Comments on: The Choice of Attraction

By: Judge nismo

Judge nismo — Fri, 01 Feb 2013 00:16:55 +0000

Women are concerned about what you have or can do IN THE NOW. TWISI Attraction IS a choice.

By: Sir Alan

Sir Alan — Wed, 30 Jan 2013 01:52:38 +0000

Every man wants to be the guy who ran through a whole bunch of chicks in his teens, college years, and 20s. The reason being because it shows that they have the physical capability to make women drop their pants. No one wants to be the beta herb programmer that suddenly struck a gold mine with the next Facebook only to have two dozen reformed sluts knocking at his doorstep asking to be his wife.

There was an interesting dichotomy between before I learned Game and after I learned Game. I noticed that the same chicks who didn’t pay me much attention beforehand now are paying me more attention. What this says about attraction, I don’t know. But chicks are very fickle and don’t forgive beta attitudes as easily.

By: Rooster

Rooster — Wed, 30 Jan 2013 00:00:36 +0000

@sunshinemary – Ah yes. I didn’t consider people who adhere to some form of organised religion. That said, for every bible verse lecturing on the sanctity of marriage, there must be an equivalent and contradictory verse urging people to follow their hearts and be true to themselves?

By: sunshinemary

sunshinemary — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 23:37:53 +0000

@ Rooster
Yes, the commenters were split on whether or not a woman in that situation can make herself attracted to him. However, most of us agreed that lack of attraction does not justify divorce for Christians, so I feel really bad for a couple in that situation.

By: Rooster

Rooster — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 23:15:56 +0000

@sunshinemary – if there is zero attraction present then there is no use waiting for a dose of attraction to fall out of the sky. It’s like having One-itus without the chemical thrills. There are so many people on the planet and life is too short to waste on a dead end situation.
This sounds harsh but the husband will know, even if only on a subconscious level, that his life will be better with someone who is attracted to him.

By: sunshinemary

sunshinemary — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 22:51:41 +0000

I'm curious, Rollo, if you think there is anything that a woman who is not attracted to her husband can do to make herself feel attracted to him. There was a discussion about this at my place awhile back, but we could not decide if this is even possible or not.

By: CrisisEraDynamo

CrisisEraDynamo — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 17:24:00 +0000

This post from Susan Walsh may have some relevance to the discussion about attraction. She reports on the rising influence of the “alpha female”:

http://www.hookingupsmart.com/2013/01/29/personal-development/the-rising-influence-of-the-alpha-female/

By: pete

pete — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 09:50:19 +0000

have to agree with Catalyst, ‘probabilistic vs deterministic’ is the best and most succinct way i have seen it all summed up. Great article.