If a guy, presumably a beta male, marries one of these women who is not really attracted to him physically/sexually, but just for his provider role or status, I think this is extremely dangerous for the guy – a future horrific divorce or miserable, sexless marriage awaits him. What happens in the future if his career does not work out and he can’t buy the mcmansion and lifestyle she wants? Most men don’t realize how many women marry men that they really aren’t physically attracted to. Women make compromises that men won’t in a spouse. Most normal men would not marry a women that they don’t have any physical chemistry with. I believe that men are sexually attracted to a broader spectrum of physical appearance in women, whereas women I believe only really get sexually aroused by men in the top 5% (such as being tall, developed physique).

Most men believe that if they just do good career-wise, that will be enough to get an attractive woman to love them. Maybe so, but it doesn’t mean that she will be physically attracted to him, but just tolerable to her.

Esther Vilar in the book “The Manipulated Man” stated that women will indeed marry man merely because he is rich. Marriage can be essentially prostitution. If he loses his job, status and wealth, he loses her. Most men do not comprehend how alien and immensely different that women see the world and view men.