The Rational Male – Blog Update 2020

The Commentariat

I hate to start a post off with apologies, but I feel like I have to hash out some things with my long time readers. In the wake of all this worldwide civil unrest and amplified Cancel Culture online I thought it prudent to disable comments on this blog for a couple of weeks. As expected, the usual suspects who are still obsessed with destroying this blog, attacking my books with review bombing, and creating torrents of my books’ for pirated downloads took the opportunity to start race-baiting in my comment threads. I can only conclude that this was the beginning of an effort to plant inflammatory racial sentiments on my unmoderated discussion threads to be complained about to the authorities at my blog host to have my 9 years of Red Pill work deleted in much the same way Chateau Heartiste was last year.

I will not allow that to happen. I will not allow half a dozen adolescent haters and pathological liars to remove this blog and its 18 years of aggregate Red Pill information. Unfortunately, this necessitated the temporary closure of the comment sections on this blog until I could implement a better filter of the content, bot-spam and overt sock puppeting of user accounts. At present I’ve reverted back to the original Jetpack comment plugin that comes standard in WordPress. No bells, no whistles, but it’s security is far better than the wpDiscuz plugin I installed so commentors had a better control over editing and content. Sorry, the assholes and race-baiters have ruined that for us now. Take it up with them.

Until such time as I think the woke-mob threat is over, or the career-liars have filed for bankruptcy, the comments on this blog will be moderated until further notice. I don’t take this decision lightly. The comments on this blog have been unmoderated since the day it began. Open discussion has always been one of the core strengths of The Rational Male. When I opened this blog I knew I wanted to keep the same dedication to debate alive that SoSuave had started with. As I’ve always said about the comments, it’s a hot kitchen, stay out if you can’t take the heat. That was fine and well in an era when everyone commenting came to the table with an earnest opinion in the spirit of hashing things out. Even personal attacks could sometimes be beneficial if they sparked a novel debate. But that’s not where we’re at now. Today, adults with the maturity of 12-year-olds are using the opportunity of today’s social climate to use a forum of honest debate as a means for the politics of personal destruction. I find it the height of irony that some of the people who were railing about threats to free speech and the injustice of Social Justice Warriors just 3 years ago are the first to use their same cowardly tactics they warned about then when the opportunity for petty revenge comes along.

So, until such time as I think we can go back to an unmoderated format I will be assigning mods and being much more proactive in deleting any comment that could in anyway threaten the future of this blog. I will also actively ban any user who uses a sock-puppet account, attempts to create multiple proxy accounts, impersonates myself or another registered user, and any user who I even suspect is attempting to attack this blog. I tried to do this your way. 8-9 months ago I said fuck it and unbanned, and de-blacklisted everyone and everything. I decided to go full hands-off and let users deal with the obvious troll accounts, spammers, and ubiquitous bots in the comments. It got to be too much work to untangle the endless proxy accounts and outright liars in the commentariat. No more. That was my bad, and the predictable attacks came along as soon as the time was right.

If your account is banned now, I won’t apologize to you. You fucked up. If it comes down to you baiting other users as a threat to the viability of this blog, I choose this blog. I’m a very patient man, but I will not allow The Rational Male to go down. I distanced myself from Heartiste back in 2012 because of exactly the racial and political sentiment that defined his comment threads. You will not bring that shit here.

The Rational Male – Religion

My upcoming 4th book Religion is in the final stages of edits and I’m presently finishing the Forward and Afterword sections of the book. This book has been consuming my life for almost 3 years now. It’s the first book I’ve written virtually from scratch; meaning it’s not solely a collection of prior essays. I had every intention of publishing the book in March-April and that’s when the whole world decided to go to hell. I took the opportunity of the quarantine to revise and reedit the book. I wanted to be sure that parts of it reflected the current state of the global sexual marketplace and be relevant to a post-crisis readership. Since then it’s become clear that 2020 will be a chaotic reset for a lot of things we’ve taken for granted for a long time. I’d be lying if I said I thought the world I began writing book 4 in would necessarily be the same world that I finally published it in. This has been foremost in my mind since mid March.

I had originally asked my friend Pat Campbell to write the Forward section of Religion. I like to have a peer write the Forwards to my books and I thought Pat would do a Red Pill book on religion justice. Then, in January, Pat had his car accident, seizure and a tense ICU stay in an Oklahoma hospital. Real life is a lot different than online life, I had thought my friend would be dead or in a coma, and that really did a number on me at that time. We’d been friends and partners on his show and my YouTube channel, as well as convention speakers, for over 2 years by this time – I was aware he had the brain tumors and they were malignant the week of the accident. Pat has cancer; just like the last person I asked to write the Forward to my 3rd book, Andrew Hansen (The Private Man). Andrew’s cancer took him before he could do the Forward to Positive Masculinity and I ended up making the Forward a dedication to him and his life. Pat Campbell is one tough son of a bitch. Thus far he’s been beating the odds and I would attribute this to his stubbornness and bullheaded tenacity. That’s what makes him a badass. I will likely dedicate book 4 to him as well.

