Respect Reconsidered • Part II

Respect comes very cheap today. In the last essay i made the case that there are gendered forms of Respect, each with their gendered understanding of what a universal idea of respect should entail. The same misunderstanding applies to our gendered concepts of Love; each sex presumes the other accepts and acknowledges their own ideals about love – men approaching love from outwardly expressed idealism, while women’s is rooted in inwardly (though increasingly outwardly) expressed opportunism.

For the most part this division of approaches to Love is something both sexes hold personally, and unless that person is an artist or a poet the expression of that approach to love is something we reserve for those we come to love. Love, like religion, is usually something we have a personal belief about, but it’s generally something we don’t broadcast to those we don’t love.

Respect is different. Our ideas of what defines respect is something we will broadcast because that ideal for Respect is something that’s socially expedient in getting the things we want. The first time I was told, “You don’t respect women!” was when I was 19. Even then, in my Blue Pill delusions, I saw a contradiction. The women (and sometimes men) who were telling me I didn’t Respect women were almost always after something. No one tells that you ought to be more respectful because they want you to be a better person, nor are you corrected because the ideal of respect was even a primary concern. No, people tell you to show respect when they want something or they have an interested invested in you deferring respect to the person or thing they believe you ought to be paying respect to.

Pay Tribute or Pay Respect?

In fact, the idea that one ought to “pay” respect to something or someone else really sets the context for the utility that Respect represents to them. You “owe” respect to an ephemeral ideal in the same way you “pay your dues”, like a personal debt that someone insists you owe because you want to be reverent of the concept of Respect. And this basis for Respect is why I say Respect has been cheapened today.

Even when I was 19 and women would attempt to shame me into deference to women with Respect, I saw the contradiction between women and men’s concepts of Respect. My male idea of Respect was one of the few things my father had imparted to me. So, naturally, I questioned the idea, “What do women actually do that’s worthy of my respect?” Respect was earned. Lord knows I hadn’t done much to deserve anyone’s respect at 19, but I did know that deeds and acts were something a man had to do to gain respect – and maybe somewhere along the way acquire integrity (another container word). My smart ass response was “I don’t know any women who deserve my respect.” And that was true, but every Blue Pill conditioned guy I knew then would tell me, “You’ll never get girls to like you with that attitude mister.”

So, basically, if I wanted a girl to be intimate with me I had to feign respect for her because she’s a girl? The Blue Pill teaches men, yes, and the better you are at pretending it the more a woman will appreciate you. This is where the debasement of Respect (as an ideal) in our feminine-primary social order begins. Unmerited respect for women only reinforces the Women are, Men must become principle. Men must become, men must qualify, men must perform. As such, male respect is something that is almost always in flux. Women’s respect just is, and thereby female respect is something more static.

Respect for the Sake of Respect

In a gynocentric society the predominant definition of respect, the one that is transferred to virtually all aspects of that social order, is the female concept. Automatic, deferential, but ultimately unmerited respect simply for being – female respect – is considered a useful tool, but cheapens the ideal of respect and what makes a person respectable.

When I outlined the difference between male and female concepts of Love, one of the first things men do is get indignant. They don’t like the idea that women don’t share their own ‘love for the sake of love’ idealism. My point was that women “fundamentally lack the capacity to love a man in the way he thinks should be possible for her.” This is difficult for a Blue Pill conditioned guy to wrap his head around. Much of who they are was built on the premised goal that women will “love him as much as he loves her”, so to suggest that this isn’t possible for him means that “women fundamentally lack a capacity to love men, period.” They conclude that if women cannot share his idealistic approach to Love then they cannot legitimately love him. His concept should be the only acceptable concept and therefor rejecting his concept is rejecting its legitimacy.

This same singleminded interpretation applies largely to women and their form of respect. If men would hold a woman to a merited, male, standard of respect, rather than a default deference to respecting her for no measurable reason, then those men don’t believe in Respect at all. It’s her way or it isn’t real.

Most men are afraid to appear disrespectful to women. This fear is compounded by the mass effect of a globalized sexual marketplace

When I was 19 I was concerned that I’d done something wrong. Why would women presume I didn’t respect them? I was perceived as a Jerk and I just knew that that wasn’t what women really wanted. I didn’t know it then, but this was a shaming tactic being used to keep me in line as a prospectively useful Beta. In a way I suppose it was a meta-shit test. An Alpha man wouldn’t care if women thought he was respectful. A sure sign a guy is Beta would be reflected in how he responds to being accused of disrespect of women (really ‘womankind‘).

In truth, a default respect for women is really worthless from a male perspective. I’m sure that just my typing this out will be enough to trigger most women, but if you are triggered, it’s more important to consider why you are. A default respect for females may seem like a socially correct perspective for an “upstanding leader of men” Blue Pill Alpha archetype, but it is men who adopt the attitude that women must qualify themselves to him who engender genuine respect among women.

