Comments on: The Choice of Attraction

By: MastahDon

MastahDon — Sun, 18 Jan 2015 02:33:13 +0000

What do you think of this? On the subject of reading women for attraction cues this comes to my mind: what does it mean when a girl with long beautiful hair cuts it short? I once met a pretty girl with long hair down to her ass, dated her for a while and after I fucked her, she cut it to shoulder length the very next day. A lot of guys would hit on her and I assumed it was to make herself less attractive for them somehow. Since then every time I bang a girl with nice long hair I tell her I really like her hair and she’d look even hotter with longer hair so don’t cut it, to prevent them from doing that. I had one ex who had long hair down to her ass after being with me for 9 months without cutting it and when she cut her hair short as an act of defiance I knew she was about to break up with me so I broke up with her first. What do you think it means when you see a girl in an LTR cut her hair short? It could go either way in my experience. One way: she doesn’t want to attract other guys. The other: she doesn’t care about being attractive to her boyfriend anymore and is showing signs of independence from him, possibly a signal that she’s about to be back on the market.

By: Judge nismo

Judge nismo — Fri, 01 Feb 2013 00:16:55 +0000

Women are concerned about what you have or can do IN THE NOW. TWISI Attraction IS a choice.

By: Sir Alan

Sir Alan — Wed, 30 Jan 2013 01:52:38 +0000

Every man wants to be the guy who ran through a whole bunch of chicks in his teens, college years, and 20s. The reason being because it shows that they have the physical capability to make women drop their pants. No one wants to be the beta herb programmer that suddenly struck a gold mine with the next Facebook only to have two dozen reformed sluts knocking at his doorstep asking to be his wife.

There was an interesting dichotomy between before I learned Game and after I learned Game. I noticed that the same chicks who didn’t pay me much attention beforehand now are paying me more attention. What this says about attraction, I don’t know. But chicks are very fickle and don’t forgive beta attitudes as easily.

By: Rooster

Rooster — Wed, 30 Jan 2013 00:00:36 +0000

@sunshinemary – Ah yes. I didn’t consider people who adhere to some form of organised religion. That said, for every bible verse lecturing on the sanctity of marriage, there must be an equivalent and contradictory verse urging people to follow their hearts and be true to themselves?

By: sunshinemary

sunshinemary — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 23:37:53 +0000

@ Rooster
Yes, the commenters were split on whether or not a woman in that situation can make herself attracted to him. However, most of us agreed that lack of attraction does not justify divorce for Christians, so I feel really bad for a couple in that situation.

By: Rooster

Rooster — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 23:15:56 +0000

@sunshinemary – if there is zero attraction present then there is no use waiting for a dose of attraction to fall out of the sky. It’s like having One-itus without the chemical thrills. There are so many people on the planet and life is too short to waste on a dead end situation.
This sounds harsh but the husband will know, even if only on a subconscious level, that his life will be better with someone who is attracted to him.

By: sunshinemary

sunshinemary — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 22:51:41 +0000

I'm curious, Rollo, if you think there is anything that a woman who is not attracted to her husband can do to make herself feel attracted to him. There was a discussion about this at my place awhile back, but we could not decide if this is even possible or not.

By: CrisisEraDynamo

CrisisEraDynamo — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 17:24:00 +0000

This post from Susan Walsh may have some relevance to the discussion about attraction. She reports on the rising influence of the “alpha female”:

http://www.hookingupsmart.com/2013/01/29/personal-development/the-rising-influence-of-the-alpha-female/