As I’ve stated in many prior posts, it is Men, not women who are the True Romantics. It is actually Men who will more readily alter their lives in the most radical of ways to achieve what they think is an idyllic state of monogamy with their ‘Woman of Quality’. I understand how this statement may conflict with women’s (and mangina symp’s) characterizations of ‘typical guys’ just wanting to fuck anything that smiles at them, but this sentiment is only designed to maintain the feminine as the victimized gender.
It is in fact Men who are more prone to wanting commitment from a woman. The operative word here is “wanting” commitment.
Men are now also just as likely to want to get married as women and more likely to fall in love at first sight.
Experts said that the results were evidence of āgender blurringā in which women have become more like men and men have taken on the characteristics usually associated with women.
I doubt that last quote from this article will shock my regular readers. Considering that the overwhelming majority of men are corn-fed betas, raised from birth to be devoted, “supportive”,Ā wives to their masculinized fem-husbands, it’s really no surprise that men would be the ones seeking solace in a monogamy they’ve been conditioned to believe should be their goal-state for so long.
While betas are concerned with qualifying for an idyllic monogamy, Alphas tend to focus more on fidelity ā their women’s fidelity, not necessarily their own.
Feminized Commitment
One very effective meme the feminine imperative has cunningly inserted into our social awareness is the feminine ownership of the term ‘commitment’. Calling a guy a ‘commitment-phobe’ is really a 90’s shaming clichĆ© that’s been a retread for the Man Up! generation. There are different variation of this shaming ā a guy can be ‘phobic’ because he lacks maturity, or because he’s become bitter and burned by a spurned woman, but underneath all that is the association that the concept of commitment uniquely applies to a man committing to monogamy with a woman.
From the Paradox of Commitment:
The idea is that commitment should only have meaning in a feminine defined reality. Ironically, itās Men who commit far more readily to ideals, family, military, business ventures or partnerships, and servitude than women have the capacity to appreciate, because recognizing this doesnāt serve their imperative. In other words, a commitment to anything that doesnāt directly benefit the feminine isnāt commitment; answer? Redefine commitment to reflect feminine interests.
One thing that needs to be understood about women’s innate feminine solipsism is how it’s expressed on a meta-scale. It’s very easy to observe and consider individual examples of women’s subconscious sense of self-importance (read any comment from women on a manosphere blog) , but what most men aware of this phenomenon don’t consider is how this solipsism scales up to the larger social narrative.
I’ve written extensively about the Feminine Reality and Feminine Social Primacy, but these have been ‘top down’ assessments with regard to how society follows a feminine primary narrative as theĀ correct premise of origin. Put simply, if it benefits women, it benefits society ā society is better when benefiting women’s imperatives are its focus.
However, from a ‘bottom up’ perspective it is this proclivity for solipsism in women that collectively becomes the social narrative (or paradigm if you prefer). Millions of women solipsistically expressing the demands that would ensure a secure hypergamy for themselves makes for a fem-centric social narrative. And from this develops an expectation of, and entitlement to a default, secured commitment to satisfying women’s hypergamic impulses.
Selective Breeding
So powerful is this sense of entitlement, so consuming and convinced of the correctness of their purpose is the feminine that women will literally breed and raise generations of men to better satisfy it. Hypergamy is cruel, but nowhere more so than in the relationship between a mother overtly raising and conditioning a son to be a better servant of the feminine imperative.
But to breed a better worker, the feminine imperative’s queens can’t afford to have any corrupting, masculine, outside influence. On a societal scale this might mean removal (either by disincentives or forcibly) of a father from the family unit, but this is the easy, extreme illustration. There are far more subtle social and psychological means that the imperative uses to effect this filtering ā via mass media, social doctrines, appeals to (feminized) morality, the feminine is placed as theĀ correct imperative while the masculine is filtered out or apologetically tolerated as vestiges of an immature and crude reminder of masculinity’sĀ incorrectness.
Yet for all of this social engineering Hypergamy still demands satisfaction of women’s most base imperative, Alpha seed. The queens need physically / psychologically dominant drones ā if just for a season and at their ovulatory pleasure. While beta workers are endlessly vetted inĀ sisyphean tasks of qualifying for the acceptance of the feminine imperative, the Alpha drones live outside this shell; their qualifications only based on how well they satisfy the feminine’s visceral side of Ā hypergamy.
