicting shift I see among this crop of young women is a greater, and earlier, awareness that they will be less likely to optimize Hypergamy with an acceptable, elite, man they are taught to believe they all deserve. Settling for anything less than optimal is anathema to the Strong Independent Woman ideal; settling for a suboptimal man is the main source of inner conflict for the Equal-but-Better expectations women place on today’s admittedly lacking men.

This is what Tomi is screaming and crying about.

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10 months ago

The fact that there are men who believe CONservative woman celebrities in modern-day USA are not feminists is hard to believe. But I guess, there are more than a few of those..

On a different topic, here is a recent series on my blog about how late capitalism aka financialism has made it hard for most people in this country to obtain what was considered as basic needs (affordable housing, education, healthcare etc) even 2-3 decades ago.

https://dissention.wordpress.com/?s=On+the+Necessity+of+Being+a+Multi-Millionaire+under+Late+Capitalism

luke
luke
10 months ago

Share the DMs please, or at leastt he gist of them. I’d like to understand more.

Two Hatchet Tok
Two Hatchet Tok
10 months ago

Since the post-Sexual Revolution rise of gynocentrism, this feminist maxim has played well with women’s empowerment messaging. Empowerment messaging. Let me give you some recent examples I came across directed at both young girls and old broads. Hallmark movie from a week ago. Chick goes to Lake Tahoe for a vacation. Leaves her Beta Bucks boyfriend in the city. Comes across her childhood ex, her first love, guy has “sexy” career of being a hot-air balloonist and former commercial pilot. The emotional affair begins with the ex, reconnecting and now their new connection is deeper than with Beta Bucks left… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
10 months ago

That Hallmark movie would, I imagine, be considered outside the bounds of good taste 70 years ago.

Not at all. It was expected given the nature of women. And a common theme It’s only the last 30 years or so that feminists and their allies have been able to pull off this new narrative.

See Clash by Night

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GDjkrXkVVZI

Or Double Indemnity

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yKrrAa2o9Eg

Or just about any movie with Barbara Stanwyck lol

Michael Mabus
Michael Mabus
10 months ago

The feminist and the simp are mirror images of each other. The simp tries to identify with the feminine by becoming “sensitive” and emotionally vulnerable, when he would be happiest embracing his natural masculinity. When his white knight strategy fails, he experiences tremendous emotional turmoil. The feminist tries to identify with the masculine by becoming “strong and independent” when she would be happiest submitting to a worthy man who can protect and provide for her. When she hits the epiphany phase, she also experiences tremendous emotional turmoil. That’s what happens when you try to ignore the nature side of the… Read more »

anythinggoes75
anythinggoes75
10 months ago

The lack of insight that Rollo speaks of with modern women like Tomi is clearly evident with her world-wide rant against men. Her chances now of finding the perfect family Disney life are even worse after her viral video. She is an awesome example of the female specimen, but she has no idea or cares what makes her desirable to men and thus ensuring her survival and offspring’s survival. Tomi gives a list of things for men to follow to attract women like her and doesn’t realize men are turned-off by that list and now her chances of finding her… Read more »

Yes Anonymous
Yes Anonymous
10 months ago

Thank you for this blog post.

As a woman, I now realise I haven’t been making myself clear to Him that I NEED the man I am interested in.

Thank you also for properly spelling/using the word complementary.

Thank you also for a link to wordpress’ how to set up your own blog. I will probaby do a learning femininity one.

IAS
IAS
10 months ago

@Rollo: I don’t think men want a woman that needs him. I want the woman to want me. The difference between need and want here is not just a semantics detail. This ties into the AF / BB duality, sometimes referred to as “seed vs need”. I want the desire sex, the “seed” side. I had the similar issue with your classic “Men need sex” post. We need oxygen… We want sex. I get why you use the word “need” both in that classic post and here, and I can come up with a catchy phrase like “She needs the… Read more »

Red Pill dosed.
Red Pill dosed.
10 months ago

I am 48 Now and I remember seeing this being stated by women when I was in my 20’s. These same women would blow me off and disregard me, and use the 4 letter word…. NICE in relation to being a NICE GUY…. They are not interested in. Yup I was a blue pill beta…. I got tired of that mentallity. Now I hear these same women and women like them complain that all the good men are taken and the rest are handicapped. Have I married correctly… Well I can see hypergamy in play during my marriage. There are… Read more »

Boris
Boris
10 months ago

I really hope you fix your problems! Stay strong, stay sharp and good luck!

Red Pill dosed.
Red Pill dosed.
10 months ago
Reply to  Boris

@Boris

thanks for the Sentiments. Hopefully Luck does not play a part. But I will be looking to keep on top of things as best as I can.

walawala
walawala
10 months ago

There is a specific button in beta men that is activated by a woman’s “challenge” for a “real man”… It’s the guys who got picked last in Red Rover and other team sports.

They feel that by qualifying themselves to women they’re virtue-signalling. It’s a bad habit that takes a whole mindset shift to change and discipline to maintain.

Whenever a girl I’m gaming says “I”m a feminist” my go-to response which I saw somewhere on one of these boards–possibly here or Roissy’s—is “Be a better woman rather than a sub-standard man.”

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
10 months ago
Reply to  walawala

Yeah, it plugs straight into the FI matrix…

Be a REAL MAN = get the woman.

Just like your mom always said you would

Sharkly
10 months ago

I won’t ever watch any YouTube video much over 25 minutes. The shorter the video, the more likely I’ll watch it. I’m sure there are others like me who value their time.

Craig
Craig
10 months ago
Reply to  Sharkly

There is thing called “settings” where you can select the desired playback speed you want. Sounds like 2x is what you’re looking for. Hey, you’re welcome, bro.

The Silver FoX
The Silver FoX
10 months ago

Available women who tell you they are a “feminist” when engaging/flirting with you are truly gagging for you to prove that you are, in fact, a real, masculine man. And if you are indeed masculine with your own authentic MPO (Mental Point of Origin) and have good enough game, they will eagerly submit their true feminine selves to you and be most grateful for the opportunity to do so…

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
10 months ago
Reply to  The Silver FoX

Good to see you still around Fox. Yes, what you describe is just a shit test. Especially in girls whose age is somewhere near 3 – 0.

The Silver FoX
The Silver FoX
10 months ago

Cheers AR. How you travelling, bro…

JM
JM
10 months ago

That is insightful, a shit test, not just for one man, but for the entire masculine gender, or, perhaps more poignantly, a shit test for herself, in other words, she is panicked about whether she has the goods to lock down any man (and have a baby) before she hits the wall.

Nostnar
Nostnar
10 months ago

I don’t think it’s necessary a bad thing. Population growth needs to come down anyway. Let these girls become deadends.

Mihc
Mihc
10 months ago
Reply to  Nostnar

What a sight that would be, if many fewer men where pussy adorers 🙂

Mihc
Mihc
10 months ago
Reply to  Mihc

were* lol

Red Pill Dosed.
Red Pill Dosed.
9 months ago
Reply to  Mihc

After seeing Aliens, I sort of went off looking at pussies. The whole Face Hugger thing and having your chest ripped open after the ingestation period, I am sure is foreshadowing about the plight of Beta Bucks Men going through the divorce system in Australia.