Facing down your own mortality really puts things into a new perspective for a man. Most men don’t get this opportunity. I love Pat like a brother, but I get the feeling that this experience changed him significantly. I saw the same change happen in Andrew 4 years ago and I’d looked at book 3 differently because of it. I was having a similar experience with book 4, and then the pandemic hit, and then the world went batshit insane. The irony that book 4 is about the Red Pill in religious contexts isn’t lost on me here.

Religion will be a thick book. The biggest complaints I get about The Rational Male is the formatting and grammar, syntax, and yes, I know, the print book’s type size. I’ll be focusing on a 2nd edition (and a hardback version) of book one once I release Religion. However, this book will be the most bulletproof addition to the Rational Male series in terms of editing, proofing and citing sources. I’ve made a lot of effort in providing proof of concept in this book. Not that I think this will dissuade my disingenuous haters from blathering on about the validity of the sources they don’t necessarily like, but they won’t be able to say I didn’t do my due diligence. The topic of religion and making correlations to Red Pill concepts (to say nothing of evolutionary concepts) is a really dicey prospect. I’m definitely going get things wrong with the ‘true’ believers – there’s no way I can get them right without full confirmation of various beliefs – and this is another aspect of the book I have to be very careful with. And this takes time.

This is why I’ve scaled back my blog posts here. My writing time is directed wholesale towards book 4. I am doing my best to keep this blog fresh with new content, but a once a month post bothers the hell out of me. I’m also considering going to a once a week show on my YouTube channel until I’m published. That’s also something I don’t want to do, but I may need to. I’m an author first, public personality second. One blessing about the quarantine/lockdown is that my ‘real’ job liquor promo gigs have been basically nonexistent since all this began. I was starting to get new offers to do work in Vegas and then the riots happened. Back to the book.

Body Language Mastery 3

Lastly, I will again be endorsing Modern Life Dating’s upcoming program Body Language Mastery and the online community that it facilitates. Since I’ve been so invested in the new book I haven’t had the time to really do much one-on-one counseling with guys sending me requests. I honestly want to do these Skype consults, but I can only really do them as I have the opportunity. I swear, I read every one of your emails. That said, the program Jon from MLD has going is a great opportunity for guys to get this kind of advice/counseling via the weekly group chats that are part of the program. Not only do you have access to myself and guys like Rich Cooper, Rian Stone, Jon and Troy Francis, but there’s a community of dozens of guys in the group who are there to help, live in real time.

I did a 90 minute show with Jon to cover the details of this new round of the program. If you’re waiting for a counseling session with me, please consider joining July’s group and bringing your circumstances here. I will be available to you in much the same capacity, but you’ll get a lot more input from the community. The registration just opened today June 25th and it will close on midnight June 29th.

This is the registration link: Body Language Mastery 3 – July 2020

So, that’s the Rational Male update for 2020 thus far. I hope you can bear with me for just a bit longer. I’ll have a new essay incoming by Monday. Thanks.

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

83 comments on “The Rational Male – Blog Update 2020

  1. As a 50 year old Black Man, I’ve been a supporter of The Rational Male over 10 year’s. It’s BS what you have to go through. As you correctly stated we’ll be reading The Rational Male in candlelight one day soon.

  2. I’ve also been red pill for a decade plus. The more red pill I become, the more loneliness starts to rear its ugly head. I’m all in and don’t need validation but sure enjoy knowing there is a community out there that seeks the truth. Thanks for your dedication Rolo.

  3. Moderating comments will help raise the bar. Other blogs do it and the comments tend to be more insightful.

    Keep up the great work!

  4. Comments should be moderated. This is your creative outlet for free speech, not a free-for-all. Even most well-meaning comments are reductionist tripe and not worth reading.

  5. I have been reading you for many years. Never found any “racist” innuendo. People can go to Donavan Sharpe, who is a black man, and he has a pic of Rollo and him together. Rollo was on his show a few times and they had many interesting discussions.

  6. Rollo, I’ve been reading your blog for years.

    The changes I’ve made from reading the articles and the comments have improved my life immensely.

    Do whatever you must to preserve this blog, not for me, but, for all those Beta nice guys who I used to be before I found the Rational Male.

  7. Nothing wrong with taking countermeasures against information warfare. When the world’s in the middle of trying to end you won’t hear me complaining about losing a few conveniences. Hope everybody’s staying safe out there.

  8. Surely you must know that, despite your precautions, eventually the Woke Guards will come for this blog—the knowledge contained herein is just too threatening. I can only assume–and hope–you have secure backups of every post and the comments as well, if possible.

    Stay strong and I’m looking forward to buying your next book.

  9. How did “woke-ism” become a thing? I don’t see this originating with working people. Does it have to do with colleges and universities? If so, how do we combat it?

    1. It partially came through postmodernism being integrated into the colleges starting with a Marxist professor visiting Yale in the 1960’s.

      There are now hug and hold hands engineering courses at a prominent US engineering school.

      1. Columbia, turn of the last century (with a predecessor in Engels). It was approaching dominance among the intelligentsia in the 20s, but then the depression and war slowed it down. It regrouped in the 50s (1984 was published in 49), resurged in the 60s and had pretty well finished its Long March Trough the Institutions by the turn of the century. They had complete control of Sociology, Anthropology, English, Pedagogy and, oddly enough, nursing.

        So that’s why it pops up as virulent today, one educational generation later.

        From Marx on it has always been a movement of academics telling working people what is good for them. Watch Norma Rae, carefully and thoughtfully.

