The Empress has no Clothes

Tomi Lahren vs. Rollo Tomassi.

I’ve had a lot of my YouTube subscribers tell me that my admittedly “long form” live stream videos are being chopped off at the 2 hour mark. I’ve been aware of this problem for a month now and as much as I’d like to suspect it’s YouTube/Google censorship, it’s really a compiling error between StreamYard (my streaming app) and how YouTube saves the video after it streams. I had to search for a fix right after the Will Smith / Jada Pinkett breakdown video I did was likewise chopped at the beginning. That was easily my most popular and best watched video on the channel and people wanted the whole damn thing.

I discovered a workaround. I noticed the entire video was in fact compiled on YouTube when I opened it in their editor software. However, the playback was limited to only 2 hours from the end of the clip back up to wherever the 2 hour mark was. The fix was simple: delete about 6-10 seconds of the silence before the intro music starts and then resave/recompile the video. Presto! The whole video is now watchable. Well, not exactly Presto!, it takes about half a day to recompile a 2:45:00 video on YouTube’s very slow encoders.

Needless to say, this is kind of frustrating when I dig into videos like Will Smith and now my dissection of Tomi Lahren’s dating/men ragequit video. Tomi’s fem-screech has been all the rage du jour in the Manosphere and on ProRevenge doompill YouTube since last Wednesday. You just can’t pass on that kind of Grade A, USDA Choice, Red Meat. Even Trad-Con women holding “legitimate” opinionist positions at some of the bigger news aggregate blogs had to put something out about raging Tomi’s meltdown. And as expected they were either piling on with her frustration about men not “living up to the responsibility of being Real Men® or else it was more unwitting anti-feminist feminism; the same thing Tomi has suffered from since she was 20.

Even with that ‘fix’ of recompiling the original video I’m still getting guys emailing/Tweeting to me that they can’t watch the whole thing on various formats (mobile, web, tablet, etc.). Maybe that’s because they need to clear their video cache, I don’t know, but I’ve taken it upon myself to host the full video on my own server here. This is the whole analysis of Tomi’s PSA to Boyish Men.

The Empress has no Clothes

This task gave me an occasion to review the whole thing in a better light. There’s so much going on in this video it’s hard to sum it up. Tomi’s will be 28 this month (August 2020). She’s right on schedule for her Epiphany Phase, and as a Farm League celebrity who happens to be reasonably attractive the end of her 20s are weighing heavy on her ego. For the record, I’ve been privy to some DMs from guys in my and Jon MLD’s communities who’ve dated (banged) Tomi and had some interesting details as to what prompted her to this ragequit. I’m not going to make these public. Honestly, it’s TMZ style salaciousness, but these conversations confirmed my initial assessment: Tomi is barreling headlong into the Epiphany Phase and it’s not pretty.

In the video I mention that Tomi needs to find some kind of humility. She’s arrogant, entitled, self-aggrandized and completely oblivious to the fact that her opinions of herself and her “attractive” girl-friends are in fact the product of the feminism she claims to despise. Insight, humility, grace and poise are among the many conventionally feminine characteristic the women of Tomi’s generation (and older) desperately lack. I’m sure Tomi and Co. would disagree, but increasingly more men today are realizing the Empress has no Clothes. Women today like to believe they already have these feminine traits – this is part of the Fempowerment narrative that teaches women they uniquely hold the attributes that make a woman a Quality woman, while also possessing all the best traits that make men admirable and respectable.

As mentioned in An Essay for Women, feminist ideology and gynocentrism has conditioned four generations of women to believe they can be the embodiment of the best of both genders. Self-fulfilling, independent and needing for nothing outside themselves (“You are enough girl.”), the women of Tomi’s generation are now discovering that the elite men they desire the most have the least use for them. Why would they? I’m not talking about MGTOW here, I’m talking about high SMV men in the global sexual marketplace who are in the Game and would like to eventually start a family with a devoted wife who needs him. If the best a woman of can be is a self-fulfilled, ego-assured, independent thing with no needs outside herself, why would she ever seek out an elite man? Why would a man be attracted to a woman who screeches at the top of her lungs,…

“It’ll be a cold day in Hell before I EVER CHASE A MAN!”

By definition, high value men – the men with their “shit together“, the men with a plan, the men who “value value” – have no attraction for a woman who publicly expresses she doesn’t need him. Now, Tomi and her Sisters doth protest too much. Her frustration with men is the result of her inability to accept that she does, in fact, need men; and her standards would predictably crumble given the right incentives. Granted, Tomi correctly assesses that the men of today are increasingly more effeminate, pussified, rudderless and apathetic than any generation that came before them. But ironically, she misses that the sad state of men today should make her even more hyperaware that her bitchy, self-entitled and decidedly masculinized sense of self is unattractive to the elite men she believes she and her sisters deserve.

The prime directive of feminism is:

Never do anything for the express pleasure of a man.

Since the post-Sexual Revolution rise of gynocentrism, this feminist maxim has played well with women’s empowerment messaging. There was a time (from the late 60s to late 90s) when men identifying with the feminine – getting in touch with their emotions – was a form of Game. Misguided as it was, men were taught that by supporting, identifying with, and empowering women they would be adapting to that era’s sexual marketplace. Today, this is old order thinking, but the legacy of those generations’ beliefs about women are what is causing such frustration in Tomi’s generation.

It’s too easy to just dismiss her as another entitled, stuck up bitch heading for her date with the Epiphany Phase and the Wall. The problem, and the solution to it, is right in front of her generation’s face. No man needs a woman who has no need for him. Men and women evolved to be complements to one another. This Complementarity and gender interdependence is one of the greatest adaptive strengths of our species, yet the surest way to debase and destroy it is to foment the idea of autonomous, androgynous, independence of one sex.

Tomi Lahren is a Feminist in the truest sense of the term. In one breath she screams men are trash, and in the next she claims to love men. This is the cognitive dissonance that generations of feminism embeds in women. Years of socio-psychological upbringing trains them to distrust, despise and emancipate themselves from men, while at the same time their evolved, biological, mental firmware cries in frustration for a need of men to love, protect, provide and sexually satisfy them.

This inner conflict becomes more and more stressful as this generation of young women approach the Epiphany Phase. One conflicting shift I see among this crop of young women is a greater, and earlier, awareness that they will be less likely to optimize Hypergamy with an acceptable, elite, man they are taught to believe they all deserve. Settling for anything less than optimal is anathema to the Strong Independent Woman ideal; settling for a suboptimal man is the main source of inner conflict for the Equal-but-Better expectations women place on today’s admittedly lacking men.

This is what Tomi is screaming and crying about.

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

190 comments on “The Empress has no Clothes

  1. The fact that there are men who believe CONservative woman celebrities in modern-day USA are not feminists is hard to believe. But I guess, there are more than a few of those..

    On a different topic, here is a recent series on my blog about how late capitalism aka financialism has made it hard for most people in this country to obtain what was considered as basic needs (affordable housing, education, healthcare etc) even 2-3 decades ago.

    https://dissention.wordpress.com/?s=On+the+Necessity+of+Being+a+Multi-Millionaire+under+Late+Capitalism

  2. Since the post-Sexual Revolution rise of gynocentrism, this feminist maxim has played well with women’s empowerment messaging.

    Empowerment messaging. Let me give you some recent examples I came across directed at both young girls and old broads.

    Hallmark movie from a week ago. Chick goes to Lake Tahoe for a vacation. Leaves her Beta Bucks boyfriend in the city. Comes across her childhood ex, her first love, guy has “sexy” career of being a hot-air balloonist and former commercial pilot. The emotional affair begins with the ex, reconnecting and now their new connection is deeper than with Beta Bucks left behind in the city, where their interactions are depicted with the same passion as seen between siblings. She and her chick friend, who came along on the vacation, now get this, actually articulate monkey-branching, but here they talk about it in terms of a new job, all the while she’s doing exactly this with her two men.

    This is considered romance for post-wall women.

    For the young girls, music video by Meghan Trainor – “Dear Future Husband.” The entire theme focuses on if you want access to my body and sexual favors, then you men need to learn to cook and clean and be at my beck and call and treat me like a princess. What do the men get? Her body. Patrice O’Neil was on the money with his “remove your vagina” joke.

    The messaging directed at women by media and entertainment is where they find legitimacy for their impulses.That Hallmark movie would, I imagine, be considered outside the bounds of good taste 70 years ago.

    Tomi Lahren claims she’s not a feminist but lives true to feminist dogma. She’s imbibed so much of who she IS from the culture, she’s like a fish who doesn’t recognize the presence of the water that surrounds her, that water is just there and not a phenomenon separate from her existence. So too with women and how they’re enculturated by cultural propaganda

    1. That Hallmark movie would, I imagine, be considered outside the bounds of good taste 70 years ago.

      Not at all. It was expected given the nature of women. And a common theme It’s only the last 30 years or so that feminists and their allies have been able to pull off this new narrative.

      See Clash by Night

      https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GDjkrXkVVZI

      Or Double Indemnity

      https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yKrrAa2o9Eg

      Or just about any movie with Barbara Stanwyck lol

  3. The feminist and the simp are mirror images of each other.

    The simp tries to identify with the feminine by becoming “sensitive” and emotionally vulnerable, when he would be happiest embracing his natural masculinity. When his white knight strategy fails, he experiences tremendous emotional turmoil.

    The feminist tries to identify with the masculine by becoming “strong and independent” when she would be happiest submitting to a worthy man who can protect and provide for her. When she hits the epiphany phase, she also experiences tremendous emotional turmoil.

    That’s what happens when you try to ignore the nature side of the nature vs. nurture equation.

  4. The lack of insight that Rollo speaks of with modern women like Tomi is clearly evident with her world-wide rant against men. Her chances now of finding the perfect family Disney life are even worse after her viral video.

    She is an awesome example of the female specimen, but she has no idea or cares what makes her desirable to men and thus ensuring her survival and offspring’s survival.

    Tomi gives a list of things for men to follow to attract women like her and doesn’t realize men are turned-off by that list and now her chances of finding her idealistic Disney family life she desires is even less likely to happen. That’s lack of insight and female blue-pill mentality. More women are blue-pill than men because men work on themselves and have the insight and awareness to improve themselves and do the work. Men become, women just are.

  5. Thank you for this blog post.

    As a woman, I now realise I haven’t been making myself clear to Him that I NEED the man I am interested in.

    Thank you also for properly spelling/using the word complementary.

    Thank you also for a link to wordpress’ how to set up your own blog. I will probaby do a learning femininity one.

  6. @Rollo: I don’t think men want a woman that needs him. I want the woman to want me.

    The difference between need and want here is not just a semantics detail. This ties into the AF / BB duality, sometimes referred to as “seed vs need”. I want the desire sex, the “seed” side.

    I had the similar issue with your classic “Men need sex” post.
    We need oxygen… We want sex.

    I get why you use the word “need” both in that classic post and here, and I can come up with a catchy phrase like “She needs the seed” for desire sex… But if a woman actually “needs” me, she has no option and then she isn’t really with me because she wants to. This may sound superficially sound appealing to a man (particularly if that man also has limited options), but I’m fairly sure is not what I want. That is not complementary, more like codependency.

  7. I am 48 Now and I remember seeing this being stated by women when I was in my 20’s. These same women would blow me off and disregard me, and use the 4 letter word…. NICE in relation to being a NICE GUY…. They are not interested in. Yup I was a blue pill beta….

    I got tired of that mentallity. Now I hear these same women and women like them complain that all the good men are taken and the rest are handicapped.

    Have I married correctly… Well I can see hypergamy in play during my marriage. There are difficult sections in it at the moment…. so working through it.

      1. @Boris

        thanks for the Sentiments. Hopefully Luck does not play a part. But I will be looking to keep on top of things as best as I can.

  8. There is a specific button in beta men that is activated by a woman’s “challenge” for a “real man”… It’s the guys who got picked last in Red Rover and other team sports.

    They feel that by qualifying themselves to women they’re virtue-signalling. It’s a bad habit that takes a whole mindset shift to change and discipline to maintain.

    Whenever a girl I’m gaming says “I”m a feminist” my go-to response which I saw somewhere on one of these boards–possibly here or Roissy’s—is “Be a better woman rather than a sub-standard man.”

    1. Yeah, it plugs straight into the FI matrix…

      Be a REAL MAN = get the woman.

      Just like your mom always said you would

  9. I won’t ever watch any YouTube video much over 25 minutes. The shorter the video, the more likely I’ll watch it. I’m sure there are others like me who value their time.

    1. There is thing called “settings” where you can select the desired playback speed you want. Sounds like 2x is what you’re looking for. Hey, you’re welcome, bro.

  10. Available women who tell you they are a “feminist” when engaging/flirting with you are truly gagging for you to prove that you are, in fact, a real, masculine man. And if you are indeed masculine with your own authentic MPO (Mental Point of Origin) and have good enough game, they will eagerly submit their true feminine selves to you and be most grateful for the opportunity to do so…

    1. Good to see you still around Fox. Yes, what you describe is just a shit test. Especially in girls whose age is somewhere near 3 – 0.

      1. That is insightful, a shit test, not just for one man, but for the entire masculine gender, or, perhaps more poignantly, a shit test for herself, in other words, she is panicked about whether she has the goods to lock down any man (and have a baby) before she hits the wall.

