Comments on: Left Behind

By: sam

sam — Wed, 20 Aug 2014 07:09:16 +0000

I’ve noticed a huge difference in girls who had bfs between 17-21 yrs old and girls who havent. They seem to miss alot of the ego bolstering that comes from being a single young hot girl.

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By: FT73

FT73 — Mon, 12 Aug 2013 15:03:03 +0000

pS–I made a crucuial typo. What I meant to write in the first post was that I DIDN’T PLAN ON DATING WOMEN IN THEIR 30S THROUGH MY 20S AND 30s. Would’ve figured I would’ve been with people my age. But considering those 30 year olds I was in LTRs with were childish, I’m sure glad I didn’t waste time with stuck-up hypergamists who were in their 20s. Just got a few on the side. And I primarily dated around my age group in my late 20s.

By: FT73

FT73 — Mon, 12 Aug 2013 06:11:18 +0000

One last thing for this 3 pt rant tonight:

Eventually it occured at the end of my 20s that women the same age were stuck up. Sure I banged a few hotter than me but am glad I just focused on the 30 year olds that had high IOUs for. Bonus poimts for me: they put more DOLLARS into the relationship than I did.

Enjoy it while it lasts men. Then once it starts onto that hot/cold/hot cycle, get the hell out of Dodge.

By: FT73

FT73 — Mon, 12 Aug 2013 06:02:56 +0000

I meant to type I am 5’9″. I played in bands, never did beta moves at the begining of dating someone It was later in the game my inner beta came up. For a lack of a better term. Or maybe not. I failed the shit tests with The One. Didn’t know it at the time.

Great articlwue about how going beta is bad. Not that being erstwhile will stop an Eat, Lpve Prey scenario. But at least you can dump them with some dignity without an OM in the picture.

By: FT73

FT73 — Mon, 12 Aug 2013 05:33:20 +0000

It wasn’t my plan to be in LTRs in my 20s or 30s. That’s just how it ended up working out. That’s just how it ended up working out. Thankfully they were childless. No babies Daddies or pressure to be a provider male.

Hindsight being 20/20, I couldn’t have planned it any better. Because I didn’t plan it! That’s who showed the highest level. They wete attractive and I took it and ran with it. Thank God

I’m so glad the are sites like this. It took the Manosphere to learn the word hypergamey.

I’m good in bed, dececent looking, HWP, but 5′ I always wondered why the women I dated

By: YaReally

YaReally — Tue, 30 Jul 2013 04:30:58 +0000

With regards to the OP, from my archive:

““Oh wow you’ve only been with one guy? That’s really impressive, most girls have to sleep with a few guys before they figure out what they really like in be. You’re so lucky that the first guy you slept with is perfect in bed. Oh? It’s not perfect? Well I’m sure he’s trying, I mean you guys have role played right? No? Well he lets you have toys doesn’t he? Oh he’s jealous of those? Huh…I don’t know, I mean personally I think we should all explore our sexual sides before we commit to someone so that we know that person is the right one for us. I don’t mean you and I, I’m totally not the kind of guy you’d want to sleep with…you saw those other girls that i was kissing, I’m not the commitment type and you’d never hear from me again after tonight, even your friends wouldn’t know about us playing around you wouldn’t want to be stuck with a big secret like that.”

And then I fuck her. And she never tells you. And you continue to think your Madonna isn’t like “those whores” while I show the naked pics she sent me to my buddies.”

http://yareallyarchive.com/search/?q=%22Only+been+with+one%22

Find a cool chick, of whatever age/history, that you click with and have good chemistry in and out of the bedroom with, and then focus on always being the best you can be and growing as a man in general, so her Hypergamy sees you as the highest value man for her. Stuff like “if she’s had 4 cocks in her it makes pair-bonding chemicals less blah blah” is like a dress code for bars: it only applies to ugly low-value people.

By: Glenbert

Glenbert — Tue, 30 Jul 2013 03:57:08 +0000

So, I’ve seen the stats suggesting that women who’ve been screwed more have less stable relationships, but this anecdotes jibe better with what I’ve seen amongst the guys I’ve known. My own ex was cloistered away getting her doctorate until a couple of years before she met me and wasted 5 years of my life before butthexing a rando.

Meanwhile, my buddies who married clubrats are still married 10 years later. And the infidelity forums are riddled with AFCs who married at 20 to church girls. I’m starting to think the defining variable here is not HER n count, but HIS naivety.

A definitive study for me on this would look at HER infidelity, HER n count and HIS blue-pilledness.