        I also note that although the postmodern, woke egg was hatched at Columbia, the chief influence came from Germans. All the roads converge in 19th century Prussia.

    2. Look in the YT works of Jordan Peterson, Gad Saad(The Saad Truth), and Janice Fiamengo(The Fiamengo Files) for extensive info on this topic and many other related ideas. All three are against the grain university professors.

  10. Woke-ism is just regressive feminist fascism. It’s the feminization of speech and communication en-masse. Agree with the group-think or be cast out. I don’t know who gets to decide what is acceptable group-think, but it’s probably not this blog. Everything has to be without sin or imperfection or it can be cancelled. No judgements are allowed either or at least allowed to be expressed in a certain manner.

    I made a comment in a post Covid shutdown restaurant that the booth contagion dividers were simply just ugly painted 1/4” plywood. My Gen Z girls, instantly said, “you’re judgmental”. I simply respond, “Yes I am, because I have an opinion and a big-mouth”. Sure I could have used a lot of words or sub-coms to express myself in a less overt manner, but I’m not going to.

  11. I use TOR browser for reading this blog. I think it is naive not to. (Maybe there are better options.) I am glad that I can read all your comments in full length now. Maybe this capability this will attract some interesting commenters or will make others return.

    The email address is fake for the moment. I am not keen to get this published, I just want to let you know.

  12. Hi Rollo
    I have bought and read all 3 of your books.
    All I can say is THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!

    I am a 59yr old widower and was very much a blue pill guy. So bad I would of probably bled blue if I got a cut.

    But now thanks to you, your books, and Dalrock’s site, I now know the truth of what is going on with women. When I first took the red pill, it felt like I was swallowing a pill the size of a big truck but now I would never undo that.

    For the previous 58 years of my life, I had went by the women’s playbook of what they said they wanted. Doing what they wanted and then watching women do the exact opposite of what they told me they wanted. They said they wanted a “decent guy” but then would drop me to run off with the “bad boy” who treated them like dirt.

    Again, THANK YOU for writing your books and for your blog. I was confused about my late wife’s actions vs her words until learning the red pill truth.

    I was married to my late wife for 13+ years. I am a Christian and she supposedly was. She was “vouched for” by 2 different preachers that had known her for 3 years. She was a devout Christian who drove 70 miles each way to attend church every time the church doors were open, rain, sun or snow. We attended 2 different very conservative churches – modest dress, courtship, biblical womanhood, etc. There was no sex before marriage. But we did talk and she had said that she would never ever tell me no for sex. Also before marriage she acted submissive and followed my lead.

    The wedding night it was a 180 degree turnabout and I saw a raging feminist reveal herself. She had knowingly scheduled the wedding during her period. Her “I will never tell you no for sex” was actually sex once every 3 months, with the lights out and her wanting to be on top.

    She was 35 and had told me that there was only 1 guy before me. AFTER marriage she finally revealed that before our marriage that she would ride the city bus wearing short, very loose shorts and low cut , loose tops with no underwear or bra. Then put on a tease show for the guys to get them “worked up” and then run off the bus. Now I realize she never ran from the guys but delivered on what she started.

    She also had debt in the form of student loans and credit cards which she said she was paying them down. After marriage it turned out there was no paying down but that she had been running the debt higher.

    After we married, she immediately started blaming me for running around and being unfaithful. Now I realize that was a cover for her own actions of infidelity. We counseled with 3 different preachers who basically sided with her. On the way home from counseling, she would laugh the whole way home because they believed her and not me and how I best become a better man. I struggled for years, wondering what was wrong with me.

    During our marriage I had a suspicion that she was with another man when I was at work. (She was a stay at home wife.) But I put that thought out of my head. Surely no woman would commit adultery on me, let alone a very conservative Christian woman.

    Long story short. On her death bed, she was hallucinating that different people were there in the room that night. While I was tending to her needs of water, blankets, etc – I listened to her “talking to” her many lovers of my 13+ years of marriage to her.

    From her own mouth and from your books, I have been able to uncover 5-6 different men over 13 years, each affair lasting months. I strongly suspect her involvement in a neighbor’s place that had many cars parked outside on Friday nights which I suspect was a sex orgy place.

    So while she was using me to pay her bills and basically a 13 year sexless marriage for me, she was out being the wild sex woman with other men.

    Thanks to you Rollo, never again will that happen to me. Thank you for explaining why it happened and that I was a product of the blue pill and not understanding reality.

  13. Happy to see moderated comments and tighter control here. Open, uncensored dialogue is all well and good, but not at the cost of the blog getting whacked. Glad you’re taking measures to lock down the security here. Guaranteed that none of the regulars here will mind at all.

    The lessons I’ve learned and continue to learn from here have been growing like a tree. And it goes far beyond women. It’s more like zen: it’s shown me how much of what I thought were issues I was having with women were really just my own twisted, low self-esteem view of myself. And how that twisted self-perspective is the norm for the vast majority of men in today’s world.

    The fruit of all this mental labor is peace of mind. When I first read The Rational Male many years ago, peace of mind is something I couldn’t even conceive of, and there’s no way I could’ve known that that book would be the first step I’d take towards achieving that. I’m always improving myself, but I’m on the other side of the river now. Honestly, had it not been for your work and the community here and everything I learned, I think I would’ve just ended up bitter, cynical and hopeless after my last relationship ended. Instead, now the world is looking like a much bigger and exciting place than it did before.

