Comments on: House of Cards

By: The House upon the Sand | Alpha Is Assumed

The House upon the Sand | Alpha Is Assumed — Tue, 20 Aug 2013 05:45:36 +0000

[…] capital “A”) to describe men in whom women may have no sexual interest caused a bit of controversy. Although I didn’t make the mistake that Blue Pill Moralists make of refusing to describe […]

By: gaoxiaen

gaoxiaen — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 13:46:54 +0000

*washing machine, PLUS you’re free on Friday and Saturday night. Going out to the bar right now (even though it’s Thursday). Daytime game kicks ass in Asia.

By: gaoxiaen

gaoxiaen — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 13:37:50 +0000

First orgasm is a powerful influence.

By: gaoxiaen

gaoxiaen — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 13:36:15 +0000

Especially when she buys you a car, motorcycle. microwave, washing , and refrigerator and you buy her sexy underwear.

By: gaoxiaen

gaoxiaen — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 13:31:48 +0000

Have to agree with Shocker, but I live in Asia, where guys totally ignore a woman’s wants and fantasies. Lift weights, be a miscreant caveman,lick pussy, massage, cook, listen, and you’re the opposite of a sissified Asian man who only cares about themself. Six years of super-hot sex two or more times a day with a rich (married) HB 9.5 is your reward. Nothing to be sneezed at. Especially after you introduce her to anal and B&D.

By: Professor Ashur

Professor Ashur — Mon, 21 Jan 2013 11:07:23 +0000

Ashur’s Razor:

The more time one spends arguing about whatever “alpha” is, the more likely it is that they are not whatever an “alpha” might be.

By: xclampa

xclampa — Sun, 20 Jan 2013 12:34:55 +0000

Women who love only for loyalty, fidelity, commitment – they get called hopeless romantics. If you’re married with kids: for a partner commitment means pulling your weight and co-managing what equals to a small company, setting a common vision of the relationship considering what both of you want, being a lover means you’re responsible for your health and having fun even if it means just cuddling sometimes, being a friend means you stick by your partner and stay connected with them, being a parent is being a caretaker, mentor and friend for your young.
Those are all in there. It’s not opportunistic to look for someone who you’re sure can handle all this. It’s realistic.

That would probably be the ideal opportunistic answer, right? There are at least two problems I have with this approach:
a) for males and females even if you meet someone who is ‘great’, oportunistically or idealistically, you migh not want to pursue them cause you’re not attracted to them. No spark, no nothing, and even the most eligible, fantastic prospect is a … Bore. There are people meant for the ‘friend-zone’ no matter how good they are.
b) when times are tough and you go through a rough patch you are usually left with how supportive your partner is and how well you connect. You won’t be a good supporter unless you can both give some degree of financial stability (opportunist) and are positive enough (idealist). As it is I’d rather look for a degree of stability and great connection, a mix.

By: Anna

Anna — Fri, 18 Jan 2013 15:14:49 +0000

@DeNihilist

It’s because most of our species is comprised of people who don’t care about their neighbors…or strangers, for that matter. There’s only a few of us left with the empathy required to care about another’s welfare.

Have you ever watched ABC’s “What Would You Do?”reality/hidden camera show? It’s quite depressing and makes my soul weep for humanity…