Comments on: Acing the Test

By: walawala

walawala — Mon, 19 Jan 2015 16:12:17 +0000

Great post. One thing that is vital is to maintain a dominant frame early. It’s hard to get back. I am seeing a girl now. I balance the comfort and attraction and she’s all up for wild experimental banging. She’s 27 so it’s all new.

But when she shit tested me about remodeling my home to make it more comfortable…I drew the line. Since then…no problems.

But there will be and then i’ll need to do this again. But I seen now the difference tackling this early vs letting stuff slide.

If you don’t draw a line on what’s unacceptable early….you’re always going to be on the back foot.

By: KP

KP — Mon, 19 Jan 2015 09:14:51 +0000

“There are sailors here??”

Yes there are! Racing on Puget Sound (man we have unpredictable and flakey wind around here!) on C&C, J boats, Olson 30, Catalina 30, Cal 29, and Benetau. Probably going to make it to Swiftsure this year.

This are all mixed crews, but so far they’ve been pretty drama-free. Maybe I’ve just been lucky on the boats I’ve landed on, or maybe I intuitively sniffed out the trouble-free ones and avoided the hysterical ones, I dunno.

By: jf12

jf12 — Mon, 19 Jan 2015 05:19:16 +0000

@NNJ, re: “Eve became an agent of Satan”

Yes. Working for the opposition; literally the Opposer.

By: sfcton

sfcton — Mon, 19 Jan 2015 01:49:55 +0000

Yea Rollo that’s pretty spot on

Strange dude talks shit and he gets hurt, but it isn’t the same for one of your crew. In fact it’s a sign of how tight you are not to mention a test of mental quickness and stress reduction

By: sjfrellc

sjfrellc — Mon, 19 Jan 2015 01:47:19 +0000

That is the trick. To “get that it a shit test” and parry it. Recognize it is a test and react un-emotionally.

Whether it be a female or male test (entirely different in context and tactics to defend).

When Softek mentions the daughter’s outrage and she hates him, the only proper response for a game aware, red pill guy is indifference. Certainly not rage.

As an example of exhibiting indifference rather than rage, hate or contempt.
This is the proper response of a male to the male or female test:

(If youtube link doesn’t work google don draper “I don’t think about you at all”.

By: Rollo Tomassi

Rollo Tomassi — Mon, 19 Jan 2015 00:29:13 +0000

I get the impression that there are certain types of men who ‘get’ shit-talking or smack talking for the male subcommunication it is, and those who think it’s a precursor to getting hazed, bullied or their assess kicked.

It’s one thing to post up on another guy, get in his face, talk shit and throw down. It’s another to have your gym partner talk shit about you being a pussy because he knows you can punch out a last rep if you get mad.

Too many guys have been conditioned to think the latter is bullying by their fem-centric conditioning.

By: sfcton

sfcton — Mon, 19 Jan 2015 00:13:03 +0000

I earn my pay with a rifle in places like Iraq and Afghanistan. Shit talking is endless inculding during fire fights. Soooooo dude you are wrong as two boys fucking.

By: NNJ

NNJ — Sun, 18 Jan 2015 23:57:41 +0000

Women are modern day Eves. Eve became an agent of Satan to entrap the then unfallen Adam .

See below for an article on Jezebel to get an idea:

https://www.biblegateway.com/resources/all-women-bible/Jezebel-No-1