    Fortify the defenses in whatever ways you have to. Good to hear from you again.

  14. Don’t compare your blog to Heartiste, Rollo. His blog had mutated from a formerly entertaining blog on game-related issues to an increasingly shrill race-baiting platform.

    You, by contrast, have always provided deep insight and analysis on the true nature of females and the feminine imperative, without being distracted by irrelevant private obsessions.

    Keep it up.

    1. I don’t compare TRM to Heartiste, but I do see the potential for the same takedown censorship that killed the Chateau a year before all this moral panic started.

      1. As prescient as ever, Rollo. I just saw on your twitter feed that Roosh’s YouTube account has been taken down. And I thought he’d found religion.

  15. There was definitely a gender clash that led to what people call “civilized society”. But, unfortunately, it was men who made the sacrifice, not women, to solve the clash. In a red pilled light, now we can see, women didn’t even bother to solve any of men’s problem to become more productive in the society, men were so desperate to save their identity that being a part of the battlefield and becoming disposable had become a routine, still women didn’t care, not even mothers. I really like what you’re doing Rollo, your blog truly empowers men, I wish that future comes when all men will be for themselves who know pick-up artistry, how to game women, become their mental point of origin, never hesitate to be for themselves over women, and truly believe that they’re not disposable. I believe that future when women will be forced to study evolutionary biology, to study how male-female dynamics work, not for greater good but to protect their sorry ass.

  16. Hey Rollo,

    The person claiming to be “Superion” on July 9 at 2:56 pm and 3:09 pm is not me, but, someone pretending to be me.

    My only comment on this thread was June 27 at 11:54 am.

  17. There was definitely a gender clash that led to what people call “civilized society”.

    Gender is a linguistic construct.

  18. So I just did google search for RATIONAL MALE ROLLO and this site displayed as 13th, which is 2nd page of google search engine results. Google shows 10 per page. I’m guessing that’s not “shadow ban” by google. More like issue with search engine optimization. I don’t think rollo is controversial enough to get his ass banned, although he’d like to think he is “subversive”. Heartiste kept going jewish conspiracy, and Roosh was rapey. Rollo doesn’t go there as far as I know. Rollo just calls out feminists for their double standards. That’s fair game even for the woke progressive self loathing whites who censor people on the internet.

  19. @Sentient

    So I was out doing a boyfriend like activity (hey.. 🤷‍♂️) in my favourite bar that re opened last night. I went out with the nurse..

    So we’re people watching and there’s a younger couple, late 20’s early 30’s and she’s got an engagement ring on. I say “they’re not fucking”.

    She says “well she’s really not into him is she, and it might not be his engagement ring”

    Bit more conversation and then she chirps up “she’s just with him until something better comes along”.

    Hypergamy is that obvious.

    1. Oh yeah she knows it. She lives it…

      PS – you can do BF activity, Morpheus isn’t in that place and can’t get there once he starts doing it. He needs to strengthen his frame. I’m sure your example is still firmly in your frame, not hers…

      1. @Sentient

        Interesting I was working up by my son again and the nurse had told me just to door knock him when I was driving by.

        Anyway, I telephoned him on the way up, we had a good chat and then I said “I’ll be by the front door in half an hour, we’ll go out for a milkshake”. He said “no, I don’t want to do that”.

        So I swallowed it on the phone but turned up on the doorstep anyway and rang the bell. The ex walked to the door and had to double take as she saw me through the glass. Jaw dropped etc.

        I said “I’ve just come to see Alfie”, and she said “I’ll tell him but he may not want to see you”.

        Anyway he did, and we sat in their front garden having a chat for 10 minutes. No problem at all.

        I recite this to the nurse and, she “how was your ex?”

        I say that I didn’t really notice apart from she was shocked.

        She says that my ex would have been mortified having someone she still loved appearing out of the blue when she hadn’t done her hair, make up etc..

        She said that was just a woman’s view.. but the thing is we’ve hardly discussed my ex.. Still loved??…

        1. Glad you got to see your boy.

          On the x – still loved?

          Probable. But there is also the sisterhood Uber alles angle – girl’s wanting girl’s to look their best, always a power move at some point. That’s hypergamy in a nutshell no? Is she dressed FOR me or is she dressed to get me chasing?

          I’ve said before it doesn’t matter… Hypergamy is a noblose strategy and a large part of why we are all here… On this planet I mean.

      2. Sentient, see Field Reports, my latest fuck from Monday night is trying to boyfriend me after 2 dates and one round of fucking. I am open to suggestions on how to proceed.

  20. Palma , not my affair but, you are sharing your concerns with nurse?

    Your son want’s to see you, he wants to know that he is of good strong blood and tribe.
    He is friction averse, this is why he said he doesn’t want to go.

    The source of the friction is your ex wife, this is why you scare her, it is her own guilt shining through, Does she still love you? as much as an alpha widow can with no chance of capitalizing on her hypergamy.