I nice set of tits works so much better for me and also research has proven that for men looking at breasts and attractive naked women is good for their blood pressure.

Anony1
Anony1
10 months ago

She shot herself in the foot with that video. Internet is forever and now everybody knows how she really is. She can’t fool nobody now.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
10 months ago
Reply to  Anony1

She can’t fool nobody now.

Eh, don’t underestimate Beta thirst. She can crank out an “Oh, I’m so different now!’ vid in a couple of years and some guy with a craft beard will perk up & start chasing.

Anony1
Anony1
10 months ago

But she won’t settle for a beta.

Red Pill Dosed.
Red Pill Dosed.
9 months ago
Reply to  Anony1

After the Wall she will have no choice…. The tick Tock clock spanks the hamster on the wheel. The beat is BETA BUCKS BETA BUCKS.

With the Mentioning of the Wall I keep thinking back to Game of Thrones when men would be sent to the wall to defend the north….

Tomi should take the Black…… LOL.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
10 months ago

@AR

The whole point of her frustration is she is finding herself totally unable to consolidate on a man of any value.

Listen to what she is saying, and how pissed she gets that THOSE men are chasing much younger thots that don’t have a career etc..

She’s pissed that the men she wants aren’t chasing but she’s too ego invested to look on the mirror.

Rudolph
Rudolph
10 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

It isn’t just a man of “any” value. It seems likely that she can get a good guy with a good job who knows how to escalate and be the man in the relationship. There are likely a bunch of guys looking to get married and have a family who aren’t full on doormats that Tomi and her friends could lock down. They’re not men of no value they just aren’t good enough for her or her friends. I’m no Alpha but I don’t need told to escalate to a date and make the plans and what have you. But… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
10 months ago
Reply to  Rudolph

@Rudolph “It isn’t just a man of “any” value.” I probably could have phrased that better. What I meant was was “a man of some value as opposed to a man of no value” “Even her much older peers who are still a version of slender don’t think I’m good enough.” I’m 52 and don’t have any trouble banging anything age appropriate (10 years younger). I’ve still got a mental block with younger but I’ve spent a lot of time lately with a 24 yo and I’ve learned so much from it I think I’ll probably break that duck soon.… Read more »

James Kirby
James Kirby
10 months ago

Great post! Tomi provided real meat to the red pill. Thankfully Rollo provided an excellent breakdown of Tomi’s discourse. Though it can be difficult to learn from others experience. I think this could be a red, (pill) letter day for a lot of men. Confirmation, beyond reasonable doubt.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
10 months ago

With all the remote conferencing that’s been going on for months, I’ve had the opportunity to see a whole variety of home video setups. Not just work related but also on CNBC. There is really no excuse for poor lighting that makes someone appear to be in a cave or a bunker. Someone tell Tomi. Rollo As mentioned in An Essay for Women, feminist ideology and gynocentrism has conditioned four generations of women to believe they can be the embodiment of the best of both genders Sure, because you also have pointed out multiple times men must become while women… Read more »

Please
Please
10 months ago

@AR

“This girl is indeed a manifestation of what young 20-something and 30-something men face, and the cog-dis is getting worse, not better for a variety of reasons.”

It’s also the landscape that 50 yo men find themselves in if they are pitching younger.. smh..

I’ll bet you £1 she doesn’t settle, and just gets more and more bitter. That’s what I’m seeing happen to that type of woman where I live in the people’s republic of ghey and feminist utopia.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
10 months ago
Reply to  Please

^^ that was me – predictive text on the iPhone 🙄

Rudolph
Rudolph
10 months ago
Reply to  Please

It isn’t just younger. It is just pitching any woman who is still at least a vague version of slender. They are awash in attention and still want to hold out for “better.” I suspect on some level it becomes a feminine excuse or buffer so that she doesn’t have to change or improve herself or learn any girl-game.

Sentient
Sentient
10 months ago
Reply to  Rudolph

Learn some Game Rudy. Be a guy who creates the emotional spike. You will see things differently.

These late 20s 6/7 career girls are fish in a barrel for a 50 yo game aware guy.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
10 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

@Sentient I’ve spent a load of time in the car over the last week doing some unusual stuff and it’s shone some lite on red pill truths. Two things: Ref the above I’ve been looking at small boats with a 24 yo bar manager with “daddy issues” so I’ve spent a couple of days in the car with her. On the start of the first day she’s nervous chatting downloading her entire life subject hopping, reciting stories of childhood / boyfriends / nervously hanging onto the door handle. Doesn’t know what to do / where to go / how to… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
10 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

@PalmaSailor

just popped in… and this popped off the page for me…

the FI is cunning and pervasive…

Ref the above I’ve been looking at small boats with a 24 yo bar manager with “daddy issues” so I’ve spent a couple of days in the car with her.

tell me why it triggered me…lol… and then rephrase this in a more positive (to both of you) way…

good luck!

theasdgamer
10 months ago
Reply to  Rudolph

Rudy, I’m over 60 and overweight and I’m masked at Walmart and going through self-check. First, a hot 20-something cashier I’ve noticed before comes over unasked and Okays my alcohol. It’s rare that checkers do that unasked where I shop. (Never had the occasion to chat with her.) Then, as I’m strolling out, she’s at the exit and ignores the guy in front of me and I’m looking straight ahead but watching out of the corner of my eye and she stares at me and I turn to look at her and she says “have a good day.” I look… Read more »

Rudolph
Rudolph
9 months ago
Reply to  theasdgamer

What’s your point with the story? I get that stuff too. There is nothing so interesting as indifference. Open her and come back and tell us how interested she is. Sometimes Elektra only wants daddy’s attention. Look, these guys are right. I do have a bit of a mindset issue. I do not have a fear to open issue or a shyness issue. I do not have an uncalibrated zero social skills or awareness issue. I do not have an ignoring a good thing right in front of me issue. I do not have a this girl is out of… Read more »

JM
JM
10 months ago

Excellent analysis, yes, her bleached blond costume can no longer provide cover for her complete lack of femininity. She is predictably panicked about the beginning of her epiphany phase because she senses that no high SMV men are interested in masculinized women like her. Compared to models of femininity like Grace Kelly, Ursula Andress, Ann Margaret, Raquel Welch, Bo Derek, Princess Diana, etc., she is a zero. And perhaps that is part of the problem with today’s women, they have no models or frame of reference of authentic femininity, particularly highly successful feminine women.

Olongapo
Olongapo
10 months ago

Painful and embarrassing to listen to. I have actually left two different women in hotel rooms in cities we had traveled to for R&R when this was thrown in my face and I didn’t budge in my frame. They escalated to the point of yelling and I shut up,packed my shit, and went home. Their pussies were just, well, pussies, and I got no tolerance anymore. This is because I’m old and had been zero’ed out twice in marriages. Ms. Lahren IMHO, is an asshole. I do feel for younger guys facing this. She probably ain’t real pleasant to be… Read more »

Fact
Fact
10 months ago

“This is going to be the summer of canceling boys”.

I can believe she actually said that. What a khunt.

She’s already peaked, and on the way down. She will be blaming on her unhappiness on men increasingly until she is insufferable.