  11. I don’t think it’s necessary a bad thing. Population growth needs to come down anyway. Let these girls become deadends.

      1. After seeing Aliens, I sort of went off looking at pussies. The whole Face Hugger thing and having your chest ripped open after the ingestation period, I am sure is foreshadowing about the plight of Beta Bucks Men going through the divorce system in Australia.

        I nice set of tits works so much better for me and also research has proven that for men looking at breasts and attractive naked women is good for their blood pressure.

  12. She shot herself in the foot with that video. Internet is forever and now everybody knows how she really is. She can’t fool nobody now.

    1. She can’t fool nobody now.

      Eh, don’t underestimate Beta thirst. She can crank out an “Oh, I’m so different now!’ vid in a couple of years and some guy with a craft beard will perk up & start chasing.

        1. After the Wall she will have no choice…. The tick Tock clock spanks the hamster on the wheel. The beat is BETA BUCKS BETA BUCKS.

          With the Mentioning of the Wall I keep thinking back to Game of Thrones when men would be sent to the wall to defend the north….

          Tomi should take the Black…… LOL.

      1. @AR

        The whole point of her frustration is she is finding herself totally unable to consolidate on a man of any value.

        Listen to what she is saying, and how pissed she gets that THOSE men are chasing much younger thots that don’t have a career etc..

        She’s pissed that the men she wants aren’t chasing but she’s too ego invested to look on the mirror.

        1. It isn’t just a man of “any” value. It seems likely that she can get a good guy with a good job who knows how to escalate and be the man in the relationship. There are likely a bunch of guys looking to get married and have a family who aren’t full on doormats that Tomi and her friends could lock down. They’re not men of no value they just aren’t good enough for her or her friends.

          I’m no Alpha but I don’t need told to escalate to a date and make the plans and what have you. But at fifty and average looks and average job and more or less a loner this sort of girl isn’t going to give me the time of day no matter how charming I am. Often the charm makes it worse as it reminds her how much the men closer to her age are lacking. Even her much older peers who are still a version of slender don’t think I’m good enough.

          We keep bagging on guys for being rudderless but the bar has been raised considerably past being a useful mammal. At this point even being above average won’t get you past automatic disqualification. And any sort of charm and spine just marks you as a sub-par version of the cads they can’t lockdown. Can we really blame these younger guys for being rudderless? You don’t need to steer if there isn’t a destination and these girls and their older peers keep making it clear there isn’t a destination.

          1. @Rudolph

            “It isn’t just a man of “any” value.”

            I probably could have phrased that better. What I meant was was “a man of some value as opposed to a man of no value”

            “Even her much older peers who are still a version of slender don’t think I’m good enough.”

            I’m 52 and don’t have any trouble banging anything age appropriate (10 years younger). I’ve still got a mental block with younger but I’ve spent a lot of time lately with a 24 yo and I’ve learned so much from it I think I’ll probably break that duck soon.

            “You don’t need to steer if there isn’t a destination and these girls and their older peers keep making it clear there isn’t a destination.”

            As a man it’s your job to define the journey and the destination, and own the women and take them there.

            It’s a mindset change. If you want to do that work on yourself then take it over to field reports. It’ll be hard but I can tell you that you can get more sex at 50 than you’ve ever had if you play it right.

  13. Great post! Tomi provided real meat to the red pill. Thankfully Rollo provided an excellent breakdown of Tomi’s discourse. Though it can be difficult to learn from others experience. I think this could be a red, (pill) letter day for a lot of men. Confirmation, beyond reasonable doubt.

  14. With all the remote conferencing that’s been going on for months, I’ve had the opportunity to see a whole variety of home video setups. Not just work related but also on CNBC. There is really no excuse for poor lighting that makes someone appear to be in a cave or a bunker. Someone tell Tomi.

    Rollo
    As mentioned in An Essay for Women, feminist ideology and gynocentrism has conditioned four generations of women to believe they can be the embodiment of the best of both genders

    Sure, because you also have pointed out multiple times men must become while women simply are. Biologically a man has to be able to feed himself with some surplus left over, a woman simply has to be healthy enough to carry a child to term. A lot of women fade out of college at the 2nd year because all of a sudden just showing up and “being present” isn’t enough, they have to produce something. Because even in a feminized workplace there has to be some kind of product, even if it’s just calls placed per hour or words printed on paper.

    This girl is indeed a manifestation of what young 20-something and 30-something men face, and the cog-dis is getting worse, not better for a variety of reasons.

    PS: Her hypergamy is slowly getting crushed as she gets closer to Epiphany, and I predict that she will Settle in the next 3 years. Normally Settling starts around her age, but since she has this big public image as “feisty trad girl” she may have to get ground down a bit more, and try to hold out for Mr. Big past the 3-0. Eh, just means she’ll shack up with some guy and browbeat him into marriage at the age of 31.

    I know quieter, less visible versions of her. Married at 30 – 31, first child @32.

    1. @AR

      “This girl is indeed a manifestation of what young 20-something and 30-something men face, and the cog-dis is getting worse, not better for a variety of reasons.”

      It’s also the landscape that 50 yo men find themselves in if they are pitching younger.. smh..

      I’ll bet you £1 she doesn’t settle, and just gets more and more bitter. That’s what I’m seeing happen to that type of woman where I live in the people’s republic of ghey and feminist utopia.

      1. It isn’t just younger. It is just pitching any woman who is still at least a vague version of slender. They are awash in attention and still want to hold out for “better.” I suspect on some level it becomes a feminine excuse or buffer so that she doesn’t have to change or improve herself or learn any girl-game.

        1. Learn some Game Rudy. Be a guy who creates the emotional spike. You will see things differently.

          These late 20s 6/7 career girls are fish in a barrel for a 50 yo game aware guy.

          1. @Sentient

            I’ve spent a load of time in the car over the last week doing some unusual stuff and it’s shone some lite on red pill truths.

            Two things:

            Ref the above I’ve been looking at small boats with a 24 yo bar manager with “daddy issues” so I’ve spent a couple of days in the car with her.

            On the start of the first day she’s nervous chatting downloading her entire life subject hopping, reciting stories of childhood / boyfriends / nervously hanging onto the door handle. Doesn’t know what to do / where to go / how to handle silly decisions in her life. I’m listening to most of it and driving and not speaking much.

            By the time she’s talked for 10 hours and we’re spending another day in the car she’s completely changed by being in my presence. She’s calm, laid back, not nervous, and we’re driving across the coastline with the roof down and music on and she’s just laying back in the passenger seat, hair flying and chilled. I’ve never seen her like it.

            We’re now at a stage where she comes and sits herself in my proximity with her laptop to work, and I’ll swear it’s just bc she wants the aura of my stability. She just feels comfortable and wants to be in my presence.

            Secondly, @asa and I have just bought a yacht which involved dealing with the vendor. Lovely guy but totally dominated by his wife to the extent that at 62 he’s loved sailing all his life but his wife is a total harridian who has never permitted his indulgence. Now this is a wealthy guy who could have followed his passion, but he was never permitted to, and she has demanded he sell the yacht. So we’ve bought it at what I think is a bargain price bc he couldn’t take it in the neck any longer.

            The bitch even insisted he took the fucking tea spoons off it so we had to stir the coffee with a knife. Stay tuned for tales of adventure when we get that back to the local marina and start hitting on women. @asa already has a 28 yo 8 lined up.

            I probably should post a proper field report at some point, not on the getting laid aspect, but on having your entire life fucked over if you don’t own the frame and have game.

          2. @PalmaSailor

            just popped in… and this popped off the page for me…

            the FI is cunning and pervasive…

            Ref the above I’ve been looking at small boats with a 24 yo bar manager with “daddy issues” so I’ve spent a couple of days in the car with her.

            tell me why it triggered me…lol… and then rephrase this in a more positive (to both of you) way…

            good luck!

        2. Rudy, I’m over 60 and overweight and I’m masked at Walmart and going through self-check. First, a hot 20-something cashier I’ve noticed before comes over unasked and Okays my alcohol. It’s rare that checkers do that unasked where I shop. (Never had the occasion to chat with her.) Then, as I’m strolling out, she’s at the exit and ignores the guy in front of me and I’m looking straight ahead but watching out of the corner of my eye and she stares at me and I turn to look at her and she says “have a good day.” I look her in the eye and smile slightly and say “thanks.” Then I resume my exit.

          I’ve eyeballed her before but not this time. Much. Hardly at all. lol. I don’t try to hide it when I’m looking–but I don’t look more than a couple seconds or three. She’s a looker.

          1. What’s your point with the story? I get that stuff too. There is nothing so interesting as indifference. Open her and come back and tell us how interested she is. Sometimes Elektra only wants daddy’s attention.

            Look, these guys are right. I do have a bit of a mindset issue. I do not have a fear to open issue or a shyness issue. I do not have an uncalibrated zero social skills or awareness issue. I do not have an ignoring a good thing right in front of me issue. I do not have a this girl is out of my league issue.

            I do have a my game is not tight issue. I do have a my style needs work issue. I no longer have a being overweight issue. I’ve dropped forty pounds over the past year which is part of the style issue as my clothes clearly do not fit correctly. I have a population issue.

            How much of that is legit math and how much is a mindset and shit game issue on my part and how much is girls have shit game and confidence problems of their own backed up by their sense of entitlement to get their over-inflated expectations met seems to be up for debate.

  15. Excellent analysis, yes, her bleached blond costume can no longer provide cover for her complete lack of femininity. She is predictably panicked about the beginning of her epiphany phase because she senses that no high SMV men are interested in masculinized women like her. Compared to models of femininity like Grace Kelly, Ursula Andress, Ann Margaret, Raquel Welch, Bo Derek, Princess Diana, etc., she is a zero. And perhaps that is part of the problem with today’s women, they have no models or frame of reference of authentic femininity, particularly highly successful feminine women.

  16. Painful and embarrassing to listen to. I have actually left two different women in hotel rooms in cities we had traveled to for R&R when this was thrown in my face and I didn’t budge in my frame. They escalated to the point of yelling and I shut up,packed my shit, and went home. Their pussies were just, well, pussies, and I got no tolerance anymore. This is because I’m old and had been zero’ed out twice in marriages. Ms. Lahren IMHO, is an asshole. I do feel for younger guys facing this. She probably ain’t real pleasant to be around. This is the way of the world now.

  17. “This is going to be the summer of canceling boys”.

    I can believe she actually said that. What a khunt.

    She’s already peaked, and on the way down. She will be blaming on her unhappiness on men increasingly until she is insufferable.

  18. Tomi is a squared off 7 and sliding fast. She’s lost all the feminine soft features around her face she had when younger.

    She is the tradcon version of the brunette with problem glasses…

    She should have closed the Navy SEAL when younger. Now she has to work her hair teeth and angles for all they are worth.

    If you saw her out getting her latte in yoga pants you’d look past her frowning face at the lithe 19 yo volleyball player who is smiling.

    In a couple of years she will marry a late 40s beta tradcon type coming off of a bad marriage to his virgin HS sweetheart. She will have two kids and get loud and bossy when she is drunk.

      1. You know Wala a lot of them would like to but most aren’t bold enough to make the first move and damn few 19 yo guys are.

        So late life Tomi is extra frustrated and bitchy.

    1. Hey Sentient. Great comment, but this bland ho don’t need to be drunk to get loud and bossy. It’s her natural, entitled, feminist setting…

  19. It’s taking multiple days for me to finish this ‘cast, in time segments, hence my somewhat disjointed comments.

    Right about the 2:00 mark Rollo suggests that maybe the problem isn’t all the men around the world from LA to wherever, maybe Tomi has a problem. Solipsism, pride and hypergamy – over and over that’s what we see. It’s even better to find those properties in the church ladies, too, which Tomi is sorta kinda an example of.

    But why should we care about this audio / video essay and even share it?

    Because Rollo’s monologue in response to her badly lit, bad audio rant is very instructional. Because, she’s just a really obvious example of a standard model cute girl who is approaching the 3-0. Need to share with the 20-something men early and often.

    1. ” . . . she’s just a really obvious example of a standard model cute girl . . .”

      . . . in a room full of Celine Dion.

  20. Tradcon males, purple pill, think Tomi Lahren is hot.

    They are down to let her establish frame, play along with her shit testing, and try to prove to her that they are real men and not boys.

  21. In my view, at least a 50% chance Lahren tries to send this very ill advised video down the memory hole.

    She will regret putting this out there. It makes her look totally unreasonable and like the feminists she derides.

  22. Palma

    Well 10 hours you should be well on your way to banging her.

    You and ASa on a yacht. Can’t wait to hear the tales. What’s it like?

    1. Sentient

      Modest – 30’ built for racing, but slightly dated. Excellent externally and mechanically but needs love internally as has been owned by a hardcore yachtie who DGAF about fluffy shit.

      Apart from banging women on it well definitely race it.

      I’m not going back to work – I’m going to take 6 months to re fit it.

      https://imgur.com/a/EQ49vjh

  23. @HABD

    Well… it pinged you’re depth sounder bc she’s extracting resource from me. And you’re thinking thats bc she’s got the golden V. And you’re right.

    She’s extracting a resource that a man in a similar situation wouldn’t have access to bc he doesn’t have a golden V.