The great irony of this social solution to hypergamy and long term parental investment is that the vast majority of the offspring of this arrangement would be raised to be better workers. Those betas-to-be boys must be insulated from the corrupting influence of the drones lest they devolve into the Alphas they crave yet cannot control. It may seem counterintuitive, to raise what should ostensibly be optimized genetic stock as a cowed, sometimes medically restrained, feminized beta males. However it is through this harsh conditioning that truly dominant Alphas must rise above. Essentially the genetic lottery isn’t won by women in such a social environment ā it’s men, or the ones who rise above in spite of the conditioning efforts of the feminine imperative.
Generation AFC
We’re just now seeing the results of almost three generations of this selective breeding effort. While women bleat and bemoan, “Man Up!” over the lack of suitable men to meet both their hypergamy and their provisioning, they only grind their teeth at the results of a social momentum set in motion by women two or three generations before them. While more boys are raised to pee sitting down by women concerned that their sons’ testosterone poisoning will make him a potential rapist, the fewer and fewer “suitable” males present themselves 20 years later.
A lot has been made about men just checking out or giving up on themselves as they reach a projected notion of maturity. The feminine complains about them not living up to the standard set before them by the feminine imperative ā women are owed reverence and tribute of an enduring security, why are men not sacrificing themselves on the altar of the goddess? In the face of all the so called social advancements in women’s independence over the past 50 years we still hear a deafening cry for ‘real men’ to measure up, to qualify themselves for acceptance, to be worthy of providing for her and (her) offspring. Despite the refutations of masculinity and claims of independence, women still want Men.
In the manosphere it’s been argued that the reason for this sexual disparity and men’s ambivalence is due to some new awareness among men of the way the Game has been rigged against them. It’s been argued that men are consciously opting out ā going their own way ā in some new social movement causing a de facto ‘marriage strike’. I think this estimation is greatly exaggerated.
The male crisis of this generation isn’t the result of men’s conscious decision to opt out, but rather due to being forced out by this selective breeding. As exampled in my first link, menĀ want to get married. It’s part of their feminized conditioning to view long term monogamy as a goal state. No, the men that women want to “man up” are the ones they’re already married to, or the ones they’d consider worthy if only they acted (not actually became) more like drones and less like dutiful workers.
It’s not that the vast majority of men wouldn’t eagerly bind themselves to women in monogamy, it’s that they’ve been bred in grand proportions to be ‘less-than-men’ by the feminine imperative.
The nice guy would marry them, but they don’t want the nice guy. The alpha with options isn’t going to marry them. Thus, the only thing they can perceive through their solipsistic blinders is that men won’t marry them. Even if there are 5 Nice Guys on their knees holding out rings and on alpha rejecting them. All they see is the Alpha so they bemoan this marriage strike.
Why do y’all call it hypergamy.. shouldn’t you say supergamy? Assuming you are describing a phenomenon of women mating up (i.e. better) and not women mating to some sort of ‘excess’.
Your last paragraph blew my mind. If what you say is true, that the reason why men aren’t getting married anymore is because feminism/hypergamy disqualified them and not because they smartened up to the ruse that marriage; well that is fucking huge.
Props.
Don’t forget: Worker bees are defined as “female” simply because they are not male. Worker humans can be identified as “male” similarly.
The paragraph about the counterintuitive tendency to feminize alpha offspring was eye-opening to me. It’s like another filtering system beyond the “normal” struggles of life for men to overcome if they want to be seen as alphas to women. For many years my standard response to the question of marriage has been “sure I’d like to get married one day”. After a year of red-pill education that answer is much different. I’ve never taken a class that’s presented the pluses and minuses of marriage, never had a book on the subject passed on to me by a parent, teacher or… Read more »
Hey Rollo- having a hard time getting in touch with you. I’m from theredpill over on reddit- Would you be interested in scheduling an AMA (ask me anything) style interview on our subreddit? Get at me at this email address.
Rollo,
I’ve been reading your blog since its inception.
I owe you a debt of gratitude for opening my eyes to the feminine imperative.
However, this is the first time I’ve felt compelled to comment.
The ramifications of this post are stunning, absolutely stunning.
My hat is off to you for bringing this out.
Augustus
This article made me think of a parenting question I’ve been wondering about for a while. While playing at the pool, I once again witnessed my little coquette winding up some hapless male victim. Shocked by how mean I felt she was being, I reprimanded her several times to “be nice!” and stop teasing However, I know that being nice doesn’t get anybody anywhere romantically. Nice girls finish last too. This boy had other girls trying to get his attention, but he never gave up chasing my daughter until we left. Should I really be encouraging her to be nice… Read more »
Good stuff once again, best part of my morning. Like a puzzle that is constantly expanding and being completed at the same time. But I see the world in patterns and systems, all interconnected.
Reblogged this on oogenhand and commented:
The REAL three genders of humanity.