The Silver FoX
The Silver FoX
10 months ago
Reply to  Fact

She is already way beyond insufferable, Fact…

Sentient
Sentient
10 months ago

Tomi is a squared off 7 and sliding fast. She’s lost all the feminine soft features around her face she had when younger. She is the tradcon version of the brunette with problem glasses… She should have closed the Navy SEAL when younger. Now she has to work her hair teeth and angles for all they are worth. If you saw her out getting her latte in yoga pants you’d look past her frowning face at the lithe 19 yo volleyball player who is smiling. In a couple of years she will marry a late 40s beta tradcon type coming… Read more »

walawala
walawala
10 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

You left out: And bang the 19 year old pool boy while away in Vegas on a “Girls’ Weekend”…

Sentient
Sentient
10 months ago
Reply to  walawala

You know Wala a lot of them would like to but most aren’t bold enough to make the first move and damn few 19 yo guys are.

So late life Tomi is extra frustrated and bitchy.

The Silver FoX
The Silver FoX
10 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

Hey Sentient. Great comment, but this bland ho don’t need to be drunk to get loud and bossy. It’s her natural, entitled, feminist setting…

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
10 months ago

It’s taking multiple days for me to finish this ‘cast, in time segments, hence my somewhat disjointed comments. Right about the 2:00 mark Rollo suggests that maybe the problem isn’t all the men around the world from LA to wherever, maybe Tomi has a problem. Solipsism, pride and hypergamy – over and over that’s what we see. It’s even better to find those properties in the church ladies, too, which Tomi is sorta kinda an example of. But why should we care about this audio / video essay and even share it? Because Rollo’s monologue in response to her badly… Read more »

kfg
kfg
10 months ago

” . . . she’s just a really obvious example of a standard model cute girl . . .”

. . . in a room full of Celine Dion.

Fact
Fact
10 months ago

Tradcon males, purple pill, think Tomi Lahren is hot.

They are down to let her establish frame, play along with her shit testing, and try to prove to her that they are real men and not boys.

thedeti
thedeti
10 months ago

In my view, at least a 50% chance Lahren tries to send this very ill advised video down the memory hole.

She will regret putting this out there. It makes her look totally unreasonable and like the feminists she derides.

Sentient
Sentient
10 months ago

Palma

Well 10 hours you should be well on your way to banging her.

You and ASa on a yacht. Can’t wait to hear the tales. What’s it like?

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
10 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

Sentient

Modest – 30’ built for racing, but slightly dated. Excellent externally and mechanically but needs love internally as has been owned by a hardcore yachtie who DGAF about fluffy shit.

Apart from banging women on it well definitely race it.

I’m not going back to work – I’m going to take 6 months to re fit it.

https://imgur.com/a/EQ49vjh

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
10 months ago

Maybe Tomi’s just cranky because she didn’t get in on the stock options at McD’s? Sentient put this up over at Archie’s, it’s work a little analysis here. I mean, beyond the Homer Simpson “D’OH!” level of analysis.

https://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2020/08/mcdonalds-ceo-sent-nude-photos-of-employees-over-work-email-lawsuit-says/

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
10 months ago

@HABD Well… it pinged you’re depth sounder bc she’s extracting resource from me. And you’re thinking thats bc she’s got the golden V. And you’re right. She’s extracting a resource that a man in a similar situation wouldn’t have access to bc he doesn’t have a golden V. The thing to remember is that I’m single in the people’s republic of ghey and my entire social life is comprised of 3-4 blue pill alpha guys. (Plus one red pill alpha just recently) And I’ve had to work to find them. So they decided to “help” her and I’m doing a… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
10 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

@PalmaSailor

@HABD

Well… it pinged you’re depth sounder bc she’s extracting resource from me. And you’re thinking thats bc she’s got the golden V. And you’re right.

nope… try again… (although what you just said was actually true…lol… try to disparage yourself and her a bit less…)

original quote…

Ref the above I’ve been looking at small boats with a 24 yo bar manager with “daddy issues” so I’ve spent a couple of days in the car with her.

its a frame of reference issue…

good luck!

wahoo
wahoo
10 months ago

Palma, it is a simple case of who is with whom? You got your bewith backwards.

having a bad day
having a bad day
10 months ago
Reply to  wahoo

@PalmaSailor

This^^^ too…lol… but there’s more… it’s subtle…

good luck!

The Silver FoX
The Silver FoX
10 months ago

Excellent video analysis, Rollo. But please, this thot is not even close to an 8. She might have been 6 years ago, but now she’s heading to the Wall fast and she’s gonna hit it very hard. Her chubby arms are a dead giveaway, let alone bleached-blonde hair accompanied by sunnies (poor look inside) and whiny, grating voice and awful personality. Imagine being with her at 40??!!! Go find yourself a young Asian hottie gentlemen, definitely not one from the USA. MAGA? Ditch Trump and hoes like this…

The Silver FoX
The Silver FoX
10 months ago

Actually, Rollo, the ladyboys of Thailand are way more feminine in nature (and usually appearance) than horrid, masculine females like Tomi and most likely all her friends. Just this fact alone is why the West is a doomed culture for masculine men looking to get with a genuinely feminine (real) woman…

Sentient
Sentient
10 months ago

Wahoo is back…

Where is Black? Banned? RIP?

What gives?

wahoo
wahoo
10 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

“Wahoo is back…”

I never left really ,just been lurking and preoccupied with a rebuild project. I have a bulldog mindset that when I contract a job it becomes my focal point until completed.

I’m guessing @Blax is either lurking or moved on to more friendly waters. He may have got canned,most of his commenting was done on company time and now he may be too busy in the real world to speak his mind.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
10 months ago

@HABD / Sentient / wahoo Well aaahaarrree now here’s the thing. Although I’ve bought a boat, the thing that I probably didn’t make clear is that she is also trying to buy a boat for herself (don’t ask) but doesn’t know what she is looking at. Yeah. I know. So… she was the one looking at the boat and proposing to make the purchase even though she was in my car with me. On that basis I think I got it the right way around, and I think I was with her. This then addresses the “daddy issues” thing. You’re… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
10 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

@PalmaSailor This then addresses the “daddy issues” thing. You’re thinking I’m thinking (subconsciously) that she’s only with me bc of those hence it looks like I’m disparaging myself. yep… and ‘daddy issues’ is a disparagement to BOTH of you… and it’s the FI in play… and note – there is not even a ‘non-disparaging’ phrase/word/concept for ‘young attractive woman interested in an (evolutionarily sound/natural) relationship with an older man’… at least not one that is popping into my head…lol… lots of negative ones though…lol The truth is much much much worse: I’ve ended up helping her buy a boat (I… Read more »

wahoo
wahoo
10 months ago

Palma “So… she was the one looking at the boat and proposing to make the purchase even though she was in my car with me. On that basis I think I got it the right way around, and I think I was with her.” In a world where we build and fix things on a constant basis structures like boats , buildings and vehicles become sacred to us men and we give them purpose and meaning enough to take precedence over a situation. Having architect planed and built for single women (they are all just girls) I too like to… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago

@HABD / Wahoo The whole thing was the FI in play and me going along with it bc I didn’t want to “be a twat” in my very select alpha (but partially very blue pill) social group. It’s taken a long time to find any men I actually like hanging out with but nothing is perfect.. I did also have an agenda. But more or less Guilty as charged your honour!!! The girl is a sort of “ward of the court” of the social set bc she runs our local pub and is popular but fucked up and someone else… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