    The thing to remember is that I’m single in the people’s republic of ghey and my entire social life is comprised of 3-4 blue pill alpha guys. (Plus one red pill alpha just recently) And I’ve had to work to find them. So they decided to “help” her and I’m doing a bit of that.

    That’s the FI creating social pressure for you.

    So to an extent the crew are playing capn save a ho.

    Except I understand what’s happening and they don’t.

    1. @PalmaSailor

      @HABD

      Well… it pinged you’re depth sounder bc she’s extracting resource from me. And you’re thinking thats bc she’s got the golden V. And you’re right.

      nope… try again… (although what you just said was actually true…lol… try to disparage yourself and her a bit less…)

      original quote…

      Ref the above I’ve been looking at small boats with a 24 yo bar manager with “daddy issues” so I’ve spent a couple of days in the car with her.

      its a frame of reference issue…

      good luck!

  24. Excellent video analysis, Rollo. But please, this thot is not even close to an 8. She might have been 6 years ago, but now she’s heading to the Wall fast and she’s gonna hit it very hard. Her chubby arms are a dead giveaway, let alone bleached-blonde hair accompanied by sunnies (poor look inside) and whiny, grating voice and awful personality. Imagine being with her at 40??!!! Go find yourself a young Asian hottie gentlemen, definitely not one from the USA. MAGA? Ditch Trump and hoes like this…

  25. Actually, Rollo, the ladyboys of Thailand are way more feminine in nature (and usually appearance) than horrid, masculine females like Tomi and most likely all her friends. Just this fact alone is why the West is a doomed culture for masculine men looking to get with a genuinely feminine (real) woman…

    1. “Wahoo is back…”

      I never left really ,just been lurking and preoccupied with a rebuild project. I have a bulldog mindset that when I contract a job it becomes my focal point until completed.

      I’m guessing @Blax is either lurking or moved on to more friendly waters. He may have got canned,most of his commenting was done on company time and now he may be too busy in the real world to speak his mind.

  26. @HABD / Sentient / wahoo

    Well aaahaarrree now here’s the thing.

    Although I’ve bought a boat, the thing that I probably didn’t make clear is that she is also trying to buy a boat for herself (don’t ask) but doesn’t know what she is looking at. Yeah. I know.

    So… she was the one looking at the boat and proposing to make the purchase even though she was in my car with me.

    On that basis I think I got it the right way around, and I think I was with her.

    This then addresses the “daddy issues” thing. You’re thinking I’m thinking (subconsciously) that she’s only with me bc of those hence it looks like I’m disparaging myself. But no. That’s not the reason she’s in the car.

    The truth is much much much worse: I’ve ended up helping her buy a boat (I do have a couple things I want from the experience); but it’s basically a large free resource transfer to her from me. Yeah. I know.

    Ref Blax. I dunno, it’s out of character for him to just disappear. And I think he enjoyed the space so I’ve gotta say I fear the worst.

    1. @PalmaSailor

      This then addresses the “daddy issues” thing. You’re thinking I’m thinking (subconsciously) that she’s only with me bc of those hence it looks like I’m disparaging myself.

      yep… and ‘daddy issues’ is a disparagement to BOTH of you… and it’s the FI in play…

      and note – there is not even a ‘non-disparaging’ phrase/word/concept for ‘young attractive woman interested in an (evolutionarily sound/natural) relationship with an older man’…

      at least not one that is popping into my head…lol… lots of negative ones though…lol

      The truth is much much much worse: I’ve ended up helping her buy a boat (I do have a couple things I want from the experience); but it’s basically a large free resource transfer to her from me. Yeah. I know.

      yikes!…lol…

      now here’s something that might be REALLY bad for you…lol

      it’s likely (from what you’ve told us) that her ‘wanting to buy a boat’ is really just beta baiting in play…

      “help me! good sir, white knight… HELP me!!!…”

      lol… and i’m assuming you didn’t spot this in real time…lol

      in other words, did SHE bring up wanting to buy a boat before she knew that YOU were into boats?… i’m thinking not…lol… and also, if you were not around would she have even thought about a ‘boat’?…

      serious question… bc her hindbrain is trying to sort you…

      at least you are aware of the dynamic…lol… and your situ just gives you more opportunities to practice your game… so it’s all good…lol

      good luck!

  27. Palma

    “So… she was the one looking at the boat and proposing to make the purchase even though she was in my car with me.

    On that basis I think I got it the right way around, and I think I was with her.”

    In a world where we build and fix things on a constant basis structures like boats , buildings and vehicles become sacred to us men and we give them purpose and meaning enough to take precedence over a situation.

    Having architect planed and built for single women (they are all just girls) I too like to keep the transaction clean ie: don’t mix business with pleasure. This way I feel more secure in the financial transaction favoring my pocket. The odd thing is I don’t think the women saw or see it this way as they are prone to bend over in front of me, arrange isolated meetings , answer the door in their nighties ect.

    I’m guessing some of this is going on in your transaction more or less subtle and you are missing it or on overload and havn’t yet sussed it out.

    I am reminded of Rollo saying something like it is about sex or you are her girlfriend.

  28. @HABD / Wahoo

    The whole thing was the FI in play and me going along with it bc I didn’t want to “be a twat” in my very select alpha (but partially very blue pill) social group. It’s taken a long time to find any men I actually like hanging out with but nothing is perfect.. I did also have an agenda.

    But more or less Guilty as charged your honour!!!

    The girl is a sort of “ward of the court” of the social set bc she runs our local pub and is popular but fucked up and someone else had the “good idea” that she could live on a boat. No one else knew jack shit about them so all eyes landed on me.

    I hadn’t even talked about or thought seriously about buying one for myself at that stage (it was in the plan for later) and I’ve never gone through that process so I did it.

    For the past 17 years I’ve sailed mainly on the same vessel and the owner is a very very experienced sailor (RORC member). TL;DR is that his yacht is rigged perfectly but I didn’t realise it until I got on other expensive ones whereupon I thought “what moron put that over there, it needs to be over here”..

    So I wanted to dick around a bit before I got stuck in myself and dumped a load of cash on the wrong boat.

    So that process revealed the one we have bought which was almost being given away. The owners wife “wanted him to sell it” and he was under a lot of pressure.

    When he told me this I did actually say to him “you know you could actually get rid of the wife and keep the boat but you’ll probably lose more money on the wife”

    He was absolutely astonished that I should think in such a way, but there we are.

    So this one is something to mess around on to work out what I really want. It doesn’t have any teaspoons on board bc his wife insisted he row back out to it to (about 1/4 mile) get them off it. She also insisted he COUNT THE MONEY!! That we handed over.

    I’ve got to the stage of pitying these people really bc they’re too far gone.

    Off now to get it which will take a couple of weeks but might provide some interesting field reports from the stops on the journey back.

    On the subject of field reports the nurse came over last night for the usual recreation, after which we walk to the end of my street for a glass of wine and sit outside the local pub. The nurse goes to buy the drinks and I go grab a table outside so no one else gets it.

    There’s a woman at the next table with a man and her dog. Nurse comes back with drinks and a bag of crisps (chips?) for me and the dog is looking at me / the crisps.

    I say to the dog “sorry mate, nothing for you”

    The woman starts to chat and says “that’s ok you can give him a crisp”

    I say “no”

    She’s “no really it’s ok”

    I look at the dog and say “I’m not feeding you that’s mums job”.

    She makes an excuse to talk about age and reckons were the same age. I say “I doubt it.”

    She says “I’m 42 and you’ve got to be similar”

    I say “take a guess”

    She says “42”

    I laugh and say “52”

    She says “well that is the same age really”

    She keeps talking this and that and I’m not saying much. Then she asks “is this a first date for you too”. I laugh and say “we’re just friends”.

    The nurse rolls her eyes.. etc.

    The other woman is engaging more and more conversation while her herb of a “partner” is sitting there right next to her saying nothing.

    The conversation [interrogation] follows the standard hypergamic Beta Provider bait protocol.

    Small talk about DaPocalypse.. then..

    She asks “what do you do?”

    Me “I’m a lifeguard in a car wash”

    Her – looks at me and then nurse

    Nurse laughs and says nothing.

    Trooper that she is she goes again: “no really, what do you do, I’m in hospitality”

    I reply “not much”

    The attempted extraction goes on and on right there in front of both her herb chump and the nurse.

    She starts to give more and more about herself / her bloke away expecting me to reciprocate with corresponding detail about me. I’m saying nothing.

    She strays into politics and accuses (shit tests) me of being a “Tory” (Republican) which is verboten here and states that she’s the opposite and doesn’t like Tories.

    I say “that’s narrow minded binary thinking, I’m a Tory”, and she instantly backtracks. Astonishingly she “does actually quite like Boris”

    Then it moves on to “what are you doing this week?”

    The nurse chirps up “I’ve gotta work, but he’s just bought a yacht and it’s going to take a couple of weeks for him to sail it back. He’s off tomorrow”.

    Other woman’s head spins, she does a quadruple backflip while steam comes out of her ears and her eyes boggle. She doesn’t spill a drop of wine though. She’s now really “interested”.

    I get bored of the game and I say “it was lovely to meet you both but we’re off” and we get up and walk back to my place.

    Talk about overt hypergamy in plain sight.

    1. @PalmaSailor

      The girl is a sort of “ward of the court” of the social set bc she runs our local pub and is popular but fucked up and someone else had the “good idea” that she could live on a boat. No one else knew jack shit about them so all eyes landed on me.

      I hadn’t even talked about or thought seriously about buying one for myself at that stage (it was in the plan for later) and I’ve never gone through that process so I did it.

      ya know, now that you explain it, this didn’t hurt you all that much…lol… the whole group looking to you for leadership is a big DHV…lol… and you helping her isn’t all that BB/WK… bc you are more or less the point man for the group expectations… it’s a lot different if it was you ‘offering to help her’… as opposed to being the leader of the group that ‘offered to help her’… subtle difference for men, but a BIG difference for girls…lol

      also, you getting to do a trial run for practice for YOU is not WKing, just bc she gets a benefit from it… overall, this situ probably hasn’t hurt you enough to put you into BB algo… and it’s just more opportunity for game practice… so it’s all good…lol

      on you being hit on…

      The other woman is engaging more and more conversation while her herb of a “partner” is sitting there right next to her saying nothing.

      The conversation [interrogation] follows the standard hypergamic Beta Provider bait protocol.

      Talk about overt hypergamy in plain sight.

      if you know what you are looking at, that sh*t’s everywhere…lol… and it’s ramping up every time i’m out somewhere… and not subtle at ALL…lol

      that’s one of my indicators of how i can tell the system is actually being stressed into a potential melt-down… bc girls are REALLY tuned into resource allocation/scarcity…lol

      good luck!

  29. ^^ by the way we hadn’t washed after our recreation. We’d just picked up our clothes from the floor and put those on and walked to the pub.

    1. Palma,

      Catching up while having my morning cup of jo. Congrats on getting the boat , I will lay odds that 6 mos or less and you give her the boot for a land lubber and set off on the open sea alone.

      The boys down the road are adopting a 30 yo “hottie”, CPA just bought in to the ranch and trying to develop and build on 20 acres. The latest is she got a bid on her access road at $27,000 and decided to rent a D5 for $3,000 and do it herself (strong independent woman).
      If any have mastered the dozer it takes about 200 hrs to learn just to push dirt without taking a dive for the other side of the planet. The whole while riding high up with no suspension getting tossed and beat up. My vote is to get a case of beer and watch. She needs a little pushback.

      Pushback against the FI is a rare commodity these days and will be valued at a premium.

      Also don’t feed my dog, it is not ok it never was ok and never will be. for crying out loud where do these women get off.

      1. The latest is she got a bid on her access road at $27,000 and decided to rent a D5 for $3,000 and do it herself

        Stick some game cameras out near her road-to-be so you can get vid of the fun. Her $3K tuition may work out. Or she might need to pay more.

        If any have mastered the dozer it takes about 200 hrs to learn just to push dirt without taking a dive for the other side of the planet.

        A friend of mine drove graders and dozers for several years in an open pit mining environment. He had some good stories and got paid incredibly well, but there are serious reasons for both the pay and the stories.

        My vote is to get a case of beer and watch.

        Plus vidja! Share the fun!

  30. Palma

    she instantly backtracks. Astonishingly she “does actually quite like Boris”

    Reminds me of two mid twenties San Francisco lawyer girls. They were on about Trump and then I started pushing back and they started to come round the same way. Then we got on to Hitler and not long after they were both giggling in agreement that “he had some good qualities”. They were Jewish mind you… Left them both in a headlock each side of me and kissing their squeezing heads good-bye.

    It’s all shit testing and looking for a solid frame to draft in…

    1. I’m coming to the conclusion that everything to do with all women should be considered a shit test first and foremost.

      They slip in left right and centre without you seeing half of them.

      1. @PalmaSailor

        I’m coming to the conclusion that everything to do with all women should be considered a shit test first and foremost.

        They slip in left right and centre without you seeing half of them.