Flipping the Respect Script

This is an important lesson in Game as well. One of the first things many of the old school PUAs would teach an AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) is to flip the script with respect to who is qualifying whom. The natural presumption for most Blue Pill men is that they must always qualify to a woman. Usually this entails proving his quality in various ways (buy her a drink, pay for dinner, carry the conversation, etc.), but the operative assumption is that she is the one whose Frame he is entering into. The PUA fundamental then was to flip this ‘natural‘ script; to get her to pursue him. In doing so, her subconscious confirms his high value – why else would she pursue? If a guy could cleverly tease this pursuit out of her it then creates a perpetuating feedback loop about him [until he fucks it up somehow by reverting to qualifying to her].

Flipping the qualification script with a woman presents one very difficult hurdle for the AFC: he must risk offending the social convention that tells him he must never disrespect a woman. This is where the larger, social, respect dynamic becomes apparent.

From a Beta male, Respect is cheap. Most Betas’ attention comes for free and is steeped in the idea that he must never upset the respect dynamic. But just like love, attention and interest, women don’t value Respect that is easily had. Too much circulation makes the price go down, and scarcity makes the price go up. We constantly tell men to make, and consider, themselves ‘the Prize‘, but to do this a man must risk offending a default female respect to shift the Frame to a default male respect. This is counterintuitive part of unplugging and learning Game.

That deference is what is expected. To respect women is common. What is uncommon is a lack of female respect. Therefor a default respectful deference is basic and plain to a woman. But it is the man whose respect a woman must earn who make the most significant impact and inspire the greatest emotional investment on her part. As I’ve stated in many essays, never deny a woman the satisfaction of believing she’s figured you out with her feminine intuition. Women expect a worthy Alpha to command respect amongst his peers, but also to expect her to earn his respect. And in her meriting it, she then holds a new respect for him.

Respect, as social dynamic, is an attempt to govern the terms of communication. Respect also has its utilities. It’s a rational for an easy dismissal of uncomfortable facts. For instance, Mansplaining presumes a lack of respect for women by a man who is trying to define what ought to constitute respect. It is a means of controlling a narrative. A “lack of respect” is an easy way to poison the well in any debate and also serves as the basis of a lot of straw man arguments.

Higher Love

Respect is defined by the party who decides what it is, and who should have it. In this way Respect is intimately linked with Frame, and since women’s form of respect is the socially predominant one today, the starting point of most intersexual exchanges begins with the presumption that a woman should control the Frame by means of a default, unearned respect. And to some hopelessly Blue Pill men who invariably mix that conditioning with religion, this respect then becomes a form of Reverence for the female.

In Part I of this series I dropped this line:

God is Love
[…] I’ve been exploring the way men and women idealize the concept of divine love from a god or some metaphysical source. Each sex has a gendered concept of love that they believe the other sex shares with them, but in fact doesn’t naturally come to without some education or experience.

To which a commenter left me this in the comments thread:

“God is love”. Rollo, this is just one more on the heap of things I am struggling with regards to my “christian faith”. I am very much looking forward to reading Alpha God and eventually your 4th book.


Unconditional love is the main message of the new testament. Could it be that Christianity is really that feminized not just by “the village” and feminized church today but actually? Could the New testament be a watering down of the old Jahve Religion? 

Zoltan

While I’m not planning on exploring Red Pill concepts of “unconditional love” on this blog, I will be picking apart the implications of how men and women’s differing concepts of love come to define, or set the understanding of an ideal of a ‘higher love’ (don’t sing the song, don’t sing the song,…).

So what does this have to do with Respect?

Everything if you consider the gender whose definition of what Respect should be is the socially predominant on at any point in history. Performance defines men’s existences. Performance determines respectability for men and earning one’s way into Heaven might be the highest form of respect, right?

More next week.

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Centuries
Centuries
2 years ago

Look chicks can use this device to titillate and pleasure their G-spot and clitoris but they’ll still be miserable if they aren’t satiating their hypergamous emotional needs they’ll be reaching for the box wine or SSRI’s. A woman’s biggest sex organ is the mind – this device is not going to solve their true needs

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

A large part of many women’s frustration is sexual.

They might not realize it, or they may, but that dissatisfaction bleeds over and becomes a part of their ” being “.

What’s gonna happen if that monstrosity in the article catches on? What if it become all the rage ( on social media )? ” … I’ve never had a man give me that kind of feeling…”.

Yeah, hypergamy won’t care at all, but don’t forget that hypergamy also includes a better sexual deal, which a lot of women just can’t get.

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

Red Pill….

/out

cyfox
cyfox
2 years ago

Have any of you used Quora to ask questions that reveal the nature of women?

Centuries
Centuries
2 years ago

If the device takes off within the village – they’ll all swear by it – just like the 38 year old career woman raves about how awesome her career is and has been – being self-sufficient and all being financially independent – even if they quietly pop an SSRI nightly, sip box wine all weekend or drink their way through girls nights out regularly

The cognitive dissonance around knowing that they’ll have to work until they drop dead, just like us men is profound.

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

Actual sexual stuff is different and can’t be equated to careers and nonsense like that.