@Rollo, Excellent piece, I have been thinking along those lines, just couldnt put the pieces together, as I notice I resemble that last paragraph as I have begun my ‘redpill’ journey. I wanted to get married but have realized I am not the material the women I want, want… For instance last nite I watched for a second time “The Ghost of Girlfriends Past”. I was stunned that I hadn’t noticed the ALPHA bashing, and the way the ALPHA lifestyle was portrayed with hyperbole, as lonely, and pathetic, and that the best thing a man could do is get married……..… Read more »
I suppose that this discussion begs the question. How should game aware fathers raise their sons to combat a system designed to crush the masculinity out of them so that their sons will grow into the men that women actually desire?
@ 22to28 there f**ked from the outset unfortunately, as your aware the majority of highly active male kids are labelled ADD, ADHD or some other diagnosis but itās just young masculinity. The teachers in pre-school, primary school and secondary school are female I donāt have the stats to back this up although itās an inference we know the story I guess it around 70% probably higher. Not a good start without a male role model apart from probably the father or football coach. The author of feet and knees together wrote a book on red pill parenting which might be… Read more »
Once, I used to think nothing of dropping everything to move to a new state with a girl. I am so glad I finally learned. Now I hurt when I see my friends wanting to make the same decision.
The implications of this post are staggering. It seems to indicate that a vast number of women, both mothers, non-mothers, and mothers-to-be in industrialized nations, are complicit in behavior that is attempting to erase the “sexy sons” effect. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexy_son_hypothesis If they succeed, it would wipe out a significant chunk of the advantages of sexual dimorphism and sexual selection. Fortunately, wealthier women in industrialized nations have abysmal fertility rates, and are not breeding enough to replace themselves. Their own hubris will be their demographic demise. Every time I read a post like this, I feel massive gratitude for my parents, still… Read more »
Excellent post.
I’ll just add the wild card in every interaction with a female is how much T you bring to the table. Find any way you can to naturally get those levels up and avoid the stuff that brings it down.
If the desire for resources are so strong isnt the logical endpoint forced labor camps full of effectively castrated men? A world where the alpha are risen up to stand aside as breeding stock while the other males are forced to labor for the “greater good” of society.
@22
Involve your son in sports such as football, wrestling, and ice hockey that physically push him. Bring him camping, fishing, etc. often and involve him in boy scouts where it’s male only and he is surrounded by peers. Don’t let him play video games all day after school. Teach him that women are different by nature and that men and women are not capable of the same abilities with the most profound differences being physical strength and the ability to get Preggers!
@22to28 and Cynical, have a read: Teachers’ Expectations Can Influence How Students Perform This isn’t a smoking gun as such, but it’s a good article in respect to how teacher’s expectations of students adjusts their approach to those students and influences them. What the article fails to detail is that teachers (especially in grammar through high school) are predominantly female and have expectations that boys will be disruptive, unruly and inattentive, thus they intuitively cater their instruction in ways that anticipate this. Often enough, women will raise or teach their boys based on the same expectations that the mothers and… Read more »
Regarding the selective breeding and generation AFC:
Testosterone levels in males in western society continue to drop, and I’m really wondering whether the culprit is just those estrogen analogues (BPA and other) in food and water.
An important question is whether the male hormonal axis is directly influenced by the perceived social landscape and its conventions, i.e. fem-centrism. Of course, it’s well known that sensory information feeds forward on gene regulation, but this may be more elaborate than previously thought.
Nick – you are correct, it will only get worse. I am 39, in my SMV prime, and over the last decade I have heard the following statements from many close friends: Good friend A, married at 23 – “After 15 years of marriage and three kids, even if she cheated on me I wouldn’t leave her because I don’t want to break up the family” Good friend B, married at 24 – “We have sex once a month, but only because our therapist requests us to have sex as a “homework assignment” so she complies” Good friend C, married… Read more »
> Nice girls finish last too.
Really now…
The ultimate unplugging for man is the realization that he can have an entire life where his sexual needs are fulfilled without marriage and a wife. That’s the real threat to women and society gentlemen. It’s simply becoming aware of it that is key. This resulted from the acceptance of sex outside of marriage in the west and I for one couldn’t be happier about it as the partner count adds up. With online dating living outside a big city possibilities are endless
“If the desire for resources are so strong isnt the logical endpoint forced labor camps full of effectively castrated men? A world where the alpha are risen up to stand aside as breeding stock while the other males are forced to labor for the āgreater goodā of society.”
The man who either breeds or gives the middle finger to a society full of lies and is killed for it is an alpha.
I can see now why martyrs for the truthful cause are held in high esteem.