@PalmaSailor The girl is a sort of “ward of the court” of the social set bc she runs our local pub and is popular but fucked up and someone else had the “good idea” that she could live on a boat. No one else knew jack shit about them so all eyes landed on me. I hadn’t even talked about or thought seriously about buying one for myself at that stage (it was in the plan for later) and I’ve never gone through that process so I did it. ya know, now that you explain it, this didn’t hurt you… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago

^^ by the way we hadn’t washed after our recreation. We’d just picked up our clothes from the floor and put those on and walked to the pub.

wahoo
wahoo
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

Palma, Catching up while having my morning cup of jo. Congrats on getting the boat , I will lay odds that 6 mos or less and you give her the boot for a land lubber and set off on the open sea alone. The boys down the road are adopting a 30 yo “hottie”, CPA just bought in to the ranch and trying to develop and build on 20 acres. The latest is she got a bid on her access road at $27,000 and decided to rent a D5 for $3,000 and do it herself (strong independent woman). If any… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
9 months ago
Reply to  wahoo

The latest is she got a bid on her access road at $27,000 and decided to rent a D5 for $3,000 and do it herself Stick some game cameras out near her road-to-be so you can get vid of the fun. Her $3K tuition may work out. Or she might need to pay more. If any have mastered the dozer it takes about 200 hrs to learn just to push dirt without taking a dive for the other side of the planet. A friend of mine drove graders and dozers for several years in an open pit mining environment. He… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

PalmaSailor
by the way …

Heh, reminds me of this tender love ballad. Frank is rarely SFW.

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago

Palma

she instantly backtracks. Astonishingly she “does actually quite like Boris”

Reminds me of two mid twenties San Francisco lawyer girls. They were on about Trump and then I started pushing back and they started to come round the same way. Then we got on to Hitler and not long after they were both giggling in agreement that “he had some good qualities”. They were Jewish mind you… Left them both in a headlock each side of me and kissing their squeezing heads good-bye.

It’s all shit testing and looking for a solid frame to draft in…

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

I’m coming to the conclusion that everything to do with all women should be considered a shit test first and foremost.

They slip in left right and centre without you seeing half of them.

having a bad day
having a bad day
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

@PalmaSailor I’m coming to the conclusion that everything to do with all women should be considered a shit test first and foremost. They slip in left right and centre without you seeing half of them. NOW you’re getting it…lol… and being able to spot (most of) them in real time just takes practice… lots and lots of practice…lol… what’s the most important purpose for a girl in nature?… = procreation… do you think evolution would leave that sh*t to a girl’s overt/conscious decision-making?…lol… THAT tribe died out a looong time ago…lol it’s all on an unconscious level… so they don’t/can’t… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
9 months ago

do you think evolution would leave that sh*t to a girl’s overt/conscious decision-making?…lol… THAT tribe died out a looong time ago…lol

Yep. Hadn’t thought of it that way before, but…yep.

Closest model for a tribe like that would be lesbians. We’ve all heard of “lesbian bed death”, right?

it’s all on an unconscious level… so they don’t/can’t even see it themselves… but that filtering is always on…

Even when it’s off it’s on.

wahoo
wahoo
9 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

“by the way we hadn’t washed after our recreation. We’d just picked up our clothes from the floor and put those on and walked to the pub.”

LOL Palma,The pheromonal Alpha.

And “her herb of a “partner” is sitting there right next to her saying nothing”. Does he even wonder what just happened? Will he even try to dis you and say you are gay? Will he just lay down the next time she says “on your belly whore” and take the strapon in the ass like a real man?

Do I care? M Nah!

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago

Squealing

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago

@HABD The chess pieces may have moved again bc Since I’ve gone through the motions of the above I’ve realised it’s a bullshit decision for her and she shouldn’t do it . So I’ve phoned the social set and told them that this is the case for xyz reasons; and I’m not going any further with it. Then I phoned her and said “two things, firstly I don’t have time to do this anymore bc I have shit to do (drink cold beer and move my own yacht), and secondly, it’s the wrong idea, it’ll end in tears and I… Read more »

wahoo
wahoo
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

Palma , got rained out so here goes. In my world (#Wahoo vision) leaving a dog alone implies respect to the owner, and inviting somebody to feed your dog implies trust as in inviting them into your home unsupervised. Now I doubt if the woman understands this as I do but if she did she in essence invited you into her world. On another note my experience in gaming towns is they employed the largest mass of T-rupm haters-pp kissing birds missing the wing to the east port libgressive prolerals i’ve ever met in one place. Aaand since the shuttering… Read more »

kfg
kfg
9 months ago
Reply to  wahoo

” . . . inviting somebody to feed your dog . . .”

. . . is inviting them to tell the dog that they are one of the people responsible for its upkeep. She invited Palma into the dog’s world, as someone to beg from, shirking her own responsibility to and for the dog.

Which is shitty discipline.

Palma’s response was correct. That is not his job.

But if he wanted to I bet Palma could AMOG her in nothing flat and that dog would never see her as its true master ever again.

wahoo
wahoo
9 months ago
Reply to  kfg

KFG, thats the new order of thinking and I agree in this case as the dog is a pet and not a worker.My dogs are guard dogs and hunters, I don’t wan’t anyone else to feed them,they need to protect my stuff and follow my commands.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

PalmaSailor
Bc I can be a nerd I’ve read the accounts for the city transport system.

Family member just got on an airliner because he had to travel about 1,500 miles and didn’t have time to drive.

Ticket cost $80. Plane was…not full. I dunno what the next airline bailout is gonna look like, but there will be one.

liz
liz
9 months ago

They’re not allowed to have full planes, and I think there’s a moratorium on international travel (at least, on the receiving end…think some countries aren’t allowing US residents to visit). They’ve been doing a lot of cargo runs though, which might help make ends meet for some. I know the Korean Air took a profit for the first time in a long while recently, via doing cargo runs. American, United, Delta will furlough this fall (they signed an agreement when they took the government money not to furlough until November I think). SWA has never furloughed anyone, and their credit… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

@AR
“We’ve all heard of “lesbian bed death”, right?”

No.. please explain

Whut? Seriously? There’s even a wiki entry for it!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesbian_bed_death

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago

Honestly I didn’t know – but it doesn’t surprise me bc a load of them are joyless great beests that wouldn’t raise wood on even the most desperate incel.. So those ones are lesbian bc they’re out of Hetro options.

Plus I think that if the man doesn’t generate the desire a lot of the time, then none is generated.

ie women do feel desire, but only when a man has generated it.

I’ve sensed in Lesbian couples that one gets jealous if you talk to the other one sometimes.