    The nurse on the other hand is solipsistically projecting her own feels onto your ex, the nurse doesn’t want you to show up unanounced, because makeup? or other options? who knows.
    You may have some dread working on her,just remember her sexual strategy is to lockdown alpha. Notice she is more concerned with the ex than with your relationship to your son.

    1. Palma , not my affair but, you are sharing your concerns with nurse?

      No worries – Thanks for your input – and yes the subject cropped up. She’s been turning up for a couple of hours every night for about six weeks now and inevitably things get discussed.

      Your son want’s to see you, he wants to know that he is of good strong blood and tribe.

      Amazingly that doesn’t seem that obvious when you’re that close to it.

      He is friction averse, this is why he said he doesn’t want to go.

      Yes that’s what it seems to be. It’s counterintuitive to me because when I’m caught with a passive aggressive counterparty (friction) I call it out for what it is. The alternative is to submit to it which is to reward the behaviour so you keep getting passive aggressiveness (as opposed to busting through it). I’m just thinking it through in real time here so may not have it quite right.

      The source of the friction is your ex wife, this is why you scare her, it is her own guilt shining through, Does she still love you? as much as an alpha widow can with no chance of capitalizing on her hypergamy.

      “This is why you scare her”? – sorry, on this subject I can’t see the wood for the trees, why do I scare her?

      The nurse on the other hand is solipsistically projecting her own feels onto your ex, the nurse doesn’t want you to show up unanounced, because makeup? or other options? who knows.

      No, it was the nurse that told me to show up at my exes unannounced. Very specifically, and repeatedly she said that problems build in people’s heads (my sons) and those need deflating. Turning up unannounced would deprive him of the opportunity of rejecting the approach and give me a chance to deflate his fears.

      You may have some dread working on her,just remember her sexual strategy is to lockdown alpha. Notice she is more concerned with the ex than with your relationship to your son.

      She’s definitely pinged for that. “Would I go back, to get my son back”. It’s not the first time a woman has asked that. And again thinking this through in real time, my ex may be thinking the very same thing which is why he’s being held hostage.

      Interesting side point is that the nurse dropped in that she’d thought she was asexual – not really desiring sex – and that she should probably just get someone for “companionship” and long country dog walks at the weekend.

  21. Palma

    “why do I scare her?” “problems build in people’s heads”
    If she is bad mouthing you (and I suspect she is) then she expects retaliation,when you appear without notice she is unprepared then you get the jaw drop.

    “Turning up unannounced would deprive him of the opportunity of rejecting the approach”

    This definitely worked but the one deprived of the opportunity to reject wasn’t your son,in fact the ex was deprived of the opportunity to make the most of it.
    Also just because she suggested you show up unanounced doesn’t mean she wants you to do it to her.

    “She’s been turning up for a couple of hours every night for about six weeks now and inevitably things get discussed.”

    Then this

    “Interesting side point is that the nurse dropped in that she’d thought she was asexual – not really desiring sex – and that she should probably just get someone for “companionship” and long country dog walks at the weekend.”

    Watch what she does not what she says.

    Again your son is not rejecting you , he is avoiding the fallout at home where he is stuck and can’t escape. This happens every time you pop up.

  22. Men that have any access to their sons need to spend time relating the hero stories of their fathers and grandfathers,relating positive masculinity as it were.
    This does reinforce a belief in the young mans roots that is important at the foundational level of his being. Hero stories are good but when the heros are our own blood they are better.

    A kid that believes he is from bad blood and evil masculinity will fall prey to any of the grifters out there.

  23. A kid that believes he is from bad blood and evil masculinity will fall prey to any of the grifters out there.

    +100

    These stories may seem trivial to you or bragging or silly… But really these poor boys have no frame of reference of what is possible. They need it.

    1. During the episode, Will was able to joke about supporting his wife through her “transgressions,” leading Jada to say, “I actually don’t look at it as a transgression at all. Through that particular journey, I learned so much about myself and was really able to confront a lot of emotional immaturity, emotional insecurity — and I was really able to do some really deep healing.”

      “journey”, lol. She’s 48 years old, better not lose that Hollywood meal ticket because another one might not show up.

  24. @Sentient / wahoo

    “Interesting side point is that the nurse dropped in that she’d thought she was asexual – not really desiring sex – and that she should probably just get someone for “companionship” and long country dog walks at the weekend.”

    **I probably should have put that in context. She meant that she didn’t think that she could find the type of men that could deliver that kind of sex anymore / or more precisely that no men had made her fee that way. She hadn’t rationalised that, but had just thought it was her “going off it / becoming less interested in it”

    She’s recited loads of online dating horror stories of basically terrible lame needy men and just thought there wasn’t any of the other type around anymore.

    Then there was the cog dis that she didn’t do online dating anymore bc “all the men want is sex”, and I said: “all we do is sex”. Her: “that’s different”.

    And I’ll guarantee that her online dating profile would have demanded the bloke be over 6’ bc she loves to wear her heels, etc.. etc…

    So now you get down to the younger women (which is the point of the conversation) and the question begs whether they’ve ever had that type of sex ever..

    And for the best part, looking round the place I really don’t think that they have. And THATS the problem.