        NOW you’re getting it…lol… and being able to spot (most of) them in real time just takes practice… lots and lots of practice…lol…

        what’s the most important purpose for a girl in nature?… = procreation…

        do you think evolution would leave that sh*t to a girl’s overt/conscious decision-making?…lol… THAT tribe died out a looong time ago…lol

        it’s all on an unconscious level… so they don’t/can’t even see it themselves… but that filtering is always on…

        good luck!

        1. do you think evolution would leave that sh*t to a girl’s overt/conscious decision-making?…lol… THAT tribe died out a looong time ago…lol

          Yep. Hadn’t thought of it that way before, but…yep.

          Closest model for a tribe like that would be lesbians. We’ve all heard of “lesbian bed death”, right?

          it’s all on an unconscious level… so they don’t/can’t even see it themselves… but that filtering is always on…

          Even when it’s off it’s on.

    2. “by the way we hadn’t washed after our recreation. We’d just picked up our clothes from the floor and put those on and walked to the pub.”

      LOL Palma,The pheromonal Alpha.

      And “her herb of a “partner” is sitting there right next to her saying nothing”. Does he even wonder what just happened? Will he even try to dis you and say you are gay? Will he just lay down the next time she says “on your belly whore” and take the strapon in the ass like a real man?

      Do I care? M Nah!

  31. @HABD

    The chess pieces may have moved again bc Since I’ve gone through the motions of the above I’ve realised it’s a bullshit decision for her and she shouldn’t do it . So I’ve phoned the social set and told them that this is the case for xyz reasons; and I’m not going any further with it.

    Then I phoned her and said “two things, firstly I don’t have time to do this anymore bc I have shit to do (drink cold beer and move my own yacht), and secondly, it’s the wrong idea, it’ll end in tears and I recommend you don’t do it so I’m not going to participate. You should do abc instead, but If you do ignore my advice you’re on your own. Basically I’ve dumped her.

    Later she couldn’t make eye contact but I went up and gave her a kiss on the cheek and said we were still friends.

    “if you know what you are looking at, that sh*t’s everywhere…lol… and it’s ramping up every time i’m out somewhere… and not subtle at ALL…lol

    that’s one of my indicators of how i can tell the system is actually being stressed into a potential melt-down… bc girls are REALLY tuned into resource allocation/scarcity…lol”

    It isn’t just me then.

    Coming through London today it was virtually a ghost town but what women were out are making more eye contact than I can ever remember.

    Bc I can be a nerd I’ve read the accounts for the city transport system. Get this, it costs £7BN a month to run and in the good old days it had revenues of slightly less than that and the gubbermint propped it up with the balance.

    Right now I’d say it’s running at 15%… correct me if I’m wrong but our gubbermint failed to sell their last batch of debt to grannies so they changed the rules so the B of E could invent the munny to buy it. In October the support for 9m of our furloughed [unemployed] staff stops. Right about them shots gonna not the fan big time.

    They’re also changed the rules so that our local councils don’t have to report that they’re insolvent and scare the unwashed.

    On a national level our VAT (sales taxes) have gone negative. This means that in aggregate the nations businesses are posting a loss.

    Then think about the entire fractional banking system lending on all the real estate (which is valued on a fx of fv… the fv is valued at a multiple of expected income (rent) and right now that’s jack shit. So on a tier 1 capital ratio of 5-10% ish all the banks are skintos.. walking zombie dead.

    It’s Zimbabwe 101. But scarier than that its global.

    The hypergamy thing is ramping up. Honestly I don’t think I’ve ever had so much female attention in the space of time I’ve got off the boat today.

    So the boat is on a buoy at the end of this:

    http://www.camsecure.co.uk/brixham_breakwater.html

    We don’t (yet) have an outboard on the dinghy so that means you have to row in and out and it’s nearly at the end so approx 400 metres. You row along the side of it bc you can’t get the dinghy up on it but there are pedestrians walking along it etc..

    https://imgur.com/a/0IK29bG

    I used to row when I was 33 and I was a veteran then. What I’d forgotten from my rowing days when I used to row in an 8 is how much damn attention you got from women. Looking back it was incredible. All the girls would look.

    We used to row down the river and all the amateur fisherman had their rods out, we used to row past it and sent it all to fuck and they used to get up to have a shout and then see these 8 blokes and back off.. it was hilarious.

    Earlier I had to row out to the boat and now I want cold beer And food so I’m rowing in, literally all the women walking along the breakwater (with their kids and husbands) are looking and I’m making eye contact and smiling at each and every one. Some are waving (which is standard nautical conduct so I don’t know if you want to accept that at face value or conclude that THOSE women are more aggressive at grabbing / upgrading higher value men).

    I pull the dinghy into land and walk to the pubs and restaurants and I’m in overt sailing gear but looking like shit and probably smelling like a raccoons arse but I’m getting eye contact from literally dozens of women walking the past me.

    @Wahoo

    “LOL Palma,The pheromonal Alpha.”

    Well you’ve got to ask the question given the circumstance really.

    Plus – id never touch your dog.

    @AR

    “We’ve all heard of “lesbian bed death”, right?”

    No.. please explain

    @sentient

    “Squealing”

    Yeah. Pillow biting is more common that you’d think.

    1. Palma , got rained out so here goes. In my world (#Wahoo vision) leaving a dog alone implies respect to the owner, and inviting somebody to feed your dog implies trust as in inviting them into your home unsupervised. Now I doubt if the woman understands this as I do but if she did she in essence invited you into her world.

      On another note my experience in gaming towns is they employed the largest mass of T-rupm haters-pp kissing birds missing the wing to the east port libgressive prolerals i’ve ever met in one place. Aaand since the shuttering they have unexplainably shifted their views lost the west wing and grew a right one, singing rump praises n wearing red hats.

      1. ” . . . inviting somebody to feed your dog . . .”

        . . . is inviting them to tell the dog that they are one of the people responsible for its upkeep. She invited Palma into the dog’s world, as someone to beg from, shirking her own responsibility to and for the dog.

        Which is shitty discipline.

        Palma’s response was correct. That is not his job.

        But if he wanted to I bet Palma could AMOG her in nothing flat and that dog would never see her as its true master ever again.

        1. KFG, thats the new order of thinking and I agree in this case as the dog is a pet and not a worker.My dogs are guard dogs and hunters, I don’t wan’t anyone else to feed them,they need to protect my stuff and follow my commands.

    2. PalmaSailor
      Bc I can be a nerd I’ve read the accounts for the city transport system.

      Family member just got on an airliner because he had to travel about 1,500 miles and didn’t have time to drive.

      Ticket cost $80. Plane was…not full. I dunno what the next airline bailout is gonna look like, but there will be one.

      1. They’re not allowed to have full planes, and I think there’s a moratorium on international travel (at least, on the receiving end…think some countries aren’t allowing US residents to visit).
        They’ve been doing a lot of cargo runs though, which might help make ends meet for some.
        I know the Korean Air took a profit for the first time in a long while recently, via doing cargo runs.
        American, United, Delta will furlough this fall (they signed an agreement when they took the government money not to furlough until November I think).
        SWA has never furloughed anyone, and their credit is so good they don’t need government money they get better deals through the banks (and they have a good padding of cash, huge knock on wood).

      1. Honestly I didn’t know – but it doesn’t surprise me bc a load of them are joyless great beests that wouldn’t raise wood on even the most desperate incel.. So those ones are lesbian bc they’re out of Hetro options.

        Plus I think that if the man doesn’t generate the desire a lot of the time, then none is generated.

        ie women do feel desire, but only when a man has generated it.

        I’ve sensed in Lesbian couples that one gets jealous if you talk to the other one sometimes.

    3. @PalmaSailor

      @HABD

      The chess pieces may have moved again bc Since I’ve gone through the motions of the above I’ve realised it’s a bullshit decision for her and she shouldn’t do it . So I’ve phoned the social set and told them that this is the case for xyz reasons; and I’m not going any further with it.

      Then I phoned her and said “two things, firstly I don’t have time to do this anymore bc I have shit to do (drink cold beer and move my own yacht), and secondly, it’s the wrong idea, it’ll end in tears and I recommend you don’t do it so I’m not going to participate. You should do abc instead, but If you do ignore my advice you’re on your own. Basically I’ve dumped her.

      Later she couldn’t make eye contact but I went up and gave her a kiss on the cheek and said we were still friends.

      ouch!…lol… put into the friend zone… she’ll remember you for sure…lol

      “if you know what you are looking at, that sh*t’s everywhere…lol… and it’s ramping up every time i’m out somewhere… and not subtle at ALL…lol

      that’s one of my indicators of how i can tell the system is actually being stressed into a potential melt-down… bc girls are REALLY tuned into resource allocation/scarcity…lol”

      It isn’t just me then.

      nope… but you have to be able to SEE what is right in front of you… most people can’t directly see reality… it’s just too scary… = psychic self-defense… their heads would explode…lol

      Coming through London today it was virtually a ghost town but what women were out are making more eye contact than I can ever remember.

      your FRs are seeming to indicate that girls are opening you more now too…lol

      Bc I can be a nerd I’ve read the accounts for the city transport system. Get this, it costs £7BN a month to run and in the good old days it had revenues of slightly less than that and the gubbermint propped it up with the balance.

      Right now I’d say it’s running at 15%… correct me if I’m wrong but our gubbermint failed to sell their last batch of debt to grannies so they changed the rules so the B of E could invent the munny to buy it. In October the support for 9m of our furloughed [unemployed] staff stops. Right about them shots gonna not the fan big time.

      They’re also changed the rules so that our local councils don’t have to report that they’re insolvent and scare the unwashed.

      doesn’t stop the girls being able to ‘feel’ the ‘subcomms’ of the system though…lol… that sht is ramping their anxiety through their subconscious… (my wife is getting hit by this sht too btw… even with me knowing what’s going on and taking active counter-measures… like more sex…lol)

      On a national level our VAT (sales taxes) have gone negative. This means that in aggregate the nations businesses are posting a loss.

      Then think about the entire fractional banking system lending on all the real estate (which is valued on a fx of fv… the fv is valued at a multiple of expected income (rent) and right now that’s jack shit. So on a tier 1 capital ratio of 5-10% ish all the banks are skintos.. walking zombie dead.

      It’s Zimbabwe 101. But scarier than that its global.

      it’s the same everywhere bc the us dollar is the world reserve currency… and fiat currency is… what for it… FIAT…lol… doesn’t matter who issues the ‘not based on any real value’ paper… at the end of the day… or ‘fiat cycle’… it’s still worthless…lol…

      and this end game (financial collapse) has been baked into the system since 1913… i’m surprised it’s lasted this long tbh…

      what’s more concerning to me isn’t just the world-wide currency collapse… which is bad enough… it’s that at the same time that the whole thing is balanced on the edge of financial collapse, the system is also getting stressed for actual wealth production (ie food)…

      china is looking at a famine… 1.4 billion is a LOT of mouths to feed… (and india isn’t far behind that… although, as far as i know, india doesn’t have massive loss of food production in play)

      china is getting so much rain/flooding that a huge chunk of their bread basket is flooded out… = grains/produce/livestock…and their long-term grain storage is all moldy from the dampness… as well as ‘competency’ of the commie supervisors…lol…

      and that is on top of a good chunk of their pork industry was taken out last year by pig ebola… that was enough to move pork from a ‘staple food’ to a luxury food… and raised prices on pork world-wide…

      and iowa just had about 40% of its corn/bean crop taken out by high winds… as well as a bunch of grain in storage…

      and all that rain in china is upstream and pushing on the three gorges dam… which was built by the best third-tier chinese commie subcontractors whatever money was left after the corruption skimmers took their cut could buy…lol…

      the dam hasn’t failed yet (as far as i know…lol), but the dam itself has deformed enough to show up on the satellite photos… and you know what that means for concrete… it’s just a matter to time… and that is on top of the actual poor design…lol… i mean really, who doesn’t actually anchor a dam into the underlying bedrock?…lol…

      AND downstream is wuhan… with that bio level 4 lab… and there are several nuke reactors downstream as well… not to mention the downstream area is the ‘industrial breadbasket’ for china… as well as shanghai… which means the world’s JIT delivery system for almost everything – drugs/electronics/replacement parts/etc – is living on borrowed time too…

      AND i haven’t even factored in the locusts…lol

      china is starting to bid on food on the open market… which has already started pushing up prices here… and will continue to do so… and i really don’t think there is going to be ‘enough’ actual food to go around (world-wide)… and wars have been started over a lot less ‘hunger’… and hungry people are crabby…lol…

      the ccp may have to start a war just to maintain control… of course it might just let them starve too… but like i said, crabby…lol

      and just keep in mind that the attack vectors in play right now are still food and population density… for all parties and on all sides…

      The hypergamy thing is ramping up. Honestly I don’t think I’ve ever had so much female attention in the space of time I’ve got off the boat today.

      So the boat is on a buoy at the end of this:

      http://www.camsecure.co.uk/brixham_breakwater.html

      We don’t (yet) have an outboard on the dinghy so that means you have to row in and out and it’s nearly at the end so approx 400 metres. You row along the side of it bc you can’t get the dinghy up on it but there are pedestrians walking along it etc..

      https://imgur.com/a/0IK29bG

      props on the boat…

      it’s probably a good thing you bought it now… and given the state of the world, it might be good to get a couple more sets of sails and other things you might need/want for it, while they are still relatively cheap… or even available at any price…

      is the dingy set up for sailing?… that sh*t’s been around a looong time before internal combustion…lol… and it might be wise to set it up if you can… but get that outboard sooner rather than later… you never really know when the infrastructure is going to fail and hyperinflation kicks off… given how interconnected everything is, it could take only hours… and then there is that dam… it could go tomorrow or ten years from now… hard to say…

      I used to row when I was 33 and I was a veteran then. What I’d forgotten from my rowing days when I used to row in an 8 is how much damn attention you got from women. Looking back it was incredible. All the girls would look.