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

Women have responsive desire.

having a bad day
having a bad day
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

@PalmaSailor @HABD The chess pieces may have moved again bc Since I’ve gone through the motions of the above I’ve realised it’s a bullshit decision for her and she shouldn’t do it . So I’ve phoned the social set and told them that this is the case for xyz reasons; and I’m not going any further with it. Then I phoned her and said “two things, firstly I don’t have time to do this anymore bc I have shit to do (drink cold beer and move my own yacht), and secondly, it’s the wrong idea, it’ll end in tears and… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago

@HABD “your FRs are seeming to indicate that girls are opening you more now too…lol” Well since you mention it, I mean where do I start… it’s quite surreal. I’m running at 100% dinner out / open ratio. Field reports below, but first, it’s not just me: Old friend, he with EEGF, has reported in highly smug with himself. EEGF is stranded back home bc “unrest” and she can’t get out and internet access has been pulled. So he’s flying solo while she is prob seeking out an alpha chad to bang [protect her from the bogeymen]. Recently his mid… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

Go on then, what do you make of that lot??

huge shit testing.. just huge.. and I’m more interested in Monday’s tides and wind direction If the truth be known.

You’re in a funk?

where is the “get on cam” guy? she’s up for playing and you’re just laying back. It’s a tennis match with a soft serve and no volley.

You know they are going to test and you know how to have fun with it. so? What’s the big deal?

having a bad day
having a bad day
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

@PalmaSailor @HABD “your FRs are seeming to indicate that girls are opening you more now too…lol” Well since you mention it, I mean where do I start… it’s quite surreal. I’m running at 100% dinner out / open ratio. Field reports below, but first, it’s not just me: Old friend, he with EEGF, has reported in highly smug with himself. EEGF is stranded back home bc “unrest” and she can’t get out and internet access has been pulled. So he’s flying solo while she is prob seeking out an alpha chad to bang [protect her from the bogeymen]. Recently his… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago

@HABD

“if you know what you are looking at, that sh*t’s everywhere…lol…“

Like this on the train today. Yes that is my knee you perv..
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wahoo
wahoo
9 months ago

I am sure to have mentioned installing a hypergamy meter rigged to sense buying temp as a predictive tool for civil unrest. He will get plenty of offers. Things are getting tight in some spots here as well. The gaming biz iz all but shut the casino workers the ones that are left say it is dead as winter and no tips. Gaming town residents for sale and the borrowed munny is more than the curent demand will carry. They will be walking on mortgizages like it is 08. The remote build is in vogue,if I was younger I would… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago
Reply to  wahoo

“I am sure to have mentioned installing a hypergamy meter rigged to sense buying temp as a predictive tool for civil unrest.”

If you did then I missed it.. I’d like to know more..

I’m pissing off the deck anyway by the way

walawala
walawala
9 months ago

I tried a social experiment to see if there was a difference between the girls I usually meet and bang under 30 and a 41 year old I met online. The two age groups do have some things in common, there is this idea that they want to think they’re the only one you’re banging….but the under 20 is less confident and does more to keep you interested while the 41 year old says it but knows it’s impossible so doesn’t care. Despite wanting a steady relationship of some kind, the 41 year old I banged never bothered to contact… Read more »

JM
JM
9 months ago
Reply to  walawala

Remember when it was revealed that Tiger had sixteen girlfriends? go back and watch the videos of some of them being interviewed: each one said that they thought they were “the only one.” It seems to be a symptom of female solipsism.

Stefan
Stefan
9 months ago

Man, western women are so fuckin difficult, seriously. As an eastern european living in the UK, british HB7s won’t touch me with a 10 foot pole, lol, whereas back home much more realistic to get with a nice feminine HB7. I know a lot of eastern european guys who lived in the UK and were fuckin incels for years, couldnt get single pussy, and decided to go back to their countries and boom, a few months pass and they get something, and most admitted that they had to leave due to lack of pussy. One close friend couldnt get anything… Read more »

JM
JM
9 months ago
Reply to  Stefan

I agree 100%. I am an American and have a circle of eastern European immigrant friends. The women are very feminine. I have experienced the same distinction in women who have emigrated from the Philippines and Columbia.

Red Pill Dosed.
Red Pill Dosed.
9 months ago
Reply to  Stefan

spend the money on getting a hooker…. it will be cheaper in the long run….

That way you get to choose the best of the bunch and you dont have them following you afterwards.

Stefan
Stefan
9 months ago

Nah, sex with hookers is like 1/10th of sex with a girl that wants you. It’s just an expensive wank. Transactional sex is complete shit, I prefer to wank and think of the past validational sex that I had with ex gfs than have pure transcational sex. Hookers are really waste of time and money.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago
Reply to  Stefan

@Stefan

^^ this is absolutely correct and it’s why we take apart minute elements of interactions over at field reports.

It isn’t just the sex that’s 1000x better, it’s the entire interaction with a woman that absolutely and totally desires you.

She just can’t get enough. And being in that place is where the fun is, and also where the protection from divorce rape, false allegations and everything else is.

Martin
Martin
9 months ago

Comon on Rollo, he is not that good looking dude, yeah no brad pitt but the guy is 6’3 minimum and women are super hard on height, the is the one phisical attribute they won’t concede. So, you won’t need to be a brad pitt so as long as you are super tall.

Damon
Damon
9 months ago
Reply to  Martin

I know girls went for short guys ditching dumb tall guy in university.

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago

Red Pill Dosed Stefan File under “Alpha’s have very different reference experiences” Rather, his past suggests a lone wolf, a charming but violent con artist who, over the past 30 years, has roamed the country under myriad aliases, leaving fear and wreckage in his wake. At least seven women have accused him of kidnapping and rape. Two of these women said Parrillo held them captive for more than a year, and that he sired a child with them. Parrillo has never been charged for mistreating women, but the accusations that women have made against him—to me and to others—are remarkably… Read more »

Stefan
Stefan
9 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

I read most of the article but i still don’t understand what you mean.
What does this con artist / rapist/ whatever guy has to do with any of this?
Why are you saying he is an alpha if women are reporting him for sexual assault?

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago
Reply to  Stefan

@Stefan

They didn’t report him for sexual assault.

“No charges have been filed against the alleged perpetrator.“

He did what he wanted and they wanted him back too badly to file charges.

wahoo
wahoo
9 months ago
Reply to  Stefan

Stefan, totally agree with you man, don’t know where sentient gets alpha out of this nut job bitch POS. The “woman” in the article isn’t even the article, xi is actually a 62yo transvestite. So the “man” is a pathological liar that can only get by on fraud and he lived on the trail w/ a 60+yo tranny annie and repeatedly beat and raped the guy. The other ones were afraid to report him because he threatned their families and was obviously unstable.

wahoo
wahoo
9 months ago
Reply to  wahoo

This was the victim that Parillo singled out of the bunch. Keith was a victim his whole life of some scam or another. Alpha doesn’t look for vics .

“When she was 16 and living a quotidian middle-class life with her parents in San Francisco, she ran away for eight weeks, hitchhiking to New Jersey and back. Moon identified as male at the time. When she was 20, she took another bold move and underwent sex reassignment surgery, changing her legal name from Keith Marchington to Kira Marchington-Moon.”