    That’s why we’re seeing this man hating. They’ve never experienced true desire for a man. All they’ve had is needy feminised wankers that can deliver 4.5 minutes of shit “sex” (google average sex time) and they rightly despise those “men”

    The root of society’s problem is shit men, women are just acting as programmed.**

  25. Palma

    “The root of society’s problem is shit men, women are just acting as programmed.**”

    The conundrum. This ^ is the nurses point of view and also interestingly the men with low T that have been feminized believe “shit men” are the problem. They believe you are a shit man and the women are closing up because of bad man rapists. I know you are right,in that men need to lead and women need to be led and the only way out is to unfuck our heads. The programmers have switched roles putting the women in front and the men behind.

    I am quite sure a man of experience and age could make things work with the younger women these days but having already put in that work of retraining 39 years ago I am not interested in working that hard so we are back to the juice isn’t worth squeezing

    We are all acting as programmed to some degree we are in fact addicted to our programs. Rollo called me out on domain dependence and he nailed it. I like to fish the same holes.

    If the economy goes deep tank will we spend our money on media or food first? what is the biggest priority?

  26. Palma

    The more I see things the more I think women won’t be truly satisfied unless they get a smack. The societal guard dog spin up is provoking this.

    What ho HABD?

    IAS, IRL? Blaxie…? Whe’re the Dawgs at?

  27. Then there was the cog dis that she didn’t do online dating anymore bc “all the men want is sex”, and I said: “all we do is sex”. Her: “that’s different”.

    Lolzlolzolzz

    How the pubs btw?

  28. @Sentient

    “Palma
    The more I see things the more I think women won’t be truly satisfied unless they get a smack.”

    Well the nurse can only truly escape her life when she’s being spanked, and of the safe words she’s never called even one. So take from that what you will.

    Then there’s this:

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mzXkbJwrN38

    “The societal guard dog spin up is provoking this.”

    Yep

    “How the pubs btw?”

    My general feeling is that most of them are Bankrupt. Most are living on optimism and inertia and we are due a clear down imminently.

    This was Marylebone station – central london on “freedom Saturday”

    It’s not Grand Central, but it’s a major central London hub and should have been so busy you can’t move. I’d gone in from the people’s republic of ghey to go to a private club with old friend. I’d had a private train up (I was the only one on it – unheard of) and London was empty.

    https://imgur.com/a/TTlBK3f

    Old friends private club was full (comparatively):

    https://i.imgur.com/dgZsmmj.jpg

    The response to Da Pocalypse seems to be a class war. Working classes ignore, middle are shitting the bed over it.

  29. @wahoo

    Palma
    “The root of society’s problem is shit men, women are just acting as programmed.**”

    The conundrum. This ^ is the nurses point of view and also interestingly the men with low T that have been feminized believe “shit men” are the problem.

    low T men should be regarded as, and treated like ugly women. Even proper dykes have higher T than low T soy boys

    They believe you are a shit man and the women are closing up because of bad man rapists.

    corrext. But they’re not getting laid and I am so they are wrong.

    I know you are right,in that men need to lead and women need to be led and the only way out is to unfuck our heads.

    **my head isn’t fucked, neither is yours. You’re talking about the bulk of “men”. Good luck with that.”

    The programmers have switched roles putting the women in front and the men behind.

    **that ^ is the shit test”

    I am quite sure a man of experience and age could make things work with the younger women these days

    thats my plan

    but having already put in that work of retraining 39 years ago I am not interested in working that hard so we are back to the juice isn’t worth squeezing

    ** your call. But I’d say it is worth the squeeze, and it’s not actually hard work, just a process**

    We are all acting as programmed to some degree we are in fact addicted to our programs. Rollo called me out on domain dependence and he nailed it. I like to fish the same holes.

    I don’t remember that

    If the economy goes deep tank will we spend our money on media or food first? what is the biggest priority?

    **The economy has gone deep tank, and its taken all the shit jobs (the feminised soy-boys do) with it so it’s interesting times. Interestingly the futurist predicted that the only thing delaying the bursting of the Misandry Bubble was basically extended QE.”

    We’re on a cusp..

      1. That previous one was me ‘DisgruntledEarthing’.

        Been commenting on other blogs related to Scientology.
        My live-in 22yo gf basically went mad at the start of covid. She started believing in reptile alien conspiracy theories and decided to join Scientology Sea Org full time in order to save the planet. I took it pretty hard because I let myself fall for her too much.

  30. Palma

    I own 3 tracts in a 3000 acre ranch that is open range for cattle. It is divided into 120 tracts and most were vacant when I built in 33 years ago. Iv’e seen the breakdown of the system coming since childhood and never guessed what would be the black swan. There are some signs I look for ,one is when every lot here is built or has a camper on it then the $h!t is about to HTF. WE are there now. Another sign is when the mysandry bubble breaks,this one pegs the meter,while there are some apparent benefits these are short lived aqnd the fallout from collateral damage will be overwhelming.

    I took my dog fishing this past sunday up to the continental divide. The highway was full of people leaving back to town,most heading downhill while I was going up,so they are either going back to work or stuck in a rut of weekend mentality. When I got to the lake every parking spot was full and every campsite up the trail full or being refilled. So many people on vacation or out of work more so than usual. The women were watching us go by , giving IOIs while their menfolk tried to figure out the trailer backing and leveling , tent setups or what have you. The gals showed a lack of confidence in their mans ability in the wild.