Have you ever seen what women will do for some satisfying sex?

A lot more than they’d tell anyone.

SJF
SJF
2 years ago

A large part of many women’s frustration is sexual. They might not realize it, or they may, but that dissatisfaction bleeds over and becomes a part of their ” being “. Yeah, well The American Psychiatric Association dropped that off the radar in 1952. So it disappeared. And no longer existed… So it’s not actually a thing, officially, even if you recognize it in the field… Really. It’s official… https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_hysteria Female hysteria was once a common medical diagnosis for women, which was described as exhibiting a wide array of symptoms, including anxiety, shortness of breath, fainting, nervousness, sexual desire, insomnia,… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

Hysteria?

Lost in translation!.

SJF
SJF
2 years ago

hysterical (adj.)

1610s, “characteristic of hysteria,” the nervous disease originally defined as a neurotic condition peculiar to women and thought to be caused by a dysfunction of the uterus; literally “of the womb,” from Latin hystericus “of the womb,” from Greek hysterikos “of the womb, suffering in the womb,” from hystera “womb”….

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

You’re completely 100% missing my point.

But it’s cool.

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

Anatomy required evidently.😐

Is it that y’all haven’t had multiple sexual experience with multiple women or something? Or did you just not pay any attention what do ever? This is why the actual red pill is sorely needed. Maybe if it’s explained enough you’ll ” just get it “.

Sex for 99% of women is indeed emotionally driven, but it is on a different plane altogether than hysteria or other emotional stimulus. Basically apples and oranges, still fruit but different

Emotion sexually is half of the equation. .

rugby11
rugby11
2 years ago

Great commentary
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHQcK2TrH7s
Today and Tommorow and the past

Sentient
Sentient
2 years ago
Sentient
Sentient
2 years ago

“And mostly, as always, thanks to the insane, gob-hungry nutjobs who throw their careers away for a few minutes of clumsy, inappropriate and illicit groping with schoolboys. Here’s to 2020.”

Testi
Testi
2 years ago

Rollo, why did you choose the image from The Sword of Death?

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

Testi
Rollo, why did you choose the image from The Sword of Death?

He did not do that. He chose an image from “Sword of Doom”, aka (大菩薩峠, Dai-bosatsu Tōge, “Great Bodhisattva Pass”.

Why? Perhaps to clarify or enhance the point of his essay. Or perhaps because he liked the image. What difference does it make? What does the image say to you?

Why do you ask the question?

SJF
SJF
2 years ago

Rich Cooper had a nice session with Shawn T. Smith and Robert Glover in his latest Before the TrainWreck YouTube. Shawn T. Smith had a remark– Shawn T. Smith was talking about something and mentioned Roy T. Baumeister’s documentation about: across cultures the societal expectation is that men keep performing. And then Shawn says: “We have the burden of performance. I don’t consider it a burden. I consider it a Blessing.” Nicely said. And not getting respect, in real life, in real time, is not about reactionary butt-hurt-ness. Just do do that. Be attractive, don’t be un-attractive. Who hurt you… Read more »

kfg
kfg
2 years ago

In reference to my previous comments where I have said that if a woman demands that you treat her like a princess, DO IT! This is how you treat a princess of the greatest empire the world has ever known: In reference to Rollo’s Twitter question: Don’t let her current outward appearance fool you. On the inside this badass is still Commander-in-Chief: Of necessity that can’t remain true for much longer and when she passes so shall an era. Not the era of her reign. The era of the Kingdom. There is no one left who can command her respect,… Read more »

theasdgamer
2 years ago

SJF, when Blax says that women are frustrated sexually, he means that women are frustrated emotionally. It has zip to do with hysteria. Emotions are strongly linked with sex in women’s sexual wiring. They want a guy they have to chase hard. If a guy isn’t spinning plates, no girl will chase him. Even his girlfriend. Even his wife.

Even if you’re married, you have to get out in the singles mix and at least flirt with women.

SJF
SJF
2 years ago

ASD I see what you are trying to do there. Blax and I were talking past each other. Blax was mentioning “the monstrosity”, a dildo. He then said: “A large part of many women’s frustration is sexual. They might not realize it, or they may, but that dissatisfaction bleeds over and becomes a part of their ” being “.” Back in the old days psychiatrists didn’t know how to deal with the actions and behaviors of woman that might be caused by sexual frustration. So what did they do? In psychiatry history, they stimulated psychologically unhealthy females with their hands.… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

“Blax was mentioning “the monstrosity”, a dildo.”

We’re not talking past each other SJF. That thing isn’t a ” dildo ” if you look at it and read how it works, or you know women that use(d) dildos and you understand how they work and their limitations.

Read the article, look at the pictures.

That ain’t no dildo, so all references, regardless to how old, are not appropriate and are misleading/misunderstanding.

Dildos don’t replace pleasure of a man, even if he’s inept and lacks knowledge. That G-spot is a whole other thing though.

