I talk more about this on my blog at http://www.newdarktriad.com. Check out the article “Fear.”

I’m in my 30s, don’t believe in marriage, but have had a gf over 2 years who’s 10 years younger and the hottest chick i’ve been with. however, as she has gotten 2 years older, i’ve gotten interest from even younger chicks who are at least as physically hot. one such instance came last week, from a little 18 y/o blonde, in another country, in a situation where the location was almost off-the-grid remote. She was drunk, ostensibly DTF, she hit on me, I was very flattered. She was with another girl about her age. I had a drink with them, chatted with them a bit, and enjoyed that. Felt a strong bit of temptation. I know what to do in these situations if I intended to fuck her: “Well, I’m gonna go back to my condo and have a nightcap/watch a movie/yadda yadda (*pause*)…”. Instead, I encouraged them to go talk to 2 guys who were closer to their age and rather handsome. Then I bailed from that location, went back to my condo, and ‘decompressed’ to put it politely.

That’s just one example from last week.

It’s called: I have never cheated, will never cheat, no matter what. It’s just a fuckin’ decision to keep my integrity. It’s not that difficult. If it was that important for me to fuck other chicks, I’d break up with my gf (who is about as good as they come). But I have no interest in abandoning her at this time, and thus I live accordingly. Period

There is a slow decline to a breaking point in the BP sexual relationship. She pulls back a little, he tries to negotiate her desire, she pulls back more, he turns to porn and masterbation, she becomes more disgusted and repulsed. Maybe he turns to prostitutes, looking for women who are willing to have sex with him, rather than forcing the one woman who promised to have sex with him until death. Now she has her social victim proof, and divorce court proof she needs to turn everyone against him. All because society has removed the duty of a wife to sexually gratify her husband, and ignores that a man requires sexual gratification. If his wife wants him to be celebrate, it is his responsibility to remain celibate, no asking, forcing, whining, masterbating, porn, cheating, or prostitution is acceptable, and all will be shamed. The husband must give her his cock, but she’s not required to do anything with it. If she’s not required to do anything with it, why does marriage require fidelity? Why isn’t it strictly a financial deal, where she takes care of my children and my house in exchange for room and board, until such time as she quits or is fired? I take a tax break for keeping an unemployed woman off the street and off welfare, and sex if things are going well.

Second, I think the young children frivorce is too common to be coincidence. There could be a causal mechanism in there somewhere. We are seeing too much awareness of wives becoming jealous, and envious, and frustrated at how good of father their bad husband is. There is a disconnect, that can only be removed by divorcing the father and removing his kids. She sees him as dominant when he disciplines his kids, and is jealous of how they love him back more as he sets their boundaries, even when she lets them do whatever she wants. She longs for his alpha side with the children, but only gets his beta husband side. How can the children love him when she doesn’t? She questions the morality of her arousal based love. What if the kids love him more than they love her? What if they’re right and she’s wrong, that there is a lot to love about her husband? I think there is a psychology ( an emotional, not rational level ) at play which encourages her to try and control their love and bring the kids to her side, where she is the best and everyone agrees that nobody loves daddy.

Healing won’t come from arguing with me back and forth me. We should just leave it & let it go. I wish the best for you.

Women don’t need foreplay and they certainly don’t need lube in the beginning.

What is “foreplay” and what is “lube”? After 30-odd years of marriage, Mrs. Gamer doesn’t typically need these things. And she wants an open
marriage, saying that she can go without sex. Go figure.

Maybe it’s because I don’t put up with her 5h1t and give her verbal shivs a lot that she’s hot for me. She doesn’t want a divorce. And she pretends that she doesn’t want sex.

Actually lol’d at that one.