    It seems for now my skillset is in demand as I am able to stay busy and don’t want for work sans advertisement. I am devoting my time to hunting ,gathering and preserving food from the wild. This is my MPO ,Ive made some extraordinary wine and caught some fine fish in clean clear snowmelt waters,these I smoke on the best flavor wood that grows in my yard. My wife works weeding the gardens Iv’e prepared for her and the fresh veggies are on the table this time if year, yes she puts out for me as I require. Yes I will put her over my knee and smack that ass if need be, just a growel usually does the trick to get her wet.

  31. Rollo: You’re interesting at times, but you delve off into psychobabble. You could be epic if you focused and spoke English. All the best.

  32. “It’s that sense of ‘we are done, our purpose is done.’”

    Once upon a time you had a purpose in being grandmothers.

    “Her grandmother encouraged her . . . “She allowed me to be who I was,” Rizzio recalls.”

    Q.E.D.

  33. @sentient / KFG

    ^^ they’re all just fidget spinning in their empty lives.

    Feminism has lied to them but they’re too ego invested to admit it. They probably can’t even see it.

    Like my 60 yo upstairs neighbour that vacuum cleans the room above my bedroom every time I get laid. Then there’s another one above her of the same age.

    Plus they turn neurotic. All three in my block pay £1200 a year too much for our block management bc the two stupid women won’t vote for us to “manage” it. Which essentially is doing the square root of fuck all once or twice a year.

    Neither of these two older woman bring anything positive at all to my life. They’re a nett overhead. They just get in the way and I just write out a check every month for more than I should because if them.

    Speaking to other local men who live in the same circumstances, where there are single older woman in their blocks, they have exactly the same problem of neuroticism which costs money.

  34. @Sentient

    “What ho HABD?

    IAS, IRL? Blaxie…? Whe’re the Dawgs at?”

    No idea where @HABD is, @IAS & @IRL are fine but I don’t think stirred up enough to comment. Worried about Blax. I did make a comment about ‘bitchin’ and asked if I’d walked into a strippers dressing room and he hasn’t showed since then but he’s made of stern enough stuff just to tell me to get lost. I’m more worried he’s got a dose of Da Pocalypse..

    @SJF has been blocked.

    Place has thinned out a bit that’s for sure.

    1. Yes. I speak to him on the phone sometimes. The worst you could really level against him is he’s a bit eccentric. Apart from that he’s had his journey like everyone else in here so I’m not sure what was said.

  35. Yes they need grandchildren for sure. There are several divorced 60 year olds in my neighborhood and they are neurotic and opinionated. Loudly opinionated. And crazy selfish…

    Interesting about SJF. He seemed to be going off the rails.

    I thought maybe Black was laying low over the BLM stuff but now wonder.

    One aspect of the virus response has been to grind everyone into a state of ennui with a daily dose of nothing.

  36. hmmm… felt a tingle in the force and thought i’d check in…lol

    @PalmaSailor

    @Sentient

    “What ho HABD?

    IAS, IRL? Blaxie…? Whe’re the Dawgs at?”

    No idea where @HABD is,

    takin’ a break… and preppin’ my sh*t for the shootin’ war/expanded marxist insurgency that is right around the corner…

    (and potential ww3… and no i’m not kidding… check out the latest US sanctions against china… = the pieces on the board are moving again…)

    Da ‘Pocolyse ™ ain’t gonna listen to reason or analysis…lol… otherwise, i’d just talk it down off the ledge…lol… but that ain’t happening… and once it jumps/falls/or is pushed… the system goes into free-fall… maybe…lol… either way, it’s going to be an interesting ride… ‘interesting’ as in the chinese curse idea…lol

    i don’t expect to be an ‘active’ player in the upcoming festivities… buut just bc i’m not interested in that sh-t, doesn’t mean that sh-t is not interested in me…lol

    @IAS & @IRL are fine but I don’t think stirred up enough to comment.

    good to hear they are fine…

    Worried about Blax. I did make a comment about ‘bitchin’ and asked if I’d walked into a strippers dressing room and he hasn’t showed since then but he’s made of stern enough stuff just to tell me to get lost. I’m more worried he’s got a dose of Da Pocalypse..

    me too… NJ was a cesspit of teh kungflu… and their .gov was trying to push up the death numbers sooo…

    (Blaximus let us know how you are doing…)

    @SJF has been blocked.

    interesting…

    Place has thinned out a bit that’s for sure.

    it’ll come back at some point… or not…lol… either way, the world of men (and everyone else too) needs this (TRM) info…

    ps. how’s your son?…

    good luck!

  37. @Sentient PalmaSailor

    Feminism has lied to them but they’re too ego invested to admit it. They probably can’t even see it.

    Like my 60 yo upstairs neighbour that vacuum cleans the room above my bedroom every time I get laid. Then there’s another one above her of the same age.

    Plus they turn neurotic. All three in my block pay £1200 a year too much for our block management bc the two stupid women won’t vote for us to “manage” it. Which essentially is doing the square root of fuck all once or twice a year.

    Neither of these two older woman bring anything positive at all to my life. They’re a nett overhead. They just get in the way and I just write out a check every month for more than I should because if them.