But, whatever.

lol.

rugby11
rugby11
2 years ago

Good girls
https://www.instagram.com/p/B7GUT7NgJQX/
Dont get caught

SJF
SJF
2 years ago

“That ain’t no dildo, so all references, regardless to how old, are not appropriate and are misleading/misunderstanding.” It’s a new device that sucks the clit and stimulates the G-Spot without a man or a sex-doll body of a man. It’s all a dildo never was. It’s still a substitute for a woman who hasn’t found the best she can. And thinks it’s all about sex. It’s sold to woman as such. It’s a substitute. The Who: But I’m a substitute for another guy… Substitute me for him Substitute my coke for gin Substitute you for my mum At least I’ll… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

Lol. Btw, I REJECT that label – ” monogamous male “. I don’t like the connotations associated with it currently ( thank YaReally for that shit…). Currently, I only put my penis inside my wife. I like putting my penis inside my wife. It’s momentarily satisfying until the next time. If anything changed in that calculation, I would put my penis inside other women. My wife understands this fully. Surprisingly, at work we men folk were discussing a coworker who has openly stated that he hasn’t had sex with his wife for 5 years. They’ve been married 5 years 9… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

“Correct me if I’m wrong: Your point is guys should be able to satisfy a woman sexually and she would not need that machine” BINGO!!!! Precisely. In marriage or ltr’s, a woman might settle for less than optimal sex. That’s the emotional part of the equation I was talking about. But imo, before any man gets married, he needs to be a pussy-master. Spend as much time as it takes to figure it out. Hence, my ” frustration ” descriptor. I can’t count how many sexually frustrated women I have run across in life. Not all will cheat or leave… Read more »

SJF
SJF
2 years ago

Well said Blax. Now I get where you are coming from. “I heard that lack of orgasm thing an awful lot. So unlike a dildo, when I see a device that sucks clit and rubs G-spot, I’m like ” uh-oh “.” You are worried about all those unfortunate guys out there that aren’t making the grade. It could be their fault for the girl not emotionally investing. And you feel for them like a buddy and you want to mentor them to rise to the occasion and get it done for him and her. And being better than the machine.… Read more »

SJF
SJF
2 years ago

I missed your previous comment Blax. “Btw, I REJECT that label – ” monogamous male “. I don’t like the connotations associated with it currently ( thank YaReally for that shit…). Currently, I only put my penis inside my wife. I like putting my penis inside my wife. It’s momentarily satisfying until the next time. If anything changed in that calculation, I would put my penis inside other women. My wife understands this fully. Once again. Talking past each other. For guys like us it is a day to day decision. I totally agree with you. And I don’t have… Read more »

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
2 years ago

Well said man.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

@Rugby

lol. Yes, they are all girls, and yes, they are All Like That. Plan and adapt accordingly.

theasdgamer
2 years ago

If a woman is gonna use a dildo, she needs to read some cheap fantasy novel to work up her emotions or she won’t enjoy it. Women really only enjoy the feel of cock inside them and their butt getting banged hard. Even lesbians. Because AWALT. Which explains why lesbian couples usually end up cuddling each other with dead bedrooms. And lesbians will respond to displays of masculinity like any straight woman. Because AWALT. Lesbians have a cortical problem with men, not a sexual wiring problem. But they sh*t test exceptionally hard. Nuclear, even. tl;dr The way to seduce a… Read more »

wahoo Mcdaniels
2 years ago

I can,t believe none of you pussies will call @Blaximus out on his BS. He is trolling like a obese black muslim gangsta bioch. Aint no clit suckin g spot vibin gismo gonna take the place of the real thing. It can’t physiclly bend her over the kitchen table and give it too her hard, or provide sustenance, or protect her and don’t even worrry about kung fu cus sam colt rules. No vibro sucker can listen to her woes,offer support or bring her back to earth. What women need to do is learn the importance of pleasing her man,… Read more »

Playah
Playah
2 years ago

There are striking similarities between Lola Montez from 48 Laws of Power and Meghan Markle. They get in a system, destroy the system, take no responsibility. Human Virus.

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
2 years ago

@Wahoo Mcdaniels

He ends up editing himself anyway. Why so ruffled?

wahoo Mcdaniels
2 years ago

Yollo,howaya ?

Ruffles have ridges.

This aint about Ima teach youall howta please wimins and gitema squirt to keep em haaapy. For cryin out loud main.

Getting in touch with the base inherent drive in men and women, then returning to a natural state of male being. Next this nurtures frame, she will be happy to please her man in his frame. This is what she wants, not some fool trying to figure out how to please her,rather a man she wants to please in his reality.

wahoo Mcdaniels
2 years ago

Playah, don’t know or care to either of those names.

Authority sans responsibility is the new trend. This is the result of a feminine primacy, not only are the majority doing what their leaders do some of them actually are doing what they say.

For the record authority should only be considered after a proven track record of responsibility then only in that specific field and only after respect is earned.

Carefull whose lead you follow.