      We used to row down the river and all the amateur fisherman had their rods out, we used to row past it and sent it all to fuck and they used to get up to have a shout and then see these 8 blokes and back off.. it was hilarious.

      Earlier I had to row out to the boat and now I want cold beer And food so I’m rowing in, literally all the women walking along the breakwater (with their kids and husbands) are looking and I’m making eye contact and smiling at each and every one. Some are waving (which is standard nautical conduct so I don’t know if you want to accept that at face value or conclude that THOSE women are more aggressive at grabbing / upgrading higher value men).

      it’s probably both… and all on that unconscious level of ‘keeping her options open’… for the better deal… or just helping her hamster justify why good things should keep happening to her…lol

      I pull the dinghy into land and walk to the pubs and restaurants and I’m in overt sailing gear but looking like shit and probably smelling like a raccoons arse but I’m getting eye contact from literally dozens of women walking the past me.

      looks matter, yo!…lol

      good luck!

      1. @HABD

        “your FRs are seeming to indicate that girls are opening you more now too…lol”

        Well since you mention it, I mean where do I start… it’s quite surreal. I’m running at 100% dinner out / open ratio. Field reports below, but first, it’s not just me:

        Old friend, he with EEGF, has reported in highly smug with himself. EEGF is stranded back home bc “unrest” and she can’t get out and internet access has been pulled. So he’s flying solo while she is prob seeking out an alpha chad to bang [protect her from the bogeymen].

        Recently his mid 20’s son had a party and there was a 24 y/o girl there (solid 8, probably 9) who hit on old friend (63 ish). She told him “I like rich older men”. This wasn’t lost on him and he has proceeded as you would expect. One thing old freind is good at is banging women without spending any money on them. They think they’re gonna get it, and they do, but not the money lol..

        Meantime, on the high seas, I managed to get off the mooring into a marina yesterday afternoon but I was in the same smelly clothes and wanted immediate food and cold beer so didn’t pass by the shower facilities.

        Turned up at bar, very cute small slim waitress says she can’t get me in for the food I want bc “rules” but all will be available from 5pm, but broke the rules to get me in bc Did I want alternative shit offering? I said “no but I want wine and I’ll wait”. Anyway I forget the flirting but it was surreal. She’s 40.. blah blah blah…

        In the meantime I went back for breakfast today with bacon sandwich girl and shit just got even more surreal.

        Firstly the 16 y/o hb4 (fat) that was supposedly “hot” is all over me. “Oh hello yacht man, Have You worked out what You’ll have to spend on the boat yet?”

        Me “no”

        She volunteers she doesn’t have a bf and has sold the sofa in her room and replaced it with a chair bc she plays vidya games.. etc.. I ask if she’s got a bed? Of course!! But repeats, nothing to do bc no booooyfriend.. bit of drivel goes on while she tries to maintain conversation.

        Meantime, the 35y/o owner of the establishment is weighing in with her problems. She went out last night and got absolutely plastered with her “friend”

        She repeated tales of her woe. I tell her if she wants sympathy, she knows where to find it. She questions this and I tell her she’ll find sympathy in the dictionary between shit and syphillis.

        She doesn’t bat an eyelid and cites a tale of a “perv” that was following her round last night. She’d told him he looked like a movie actor (beta bait) and he swallowed the chum and followed her all night like a puppy dog.. muh.. this pissed her off.

        Then she declares she’s mastered hollandaise sauce. I say that’s no big deal, it’s melted butter, egg yolk and a bit of other stuff. Mayonnaise is even easier, I do that with rapeseed oil and lime rather than vinegar and put in on poached salmon. She says she uses the powder formula and I eye roll and call her a fucking peasant.

        She repeats that she’s been instructed by her electrician that she can’t have anything else electrical, and she’s just baiting me to say “you can’t use your vibrator then” but I don’t.

        Now she declares she’s having trouble with her sausage supplier. I say I thought she was avoiding savoury and staying with sweet. She says she’s thinking of expanding etc.. and these ones are better than those ones, but you have to buy so many of those ones and she doesn’t think she can fit that many in her box. She says this is a bit strange because after two kids she really should be able to fit most things in her box.

        I don’t bat an eyelid at this and I say “that’s the trouble with you women, you’re not getting enough quality sausage and it makes you crabby”

        She then goes on to say that the ideal sausage is probably about 7.5 inches with a good girth. I don’t bat an eyelid bc my radar picks this up as a penis size intimidation move designed to weed out men without confidence and I’m on iPad working on ad words campaign for a friend.

        She doesn’t get a reaction so she says of course the perfect sausage is bigger than that, probably nine inches. (Raise the intimidation stakes)

        I’m still ignoring so she finally ups it to 11 inches. (Final hurrah – reduce your absurdity!!!) in a brioche.

        Nothing from me on the sausage size, but I say “muh, brioche is for poofs. That shit is full of butter, and try hard, what I want is a proper sausage in a crusty roll with brown sauce. And truth be known that’s what you need”

        We debate brioche. And so it goes on.

        I tell her that if she can tell me a good joke I’ll let her show me around town later. She pushed back on this saying she’s not sure what she’s doing bc she’s seeing the police tomorrow bc she’s got a stalker.

        I shrug, ask for the bill and leave.

        By the way, I didn’t spot the competition anxiety thing in real time.. bit looking back it was obvious!

        Go on then, what do you make of that lot??

        huge shit testing.. just huge.. and I’m more interested in Monday’s tides and wind direction If the truth be known.

        1. Go on then, what do you make of that lot??

          huge shit testing.. just huge.. and I’m more interested in Monday’s tides and wind direction If the truth be known.

          You’re in a funk?

          where is the “get on cam” guy? she’s up for playing and you’re just laying back. It’s a tennis match with a soft serve and no volley.

          You know they are going to test and you know how to have fun with it. so? What’s the big deal?

        2. @PalmaSailor

          @HABD

          “your FRs are seeming to indicate that girls are opening you more now too…lol”

          Well since you mention it, I mean where do I start… it’s quite surreal. I’m running at 100% dinner out / open ratio. Field reports below, but first, it’s not just me:

          Old friend, he with EEGF, has reported in highly smug with himself. EEGF is stranded back home bc “unrest” and she can’t get out and internet access has been pulled. So he’s flying solo while she is prob seeking out an alpha chad to bang [protect her from the bogeymen].

          Recently his mid 20’s son had a party and there was a 24 y/o girl there (solid 8, probably 9) who hit on old friend (63 ish). She told him “I like rich older men”. This wasn’t lost on him and he has proceeded as you would expect. One thing old freind is good at is banging women without spending any money on them. They think they’re gonna get it, and they do, but not the money lol..

          yep… that sh*t is ramping everywhere…lol

          Meantime, on the high seas, I managed to get off the mooring into a marina yesterday afternoon but I was in the same smelly clothes and wanted immediate food and cold beer so didn’t pass by the shower facilities.

          Turned up at bar, very cute small slim waitress says she can’t get me in for the food I want bc “rules” but all will be available from 5pm, but broke the rules to get me in bc Did I want alternative shit offering? I said “no but I want wine and I’ll wait”. Anyway I forget the flirting but it was surreal. She’s 40.. blah blah blah…

          see… looks matter, yo!…lol… and smells too…lol

          In the meantime I went back for breakfast today with bacon sandwich girl and shit just got even more surreal.

          Firstly the 16 y/o hb4 (fat) that was supposedly “hot” is all over me. “Oh hello yacht man, Have You worked out what You’ll have to spend on the boat yet?”

          Me “no”

          She volunteers she doesn’t have a bf and has sold the sofa in her room and replaced it with a chair bc she plays vidya games.. etc.. I ask if she’s got a bed? Of course!! But repeats, nothing to do bc no booooyfriend.. bit of drivel goes on while she tries to maintain conversation.

          Meantime, the 35y/o owner of the establishment is weighing in with her problems. She went out last night and got absolutely plastered with her “friend”

          “save me, captain save-a ho… save me!…”

          lol…

          She repeated tales of her woe. I tell her if she wants sympathy, she knows where to find it. She questions this and I tell her she’ll find sympathy in the dictionary between shit and syphillis.

          She doesn’t bat an eyelid and cites a tale of a “perv” that was following her round last night. She’d told him he looked like a movie actor (beta bait) and he swallowed the chum and followed her all night like a puppy dog.. muh.. this pissed her off.

          bc she’s the PRIZE!!!… <— note the all caps… AND exclamation points…lol

          Then she declares she’s mastered hollandaise sauce.

          sh*t test/beta bait… she’s still the prize…lol

          I say that’s no big deal, it’s melted butter, egg yolk and a bit of other stuff. Mayonnaise is even easier, I do that with rapeseed oil and lime rather than vinegar and put in on poached salmon. She says she uses the powder formula and I eye roll and call her a fucking peasant.

          lol…

          She repeats that she’s been instructed by her electrician that she can’t have anything else electrical, and she’s just baiting me to say “you can’t use your vibrator then” but I don’t.

          Now she declares she’s having trouble with her sausage supplier. I say I thought she was avoiding savoury and staying with sweet. She says she’s thinking of expanding etc.. and these ones are better than those ones, but you have to buy so many of those ones and she doesn’t think she can fit that many in her box. She says this is a bit strange because after two kids she really should be able to fit most things in her box.

          wow…lol… she’s really ramping the sexualizing…lol… but somebody has to… she’s running out of time without the kids…lol

          I don’t bat an eyelid at this and I say “that’s the trouble with you women, you’re not getting enough quality sausage and it makes you crabby”

          did you stare her down with a smirk?…lol

          She then goes on to say that the ideal sausage is probably about 7.5 inches with a good girth. I don’t bat an eyelid bc my radar picks this up as a penis size intimidation move designed to weed out men without confidence and I’m on iPad working on ad words campaign for a friend.

          She doesn’t get a reaction so she says of course the perfect sausage is bigger than that, probably nine inches. (Raise the intimidation stakes)

          I’m still ignoring so she finally ups it to 11 inches. (Final hurrah – reduce your absurdity!!!) in a brioche.

          Nothing from me on the sausage size, but I say “muh, brioche is for poofs. That shit is full of butter, and try hard, what I want is a proper sausage in a crusty roll with brown sauce. And truth be known that’s what you need”

          We debate brioche. And so it goes on.

          sounds like she was throwing out that beta bait good and hard…lol

          I tell her that if she can tell me a good joke I’ll let her show me around town later. She pushed back on this saying she’s not sure what she’s doing bc she’s seeing the police tomorrow bc she’s got a stalker.

          “see… i’m the PRIZE!!!… sooo much so that i have men stalking me!!!”

          lol…

          I shrug, ask for the bill and leave.

          By the way, I didn’t spot the competition anxiety thing in real time.. bit looking back it was obvious!

          Go on then, what do you make of that lot??

          huge shit testing.. just huge.. and I’m more interested in Monday’s tides and wind direction If the truth be known.

          juice not worth the squeezing, eh?…lol…

          you just need some better rest and a steak… and maybe a shower…lol… but that^^^ is what happens when you don’t control/lead the convo… and lead the topics of discussion… you end up reacting to a girl trying to sexualize with you and you get that feeling that something is just ‘off’ (bc she is doing the leading) and you shouldn’t play bc it will hurt you overall…

          it does take some amount of energy to be up for that sh*t though… welcome to the RP malaise…lol

          good luck!

  32. I am sure to have mentioned installing a hypergamy meter rigged to sense buying temp as a predictive tool for civil unrest.

    He will get plenty of offers.

    Things are getting tight in some spots here as well. The gaming biz iz all but shut the casino workers the ones that are left say it is dead as winter and no tips. Gaming town residents for sale and the borrowed munny is more than the curent demand will carry. They will be walking on mortgizages like it is 08.

    The remote build is in vogue,if I was younger I would cashin on it for now I will develope what I am holding and look for strong tenants.

    Build a floating marina in international waters rent it out and charge your own taxes. Brew your own beer,And piss off the dock whenever you feel like

    1. “I am sure to have mentioned installing a hypergamy meter rigged to sense buying temp as a predictive tool for civil unrest.”

      If you did then I missed it.. I’d like to know more..

      I’m pissing off the deck anyway by the way

  33. I tried a social experiment to see if there was a difference between the girls I usually meet and bang under 30 and a 41 year old I met online.

    The two age groups do have some things in common, there is this idea that they want to think they’re the only one you’re banging….but the under 20 is less confident and does more to keep you interested while the 41 year old says it but knows it’s impossible so doesn’t care.

    Despite wanting a steady relationship of some kind, the 41 year old I banged never bothered to contact me again. (good thing actually) but worth noting in that whole idea of wanting a “relationship”.

    Both girls are lazy, what’s up with girls not being interested in cooking? But the younger ones WANT to learn for the sake of being open-minded and exploring new things. The 41 year old…not so much.

