Had the woman been costumed differently and been in a gymnastics competition….

I was impressed by her performance. What did I get out of the comments? “Slut” = out of my league. Put down required to explain her lack of interest in me.

FIFY.

The aforementioned quote beautifully exposes not only the author’s self-loathing, but his inauthentic misdirected attempt at ‘helping’ men become ‘better’. In one sentence he manages to :

– Imply that men who seek alternative strategies (often after experiencing much pain, resentment and loss concerning life, women and love) are losers.

– People who do play the game, and play it successfully are in actuality, ‘inauthentic’. Not only does he ignore the validity of such strategies, he deems it necessary to label player’s as fakers and liars, not worthy of the goals they achieve. A standard ‘hate the player’ complex.

Finally, most insulting of all, he claims that “when men are honest, communicative, and authentic, they will have great relationships”.

[sarcasm] Yes, I’m sure we could all learn so much from his shaming tactics, invalidation and underhanded insults. [/sarcasm]. His preferred method of communication speaks for itself.

It’s clear that he doesn’t give even two Sh*ts about men, much less understand our motivations and desires.

Beware men such as these, they will drag you to the bottom no matter what the subject matter.