Sentient
Sentient
2 years ago

RIP Neil Peart

If ya don’t know, now ya know…

theasdgamer
2 years ago

“Authority sans responsibility is the new trend.” Most people nowadays are feral, sure. So most women are feral and have little self-control. That is actually an ancient problem deriving from crappy parenting, which is why William Shakespeare wrote…get ready for it…The Taming of the Shrew. That is a manual about how to deal with feral women. How to train a feral woman if you want a relationship with her. But, of course, such a thing is impossible nowadays, for some reason I can’t fathom. I mean, Rollo went to all the trouble to write a manual about how to train… Read more »

SJF
SJF
2 years ago

The bass line is strong in this one: Freewill by Rush There are those who think that life Has nothing left to chance A host of holy horrors To direct our aimless dance A planet of playthings We dance on the strings Of powers we cannot perceive The stars aren’t aligned Or the gods are malign Blame is better to give than receive You can choose a ready guide In some celestial voice If you choose not to decide You still have made a choice You can choose from phantom fears And kindness that can kill I will choose a… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

Freewill, New world man, Tom Sawyer.

First saw Rush live in the late 70’s, with foreigner as the opening act. Phenomenal show. Neil was one of the absolute amazing drummers I’ve ever heard in my life, especially live.

Lol, after seeing Rush live in Virginia, I got laid in a purple Volkswagen beetle behind a closed has station on a deserted country road. A while back I watched a Rush documentary and it gave me flashbacks of acrobatics and steamed windows.

Rip to a superior artist, writer and musician.

CFGauss
CFGauss
2 years ago

Mike Tysons take on the respect dynamic:

from 4:39 to 5:06 in the video

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

wahoo McDaniels
Authority sans responsibility is the new trend.

Sure, if “new” means “for the last 55+ years”.

kfg might adjust that back to 120+ years.

It’s a deep rabbit hole.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

https://nypost.com/2020/01/11/why-todays-young-men-are-terrified-of-sex/

This Is a thing. It’s the flip side of the hunger that girls have for masculinity.

Boomerposting “In MAH day” isn’t an answer, either.

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

Wtf is boomerposting?

Something is wrong that wasn’t wrong previously.

The coddling starts early and seems to now go on forever.

How bout some actual solutions? Even if you have to ” go back “?

Or commiserate to the point of paralyzation. Yeah, that’ll work.

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

Everyone watches porn and then gets super nervous about their size. college sophomore 😂 Dylan, 17, is a high-school junior in Northern California. He’s handsome, athletic, a straight-A student, and captain of the soccer team. He was also, until recently, a virgin. He had drank too much at a friend’s party and passed out on a couch. That’s where his friend Julia, who was sober, found him. She dragged Dylan, stumbling, to the bathroom and had sex with him on the floor. The next morning, Dylan was horrified and asked Julia why she forced herself on him. “I didn’t want… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

Pussification. It’s a thing.

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

😂 Pastor, bring it on home.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WrCNawGQ2ws

Out.

wahoo Mcdaniels
2 years ago

AR

“Sure, if “new” means “for the last 55+ years”.”
Authority^

“kfg might adjust that back to 120+ years.”
Sans responsibility^

“It’s a deep rabbit hole.”
Trendy^

wahoo Mcdaniels
2 years ago

This song was a hit back in my day.

SJF
SJF
2 years ago

I’m kind of sad about how the “manosphere” has devolved. I’m not surprised given human nature and competition among males. It used to be more signal and less noise. It’s pretty fucking noisy right now. That being said, I want to ask: Who is this Brother Morpheus character on Twitter. I don’t know. Do any of you guys know who this alter ego is? I don’t want to ruin his vibe or personna. So it’s ok if no one exposes him. It’s just a curious thing. I’m a fan. And I think he’s doing a good service. There is a… Read more »

wahoo Mcdaniels
2 years ago

SJF, I’ve no idea who Brother Morpheus is, I am in agreement that 22con is a blast zone. The advertisment spread like wildfire and raised the ire of the local facebook women immediately.

My wife believes after readin the entire add that some men will buy tickets to train and chain their wives to the kitchen sink. I doubt any man is foolish enough to send his wife to a hotel full ob beefcake security guards and PUA’s.

It looks like a marketing ploy for 21 con from where I sit,aimed at males infected with”oneitis” and “quality woman” syndromes.

foxguy
foxguy
2 years ago

I’ve begun to spend less and less time on the redpil/manosphere I find. The problems pointed out by the manosphere are indeed real but upon closer inspection some of the characters within it are downright incompetent at areas that don’t include banging girls. I just recently saw a Roosh video with John from MLD and Roosh is just cringe worthy, I’m sure he has a high n count but it looks like girls/red pill is all he has focused for the last 10-15 years and it shows, you can just see/hear the downright incompetence and the fact he never had… Read more »

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
2 years ago

The manosphere hasn’t devolved in my opinion. It’s just that the limits of their levels of consciousness needs an upgrade.

Three feet from gold. That’s how I see it. The majority of the manosphere got it’s wish and found out how to exploit the lopsided reward-system to leverage some sex.