    Women in general are boring so don’t try to be the guy who entertains them or tries to keep the conversation going.

    Game is required in all circumstances but with the 41 year old direct caveman game works better. Once attraction is sparked the “comfort” phase is much shorter and it’s straight to seduction. Younger girls are much more playful and fun. Younger guys don’t know game so you come off as being the most interesting man in the world if you can tease them and brush aside their “You’re sexist!” shit tests…with “That’s what you like about me…”

    Conclusion? Bang younger girls. It’s good for your self-worth and confidence.

    1. Remember when it was revealed that Tiger had sixteen girlfriends? go back and watch the videos of some of them being interviewed: each one said that they thought they were “the only one.” It seems to be a symptom of female solipsism.

  34. Man, western women are so fuckin difficult, seriously.

    As an eastern european living in the UK, british HB7s won’t touch me with a 10 foot pole, lol, whereas back home much more realistic to get with a nice feminine HB7.

    I know a lot of eastern european guys who lived in the UK and were fuckin incels for years, couldnt get single pussy, and decided to go back to their countries and boom, a few months pass and they get something, and most admitted that they had to leave due to lack of pussy.

    One close friend couldnt get anything for 7-8 years and decided to go back home for good and now smashes new girl every few months, its crazy the difference between western and eastern european women. I have friends back home with 10-15 notches that if they lived in the west that number would be 0, lol.

    I have decided to go back home for good as well, but need to sort out my career and stuff as its a niche and cant find many jobs back home, might have to transition to something different ( software maybe ). But even if i don’t, my choice will be between incel with a good paid job in the UK vs low/avg paid job but with some pussy in eastern europe and since i want pussy like crazy, i’ll probably still choose the 2nd option, lol.

    I only know 3 eastern european guys ( out of few hundred i’ve met over the past decade ) that smash western chicks, and all 3 quite good looking that get approached by the girls, lol. Everyone else, incel.

    Obviously there is no pussy paradise anywhere, but from what i can see from dozens of friends and experience, eastern european women are still ok, and you don’t have to be 6ft+, 6 pack, 6 figure, etc, etc to get with an HB7. Whereas in the west, HB7s are reserved for chad only, lol and are still not very feminine and act like their shit dont stink. Even if i could fuck these girls, I’d never be in a relationship, western women are shit for that.

    1. I agree 100%. I am an American and have a circle of eastern European immigrant friends. The women are very feminine. I have experienced the same distinction in women who have emigrated from the Philippines and Columbia.

    2. spend the money on getting a hooker…. it will be cheaper in the long run….

      That way you get to choose the best of the bunch and you dont have them following you afterwards.

      1. Nah, sex with hookers is like 1/10th of sex with a girl that wants you. It’s just an expensive wank. Transactional sex is complete shit, I prefer to wank and think of the past validational sex that I had with ex gfs than have pure transcational sex. Hookers are really waste of time and money.

        1. @Stefan

          ^^ this is absolutely correct and it’s why we take apart minute elements of interactions over at field reports.

          It isn’t just the sex that’s 1000x better, it’s the entire interaction with a woman that absolutely and totally desires you.

          She just can’t get enough. And being in that place is where the fun is, and also where the protection from divorce rape, false allegations and everything else is.

  35. Comon on Rollo, he is not that good looking dude, yeah no brad pitt but the guy is 6’3 minimum and women are super hard on height, the is the one phisical attribute they won’t concede. So, you won’t need to be a brad pitt so as long as you are super tall.

  36. Red Pill Dosed Stefan

    File under “Alpha’s have very different reference experiences”

    Rather, his past suggests a lone wolf, a charming but violent con artist who, over the past 30 years, has roamed the country under myriad aliases, leaving fear and wreckage in his wake. At least seven women have accused him of kidnapping and rape. Two of these women said Parrillo held them captive for more than a year, and that he sired a child with them.

    Parrillo has never been charged for mistreating women, but the accusations that women have made against him—to me and to others—are remarkably consistent. They depict him as a dangerous man and fantastical liar who survives by scamming anyone he can.

    https://www.backpacker.com/stories/kidnapped-on-the-pacific-crest-trail

    1. I read most of the article but i still don’t understand what you mean.
      What does this con artist / rapist/ whatever guy has to do with any of this?
      Why are you saying he is an alpha if women are reporting him for sexual assault?

      1. @Stefan

        They didn’t report him for sexual assault.

        “No charges have been filed against the alleged perpetrator.“

        He did what he wanted and they wanted him back too badly to file charges.

      2. Stefan, totally agree with you man, don’t know where sentient gets alpha out of this nut job bitch POS. The “woman” in the article isn’t even the article, xi is actually a 62yo transvestite. So the “man” is a pathological liar that can only get by on fraud and he lived on the trail w/ a 60+yo tranny annie and repeatedly beat and raped the guy. The other ones were afraid to report him because he threatned their families and was obviously unstable.

        1. This was the victim that Parillo singled out of the bunch. Keith was a victim his whole life of some scam or another. Alpha doesn’t look for vics .

          “When she was 16 and living a quotidian middle-class life with her parents in San Francisco, she ran away for eight weeks, hitchhiking to New Jersey and back. Moon identified as male at the time. When she was 20, she took another bold move and underwent sex reassignment surgery, changing her legal name from Keith Marchington to Kira Marchington-Moon.”

        2. @Wahoo

          Yeah some are pieces of shit, most criminals are alpha but they get women (and a lot of other things they want) on their own terms.

          https://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/news/liverpool-news/former-girlfriends-describe-life-alpha-18039690

          How many nice guys can’t even get one date and one of these women went out with this ^^ piece of shit for 2 years.

          I used to employ women that got the shit beaten out of them by the bloke, he’d go inside for time and there would be a court order. He can’t go within x miles of her. Etc..

          When he got out she’d come in black and blue again. I’d say I thought he couldn’t come near her and one of the staff said to me that it wasn’t him that broke the order, she went to him the minute he got out.

          It’s all about being selected for reproduction as opposed to provision. Once the penny drops on that, together with what it means life changes.

          1. Palma

            “Yeah some are pieces of shit, most criminals are alpha…”

            Most criminals are beta that can’t make it honest,either to stupid or to weak.

            They can fool the hamster in her hind brain and she will keep going back for abuse,it is the best she can do.

            This particular guy went to prison and likely got ass raped there on a regular basis. He was a homeless guy preying on backpacking yuppies in their REI gear and knuckled under a sanfransisco cocksucker.

            So ya I doubt if @ sentient even read the whole thing. Transvetites don’t have a reproductive urge for alpha and aren’t hypergamous so try again.

      3. Gentlefolk

        I posted this guy because Alpha is about attraction and frame. And the reference experiences that result.

        My man here spent THIRTY YEARS taking what he wanted from numerous women, even having kids with them.

        He is not here posting about how terrible women treat men and how unfare things are… Consider THAT…

        The tranny part was an Easter egg… Been down this road with Scray and Ya. Truth is gay or bi guys are often very alpha and have very very strong frames. Alpha is amoral and not a sexual preference. Wrap your heads around that and let go of the WK impulses.

        Manosphere hero OG

        https://www.orderofman.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/Jack-Donovan-300×300.jpg

        Badass Alpha!

        A whole tribe of em

        https://thundermark.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/tumblr_n53qbov3fk1r5hldwo1_1280.jpg

        1. sentient, nice try but ((gong)).

          “I posted this guy because Alpha is about attraction and frame. And the reference experiences that result.”

          His main attraction was ” I am deaf and dumb,my truck is broke” = helpless puppy that needs nurture and saved. Next he ticks the provider box ” I have a check coming.” Then after isolating he starts to dhv only not higher value rather higher threat of violence. Mostly what he will do to the guys responsible for his truck problems. Just the basic self righteous indignation that is rampant these days.

          “My man here spent THIRTY YEARS taking what he wanted from numerous women, even having kids with them.”

          It’s your story tell it however you want to. He’s your Man. Goofy sucker.

          “He is not here posting about how terrible women treat men and how unfare things are… Consider THAT…”

          Who is?
          Careful who you choose to idealize,a bad choice will come aroud and bite you on the ass. Remember you can bs anyone but when you start to convince yourself all bets are off.

          “A better shot of Jack and the boys”

          I don’t need a gay dude telling me the way of men,he searched it out to satisfy his own curiosity and what he found was already tainted by a feminine primary social order. The girls have defined masculinity for most men.

          1. I have pointed out here on numerous occasions that you don’t have to be an asshole to be an alpha.

            Likewise, being an asshole does not preclude you from being an alpha.

            Alphas do not follow the rules, they are the ones that make them. In that sense whatever an alpha does is socially proper, however much it might annoy the mass of rule following deltas.

            The biggest, baddest alphas on the planet right now are the leaders of the Mexican drug cartels who have made themselves de facto warlords of their own countries. These are not nice men.

            “Careful who you choose to idealize . . .”

            He did not idealize him. He identified him. Careful who you dismiss from consideration.

            Perhaps the easiest way to identify an alpha is by the marriage proposals he gets while sitting on death row.

            So, once again, you don’t need to be a murderer to be an alpha, but being a murderer does not preclude you from being an alpha. “But that’s not nice,” and “Those aren’t quality women” are the mental defenses of those who cannot bear even understanding alpha, never mind being one.

            And they are the mass of men. Vox Day terms them Deltas. Around here they might be termed Lesser Betas.

          2. Can’t top kfg’s response.

            as usual…

            On this

            Who is?

            I refer you to the comments on this very thread by Red Pill Dosed and Stefan…

            But thanks for playing, truly. I knew this kind of response would crop up and it’s useful. and the board has been stale… lol

            Lessons are where we find them.

    2. Just saying… on the whole “emotional roller coaster” this hits all the marks…

      The couple met at Sheffields Truck Stop, in Ocala, Fla., where Valerie was working as a clerk. Ocala is a small city in northern Florida, about 40 miles south of Gainesville.

      “He said his truck had broken down,” and he was waiting for $800 to be wired to him, Valerie said. “We ended up sitting at the truck stop until 4 a.m.”

      Finally, “I told him he could come to my house for the night. I felt sorry for him. I didn’t want to just leave him sitting there.”

      A single mother who had recently ended a six-year relationship with the father of her youngest daughter, she wasn’t the least bit interested in getting romantically involved with anyone, Valerie said.

      “He was a man in need,” she said. “Truckers make fun of someone like that,” with hearing and speech difficulties, she added. “My big heart, I just wanted to help.”

      He became the guest who wouldn’t leave.

      A few days later, he tripped and hit his head. After a visit to the local hospital, he told Valerie that doctors said the accident had miraculously restored his ability to speak and hear.

      Then he invented a story that the Mafia was out to get him, and that she too was in danger. Valerie’s mother was visiting from western Florida, and DeCompo convinced both women that they, and Valerie’s two young daughters, needed to flee with him.

      On the road, they lived off Valerie’s mother’s credit cards for a while. DeCompo promised to repay the thousands of dollars charged.

      Meanwhile, Valerie’s mother’s husband reported his wife missing and, a week after she’d left with DeCompo, canceled her ATM and credit cards. As a result, the automated teller machines kept the cards when requests were made for cash, according to Florida police. The same day, Jan. 2, DeCompo left Valerie’s mother and children at the Tampa airport.

      He told Valerie her mother and children were being guarded by an “associate.” And she’d only see them again if she was good.

      A lot of the story sounds crazy, Valerie knows. She believes he was drugging her in the beginning, feeding her extra doses of the anti-anxiety medication her doctor had prescribed, thus lowering her ability to resist his manipulation. And later, after she ran out of the medication, he controlled her through fear, she said.

      DeCompo said he’d kill her children if she left him, Valerie said, and she believed him.

      Wayne Schroeder, vice president of investments for PaineWebber in Ocala, thinks others could be at risk. DeCompo was a “top-notch” con man, Schroeder said. “He was extremely good.”

      Schroeder met the couple when they came to his office, accompanied by Valerie’s mother, last December, during the early days of their trek.

      DeCompo said they were getting married and that he wanted to set up a trust fund for Valerie. She was quiet and looked a little dazed, Schroeder recalled.

      DeCompo wore boots and a T-shirt that exposed arms covered with tattoos. He stood out at the brokerage firm’s offices. But he looked like he could be “a trust-fund baby,” somebody with inherited wealth, Schroeder said.

      “He acted like he knew the business, like he had been around brokers. He used the correct terminology. He knew IBM wasn’t performing well. He portrayed himself as an investor with a $2.4 million portfolio,” Schroeder said.

      After they left, Schroeder discovered that all the information DeCompo supplied about himself – from his Social Security number to a Hawaii home address – was phony. No money had ever changed hands. Schroeder believes DeCompo’s purpose for that visit was to impress Valerie and her mother.

      Valerie hopes that if she can get enough media attention, someone will recognize DeCompo, although that does not appear to be his real name. To that end, she’s been contacting national television shows, including “America’s Most Wanted,” “Unsolved Mysteries” and “Oprah Winfrey.”

      “Anybody who’s seen him will remember him,” she said.

      Morris Wright and Donald Fitts do remember him. Fitts is a bellman at the Tutwiler Hotel in Birmingham, Ala. Wright is the manager there.