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago
Reply to  wahoo

@Wahoo Yeah some are pieces of shit, most criminals are alpha but they get women (and a lot of other things they want) on their own terms. https://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/news/liverpool-news/former-girlfriends-describe-life-alpha-18039690 How many nice guys can’t even get one date and one of these women went out with this ^^ piece of shit for 2 years. I used to employ women that got the shit beaten out of them by the bloke, he’d go inside for time and there would be a court order. He can’t go within x miles of her. Etc.. When he got out she’d come in black and blue… Read more »

wahoo
wahoo
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

Palma “Yeah some are pieces of shit, most criminals are alpha…” Most criminals are beta that can’t make it honest,either to stupid or to weak. They can fool the hamster in her hind brain and she will keep going back for abuse,it is the best she can do. This particular guy went to prison and likely got ass raped there on a regular basis. He was a homeless guy preying on backpacking yuppies in their REI gear and knuckled under a sanfransisco cocksucker. So ya I doubt if @ sentient even read the whole thing. Transvetites don’t have a reproductive… Read more »

wahoo
wahoo
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor
Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago
Reply to  Stefan

Gentlefolk I posted this guy because Alpha is about attraction and frame. And the reference experiences that result. My man here spent THIRTY YEARS taking what he wanted from numerous women, even having kids with them. He is not here posting about how terrible women treat men and how unfare things are… Consider THAT… The tranny part was an Easter egg… Been down this road with Scray and Ya. Truth is gay or bi guys are often very alpha and have very very strong frames. Alpha is amoral and not a sexual preference. Wrap your heads around that and let… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

A better shot of Jack and the boys
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wahoo
wahoo
9 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

sentient, nice try but ((gong)). “I posted this guy because Alpha is about attraction and frame. And the reference experiences that result.” His main attraction was ” I am deaf and dumb,my truck is broke” = helpless puppy that needs nurture and saved. Next he ticks the provider box ” I have a check coming.” Then after isolating he starts to dhv only not higher value rather higher threat of violence. Mostly what he will do to the guys responsible for his truck problems. Just the basic self righteous indignation that is rampant these days. “My man here spent THIRTY… Read more »

kfg
kfg
9 months ago
Reply to  wahoo

I have pointed out here on numerous occasions that you don’t have to be an asshole to be an alpha. Likewise, being an asshole does not preclude you from being an alpha. Alphas do not follow the rules, they are the ones that make them. In that sense whatever an alpha does is socially proper, however much it might annoy the mass of rule following deltas. The biggest, baddest alphas on the planet right now are the leaders of the Mexican drug cartels who have made themselves de facto warlords of their own countries. These are not nice men. “Careful… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago
Reply to  wahoo

Can’t top kfg’s response.

as usual…

On this

Who is?

I refer you to the comments on this very thread by Red Pill Dosed and Stefan…

But thanks for playing, truly. I knew this kind of response would crop up and it’s useful. and the board has been stale… lol

Lessons are where we find them.

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

Just saying… on the whole “emotional roller coaster” this hits all the marks… The couple met at Sheffields Truck Stop, in Ocala, Fla., where Valerie was working as a clerk. Ocala is a small city in northern Florida, about 40 miles south of Gainesville. “He said his truck had broken down,” and he was waiting for $800 to be wired to him, Valerie said. “We ended up sitting at the truck stop until 4 a.m.” Finally, “I told him he could come to my house for the night. I felt sorry for him. I didn’t want to just leave him… Read more »

theasdgamer
9 months ago

@Martin

“women are super hard on height, the is the one phisical attribute they won’t concede.”
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Until they do.

theasdgamer
9 months ago
Reply to  theasdgamer

“20 Photos Of The Most Stunning Women David Spade Has Been Spotted With”

https://www.thethings.com/20-photos-of-the-most-stunning-women-david-spade-has-been-spotted-with/

IRL
IRL
9 months ago

@Stefan Dude… I’ll leave it to @HABD to hit all these limiting beliefs… so just on this: I know a lot of eastern european guys who lived in the UK and were fuckin incels for years, couldnt get single pussy, and decided to go back to their countries and boom, a few months pass and they get something, and most admitted that they had to leave due to lack of pussy. Get off your arse, leave the crab bucket and do the work. Look around too. Take this Eastern European who managed to self-promote to “Britain’s best-paid life coach” (lol…… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago

@Wanoo

I wasn’t talking about the tranny end of it, that bit is obv fucked up. I was talking about the guy himself.

No one filed any charges? If he’d been a beta they’d have been all over him, so he had an edge.

White collar criminals might be beta, but I’m sticking with my theory that the other ones, thieves and violent pos are alpha.

wahoo
wahoo
9 months ago

“I wasn’t talking about the tranny end of it, that bit is obv fucked up. I was talking about the guy himself.” Guess you should read the whole article, the guy himself was abusing a tranny and using it for its bank card. I can tell you in my circle the guy himself would get beat to death quick and in a hurry,lol but not kidding. “White collar criminals might be beta, but I’m sticking with my theory that the other ones, thieves and violent pos are alpha.” When they get locked up or meet their maker they find out… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago

I thought nested comments would be good.

They aren’t.

Any chance of changing Rollo???

kfg
kfg
9 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

It’s the format.

I used to think I wanted them because I loved them on Usenet, but with the WordPress formatting they just don’t work, at all. That’s what happens when you get rid of the interface experts and replace them with “designers.” Everything starts to look like a print magazine and nothing interactive really works anymore.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
9 months ago
Reply to  kfg

I used to think I wanted them because I loved them on Usenet, but with the WordPress formatting they just don’t work, at all.

Yeah, life is different when grep and maybe sed are part of the tool install. Funny how progress turns out to be !progress.

That’s what happens when you get rid of the interface experts and replace them with “designers.”

But it be so pretty! And encourages more people onto the interwebs! MOAR!

Everything starts to look like a print magazine and nothing interactive really works anymore.

“It’s a feature! Not a bug!”

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
9 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

I thought nested comments would be good.

Heartiste ran them for years. Dalrock tried them and switched back to flat in days.

Nested is problematic in some ways, flat is problematic in other ways.

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago

I thought CH was only one level nested though. So it wasn’t so cluttered and he had all posts on one page so it was easy to pick up via search.

IRL
IRL
9 months ago
Reply to  Rollo Tomassi

@Rollo

The comment system wil change when I finish the blog update

That’s great, thumbs up.

wahoo
wahoo
9 months ago

“He did not idealize him. He identified him. Careful who you dismiss from consideration.”

Simple case of mistaken identity, looks like confirmation bias to me. You sir are dismissed.

IRL
IRL
9 months ago

@Sentient

I thought nested comments would be good.

They aren’t.

Any chance of changing Rollo???

What about a proper forum with functionality that goes beyond what WordPress offers?

It costs time and money, so I’d need to see enough interest to crack on with it.

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago
Reply to  IRL

Eh… Forums tend to loose comments in threads. They are great for cars… Real specific things but “help with new girl” etc. Everything gets blended in.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago
Reply to  IRL

Do it I’ll subscribe

IRL
IRL
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

@Palma

Do it I’ll subscribe

Let’s see 20 hands up in the air.

IRL
IRL
9 months ago
Reply to  IRL

@Sentient

Eh… Forums tend to loose comments in threads. They are great for cars… Real specific things but “help with new girl” etc. Everything gets blended in.