“Nice girls finish last too” WTF? No No and No. Women aren’t men. Nice girls do finish last when they try to become men and compete like men. This leads them to kill some of their feminity to join ‘the man’s world’. Women should be pleasant and nice when circumstances allow it. Nasty warpigs and she-men are the most vile creatures that plauge modern day western society. Do you really think that any kind of man worth his salt doesn’t see through bitchy aggressive women and choose them over the nice ones? The main aspect that women have to deal… Read more »
I’m not trying to be offensive, Ferrett. Its certainly nothing for you to get worked up about. As far as I can tell, its the truth. From my own personal experiences, I’ve found that being nice does not equate to attraction from men. Nice is boring. And the average person appears to NEED drama or kaybe just more vivacity. It seems that a lot of men look to women for something akin to entertainment.
“Iāve found that being nice does not equate to attraction from men” You’re right, being physically attractive is what attracts alpha men to women. Then he decides if you have a feminine nice personality to determine whether it’s pump n dump or has the potential for LTR. However, without the hotness baseline, there isn’t anything you can do, so modern day women think they can use male traits to get ahead. It works on weak men and it inadvertingly allows them to be used as cumrags for alphas. It’s not just you Kate, it seems to be every single woman… Read more »
Good (nice) Girls are just bad girls who never got caught.
Reading this about how a lot of men can’t measure up to the hypergamy of women made me think of some stories I’ve heard where the guy struggled with women in his 20s and when he was close to turning 30 or was already, he was suddenly good enough because now he had money. At least that’s how the story goes.
That must be hell. Working 10 years to finally get something? Damn
“Males are a breeding experiment conducted by females.” (Dunno who first wrote this, saw it on a forum some years back. Seems to apply. Only they haven’t a clue to what they’re actually doing.) The link above to “My Son, My Protector: Raising a Son with Feminist Values” was truly horrifying. Haunted eyes on that little boy. Some years back I was set up with a “date” with a woman from Berkeley (used to live there myself 50 years ago) who told me she’d decided to quit being a lesbian. Why? It was too “boring”. Then she proceeded to tell… Read more »
“Itās been argued that men are consciously opting out ā going their own way ā in some new social movement causing a de facto āmarriage strikeā. I think this estimation is greatly exaggerated.”
Mark Minter said one time that the rate of 35-40 year-old-women who were never married has only increased by 4% the last 10 years.
If that was true, damn right this has been exaggerated. I still think most men have no issue getting married, divorce laws be damned. That’s how much men love women, if you can even call it “love”
@Kate
Being a nice girl is like being a physically attractive guy. It’s still important but a secondary trait of attraction. What brings guys in is your physical attractiveness…just like what brings you in is a guy’s attitude.
Men have created a big market for sex and they’ve overvalued the product. There’s a story I heard one time about a tribal woman who, after her man killed, dressed and cooked a game animal, thanked her vagina. He protested, saying that he had done everything to bring food to her stomach. She agreed, then said that he would not have done what he did if it weren’t for her vagina.
I just thought I had to add this in. It’s kind of important
The issue is she was advocating that being nice is a deterent to being attractive to men. That is fucking stupid. This kind of attitude is everything that is wrong with western women. They think that being sweet is bad!!!! WTF? They actually believe that being agressive will get them the men they want when it’s the last thing in the world that they should be doing. It all stems that they think that they can overcome the beauty aspect like a man can. This coming from a woman that frequents these blogs quite frequently. Even if she can’t see… Read more »
@Ferret…
In the land of Cheetos, soda, and soy, it also makes it harder for men to excel in their manly attitude…so they just retreat to video games and porn because they are defeated.
@ spud: right
*sigh* nevermind. Ferrett says, “We don’t even want nice girls on our blogs. We only want sluts here.” And then you say being nice is a good thing. All I’m doing is pointing out the hypocrisy, which is what you object to, really. Men don’t want nice girls. End of story. Its just as much a lie as saying women want nice men.
Nice girls finish last huh?
Wow.
Nice (read-FEMININE) women can drive high value men to move mountains. Instead of complementing men you would rather compete with them, and this is the end result. Lose-lose.
Makes you want to grab women, shake them and yell “WAKE THE FUCK UP!”
