A lot to think about. In relation to D-Man’s answer, I tell my own friends to stay single if they’re going to cheat, but do they listen? No.

LiveFearless, a deep answer that looks at the essence of the beta male down to the bread of it. I had to read it twice to fully get but it makes sense. I understand the Alpha Widow in a world full of chumps. Damn, shit’s fucked up. Not having game, or not being alpha in the sexual market place is like going to war without weapons. You can’t win.

Why is it complicated? That’s part of the answer about the Alpha Widow. These truths are dangerous, if they weave too much life-changing truth into the world, people change channels and they will stop sharing content.

Your question: Alpha widow… How? Simple answer: The Culture Creation Industry. What’s that? Listen to “When I Was Your Man” by Bruno Mars – #1 song in the U S and around the world earlier this year. You don’t know the song? It’s ok, you’re not female age 6 and up. You’re not in the demo. We would rather you NOT hear such influence written by genius that’s like from another dimension. Why not? If you start to sing the lyrics, you’ll become the ultimate clueless beta that’s aware of Rollo’s book, but you chose to spend time and money hoping that your nice guy ways will attract her. You can’t even invest less than $10 U S into the ONE book that would change it all.

Instead, for men, we program testosterone-lowering rigged-reality including time sucks like ‘talk radio’ and college football. Estrogen-infused idolization of the tribe is programmed into men. Sure it’s expensive, and yes, I know, you’re not ready to accept that money is not real. If you were not infused with too much estrogen (over production of estrogen is unnatural in a male body) which messes with your DNA, you could figure it all out in five minutes. The ‘It’ has intention for programming with a mentality like that of Dr. Hammond in Jurassic Park (book) by Michael Crichton. “John Alfred Hammond was the flamboyant and idealist dreamer that discovered the fantastical way to clone extinct animals from blood-sucking insects.” His catchphrase in the first Jurassic Park (film) was “spared no expense.” Welcome to the magic world of what’s more than influence or entertainment or experience or “Vanilla Sky” (film). It’s like ‘waking’ sleep.

It’s sad, but kind of hilarious if you think about it. You have men sitting in a chair (not building strength), drinking beer (proven to increase estrogen levels in men), eating chips and/or pizza made from starch and/or gluten (aids in fat cell growth, obesity multiplies estrogen production in men). I won’t get into what the hormones in the cheese do to increase the amount of estrogen in men. It is genius, and I can’t take credit for it since Joseph Goebbels was talking about this in the 1930s. The technology that’s ‘1000 years more advanced that what you’re aware of’ was revealed to amazing people before we were born. Some of it is in use in the program that men invest time, emotion, life… into.

I regularly say that some of the most popular content entertainment some of the most successful content absorbed by the ‘masses’
So, how (why) is she unable to forget the Alpha Widow? It is because that MAN is the rarest of all men. He’s the one that sees the tribe worshipping males (the majority) and doesn’t even bother to shake his head at how ridiculous they are, wasting life instead of building strength and accomplishing his real purposes on earth. Sure he wanted to help them become ‘Alpha’ but they would always become angry. The lifetime of multiplied estrogen is unnatural in a male body. So, imagine it’s like one of those hybrid-transhuman beings that we fed you from here in ‘Hollywood’ using magic. The more he works to show how nice and how soft he is, the more beta her ‘animal instincts’ are sickened by him. He speaks negatively about true alphas which makes her long for her alpha widow even more though she’s aged now, and the alpha widow is still enjoying women that are the age she was when she thought she had him.

The estrogenic AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) has found his softer side, and he feels he is the ally of the Alpha Widow. She might use him as a provider of whatever she wishes, but she is increasingly creeped out by him. Even if he (the AFC) is married, he’s still thinking about his lack of sex with the woman that once had ‘genuine desire’ for him. Men are much easier to manipulate via everything you see, hear, feel, taste, experience… That song is the beta male anthem. Ask ANY woman that’s in the demo, and she will find NOTHING insane about it. It’s pure simplicity. Simplicity takes a higher level of genius, and the culture creation industry taps into it.

She cannot detach from the Alpha Widow because every man she sees is (to her subconscious instincts) a bag of mutated estrogen, he’s not like the men in ‘Twilight’ – no, he’s not attractive like them though they are sort of transhuman. Yes, these mutations in men are done to you on purpose. The Culture Creation Industry is involved on obvious levels (like programming brands and types of food, drink etc you consume). But this sounds insane (because it is insane), so keep eating boxed food. Boxed food has soy. Soy turns you into a girl. The more soy you consume, the less ‘competition’ for the Alpha the ‘Alpha Widow’ can’t let go of. Keep eating, drinking, watching your sports and as a bonus, porn lowers testosterone. Much like prime time television, porn is millions of lights focused directly on your brain through your eyes. The Alpha males find those foods, drinks, sports watching, porn, etc unnecessary. Time is best spent being a winner.

Cheater needs to take a long hard look at themselves and decide whether or not they belong in the relationship.

If you stay, you eat that guilt, live with it, and let it remind you to never repeat the mistake. If you choose to end it, maybe you are honest enough to yourself and your partner to say that you’d prefer being single, or whatever, but you still shouldn’t tell. If you’re done anyway, why inflict pain?

I don’t want to diverge but I need to here as I’ve been reading the RM book and there’s nowhere else I can find to go to ask a few questions about it:

At one point Rollo says women have the ability to emotionally disconnect from situations and circumstances faster than men, in particular, the ability to forget about a previous partner that they may have been with for years, in a matter of days. Of course he explains the reasons for this, but this seems to contradict the alpha widow; how is it she can then be attached to someone for years, after a break up even if he isn’t there, and not detach from him like she can in other relationships and other situations?

Also in relation to being non exclusive, and the need for covertly communicating that yr seeing other people (if one is) I was surprised that the book never answers the VERY common question many women ask in that situation: “Are you sleeping with other people?” If one has to be covert and not overt to better maintain his plates, is it best to dodge this question till she gets fed up then address it honestly, or just address it honestly to start with?

Lastly, honesty is the best policy, but complete honesty in a relationship is a no no, but, doesn’t honesty inspire more honesty? While in an LTR, if one was to have an intimate encounter to any degree, voluntarily or involuntarily, e.g girl kisses you at work out of the blue (it’s happened), slaps your bottom without your consent, one cheats, one playfully touches with another that isn’t their spouse etc, should this be admitted in an LTR or not? I believe certain things should be, but the book has blurred my boundaries a bit.

I understand these may be silly questions but they’re the only things in the book that I thought needed to be covered but weren’t.

Women have always had this power – only now, men have the ultimate power since so many women are available, that we do not have to ever settle for any “one” woman. We can have, and use, as many women as we wish – as long as they find us attractive. So the men that the majority of women want, have access to more women then he can “service” and more all the time. I have had sex with every woman in a family – from the oldest to the youngest over the years. Of course, I never settle for any one. Why buy the cow (and that is an apt description as they come to look more and more like cows as the years go by) when I can have the milk for free.

So thank you ladies – I literally couldn’t have done it without you. Keep up the good work of keeping the pu**y coming and telling yourself that you have the power. :)

no need to worry about that, it’s something for young people.

I’m a feminist, ie I believe in equal rights and equal pay for men and women. I don’t get your alpha and beta stuff. I don’t hate men.

Feminism is hatred of true masculinity. Enforced equality without merit is actually injustice.