Not necessarily examples of how to execute it:
http://www.talkaboutmarriage.com
http://www.skilledseducer.com

I have a few ideas on how to avoid the pitfalls you’re describing, but we’d need to test and adjust on the go.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago

@HABD / Sentient You know it’s surreal, In the time we’ve been talking a guy who is coming down at the weekend has texted me to say that a female friend of his half my age is in the next town along from me and she is already out / wants to hit town. That’s a real long shot as I’m I’m bumble fuck nowhere. She’s come away on her own to a coastal town and she’s on her own out drinking. So what does that tell you. https://imgur.com/a/0oTunqG We’ve had a bit of a text to and fro and… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
9 months ago

@PalmaSailor

Who walks away from daily hot sex to sail in the pissing rain. Most men couldn’t even conceive of the idea. Ok I miss it a bit, but I’d rather be here than there.

https://www.investopedia.com/terms/l/lawofdiminishingutility.asp

lol…

good luck!

Stefan
Stefan
9 months ago

@IRL Well, there are successes for sure, I am not saying it can’t be done but still more difficult and more resistance than just moving back home. In the west things are too extreme – you either get lots of pussy ( few guys ) or none at all ( most guys ). In eastern europe so far things are a bit more balanced – a bit of pussy for most guys ( not all, of course, since some guys are truly hopeless ). Rollo speaks about solving reproductive problem, yeah? Well, based on my experience and the experience of… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago
Reply to  Stefan

@Stefan

You’re looking for cheat codes.

If you do what you propose then you’ll eventually face the same shit tests (fitness tests) in your own country when your woman is looking for leadership and a solid rock later in the marriage.

The better long term option is to learn about female attraction and game no matter where you choose to practice it.

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago

Further on criminality and repro success, from RT twatter…

“Convicted criminal offenders had more children than individuals never convicted of a criminal offense…Importantly, the reproductive success of criminals was explained by a fertility increase from having children with several different partners.”

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513814000774

https://mobile.twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1296604532718407686

IRL
IRL
9 months ago

@Stefan It’s a simple solution that has worked for so many guys, so I am quite confident it will work for me, too. Ok so you have ideas on what to do. Fine. How’s execution going? What have you done towards your goal so far? When are you moving? What’s still to be done? I agree with @Palma but I also think you just need to act on whatever you believe in and learn in the process. There’s only the hard way. You want something but the path is too overwhelming? Don’t try to solve it all at once. Start… Read more »

Johan
Johan
9 months ago

End of the day i don’t want to fuck a new girl every week ( and I couldn’t if i wanted lol ) but get some every now and then or a gf or something and focus on hobbies and other interest. There are many types of Alpha. Some depend on numbers, some are “Dark Triad” Alpha who have solid relationships. To become successful with Dark Triad strategy, you’ll need polarity. If you’re a player, find a girl who has only girl-friends, they do exist (https://heartiste.net/judging-a-girl-by-the-friends-she-keeps/) These girls had a strong father. But be it a church girl or a… Read more »

Fact
Fact
9 months ago

What’s Tomi’s opinion about women whose divorce has not yet been “finalized” throwing up their dating profile on tinder?

How much dick do they need?

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago
Reply to  Fact

How much? If you happen to Google Milf Group Party you’ll see it’s often just one and they wait their turn. Lol

Greg Meadows
Greg Meadows
9 months ago

Here is a good method to view Tomi Lahrens rant…imagine she is talking to the Old Spice Guy. You know the shirtless alpha male in the ads? Initially I thought her “advice” was for beta males (my mistake). Her “advice” is for the alphas she has left the club with for a decade no rules necessary. She is pleading with this high SMV category to stop spinning plates with “thot-tianas” and choose her and her friends for an LTR. She proclaims “it’ll be a cold day in hell when I chase a man” when that’s exactly the point of her… Read more »

Fact
Fact
9 months ago

Tomi is showing the red warning flags of future desperate housewife.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
9 months ago
Reply to  Fact

Yep, her hindbrain is desperate for some Alpha and she is very afraid of settling for Beta. It is written on her face and in her voice.

Thanks to Rollo for running this site, linking to such vids, analyzing them and above all — for the books. Because that gives average Beta men who think about wifing up girls like Tomi a set of choices, rather than a cattle chute.

Stefan
Stefan
9 months ago

@PalmaSailor I agree with you but my point is that if I get one girl every 3-4 years in the UK, back home I m confident I’ll be able to get a girl every year or so ( maybe even shorter than a year but just in case ). So, overall I have the potential to get more exp with women back home and learn about their nature by having more exposure to women in general than the exposure I get in the UK. @IRL Yes, I sort of have a plan, been working on it for a few months… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago
Reply to  Stefan

@stefan

You’re rationalising giving up before you even start.

Why bother even posting here?

Is there just a leeetle tiny voice in the back of your brain that thinks:

“Perhaps if I try and I do the work I could get better with women? Just perhaps that’s possible? After all I do see old short bald men with women all over the place.

But silence to that voice!! It’s easier to moan and try to play where the game is easier..

🤷‍♂️

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

Palma

These guys. They think they are going to leave ground zero of sexual liberation and go spin some Balkan girl as a plate… Like their Dad or brothers are going to be just fine with that… Lolzlzlzl

Easy button?

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

@Sentiemt Ahh. Yunnow.. what first led me here was the HPD ex.. I’d always done well with women and not once did I look in the mirror and think in too short. I was measured 5’8” as a kid and never bothered to check it until the nurse said she’s 5’8” so I can’t be (shit test obv.) So it seems in 5’6”. And IDGAF.. Bc I was blue pill I didn’t even thing seriously younger was really an option until I realised what was up and managed to get younger, 25, and 35. And I want to repeat that… Read more »

theasdgamer
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

For the readers:

If a woman brings “up” your height (hehe), you can always reply that good things come in small packages. A woman will likely follow with: “You have nothing to draw with and the well is deep.” (sh1t test) …to which you reply “My water is living water that quenches a woman’s thirst.”

Women like bold, persistent men.

Assume desire and be bold.

Stefan
Stefan
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

Just sharing my opinion,really. Plus, It’s not like I am moving to a country where i don’t know anyone, or the language, etc. Most of my friends are there, all my family is there, i m not going to uknown place. Also, thing with women is not the only reason that I want to move, there are others, too. I am aware that it comes across as me moaning and bitching but I am excited about the future, actually, having a good plan to work towards. In the mean time of course I am going to gym, eating well, etc.… Read more »

theasdgamer
9 months ago
Reply to  Stefan

Are you working on having a conversational stack of jokes, stories, teasing, etc.?

Stefan
Stefan
9 months ago
Reply to  theasdgamer

No, I am generally a funny guy ( so, i m told ) but the problem I have is that it comes out after i know the person for some time at least. As a first impression i can be a bit quiet/shy, lol. All the gilrs i’ve been with before, I knew for months before we fucked. When i had some coffee dates earlier this year with girls i never knew before ( from online dating ) i struggled to be exciting/interesing/sexy/funny and never managed to convert to a 2nd meet with any of them. I think this is… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago
Reply to  Stefan

@Stefan

Speaking of alpha this thing is parked next door to me right now, and it reminded me of you… actually I’d didn’t remind me of you lol… but I thought of you when I met the bloke in the bar and it shed a different view on life.
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Why don’t you go and Row the Atlantic solo, and then come back and see how your “luck” fares with women. Talk about separate the men from the boys..

https://www.atlanticsolo.co.uk/the-challenge

Stefan
Stefan
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

@Palma This looks interesing, but i am too much of a pussy for something like that, lol. Although I do try to do some adventurous stuff ( got a sports bike last year, looking to try scuba diving, etc.). Actually that reminds me to ask , do you think guys who do stuff like that can be attractive to women based on those experiences? Cuz I ‘ve seen guys with some cool adventures that couldn’t present/show off to women and it made no difference. So, isn’t it the ability to present/storytell, actually more important than the adventure/experience itself. I mean,… Read more »

JM
JM
9 months ago

Kitten Ears

Her sunglasses look like kitten ears. Looks like the joke is on her!