Now it’s time to expand awareness so wisdom and efficiency can be reached and the understanding can be equally disseminated to the new “know it alls”.

theasdgamer
2 years ago

“What’s messing up growing boys hormones and brains?”

Feminist Propaganda and mind-controlling drugs for 400, Alex. Young skullsfullamush are fed this pap from kindergarten on. The drugs are designed to obtain compliance from boys and then the propaganda is more effective. If the brain is feminized, the hormones will follow. No lifting. No locker room talk. Girls are pedestalized. Effeminate boys are praised. Masculine behavior is cancelled.

theasdgamer
2 years ago

“Pussification. It’s a thing.”

Sadly true and by design by tptb.

Centuries
Centuries
2 years ago

Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau is looking more and more like Fidel Castro with every passing day…..

https://apnews.com/1cf3a9656804672b4ddd72190dcfee22

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

Blaximus
Something is wrong that wasn’t wrong previously.

Yeah, I’ve been telling you that for like 3 years.

The coddling starts early and seems to now go on forever.

Lots of helicopters out there. There are colleges now that suggest to parents “Don’t contact your student more than once per day. Try to avoid calling when they are in class”. I’m serious.

But also remember that “anti-harassment” training begins in the mid high, around age 12 – 13.

Contempt for male humans is institutional policy now. From kindergarten to college.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

Wahoo McDaniels
The advertisment spread like wildfire and raised the ire of the local facebook women immediately.

What? What? Women not haaaapy? Something must be done! Now! Where’s the fried ice?

My wife believes after readin the entire add that some men will buy tickets to train and chain their wives to the kitchen sink. I

How did you respond to that little card out of her little Rolodex?
Agree & Amplify would be entertaining for a start. Up to you.

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago
theasdgamer
2 years ago

Blax must be bored.

wahoo Mcdaniels
2 years ago

Anonymous Reader

“How did you respond to that little card out of her little Rolodex?”

Why would I spend $2000 on a trip to Orlando for you and Sue when I can make a shock collar and a pair of vibrating panties from some old car parts and a cell phone? Just talking a little tough made her cream her panties and I did her right there on the kitchen counter.

Not exactly agree and amplify yet very effective.

Get a rectal craniotomy dude.

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

Asd Lol, I’m not bored. I’ve been bored maybe 3-4 times in my entire life. Nah, I posted that article because while I was working on the burnt up Camry behind my garage, I managed to get the radio and head/interior lights working and I heard ” declining u.s. Population ” story on the radio. So when I took a coffee break I looked it up on the Google. Choices and mindsets have rewards of consequences. It’s an immutable law. For a myriad of dumb reasons, people aren’t having kids as much. Unless everyone starts dying around age 50, this… Read more »

theasdgamer
2 years ago

Blax, the U.S. population is still increasing. How can that be when the lifetime reproduction rate of U.S. women is around 1.7? Because of Immigration, both legal and illegal. And which women contribute a lot to the already low lifetime reproduction rate of U.S. women stat? Immigrant women. Because immigrant women are included in the stat, the stat actually hides the magnitude of the problem. So, if immigration were stopped, our country would become a sh*tshow. First, the economy would go to h*ll because our economy requires consumption, which requires increasing population. If you want to see where we would… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

There’s a whole bunch of reasons U.S. Women aren’t reproducing, but the number one reason imo, is the stubborn trend of delayed and arrested development. 30 is the new 20, 40 is the new 30. Another driver is economic. A large number of men and women can’t earn, even though they work. They can barely support themselves. Immigrants that I know, legal and otherwise, pool resources like mad. Lastly, the degeneration of society impacts women and men that have grown up with it. The internet and social media provides a toy they can’t see out of, and those that know… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
2 years ago

Blax

“And it’s not ” feminism ” that drives the devolution, but tptb that latch on, push and magnify the tenets of feminism by law and constant social pronouncements and programs.”

Careful homie. You’re gonna blow your Reactionary Progressive bona fides if you keep heading down this path. 😉

Sentient
Sentient
2 years ago

“First, the economy would go to h*ll because our economy requires consumption, which requires increasing population. If you want to see where we would be headed without immigration, look at Japan. Japan is the canary in the coal mine.”

ASD getting in his globalist talking points…

“Hey serf, get back on the line” – Amazon Robot, RZ43789760c

Sentient
Sentient
2 years ago

Couple of drumbeats… Can ya hear it? https://behindthehedges.com/my-hamptons-wednesday-martin/ “The bridge between Untrue and Primates grew out of an article I did in The Observer called “Gay Until Labor Day,” where women in the Hamptons in considerably heterosexual relationships were having affairs with their female trainers. Female sexuality is flexible. It was more than a few people who told me this and none of the experts I interviewed were surprised.” https://pagesix.com/2020/01/10/denise-richards-feuding-with-rhobh-cast-amid-brandi-glanville-affair-allegations/ “Richards, 48, is believed to have had an affair with former “RHOBH” star Brandi Glanville, an insider told Page Six on Friday. She tied the knot with Aaron Phypers in… Read more »

kfg
kfg
2 years ago

” . . . our economy requires consumption . . .”

