Comments on: Alpha Tells

By: bear

bear — Fri, 23 Jan 2015 02:59:07 +0000

Rollo :
I really enjoy your insights. I am new to your site but continue to learn a lot. You seem like an extremely astute guy.
Can you answer this: I am in a marriage relationship. My wife always works to take care of my needs ( cooking cleaning etc..) despite working out of the home. She also defers to me when she has decisions to make – never acts unilaterally. However, when it comes to sex I find I am the one always initiating. Nine out of 10 times she says yes, but it bothers me that she never initiates. In the past it wasn’t always this way. What would cause this change and lack of initiation.?

By: Analyzing Attraction- Part 1 | Donal Graeme

Analyzing Attraction- Part 1 | Donal Graeme — Thu, 20 Nov 2014 05:00:11 +0000

[…] Rollo Tomassi has written plenty about his own views on attraction. So far as I can tell he hasn’t formulated a system or model as specific as mine. What he has done is use different terminology and approach attraction from a different light. Rollo uses the terms arousal and attraction to describe what I call attraction and comfort/security. Here is a sample of his use of those those terms from his post Alpha Tells: […]

By: Bluepillprofessor

Bluepillprofessor — Wed, 12 Nov 2014 19:22:33 +0000

@ Carlos: “I have read the book, “The Laws of Seduction” and it talks about men showing male and female attributes for attraction…”

That would be “The ART of Seduction” which is not to be confused with “The 48 Laws of Power” by the same author. You reading is faulty. The Dandy is ONLY effective if the man is overwhelmingly Alpha and exhibits SOME feminine traits. If you have the body of the incredible Hulk (or you are a movie star as illustrated in the book) you can afford to cry a bit on your SO’s shoulder and even be a little feminine. If you are a regular guy, showing female attributes is hugely anti-seductive.

@JF12: “Make her want to take care of you, to bring you food offerings, and wipe your heinie, for fear of your displeasure.”

You got it wrong this time bro. Unusual for you but it happens. You make her want to take care of you by fucking her like an Alpha. Drain her of every ounce of energy and body fluids, pick her up and throw her down into the bed and power fuck her. Make her whimper; “Don’t hurt me.” This is the way you make her fear your displeasure. You certainly don’t make her want to fuck you in the first place by letting her ‘take care of you.’ That comes later, or not, shouldn’t matter to an Alpha.

By: Beta Tells |

Beta Tells | — Wed, 12 Nov 2014 00:20:01 +0000

[…] began the Alpha Tells post with the intent of recognizing how a woman behaves when she’s in the presence of a Man […]

By: Rollo Tomassi

Rollo Tomassi — Thu, 06 Nov 2014 16:51:40 +0000

Alpha Tell

By: Rollo Tomassi

Rollo Tomassi — Thu, 06 Nov 2014 16:47:43 +0000

Alpha Tell

By: jf12

jf12 — Wed, 05 Nov 2014 19:55:19 +0000

@jacklabear re: “How about retro-active dread?”

LOL great concept. I’m taking it literally. My ex, who never remarried, now likes to claim that the reason she was dissatisfied with a nice-guy husband was that she could tell we were going to get divorced and that I would have other women (I remarried 10 yrs later).

By: scuzzaman

scuzzaman — Wed, 05 Nov 2014 19:27:34 +0000

“I’m certain the key to being a happy woman is to find an easy man and treat him as if he were a stern man. Conversely, the key to being a happy man is to be an easy man that gets treated as if he were a stern man.”

And the reason why there are few couples like this is that most people would rather be right* than happy.

(*i.e. maintain their entirely fictional self-image of being justified in continuing to do what does not work, because it is ‘right’… )