@ Kate A bad attitude can sink even a hot woman…just like a beta attitude can sink a physically attractive man. If you weren’t blessed by winning the genetic lottery you can’t afford to have a bitchy attitude or not do anything to give the world the best you got. In fact having a better attitude will improve your looks naturally. Fat loves to stick around in an angry, stressed out individual. I learned game to improve my chances with women because I couldn’t afford not to…that was a complete personality overhaul from many years of brainwashing. It’s much easier… Read more »
“It is in fact Men who are more prone to wanting commitment from a woman. ”
I’ve always known this. In all my relationships with men, including non sexual ones, they were the first to say I love you. They were the first to ask why I wasn’t saying I love you back. They were the first to use endearing terms like “baby” “sweetheart” “my love” etc. They were the first to want commitment, even when I suggested we both take it slow and keep our options open, dating other people.
“*sigh* nevermind. Ferrett says, āWe donāt even want nice girls on our blogs. We only want sluts here.ā And then you say being nice is a good thing. All Iām doing is pointing out the hypocrisy, which is what you object to, really. Men donāt want nice girls. End of story. Its just as much a lie as saying women want nice men.” It’s just that the sluts speak the truth whereas the other women try to spin everything around and confuse. The self identified slut doesn’t have to hide her nature because she accepts it. All the ‘good girls’… Read more »
You’re right. I’ve come here to overthrow all order. Darn, you saw through me š Now what.
Rollo: Get caught doing what? Donating money to the library? Baking cupcakes for school birthdays? Thanking bag boys for their sevice?
“I respect the truthful slut while abhoring the wannabe good girl. ”
So do many women respect the truthful cad while abhoring the trademarked wannabe “nice guy”.
At least we know where we stand with the honest cad. If and when we’re feeling really horny and up for no strings attached sex, we know who to booty call.
Kate,
Who we want to date and who we want to discuss gender dynamics with are, unsurprisingly, two different kinds of women.
For example, I wouldn’t date 1 Woman’s View, but she seems like a good choice for aforementioned discussion.
@Kate Explain then how the hell you can make statements that ‘Good girls finish last’ when you have this site and CH every day for years. CH consistently speaks on how men hate these neo-feminists with a central theme of them acting masculine, bitchy and rejecting the thought of being nice. Being nice is what men want from women. Modern day women have said I’m independent and bitchy and you’re just going to have to deal with it. By the way I’m going to have the government and white knights back me up so I can be a bitch. All… Read more »
Nice girls finish last too. This boy had other girls trying to get his attention, but he never gave up chasing my daughter until we left.
this just means the boy was only interested in pumping and dumping your daughter, not marrying her.
Fantastic Write-up Rollo;
Thank you once again.
Vicomte: Okay…I would think you’d like to hear from the kinds of women you’d like to date… Ferrett: Don’t jump to the conclusion that just because I said men don’t like nice that means I think men like bitches. I am far from advocating entitlement and I realize that it is a turn off to men. I’m simply saying there’s more to it than looking good and being sweet. GLC: As far as women competing with men, well, its not really their choice anymore. Who is offering to support them to take them out of the work force? Those men… Read more »
A question regarding Mebus’ earlier comment about T-levels among western men being on the decline: Roissy observed a couple of weeks back how there seem to be a lot more manjaws out there than before, and I see a lot of college-aged guys seeming especially effeminate and narrow-shouldered, and twirpy. I have a theory that if you’re a boy who’s raised to eschew fighting games and taught to be in touch with your emotions, it might lower your T production and/or raise E levels. Girls might have the reverse effect if they’re taught to be confrontational. Is anyone aware of… Read more »
Martel,
It probably does have an effect on actual hormone levels, as studies have shown things like body language and physical activity do alter androgen levels, but I think any increase in twerpyness is probably more due to the recent widespread acceptance of said twerpyness.
The vast majority of men will not have a lean, muscular, masculine body without proper diet and training. Many of the twerps could turn themselves around physically if they desired to do so. Fifty years ago one had little choice.
The deck truly is stacked against men. My mom pushed my dad out of my life and filled me with as much beta bullshit as she could. She badmouthed him constantly and tried to make me the opposite of the assholes she dAted. She insisted we go to joint counseling sessions when I became too “aggressive” as a teenager and she could no longer control me. It was the therapist’s opinion that I had aspergers as a child and grew out of it by watching a lot of tv. ( how the fuck do you “grow out of” aspergers?) single… Read more »
‘ From my own personal experiences, Iāve found that being nice does not equate to attraction from men. ‘ Actually, it’s being nice man that doesn’t equate to attraction from women.Nice woman means sweet and pleasant , that is attractive. ‘ Nice is boring. ‘ That’s exactly what women think. ‘ And the average person appears to NEED drama or kaybe just more vivacity. ‘ No , it’s average WOMAN who seeks drama . For a man , coming home after day of hard work , drama is the LAST thing he wants… ‘ It seems that a lot of… Read more »
this stuff should be common sense to all you red pill guys. you can see a micro example of this at any popular bar or club.
http://youtu.be/x64cy3Bcr98
What is “AFC” ?