      On Easter Sunday, Valerie approached Fitts, pleading: “You need to get me away from here now,” he said. “She said this man she was rooming with was deranged.”

      He believed from the tone in her voice that she was sincere, and he hustled her into the hotel’s courtesy van. “That’s when she freaked out,” lying down on the van’s floor and asking to be taken to police. “She was hiding from this man, for real,” Fitts said.

      Within minutes, DeCompo came downstairs to the front desk and asked if the staff had seen her, Wright said. “We lied through our teeth and said `No.’ It was obvious to us something was wrong. I told everybody to play dumb.”

      DeCompo soon left with a backpack, leaving Valerie’s things behind in the room.

      Police arrived five minutes later. They canvassed the area, but couldn’t find him, Wright said. “The guy just vanished into thin air.”

      https://www.dailypress.com/news/dp-xpm-19941205-1994-12-05-9412050034-story.html

      those who have ears…

  37. @Stefan

    Dude… I’ll leave it to @HABD to hit all these limiting beliefs… so just on this:

    I know a lot of eastern european guys who lived in the UK and were fuckin incels for years, couldnt get single pussy, and decided to go back to their countries and boom, a few months pass and they get something, and most admitted that they had to leave due to lack of pussy.

    Get off your arse, leave the crab bucket and do the work.

    Look around too. Take this Eastern European who managed to self-promote to “Britain’s best-paid life coach” (lol… full of hot air and posing but respect the hustle… don’t believe the £ success porn though):

    I grew up poor. Came to London at 22 with no money (by bus for 27 hours because I couldn’t afford a plane ticket), no formal education, and barely speaking any English. I spent the first six years working in fashion retail which I found uninspiring to say the least. When I set up my coaching practice at 28, I was £5k in credit card debt. For the first 26 years of my life, I was useless with women. And for most of my life, I was in okay shape at best.

    Now I do what I love, with the people I love. I live in a penthouse overlooking the biggest landmarks of my favourite city in the world, and there is absolutely nothing (within reason) that I cannot afford. I couldn’t possibly be more happy with my dating life. I take plenty of mini holidays, staying in the best hotels and eating at the best restaurants everywhere I go. I’m in the best shape of my life, and only getting better.

    Let’s not forget that Western pretty boys are pussies too:

    https://www.facebook.com/e4madeinchelsea/videos/10155849819083953/

    Girls don’t care about your accent or life story. They look at your frame… Fix it.

    Expect shit tests and deal with them. This moistens the path of life… lol

  38. @Wanoo

    I wasn’t talking about the tranny end of it, that bit is obv fucked up. I was talking about the guy himself.

    No one filed any charges? If he’d been a beta they’d have been all over him, so he had an edge.

    White collar criminals might be beta, but I’m sticking with my theory that the other ones, thieves and violent pos are alpha.

  39. “I wasn’t talking about the tranny end of it, that bit is obv fucked up. I was talking about the guy himself.”

    Guess you should read the whole article, the guy himself was abusing a tranny and using it for its bank card. I can tell you in my circle the guy himself would get beat to death quick and in a hurry,lol but not kidding.

    “White collar criminals might be beta, but I’m sticking with my theory that the other ones, thieves and violent pos are alpha.”

    When they get locked up or meet their maker they find out what alpha is.LOL

    I am sure there are some better examples of your point out there for all to see. I know you are right in principal and theory but learning to scam weak ass people with threats of violence and retaliation does not an alpha make. Guys like him get their ass kicked in every day.

    1. It’s the format.

      I used to think I wanted them because I loved them on Usenet, but with the WordPress formatting they just don’t work, at all. That’s what happens when you get rid of the interface experts and replace them with “designers.” Everything starts to look like a print magazine and nothing interactive really works anymore.

      1. I used to think I wanted them because I loved them on Usenet, but with the WordPress formatting they just don’t work, at all.

        Yeah, life is different when grep and maybe sed are part of the tool install. Funny how progress turns out to be !progress.

        That’s what happens when you get rid of the interface experts and replace them with “designers.”

        But it be so pretty! And encourages more people onto the interwebs! MOAR!

        Everything starts to look like a print magazine and nothing interactive really works anymore.

        “It’s a feature! Not a bug!”

    2. I thought nested comments would be good.

      Heartiste ran them for years. Dalrock tried them and switched back to flat in days.

      Nested is problematic in some ways, flat is problematic in other ways.

      1. I thought CH was only one level nested though. So it wasn’t so cluttered and he had all posts on one page so it was easy to pick up via search.

  40. “He did not idealize him. He identified him. Careful who you dismiss from consideration.”

    Simple case of mistaken identity, looks like confirmation bias to me. You sir are dismissed.

  41. @Sentient

    I thought nested comments would be good.

    They aren’t.

    Any chance of changing Rollo???

    What about a proper forum with functionality that goes beyond what WordPress offers?

    It costs time and money, so I’d need to see enough interest to crack on with it.

    1. Eh… Forums tend to loose comments in threads. They are great for cars… Real specific things but “help with new girl” etc. Everything gets blended in.

  42. @HABD / Sentient

    You know it’s surreal, In the time we’ve been talking a guy who is coming down at the weekend has texted me to say that a female friend of his half my age is in the next town along from me and she is already out / wants to hit town.

    That’s a real long shot as I’m I’m bumble fuck nowhere.

    She’s come away on her own to a coastal town and she’s on her own out drinking. So what does that tell you.

    https://imgur.com/a/0oTunqG

    We’ve had a bit of a text to and fro and I’ve said get a cab here, she’s said “no you get a cab here” and I’m sitting on the back of the boat thinking “nah”, and I really DGAF.

    I’m ignoring the vast majority of the texts that the woman I’m banging has sent too. I didn’t pick up when she called. I am getting red hot desire sex almost daily where she arrives on my doorstep and I’ve just walked away from it to do a bit of sailing for a couple of weeks.

    https://imgur.com/a/1PNPR00

    Who walks away from daily hot sex to sail in the pissing rain. Most men couldn’t even conceive of the idea. Ok I miss it a bit, but I’d rather be here than there.

    “it does take some amount of energy to be up for that sh*t though… welcome to the RP malaise…lol”

    I reckon the RP malaise is worse for those women than me. I’m getting desire sex every day of the week and they’re not. And to be honest that’s always going to be available if I can be bothered. The thing is, the less I can be bothered, the more they chase and the hotter the sex is.

    They’re reduced to incorrect reversed gender roles to try to get it while I’m more interested in reading wind and tide reports right now.

  43. @IRL

    Well, there are successes for sure, I am not saying it can’t be done but still more difficult and more resistance than just moving back home.

    In the west things are too extreme – you either get lots of pussy ( few guys ) or none at all ( most guys ). In eastern europe so far things are a bit more balanced – a bit of pussy for most guys ( not all, of course, since some guys are truly hopeless ).

    Rollo speaks about solving reproductive problem, yeah? Well, based on my experience and the experience of dozens of guys I know who were in my situation, moving back will increase my chances to solve that reproductive problem.

    End of the day i don’t want to fuck a new girl every week ( and I couldn’t if i wanted lol ) but get some every now and then or a gf or something and focus on hobbies and other interest.

    What i found out is, life is much more fun and all interests and hobbies make you feel better if you get laid regularly. So, for me to reach that level the barrier is way higher in the west than back home.
    Just need to get a nice feminine HB6-7 and to smash 2-3x a week and I m good for life, can do hobbies and enojoy life with friends, etc. And there are plenty of them girls back home, and I don’t have to go to pua forums and/or try to be top 10% of the guys just to get that.

    It’s a simple solution that has worked for so many guys, so I am quite confident it will work for me, too.

    1. @Stefan

      You’re looking for cheat codes.

      If you do what you propose then you’ll eventually face the same shit tests (fitness tests) in your own country when your woman is looking for leadership and a solid rock later in the marriage.

      The better long term option is to learn about female attraction and game no matter where you choose to practice it.

  44. Further on criminality and repro success, from RT twatter…

    “Convicted criminal offenders had more children than individuals never convicted of a criminal offense…Importantly, the reproductive success of criminals was explained by a fertility increase from having children with several different partners.”

    https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513814000774

    https://mobile.twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1296604532718407686

  45. @Stefan

    It’s a simple solution that has worked for so many guys, so I am quite confident it will work for me, too.

    Ok so you have ideas on what to do. Fine. How’s execution going?

    What have you done towards your goal so far? When are you moving? What’s still to be done?

    I agree with @Palma but I also think you just need to act on whatever you believe in and learn in the process. There’s only the hard way.

    You want something but the path is too overwhelming? Don’t try to solve it all at once. Start with the first step. Then the next one. And the next one.

    You want to live in your home country? Book a ticket. Then follow up.
    You want to be in a relationship? Say hi to a new girl.
    And so on…

    Maybe you’ll get what you want your way or maybe you’ll pivot and follow a different path. Or maybe you’ll keep dreaming your dream and things won’t change much in the next 12 months.

    That’s all there is to it.

    Action, reaction, calibration.
    Or inaction, brain farts and hot air.

  46. End of the day i don’t want to fuck a new girl every week ( and I couldn’t if i wanted lol ) but get some every now and then or a gf or something and focus on hobbies and other interest.

    There are many types of Alpha. Some depend on numbers, some are “Dark Triad” Alpha who have solid relationships. To become successful with Dark Triad strategy, you’ll need polarity. If you’re a player, find a girl who has only girl-friends, they do exist (https://heartiste.net/judging-a-girl-by-the-friends-she-keeps/)

    These girls had a strong father. But be it a church girl or a club-slut, you’ll need to be Alpha to control women.

  47. What’s Tomi’s opinion about women whose divorce has not yet been “finalized” throwing up their dating profile on tinder?

    How much dick do they need?

    1. How much? If you happen to Google Milf Group Party you’ll see it’s often just one and they wait their turn. Lol

  48. Here is a good method to view Tomi Lahrens rant…imagine she is talking to the Old Spice Guy. You know the shirtless alpha male in the ads?

    Initially I thought her “advice” was for beta males (my mistake). Her “advice” is for the alphas she has left the club with for a decade no rules necessary. She is pleading with this high SMV category to stop spinning plates with “thot-tianas” and choose her and her friends for an LTR.

    She proclaims “it’ll be a cold day in hell when I chase a man” when that’s exactly the point of her youtube screed.

    1. Yep, her hindbrain is desperate for some Alpha and she is very afraid of settling for Beta. It is written on her face and in her voice.

      Thanks to Rollo for running this site, linking to such vids, analyzing them and above all — for the books. Because that gives average Beta men who think about wifing up girls like Tomi a set of choices, rather than a cattle chute.

  49. @PalmaSailor

    I agree with you but my point is that if I get one girl every 3-4 years in the UK, back home I m confident I’ll be able to get a girl every year or so ( maybe even shorter than a year but just in case ). So, overall I have the potential to get more exp with women back home and learn about their nature by having more exposure to women in general than the exposure I get in the UK.

    @IRL

    Yes, I sort of have a plan, been working on it for a few months now, it will take me roughly 3-4 years before i can go back. The problem is that I will be 33-34 years old ( I am turning 30 in a few months ) and will be harder to get them 20-23 yo girls. 10-13 years difference is quite a lot after all, I know some guys can make it happen but I doubt I am one of those :D. Hopefully, I will get some mid 20s girls.

    @Johan

    Yes, I am aware that women need a masculine guy to control them no matter where they are from ( west,east,etc ). All I am saying is that I will be able to get more women and hotter back home than what i can get in the UK and that will give me more exposure therefore more exp with women in general.

    Also, eastern european women are more submissive in general and looking for that masculine guy to submit to and more traditional, etc, etc.

    I mean, Rollo speaks all the time about his wife how she gave him the keys to her car and trusting him with her life like its something special, and maybe it is in the west. But in eastern europe my ex ( who is eastern european) did the same from day 1, all my friends with eastern european gfs got the same from day 1.

    In general its a bit easier to be more dominant and authorative with eastern european women, plus they are thinner in general ( no offense but avg western women are quite fat ), dress more feminine, wear a bit less makeup, have longer hair, don’t just go out wearing sportswear, are more caring, etc, etc.
    Not to mention the single mom thing, in the UK/US its about 20-25% single moms, thats fuckin huge. As a comparison, back home its about 1-2%, lol, imagine that. There is no feminism there either ( yet ), I m talking about southeastern europe ( balkan peninsula ), I know Poland is a bit more different but they’ve always been a bit more westernized than the rest of eastern europe

    A few advantages of western women are that they are easier to fuck ( if you are attractive enough for her ) and are better in bed ( due to higher avg notch count ). So if you are some alpha chad who wants to fuck as many girls as possible, for sure the west is a better place. But for the avg guy , the avg eastern european girl is better than the avg western girl. Not to mention that the avg guy can’t get an avg western girl because she only wants top 10% guys and looks down on the avg guy. Whereas in eastern europe its completely normal for avg guy to be with an avg girl.

    And just for the laugh:

    1. @stefan

      You’re rationalising giving up before you even start.

      Why bother even posting here?

      Is there just a leeetle tiny voice in the back of your brain that thinks:

      “Perhaps if I try and I do the work I could get better with women? Just perhaps that’s possible? After all I do see old short bald men with women all over the place.