    Speaking to other local men who live in the same circumstances, where there are single older woman in their blocks, they have exactly the same problem of neuroticism which costs money.

    see below…

    Yes they need grandchildren for sure. There are several divorced 60 year olds in my neighborhood and they are neurotic and opinionated. Loudly opinionated. And crazy selfish…

    ya know… when an organism hits the end of life without repro (or security), what happens?…

    it’s like an extinction burst on steroids…lol… those old girls just be throwin’ massive sh*t tests at anyone/everyone trying to get some interest going…lol… and looking for somebody to set up some boundaries for them to feel safe…

    the fact that nobody gives a sh*t about them just ramps that behavior even more… and costing a man/men some money is a form of ‘provisioning’… even if it doesn’t make sense…lol

    good luck!

  38. @HABD

    “ya know… when an organism hits the end of life without repro (or security), what happens?…
    it’s like an extinction burst on steroids…lol… those old girls just be throwin’ massive sh*t tests at anyone/everyone trying to get some interest going…lol… and looking for somebody to set up some boundaries for them to feel safe…”

    Interesting. The neighbour upstairs that vacuums over my bedroom every time I get laid is 10 y older than me.

    I bought the flat at auction 22 years ago. I was 30 and she was a hot 40. During the first refurb I took her out for drinks and banged her. At the time my BP self wanted another round but she was having none of it.

    Roll forward 22 years and she’s still there and I’ve moved in below again and undergone another total refurb. Despite the fact she’s now a would not bang I have been on good speaking terms with her and invited her down for drinks, I cook etc.

    So as part of the refurb I’ve made a radiator for the hallway out of reclaimed copper pipes and brass fittings. I’ve soldered all these together and bought brass letters saying “THEYRE ALL BASTARDS” and soldered those to the top of it.

    Whole thing is highly polished and lacquered.

    So she turns up about six months ago with bottle of wine and I’m gonna cook. As soon as she walks through the front door she picks up on the radiator.

    Her: “what do you mean they’re all bastards?”

    Me: ignore

    Her: “ am I a bastard? I find that highly offensive, how dare you say that etc.. etc…”

    I’m like “piss off it’s a radiator in my hallway and fuck all to do with you”

    So she sits herself in my kitchen at the breakfast bar bit and I start to cook but she can’t shut up. Now she’s onto BREXIT. Being a left wing wet teacher she’s a remainer. People like me are just complete morons.

    Me: “I’m not being lectured in my own fucking kitchen get out”

    Her: “I’m leaving” but she doesn’t move.

    Me – top of my voice “GET OUT OF MY FUCKING KITCHEN – GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT”.

    Her – petrified grabs her bottle and runs for the door. I finish cooking and have a peaceful bullshit free evening.

    Didn’t occur to me it was a shit test. She reports every time I “have company” to the woman upstairs who says she thinks that “she just wants to come down and join in”. That’s the top one saying truth in jest and projecting I reckon, but she’s a WNB as well.

    “ps. how’s your son?…”

    I was up that way a couple of weeks ago. Phoned him from the car and had a chat, I then suggested that I could turn up in 10 and we could nip out for a milkshake.

    He said “no, I don’t want to do that”. I took it at face value on the phone but spun the car round and turned up on the doorstep. The ex was absolutely dumb struck seeing me through the glass. Told her I’d come to see Alfie, she said “well I’m not sure he’ll want to see you”

    I said “ that’s ok, but we can just sit on the kerbside and chat” He did come out and have a chat he’s a bit hesitant but no real problem. I told him next time I’m passing I’m going to stop in and take my chances on seeing him.

    Subsequently on the phone he’s very concerned I should phone first, but I’ve done that 50+ times and had a rejection every time. Whereas I have 100% success rate on just doorstepping him. I didn’t confront it but I’ll just doorstep him again next week when I’m up next.

    Who knows how that’s gonna play.

  39. I would really like to subscribe to your YouTube channel, but you are using the mic in an wrong way. Too close without a pop filter and it pops my ear.

  40. Just in time for the campaign trail…

    Sure, CNN is spinning it exactly as expected, “EEEEvil MRA lawyer lashing out!’ etc.

    Let’s look deeper.

    Salas has more recently taken on a lawsuit brought by Deutsche Bank investors alleging the bank failed to follow its anti-money laundering policies by taking on “high-risk” clients including Jeffrey Epstein, the convicted sex offender, the AP reported.

    Jeffry Epstein and money laundering are certainly innocent topics that no one would ever do anything violent about, of course.

    https://www.nj.com/news/2020/07/who-is-roy-den-hollander-suspect-in-deadly-attack-at-judges-nj-home-attracted-notoriety-through-legal-work.html

    He also spent time in Russia and, according to his online resume, worked in Moscow for security and investigations firm Kroll between 1999 and 2000. The company could not be immediately reached Monday night.

    The media can’t just blank this out, so playing up the MRA angle is the safest thing to do, because while RUSSIA RUSSIA RUSSIA is big fun now it’s not something to bring up from the past, and we most definitely do not need to know anything about money laundering via DB associated with Epstein. No, no, no, no! Not news! Pay no attention!

  41. A merest curiosity —

    The Rational Male blog is no longer listed when Googled.
    (The compendium of books and YouTube remain)

    1. Accessed it through WordPress and bookedmarked; now it appears when googled.
      But it wasn’t an hour ago.

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