The maintenance of life requires consumption which requires an economy. Ant colonies have a consumer economy.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

Remove all contraception, you go back to old traditional masculinity, remove agriculture, you cure your arrested development.

Killing off 99.999% of humanity might not be the best option.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

The stock price of “Beyond Meat” is on a tear.
https://finviz.com/quote.ashx?t=BYND&ty=c&ta=1&p=d

There’s a fair amount of soy in these products. I wonder how many millilgrams of estrogen per serving?

theasdgamer
2 years ago

I found the following link when I was searching for Japan’s birth rates:

https://www.macrotrends.net/countries/JPN/japan/birth-rate

It lists many western nations and ranks them.

Oh, I meant to say the following as a concluding remark in my last comment: If you’re gonna limit immigration, you might want to outlaw abortion–otherwise, you end up with an economic mess. And you have to lead for a generation of outlawing abortion before you limit immigration to avoid the economic mess.

kfg
kfg
2 years ago

“Killing off 99.999% of humanity might not be the best option.”

But if it is, a navel gazing economy would be one way to accomplish it.

theasdgamer
2 years ago

“The maintenance of life requires consumption which requires an economy.”

Consumption might be an insignificant part of an economy. North Korea. Cuba.

“Cuban is like Spanish, except that they lack words for some luxury items.

theasdgamer
2 years ago

Oh, I found a new blog you nonprogressives might enjoy:

https://www.theconservativetreehouse.com

Lots of details about Washington shenanigans without a lot of the rhetoric. They wade through the weeds of govt. filings. Claims are typically muted until there are a lot of facts to support them.

theasdgamer
2 years ago

@AR

Email me:

theasdgamer@yahoo.com for help.

Don’t ever think the maintenance of life requires consumption of soy.

kfg
kfg
2 years ago

For thousands of years the chief economic problem of Japan has been too many native people living with too few native resources. They also have the highest industrial output from the fewest people in the world (although Taiwan is catching up). Adding more people does not benefit the Japanese people. It benefits the international banking cartels. Poor countries are the most consumer based, as they cannot afford frivolous, non-consumptive luxuries. Poetry and jewelry may be purchased, but they are not consumed. The Hope diamond may well outlast life on Earth. Whereas the loaf of bread you purchase today is gone… Read more »

Julia The Queen of Devils
Julia The Queen of Devils
2 years ago

This same singleminded interpretation applies largely to women and their form of respect. If men would hold a woman to a merited, male, standard of respect, rather than a default deference to respecting her for no measurable reason, then those men don’t believe in Respect at all. It’s her way or it isn’t real. Tomassi, what’s your next move? You’ve already created the Us Vs Them ( Alfa vs Beta) dynamic, the perfect scenario for a new religion. Are you going to punish Beta males next time for their life-long misery? Don’t you also think that only your way is… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

Awwww gtfoh.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

Some Trollette
Tomassi, what’s your next move

Do I spy a blast from the past? I wonder which witch that is?
Not that it matters.

theasdgamer
2 years ago

kfg, mercantilism is a long dead concept. Not having natural resources is no big deal if you have major industrial output. Japan’s problem isn’t a lack of natural resources. They can import the food and energy they need and still have one of the top standards of living. Consumption includes expensive stuff like bass boats, firearms, liquor, cigars, cars, motorcycles, European cruises, air travel, and other expensive toys. A lake house, timeshare, etc. Cosmetics aren’t cheap. Everyone consumes health care, too. Hospitals are consumers of medical equipment. Factories consume robots. The trades consume tools. The military consumes weapons. Not cheap… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

kfg For thousands of years the chief economic problem of Japan has been too many native people living with too few native resources. 65 years ago the population was under 100 million. Japan functioned find then. Perhaps they are moving back to a population that can be supported by their own land area. Certainly it is clear that even now they would rather remain Japanese at a reduced population than import foreigners. Globalists don’t like that for some reason. https://www.worldometers.info/world-population/japan-population/ As far as I know the truly “black” [1]factory does not yet exist, but when it does it probably will… Read more »

kfg
kfg
2 years ago

Consumption means to use to the point where it is no longer useful. You do not consume a European cruise any more than you consume standing up. Activities are performed. You consume diesel fuel to cruise and food to stand up. n. In economics “one who uses up goods or articles, one who destroys the exchangeable value of a commodity by using it.” Attested since 1745. The Hope diamond is a valuable trade item because it is not a consumable. Once acquired in trade you can trade it again at full value (which is not the same thing as full… Read more »

kfg
kfg
2 years ago

“Certainly it is clear that even now they would rather remain Japanese at a reduced population than import foreigners. Globalists don’t like that for some reason.”

So we sent the Black Fleet on a “diplomatic mission.”