“Overall , prime example of projection combined with female solipsism.” What’s worse is that she comments all the time on these sites and nothing has sunk in. Everytime I see her comment and offer some type of advice, it goes something like this: We all want to be loved and be happy with each other, Buy this book by some mainstream author on relationships, blah blah blah. It’s just standard neo-feminism lite. I’m like WTF? Did you not just read any of the articles? Why do you even come to these blogs if you just disregard everything that they say?… Read more »
I read that womens article, and the hypocrisy is so easy to see. She is upset that the kid might grow up to want to ‘protect’ her.
The mom shows indignation at this. Yet, women live by this, the ‘sacraficing’ element male have for women.
Brilliant post, never cease to amaze. Mothers creating Betas drones is the most apt model for mothers’ behaviours towards creating ‘nancy boys’ I have seen. A corollary to that is when they are too successful their sons tend to become gay, particularly when the husband is hyper masculine (just a personal anecdotal observation). I love the MGTOW (self avowed) schema, essentially you are saying they (we) are rejecting being rejected, a form of psychological defence whereby they create the illusion of control, preemptively rejecting rejection. Have to agree with Kate here, there is a difference between asexual nice girls and… Read more »
Take this for what it is worth. I have arguably learned more about Male and Female realities in today’s SMP from reading the female comments on these blogs than the actual content of the blogs themselves. This is saying something given how good the content here is. It was a clever move on RT’s part to allow female input, unmoderated. What this allows us is to watch the female mind at work, which better illustrates the author’s points. I have come to the conclusion that Women are going to make this job a lot easier for Men so long as… Read more »
Johny, what are these signals? An air traffic controller might be needed in some cases š
Vicomte: You make sense to an extent, because I know males won’t usually get particularly muscular unless they work for it. However, that doesn’t explain the predominance of manjaws on females.
I can’t prove it, but I wouldn’t be surprised if encouraging cross-gender characteristics in a child had permanent physical effects.
And this post was incredible. I think it’s the perfect compelement to “Promise Keepers”.
@martel take a look at the dj bible on rollo’ s blog roll if you havent already. There is a post there called the secret of the jerk and might have have what your looking for. talks about effects of T on both genders. Lots of info there might be what your looking for
“Have to agree with Kate here, there is a difference between asexual nice girls and sexual nice girls, the asexual types seem to have repressed their sexuality to such an extant that they donāt give off any āsignalsā and are very rarely if ever approached by men (I know several women like this type and all are still virgins in their 30s).” I was one of those, still am to some extent. Its because I find most people in this country, both male and female, physically unattractive and don’t want to be approached by them. When I see a man… Read more »
“This is just standard way of tearing down beta males. Most of the guys that are nice are geniuely nice guys but being guys they still want to fuck. They were taught by women that being nice and respectful lead to being attractive so they were brought up to behave this way. Itās no uniqueness or virtue for a woman to call ānice guysā as really horrible digusting perverts while rewarding the bad boy.”
Deception is bad. Honesty is good.
Shameful “If the desire for resources are so strong isnt the logical endpoint forced labor camps full of effectively castrated men? A world where the alpha are risen up to stand aside as breeding stock while the other males are forced to labor for the āgreater goodā of society.”
Yeah, it’s called “court ordered child support.”
Barbarossa did a video about this. He refers to this phenomenon as “spousification.”
Single mom psychology, seeks the spousification of male sons
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EeORJ0ICnRw
He goes a step further and explains how it contributes to gang violence.
Kate “All Iām doing is pointing out the hypocrisy, which is what you object to, really. Men donāt want nice girls. End of story. Its just as much a lie as saying women want nice men.”
The error you are making is assuming that the way men are using the word “nice” to describe women is the same as the way women use the word “nice” to describe men in this context.
Barbarossa, really? Can we expect Thugtician next?
Martel,
I have no idea about the females, but I do know that even small amounts of exogenous testosterone (or other anabolic steroids) can have significant and permanent effects on a woman’s body. The amounts necessary for things like changes in bone structure, body hair development, and voice change can be quite small.
If there was some environmental stimulus for increased testosterone in prepubescent/pubescent women, I imagine it wouldn’t take much to ramp up the manjaws.
1 Woman’s View “Barbarossa, really? Can we expect Thugtician next?”
Classic imperative – how dare a man have an opinion about something that affects males. So, yeah, Barbarossaaaa. Really.