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
9 months ago
Reply to  JM

Her sunglasses look like kitten ears.

That’s a kind of tell all by itself. Clues abound when one looks closely at girls.

Abdenour Achab
9 months ago

Change the title to “Tomi vs. Tomassi”.

stuffinbox
stuffinbox
9 months ago

Johan, tighten up dude.

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago

56 YO Brad Pitt’s 27 yo GF

https://www.instagram.com/p/CD8z9dhIJub/

And guess what – she’s married to a 66 yo… For eight… Eight years…

https://www.vulture.com/2020/08/brad-pitt-new-girlfriend-nicole-poturalski-married.html
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IRL
IRL
9 months ago

@Stefan No, I am generally a funny guy ( so, i m told ) but the problem I have is that it comes out after i know the person for some time at least. As a first impression i can be a bit quiet/shy, lol. Good, it starts with self-awareness and being honest with yourself. You know what comes after? Facing the reality that there’s no shortcut and you’ll need to Do The Work. Whatever the playing field you choose. This is unavoidable. You’ll have to follow The Process, no way around it. There’s no magic situ, that one girl,… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago

From RT twatter

https://theopolisinstitute.com/conversations/the-manosphere-and-the-church/

After 1800, the religiosity of women was paramount to the evangelical scheme for moral revolution. They were regarded as having special qualities which placed them at the fulcrum of family sanctity.

stuffinbox
stuffinbox
9 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

Fulcrum is the pivot point, the church at the long end of the lever, Men and children at the short end. Not so bad in 1800s. Now with women taking over the church they are holding the long end of the lever with the children men are the fulcrum and chaos is being manipulated.

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago

https://pagesix.com/2020/09/07/selena-gomez-says-all-her-exes-think-shes-crazy/

This is a real NY Post headline 😂😂😂

Not The Onion or Babylon Bee…

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

@Sentient

Yeah.. the correct evolutionary process is for women to filter and exclude the wrong men.

Feminism etc… is trying to dick with that and provide “options”. It stands to reason that those “options” should not be genetically optimal and will backfire.

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago

Welcome to the future

they’re promising young men in college towns—maybe down on their luck, in need of money—an easy and anonymous way to make serious money.

We spoke of Alpha Farms of 2057 in the past… may need to update the timeline…

VeRY Very NSFW don’t click $https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5f1800dfa78a8#1$

Begs the question – Alpha or beta? [Appears this kind of thing is really becoming popular, not “industry”]

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

this could be the break room in any cube farm back office, call center… Lolz

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 months ago
Reply to  Sentient

Well none of that lot are gonna breed.

It amazes me he could get it up for that lot.

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

Indeed. But you know Cialis etc. Is made for women. Everything in service.

“I found a cure for ED. Her name is Victoria, she’s 22″…

Sentient
Sentient
9 months ago
theasdgamer
8 months ago

Does anyone know what happened to Blax?

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
8 months ago
Reply to  theasdgamer

I’m really worried about Blax. He just disappeared overnight. Actually I’m fearing the worst.

j
j
8 months ago
Reply to  theasdgamer

yo!

This ‘dominus-prime’ guy might be him

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/iqo144/when_does_seduction_turn_into_simping/g4x9vx3/?context=3

either that, or he got covid’d.

stuffinbox
stuffinbox
8 months ago
Reply to  j

“This ‘dominus-prime’ guy might be him”

Nah, to succinct and no penthouse forum plagiarism.

kfg
kfg
8 months ago

From Rollo’s Twitter:

https://twitter.com/BrittanyVenti/status/1308621679787114498/photo/1

To unergonomic and too much clutter. Swap the chair for a TV stand and it’s perfect.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
8 months ago
Reply to  kfg

That PS game console on the carpet will overheat sooner than later. Needs a piece of plywood under it, or better a milk crate.

stuffinbox
stuffinbox
8 months ago
Reply to  kfg

Might as well weigh in as the resident renaissance mountain man. There was a time when my apartment was bare not even a tv just my footlocker and a mattress, life was simpler with a work to party philosophy. Now the cabin is aclutter with fishing, hunting, beekeeping, bookshelves, winemaking, canning, drafting table and various gems, minerals, artifacts.

Then there is her shit scatterred in a chaotic fashion like a mad womans shit.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
8 months ago

@ kfg

You know – that’s about what my place is like lol..

Except I have one sofa and my tv is sunk into the wall.

Sentient
Sentient
8 months ago
Reply to  PalmaSailor

Looks very much like my college pad. Except no chair or TV. Just a mattress

Sun Wukong
Sun Wukong
8 months ago

@Rollo

If you ever need any help with tech side stuff on the YouTube/streaming side of things let me know. I’ve been doing a lot of work there recently (been running a stream for a local eSports league during the lock down) and have a pretty good understanding of it these days. Would even be willing to come on and shoot the shit if you want another voice.

theasdgamer
8 months ago

About the covid thing–apparently, vitamin D is key to avoiding severe symptoms. If you’re not getting enough sun several times a week, you might be at greater risk. If you’re dark complected, you will probably want to take supplements rather than relying on sunshine because of the melanoma risk. Dark complected people may have to get 3 hours of sunshine to top off their vitamin D tank when fair skinned people might be able to do it in 30 minutes. People of color seem to be more at risk and old men seem to be more at risk from covid.… Read more »

cyfox
cyfox
8 months ago

How do you guys feel about revenge for an unjust action? Psychology articles say that you end up suffering more by taking revenge. Think of the saying: “He who is without sin may cast the first stone”. However, think of the mental anguish of not taking action and living as a helpless victim. Mental anguish of having been a punisher, is just part of being a man? Women, of course, would have the hamster take care of any cognitive dissonance.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
8 months ago

This tweet is absolutely on topic.

https://twitter.com/KirkegaardEmil/status/1313413687181488129

kfg
kfg
8 months ago

Rollo on Twitter, worth reposting here:

“They hate you gentlemen. Never lose sight of that simple fact. For all the bullshit about equality, for all the screeches of misogyny, it is women dedicating statues of beheaded men to our justice system. You are not an “ally”. You are a headless man.”

In English:

Man: A human being
Werman: A male man
Woman: A female man

Contrariwise to the way feminists portray things, women have retained their prefix and thus a special status, whereas men have been grammatically castrated, reduced to generic units.

stuffinbox
stuffinbox
8 months ago
Reply to  kfg

I used to have an inferiority complex. Then I realized , I truly am inferior, now it isn’t so complex.

Upon awakening from the blue pill romance and seeing what I am up against I am left with no choice but to take care of number one and cover my own ass from every angle.

Time to embark on a new adventure!

Kant Solo
Kant Solo
7 months ago

Real Men = Useful Men. Just translate every sentence with this in mind.