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

Kfg you sir, are a dream killer. 😂 A lot of ” work “, or more precisely effort has gone into the whole ” consumer ” narratives we are taught to hold near and dear. Words cannot have meaning beyond what someone wants them to mean. Just yesterday on cnbc, I heard much conversation about consumers and the consumer driven economy in relation to the stock market. So you doubt sir, that Apple isn’t one of the most profitable producers of ” consumables “? And what about Netflix and all of the streaming services that ” consumers ” ..er…consume? No.… Read more »

kfg
kfg
2 years ago

And “franchise” now means something like “story” or “series,” as in the Star Wars movie franchise. The Star Wars movies are not a franchise, they are a property. It’s the Hasbro Star Wars toys that are a franchise.

This is what happens when “consumers” read the trade rags and start parroting the jargon without having clue what it means.

Sentient
Sentient
2 years ago

kfg

Not enough golf claps to clap…

theasdgamer
2 years ago

“A consumer economy describes an economy driven by consumer spending as a percent of its gross domestic product, as opposed to the other major components of GDP (gross private domestic investment, government spending, and imports netted against exports)” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consumer_economy This is what I was relying on for my description of a consumer economy. Cruise ship tickets are, in fact, consumed. Computers and cell phones have a useful life of about 5 years. Houses are also consumed, as the value of the house declines unless it is maintained. Whatever the maintenance cost is is the amount that has been consumed. Consumption… Read more »

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
2 years ago

@Julia

They haven’t figured out sacrifice isn’t a virtue yet. I’ll explain it to them later.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

kfg
And “franchise” now means something like “story” or “series,” as in the Star Wars movie franchise.

Yeah, well, I use my voting franchise to declare this a real franchise:
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Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

kfg
ou do not consume a European cruise any more than you consume standing up.

Yet some are consumed with envy at the very thought of such a cruise. Especially if the cruise allows one to go to Rome and view the house near the Spanish Steps where Keats died of consumption. Go figure.

kfg
kfg
2 years ago

And so poor nations that have all they can do to come up with enough money for food and socks are consumer economies, while rich nations that spend their wealth to generate a large, technologically advanced military to police the world and support a large number non-productively are not. Although the latter may do a fair job of hiding what’s going on with various accounting tricks. “Cruise ship tickets are, in fact, consumed.” Yes, and a bit of steel becomes unrecoverable iron oxide. My copy of Lawrence of Arabia had a bit of plastic wrap on it and that was… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

kfg
So we sent the Black Fleet on a “diplomatic mission.”

That was then In the now, the Japanese would still rather remain Japanese in decline than become something else. They aren’t the “Japan that can say NO” of the 80’s and 90’s, but they are still Japanese – by choice.

There’s an interesting lesson, at a time when other countries are being changed beyond recognition in a matter of a few years by migration.

theasdgamer
2 years ago

One might argue that the Grass Eaters aren’t really Japanese in a cultural sense. No work ethic, etc. The social safety net is a very heavy burden for Japan’s economy. With so many young men opting out, it only got worse.

Sentient
Sentient
2 years ago
Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

OT

https://www.digitaltrends.com/mobile/is-your-smartphone-listening-to-your-conversations/

Market response:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PinePhone
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Librem_5

Librum 5 manufacturer Purism also makes two laptops. Some might find transitioning to Debian difficult, others not so much.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

Also OT: EU accuses Grindr of illegally sharing user data.

https://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/world/tinder-grindr-accused-illegally-sharing-user-data-12262912

Read further and find that Tinder is also sharing data. So are other apps. Read even further to see what entity now owns Grndr. Lol.

Turning on “location services” and letting apps access it is totally normal now.
smh

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
2 years ago

Sacrifice is not a virtue.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

Yollo Comanche Sacrifice is not a virtue. A lot of philosophers and religious leaders would disagree. But the context matters. Could be wrong, but the Stoics of ancient Greece and Rome are one example. Dr. Viktor Frankl, author of “Man’s Search for Meaning” and a survivor of the Nazi camp system would also disagree. It depends on the “why”, the Frame. A man whose mindset / belief system requires certain things of him may well engage in self sacrifice because he requires it of himself. A man working three jobs because he believes it to be his duty is not… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
2 years ago

Yep.

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
2 years ago

“In RM terms, a man’s Mental Point of Origin may require him to make sacrifices, in order to meet his own goals, keep his self-respect, etc. That sacrifice has nothing to do with any girl’s expectations, either.” This isn’t a sacrifice. It’s a choice. Choose how to spend your time, energy, resources. Choose which people to piss off. Choose which people to reproof as you climb. There are people who get jobs for the EXPRESS PURPOSE of avoiding having an actual MPO. These are the tools and lackeys that chuckle to themselves as they help someone else stack their paper.… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
2 years ago

Yollo Comanche This isn’t a sacrifice. It’s a choice. Choose how to spend your time, energy, resources. Choose which people to piss off. Choose which people to reproof as you climb. Yeah, sacrifice often comes in the form of a choice. As long as it’s a choice that a man makes from his MPO, rather than “because my parents want me to” or “because that’s what the gynocracy told me to do” or “because it will make Her haaaapy”, etc. I see no reason to object. Some men I know restore old tractors. It’s what they do with time and… Read more »

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