Kate – {Iāve found that being nice does not equate to attraction from men. Nice is boring. And the average person appears to NEED drama or kaybe just more vivacity. It seems that a lot of men look to women for something akin to entertainment.} From “Had Enough Therapy” today – {in his words: “One reason for the epidemic of self-destructiveness that has struck British, if not the whole of Western, society, is the avoidance of boredom. For people who have no transcendent purpose to their lives and cannot invent one through contributing to a cultural tradition (for example), in… Read more »
@1 Womanās View
“Barbarossa, really? Can we expect Thugtician next?”
Sure, I’ll take requests.
This post is some of your best work from another lurker in the mist. I just came back from eastern europe visting my GF over xmas, half jet lagged and you wanna know what, doesn’t matter if you are beta AFC shluck over there because she told me many stories of some of her good friends going thru divorce or leaving their husbands due to ACTUAL PHYSICAL VIOLENCE not the now legal version of abuse in Australia which includes talking bad to the dog if it shits on your carpet abuse. This is after years of abuse because they see… Read more »
Thugtician’s voice is one of the sexiest I’ve ever heard. I normally loathe UK accents but there’s a certain one, when mixed with the naturally delectable barritone pitch of the African man that is completely multiple-tingle worthy — and Thug’s is one such.
I don’t agree with every thing he says, but I’ll defend to the death his right to say it š
RE: high T women. Women who brag about owning guns and hunting, killing, beheading and skinning animals are unfeminine, high T women. Yet you see in the Manosphere a complete adoration for such women. These dudes actually think a woman who does all that is “sexy” and “wife material”.
“In a world that has made a fetish out of feeling”
This is so damn true… how about a “fuck your feelings” t-shirt…. anyone?
1 woman does not understand the etymology of the screen name “Barbarossaaa”. Lack of education?
Society’s – I’d be in for one. When I was a teen I had a yellow t-shirt imprinted with – ” I’d rather be, leg hold trapping”
I wore that sucker to the final thread!
Of course guys are not attracted to nice, anymore than women are attracted to nice. Guys are attracted to tits, ass and face. Niceness can only mean anyghing after the guy got hooked by something else. They are also easily intimidated away from approaching you if you look shy. Shy looks like “I don’t want to talk to you”. And I also think they don’t like approaching someone who isn’t giving any go-ahead signals at all.. Nicegirls, aren’t you also approached only by the trashiest or/and boldest men? Those that either have nothing to lose by approaching, or have too… Read more »
Unfortunately a lot of guys would date a bitch because of how hot she is. Or because he thinks it’s the best he could do, or the only thing he can get. Also, many guys in the manosphere admitted they loved the makeup sex they got with a BPD woman, which isn’t as fun as normal sex. So there you have it, some men are not into nice&boring. They’d rather have crazy. Perhaps not bitchy, but crazy, yes. I have sympathy for guys stuck with bitches cuz their only other choice is celibacy, but no sympathy for guys addicted to… Read more »
GT66: You’re absolutely right. DeNihilist: Yes! Yes! Yes! Oh, that was very interesting. Thanks for sharing it. Emma: “Nicegirls, arenāt you also approached only by the trashiest or/and boldest men? Those that either have nothing to lose by approaching, or have too much confidence?” It is a sadly common occurrance to see the nicest girls at school with the thugiest. Regarding solipsism: Yes, it is that, of course, but its also empiricism. It makes sense to trust my experiences and those of thousands of others with similar experiences vs. listening to what I am told. Isn’t that the very thing… Read more »
@To All the Women Here Men are attracted to nice personalities. However, you must be a certain level of hotness for the alphas that you want. So what happens is that you aren’t good looking enough for the alpha to want you as a good girl so you use sexually agressiveness and games to get him to notice you and he does notice you and uses you as his fucktoy of the month. Then you get all emotionally hurt when the relationship falls apart and become some bitter hag and then not being nice becomes genuine. The master key to… Read more »
Re: NIce Girls, Kate read the link I provide for you before you go popping off next time. Good Girls ‘Do’ Niceties in women are still trumped by Hypergamy. Both the ‘crazy bitch’ and the ‘nice girl’ are still competing in the same sexual sweepstakes for the best Alpha they have the capacity to attract. Crazy uses a direct approach, Nice uses and indirect approach. The reason ‘crazy’ sells better to men than ‘nice’ is because ‘crazy’ is associated with sexual availability, ‘nice’ is not. You can take two equally attractive women, HB8.5, one ‘nice’ the other ‘crazy’ and my… Read more »
This is pretty much the argumentative process women on the internet expect from anyone who disagrees with them.
