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By: The Cry of the Beta Male (Part 2)

The Cry of the Beta Male (Part 2) — Sun, 05 Oct 2014 20:32:00 +0000

[…] leftovers. Many women, trying to optimise the trade-off between genes and resource provision, will always still prefer an Alpha if she can convince him to also stick around and provide. 50% of marriages break down as females […]

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 16 May 2014 00:22:41 +0000

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By: valor

valor — Wed, 09 Apr 2014 14:24:35 +0000

lac hit the wall and is trying to hamster wheel rationalize it away. it doesn’t take much to be an attractive woman, certainly less than it takes to be an attractive man by a long shot. all you have to do is take care of yourself and be pleasant to be around, anything from there is a BONUS to a man. if you’re in your 30s and still single then chances are you either didn’t know how to pick them or you were unattractive as a result of your own choices or lack thereof. the only women i’ve ever known who liked “nice” guys were either abuse victims or alpha widows, but even then it wasn’t a genuine sentiment as they simply wanted provisioning, rather than a true appreciation of kindness and all those other “nice” traits. by the way, it’s not common sense, sense is a feeling, and it’s very clear that the average woman’s common feelings do not go hand in hand with what most people would call common sense. what you are referring to is common think, but we know how many women stop and think about what they are doing and why. i used to be a nice guy, r.i.p. to the old me, he was a good man.

By: Lac

Lac — Sat, 15 Mar 2014 06:47:09 +0000

Well I did read one of the earlier articles you sent me a link to about “nice guys” and thank you very much. I do not think we are speaking the same language. I am a very real and nice woman. That does not mean that I am a doormat who pretends to be a perfect angel, cook, housekeeper, etc. I am an honest friend and a decent person. Just because I act this way does not mean every man is going to fall in love with me because he may not be physically attracted to me, he may not be intellectually curious about me or something like that. That’s just how it goes. I have to say that in general men are a little less particular for the most part as a gender when it comes to sexual attraction, from what I have observed. I think your definition of a “pretend” nice guy or a “forever hopeful” nice guy is – I apologize for saying this – a little sophomoric. I am talking about a man’s genuine ability to show care and concern. That what makes him nice. That is a given. I don’t fall in love with him just because he is nice, just like men do not fall in live with me just because I am nice. And I hate to break it to you, but although I am no longer 21 years old, I never could have picked a mate for life at that age as I was much too immature. I really think that “agism” falls under the same category as racism. Your generalities are about age and interest in sex and love are so strange. All people need love, regardless of their age. Some are capable of sharing and remaining open, others are not. I really live in hope and this concept you express of “alpha widow” is not the one of a hopeful woman. There are men and women with an attitude that it is impossible so why bother. Okay. So then don’t bother. I say be yourself and if you are a slimy liar, then you will get nothing, because no decent woman will put up with it for long. And if the woman is whiny and critical, the man will eventually leave because this will make him unhappy. This is just common sense. Read you later.

By: Rollo Tomassi

Rollo Tomassi — Thu, 13 Mar 2014 15:30:33 +0000

an article with episodes of Sex and the City as a serious reference point as to the state of affairs of the independent thinker (men and women) is insulting.

I’ll presume you’re unfamiliar with the quote, “Art imitates life.” What’s funny is that I’d expect you’d be in complete agreement with Susan Walsh’s enthusiastic comparisons of life and HBO’s Girls in many of her posts.

Some people find love later in life. Some men just can not commit and hang a woman up for years.

You must be new here.

Nice girls don’t like bad boys. They like nice men.

http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/10/good-girls-do/

A lot of men know how to pretend to be nice for a long time. They should just go homosexual and leave the women alone, because apparently they hate women and it appears they have more affinity for their own gender.

http://therationalmale.com/2012/09/04/play-nice/

http://therationalmale.com/2013/01/09/nice-like-me/

http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/12/youre-such-a-nice-guy/

Enjoy!

By: Lac

Lac — Thu, 13 Mar 2014 10:32:41 +0000

That is true. I am always seeking the best closure possible to turn the page and move on. Usually the very shithead that has showered is with this emotional turmoil is incapable of helping up with this closure because they are such damaged goods they do not know their ass from their elbow. And so as deeply caring women who strive to understand we ponder these situations for a long time. Meanwhile he is leading a wreckless superficial life and has know clue what the word closure even means. A very sad state of affairs which is very common among the young and older set. We are not single because we have outrageous expectations. We are single because we have human frailties and have human expectations. Some of us are caught by surprise by “wolf in sheep’s clothing”. If I knew in advance that my ex was going to lie to me and hurt my feelings, I would never have even told him my name. Nice girls don’t like bad boys. They like nice men. A lot of men know how to pretend to be nice for a long time. They should just go homosexual and leave the women alone, because apparently they hate women and it appears they have more affinity for their own gender. Or perhaps an occasional visit to a house of prostitution would satisfy their cavemanish emotional needs. They are not emotionally mature enough for an integrated relationship with a woman.

By: Lac

Lac — Thu, 13 Mar 2014 08:02:46 +0000

This is one the most stupid comments I have ever read about why there are so many fabulous single women over the age of 30 in NYC and the rationale of 40+ men thinking these women are “alpha widows”. Who wrote this article? Fred Flintstone?

The reality is, in NYC, there are so many beautiful, caring, competent women here that the men simply cannot make up there minds. To think that the average female uses Sex and the City as a role model for living their lives is like suggesting that every man is Clark Kent and can change into Superman in the phone booth. It is comic relief for the state of affairs between men and women. It is a television show that is entertainment.

I consider myself to be an intelligent, compassionate and realistic woman. I have many single friends and I have many married friends. I have siblings and friends who were married by age 30 and are divorced. On what type of personal experience is the author basing their opinions? Some people find love later in life. Some men just can not commit and hang a woman up for years. Some women fear being alone an marry hastily to the wrong man. I’m sorry author, but an article with episodes of Sex and the City as a serious reference point as to the state of affairs of the independent thinker (men and women) is insulting. Maybe I should take my relationship suggestions from the Sunday comix.

And in case you haven’t noticed, not every female has a rich benefactor paying those monthly things that come in the mailbox called “bills”. So they work. And they do not team up with a guy who is not going to support them or at least support their efforts to support themselves. I think there may be some very stupid girls out there who can afford to play hide and seek with men indefinitely, but they are in the minority. The average woman is looking for live and companionship and a good healthy sex life with that companion. Do you have a problem with that or should I move to Utah?

By: Shocked, Bitter, Angry Men | RedPillPushers

Shocked, Bitter, Angry Men | RedPillPushers — Sun, 29 Dec 2013 06:10:52 +0000

[…] Wall looks, asking him yet again for emotional and financial support, and to live with all of her Alpha Widowness in full […]