      But silence to that voice!! It’s easier to moan and try to play where the game is easier..

      🤷‍♂️

      1. Palma

        These guys. They think they are going to leave ground zero of sexual liberation and go spin some Balkan girl as a plate… Like their Dad or brothers are going to be just fine with that… Lolzlzlzl

        Easy button?

        1. @Sentiemt

          Ahh. Yunnow.. what first led me here was the HPD ex.. I’d always done well with women and not once did I look in the mirror and think in too short. I was measured 5’8” as a kid and never bothered to check it until the nurse said she’s 5’8” so I can’t be (shit test obv.) So it seems in 5’6”. And IDGAF..

          Bc I was blue pill I didn’t even thing seriously younger was really an option until I realised what was up and managed to get younger, 25, and 35. And I want to repeat that on demand. So I stick with it bc the penny still hasn’t dropped, and sometimes I just can’t be bothered..

          Yeah, when I worked in Moldova I could have banged a 22 y/o 9, because they go home to a farm where they are poor. That’s not the game, and if I was to gamble I’d say they EE women are a lot more ruthless than their western counterparts bc they have no social care system.

          Anyone heading in that direction in search of an easy button gonna be in for the shock of their lives when it gets real.

          1. For the readers:

            If a woman brings “up” your height (hehe), you can always reply that good things come in small packages. A woman will likely follow with: “You have nothing to draw with and the well is deep.” (sh1t test) …to which you reply “My water is living water that quenches a woman’s thirst.”

            Women like bold, persistent men.

            Assume desire and be bold.

      2. Just sharing my opinion,really.

        Plus, It’s not like I am moving to a country where i don’t know anyone, or the language, etc. Most of my friends are there, all my family is there, i m not going to uknown place. Also, thing with women is not the only reason that I want to move, there are others, too.

        I am aware that it comes across as me moaning and bitching but I am excited about the future, actually, having a good plan to work towards. In the mean time of course I am going to gym, eating well, etc. I don’t expect women to throw themselves at me no matter what country i go to, lol.

          1. No, I am generally a funny guy ( so, i m told ) but the problem I have is that it comes out after i know the person for some time at least. As a first impression i can be a bit quiet/shy, lol.

            All the gilrs i’ve been with before, I knew for months before we fucked. When i had some coffee dates earlier this year with girls i never knew before ( from online dating ) i struggled to be exciting/interesing/sexy/funny and never managed to convert to a 2nd meet with any of them. I think this is one of my biggest problems. And teasing is hard, too when i meet the for the 1st time.

        1. @Stefan

          Speaking of alpha this thing is parked next door to me right now, and it reminded me of you… actually I’d didn’t remind me of you lol… but I thought of you when I met the bloke in the bar and it shed a different view on life.

          https://i.imgur.com/YHaK4Up.jpg

          Why don’t you go and Row the Atlantic solo, and then come back and see how your “luck” fares with women. Talk about separate the men from the boys..

          https://www.atlanticsolo.co.uk/the-challenge

          1. @Palma

            This looks interesing, but i am too much of a pussy for something like that, lol. Although I do try to do some adventurous stuff ( got a sports bike last year, looking to try scuba diving, etc.).

            Actually that reminds me to ask , do you think guys who do stuff like that can be attractive to women based on those experiences? Cuz I ‘ve seen guys with some cool adventures that couldn’t present/show off to women and it made no difference. So, isn’t it the ability to present/storytell, actually more important than the adventure/experience itself.

            I mean, there are nerds that have been to space, do you think they will get pussy just because of that, I think women won’t give a shit and will just ignore the nerd. Whereas a hot guy in cancun foam party could just do nothing but go to gym and get way more pussy than the nerd who’s had a lot of adventures.

            What do you think?

    1. Her sunglasses look like kitten ears.

      That’s a kind of tell all by itself. Clues abound when one looks closely at girls.

  50. @Stefan

    No, I am generally a funny guy ( so, i m told ) but the problem I have is that it comes out after i know the person for some time at least. As a first impression i can be a bit quiet/shy, lol.

    Good, it starts with self-awareness and being honest with yourself.

    You know what comes after? Facing the reality that there’s no shortcut and you’ll need to Do The Work. Whatever the playing field you choose. This is unavoidable. You’ll have to follow The Process, no way around it. There’s no magic situ, that one girl, good upbringing, culture, geography, money, lookism, luck.

    Then you’ll need to want to develop new skills and be driven by goals more important than your current situ. Without the burning desire to change, you’ll just keep whimpering and whining and moaning. But won’t do much about it.

    One day a man was walking down the street on his way to work. As he walked down the street, there were dogs on just about every front porch and they all would bark as the man walked passed them. However, there was one dog that he remembered, because this dog was just sitting there and he was whimpering and whining and moaning, you know the little whimpering sounds dogs make when they are wounded or in some sort of pain. Well this particular dog was just sitting there on the front porch making those sounds. The man was curious as to why this dog wasn’t barking like the other dogs and why he was whimpering. He couldn’t figure it out, so he just kept walking to work. The next day he was in the same situation where he was walking down the street and saw the dogs once again and this same dog that was moaning and groaning the other day was doing the same thing today and he just couldn’t figure it out. Well, he walked past for an entire week and every day the dog would be there moaning and groaning. So, finally, the guy got fed up, he said “let me find out what’s going on.” So he went and knocked on the door and a guy came out and said, “Yes, how may I help you?” He said, “Sir, is this your dog?” “Yes, that’s my dog.” “Well, what’s wrong with him?” The owner of the dog said, “What do you mean?” “Well, he’s been sitting here moaning and groaning, whimpering and whining for an entire week. The rest of the dogs are barking, your dog should be barking too, why is he moaning and groaning?” The owner said, “Well, he’s actually sitting on a nail.” He said, “What! Your dog is sitting on a nail. Why doesn’t he get off?” “Well, it just doesn’t hurt him enough.”

    From: https://finsecurity.com/finsecurity/quotes/mm0101.html

    So there needs to be enough pull (the goal) and enough push (the nail) in your life. Because The Process and Doing The Work won’t be easy and will make you uncomfortable. Your brain will try to pull you back into your miserable comfort zone You have this forum and may ask for guidance, but you’ll have to act on it and plow through. Away from the nail and towards the goal. The Process, right?

    It’ll take months of solid effort. I’d say 3 if you’re on it. Like proper 90 days of daily work and action taking. Not faking being busy but really pushing the envelop. Thinking of things that stress you and make you uncomfortable and then doing something about them. The longer you avoid it and occupy yourself with bullshit, the longer the path to daylight. Up to you if it’s months, years or sweet never.

    Luckily, you can break it down into small doses of action, habits and targets. If going out and pulling girls for SNL (or marriage lol) overwhelms you, start with the first thing you could do to move towards your goal (whatever it is, we really don’t care/judge). You need to learn how to say hi to a stranger? Make it your first goal. Keeping eye contact? Focus on that. Teasing? Making sexual innuendos? Building attraction to a point she punches your arm? Focus on the next thing you need to sort out and work on it. Don’t let the big goal make you freeze and stay on the nail. Build the skills and keep going. If you do enough, you’ll reach your goal.

    Also, if breaking things down makes them easier, the same applies to making your bad action/thought habits more difficult. You spend too much time playing video games or watching tv? Get rid of them. You mindlessly flick through social media? Delete. It’s like with fatties already having junk food in their cupboards vs. having to get off the sofa, drive to a shop and buy them them to stick in their face… too much effort. So create inconvenience and barriers to your bad mental habits while making it easier to work on the ones aligned with your big goal.

    One more: you want abundance. You don’t want to develop a sniper mentality, you want to shrug off one rejection and have fun elsewhere. Talk to many girls, try different things and keep going. Any dead time will just put you back in your head.

    Being shy doesn’t mean not being talkative. This is a muscle which you need to warm up and train. Get better at it. It’ll take time and many moments of self-doubt, but this is part of the process. You won’t get good if you don’t have abundance and ample of opportunities to work on your skills.

    Your brain will try to trick you and sabotage your effort until you start getting some feedback. This is Doing The Work. Don’t forget to let yourself celebrate and be proud of little victories. The first hi, the first smile, the first kino, the first kiss, the first number etc.

    All the gilrs i’ve been with before, I knew for months before we fucked. When i had some coffee dates earlier this year with girls i never knew before ( from online dating ) i struggled to be exciting/interesing/sexy/funny and never managed to convert to a 2nd meet with any of them. I think this is one of my biggest problems. And teasing is hard, too when i meet the for the 1st time.

    Good, break it down. Let’s start with field reports, even if from the past at first. Tell us what happened, what you think went well and what didn’t work. Go from being oblivious, to spotting it when someone points at it, to spotting it after the fact, to catching it in real time, to knowing what will happen ahead of time. The Process, right? Do The Work.

    @Palma

    This looks interesing, but i am too much of a pussy for something like that, lol. Although I do try to do some adventurous stuff ( got a sports bike last year, looking to try scuba diving, etc.).

    Actually that reminds me to ask , do you think guys who do stuff like that can be attractive to women based on those experiences? Cuz I ‘ve seen guys with some cool adventures that couldn’t present/show off to women and it made no difference. So, isn’t it the ability to present/storytell, actually more important than the adventure/experience itself.

    I mean, there are nerds that have been to space, do you think they will get pussy just because of that, I think women won’t give a shit and will just ignore the nerd. Whereas a hot guy in cancun foam party could just do nothing but go to gym and get way more pussy than the nerd who’s had a lot of adventures.

    What do you think?

    Being dynamic, passionate and authentic (https://newlyaloof.wordpress.com/2016/12/02/sentients-dynamic-passionate-authentic-framework/) is what triggers attraction. But you’re right, it’s nothing if you don’t act on it and don’t speak womanese. You still need to lead and make the cat follow you. No way around it.

    Good luck!

    1. Fulcrum is the pivot point, the church at the long end of the lever, Men and children at the short end. Not so bad in 1800s. Now with women taking over the church they are holding the long end of the lever with the children men are the fulcrum and chaos is being manipulated.

    1. @Sentient

      Yeah.. the correct evolutionary process is for women to filter and exclude the wrong men.

      Feminism etc… is trying to dick with that and provide “options”. It stands to reason that those “options” should not be genetically optimal and will backfire.

  51. Welcome to the future

    they’re promising young men in college towns—maybe down on their luck, in need of money—an easy and anonymous way to make serious money.

    We spoke of Alpha Farms of 2057 in the past… may need to update the timeline…

    VeRY Very NSFW don’t click $https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5f1800dfa78a8#1$

    Begs the question – Alpha or beta? [Appears this kind of thing is really becoming popular, not “industry”]

      1. Indeed. But you know Cialis etc. Is made for women. Everything in service.

        “I found a cure for ED. Her name is Victoria, she’s 22″…

    1. That PS game console on the carpet will overheat sooner than later. Needs a piece of plywood under it, or better a milk crate.

    2. Might as well weigh in as the resident renaissance mountain man. There was a time when my apartment was bare not even a tv just my footlocker and a mattress, life was simpler with a work to party philosophy. Now the cabin is aclutter with fishing, hunting, beekeeping, bookshelves, winemaking, canning, drafting table and various gems, minerals, artifacts.

      Then there is her shit scatterred in a chaotic fashion like a mad womans shit.

  52. @ kfg

    You know – that’s about what my place is like lol..

    Except I have one sofa and my tv is sunk into the wall.

  53. @Rollo

    If you ever need any help with tech side stuff on the YouTube/streaming side of things let me know. I’ve been doing a lot of work there recently (been running a stream for a local eSports league during the lock down) and have a pretty good understanding of it these days. Would even be willing to come on and shoot the shit if you want another voice.

  54. About the covid thing–apparently, vitamin D is key to avoiding severe symptoms. If you’re not getting enough sun several times a week, you might be at greater risk. If you’re dark complected, you will probably want to take supplements rather than relying on sunshine because of the melanoma risk. Dark complected people may have to get 3 hours of sunshine to top off their vitamin D tank when fair skinned people might be able to do it in 30 minutes. People of color seem to be more at risk and old men seem to be more at risk from covid. Fits with the vitamin D deficiency covid risk hypothesis.

  55. How do you guys feel about revenge for an unjust action? Psychology articles say that you end up suffering more by taking revenge. Think of the saying: “He who is without sin may cast the first stone”. However, think of the mental anguish of not taking action and living as a helpless victim. Mental anguish of having been a punisher, is just part of being a man? Women, of course, would have the hamster take care of any cognitive dissonance.

  56. Rollo on Twitter, worth reposting here:

    “They hate you gentlemen. Never lose sight of that simple fact. For all the bullshit about equality, for all the screeches of misogyny, it is women dedicating statues of beheaded men to our justice system. You are not an “ally”. You are a headless man.”

    In English:

    Man: A human being
    Werman: A male man
    Woman: A female man

    Contrariwise to the way feminists portray things, women have retained their prefix and thus a special status, whereas men have been grammatically castrated, reduced to generic units.

    1. I used to have an inferiority complex. Then I realized , I truly am inferior, now it isn’t so complex.

      Upon awakening from the blue pill romance and seeing what I am up against I am left with no choice but to take care of number one and cover my own ass from every angle.

      Time to embark on a new adventure!

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