“You can take two equally attractive women, HB8.5, one āniceā the other ācrazyā and my subconscious expectations from the āniceā one would be sexual inhibition, where as the ācrazyā signals better sexual performance. ”
This is the question that matters the most to women. Who would the alpha commit to?
I’d say this is pretty accurate. If women watched what they eat and exercised they could easily get into the attractive category.
http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/09/feminine-beauty-is-highly-controllable.html
“Generation AFC” has done a great job of producing Brevik, Cho, Laughner, Sodini, Holmes, and now recently Lanza among scores of others who never got a bodycount high enough to make the news.
Here’s to a new generation of defects.
Or should I say products working as intended?
A cartoon form ’54:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dev2HP1Yo4A
Hypergamy and awareness of men about this nature of woman seem to be of all time. This is gold!
@lib arts major
Some guy recently had a great comment:
“Either women will get cocked…or guns will”
So, Kate, how was your first online gangbang?
@Marcus Interesting that Donald is writing from the Foreign Legion. Perhaps back in ’54, it held a little more romance than it does now, as you rarely see or hear about it in modern times. It’s still there however – there was an interesting little show on the BBC recently with Bear Gryllis called “Escape to the Legion” that illustrates some of what it takes to join up, although it’s not quite as romantic as you might think. Even so, The Legion is a far cry from what our military has become with the country trying desperately to make it… Read more »
The word “nice” is a red herring. Nobody wants “nice,” as in, bland, weak, feckless, retreating, conflict-avoiding, shrinking, useless, cowardly. Not in women, and certainly not in men. Women possess strength, but it is an altogether different strength than masculine power. It is indirect, passive, pliant, accommodating, and charming, not spineless, inert, or “nice.” Kate is actually a good example of feminine strength, absorbing invective without allowing it to change her disposition — and without running away. Someone above said men don’t want bitches. Well, I want bitches so I can de-bitchify them, and bend that ill-directed strength toward better… Read more »
“Brendan was everything I wanted in a man,” Nickles said. “He was unpredictable, smart, and passionate. I knew he wasn’t perfect, but he was really fun to be aroundāwhich is more than I can say for him now.” Just weeks into the relationship, Nickles began to notice changes. “It started pretty early,” Nickles said. “Instead of being the wild man he’d been, more and more he’d just stay home like a lump, even on nights I told him it was okay if he went out.”
http://www.theonion.com/articles/girlfriend-changes-man-into-someone-shes-not-inter,1507
[…] have been thinking about this a lot lately, and after reading this post: http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2013/01/07/queens-workers-drones/Ā it helped crystallize some of my ideas about the state of not just our nation but a majority of the […]
You had some damn good points here, but I ultimately have to disagree with your conclusion that it is feminism that has forced males out of marriage. It is NOT the females advantage to have males avoiding marriage. And while it is true if a woman can get a working slave she will take it, when vast droves are avoiding it eventually it hits a point where a woman wants marriage but there is not a male to satisfy. Further, do you think the ghetto trash or trailer parks care at all about the concept of marriage? Those people are… Read more »
Ha, that donald video was pretty spot on. Looks like he was one of the first males to take the pill!
‘Calling a guy a ācommitment-phobeā is really a 90ā²s shaming clichĆ© thatās been a retread for the Man Up! generation.’ That and it’s just women projecting their own mind-set onto men. It’s something that they seem to do for a few of their other failings, be it immaturity: ‘you need to grow up! (when she has a bedroom full of stuffed toys); or sexual mindset: ‘men think about sex every six seconds’ (when she spends her time reading fifty shades of grey and chatting about office romance). Though why they feel the need to project only negative thoughts onto men… Read more »
@ AD
http://www.ffuucomics.com/2009/11/23/sums-up-ffffuuuu
Man Daisy really rode the duck carousel.
Sorry, Rollo. I didn’t think that was a link. I even scrolled over it to check and I thought it was just underlined. Anyway, I’ve read the article now and I absolutely agree with you that anyone at anytime is just a second away from some such similar action unless they have pretty strict control of themselves. The same can be said of violence. We cannot ever say what we would not do; we can only ever make claims on what we have not yet done. As for popping off, the only place I pop off to is to my… Read more »
So much insight in just the first few sentences Rollo!! “As Iāve stated in many prior posts, it is Men, not women who are the True Romantics.” Absolutely. And that’s why it’s so counter-intuitive for many men when their girlfriends react badly to gifts and flowers. It’s also men who are prone to chase too soon and to fall in love too quickly, as you say. It’s largely based on brain chemistry. “It is actually Men who will more readily alter their lives in the most radical of ways to achieve what they think is an idyllic state of monogamy… Read more »