Comments on: Shallow

By: MB

MB — Mon, 16 Feb 2015 17:10:04 +0000

@ Babes Inc.
Take a look at Danger and Play specifically his article about attending a dinner party with Sheryl Sandberg and Mark Zuckerberg eta al.. Zuckerberg and his ilk are betas who made a lot of money. The money doesn’t make alpha the internal compass and frame does.

By: Rob

Rob — Mon, 28 Oct 2013 03:46:22 +0000

“….Oh, and incidentally, as a woman, I make my selection of relationship companions not based on looks, or money, or ambition, or how much they want me.

All those things are nice, and sometimes its enough to get a first date, but I my decision to continue dating someone based on one factor alone: does he have class? ”

Horse poop!
– and that’s putting it mildly.

First you saying you make your selection not based on looks, or money, or ambition or how much they want you and then you double back and say all those things are nice and sometimes enough to get a first date.

You follow your own rules only when it’s suits you, you rationalize your behaviors based on how you “feel” on that given day, and give me a break on this “class” thing you’re trying to sell us, nobody here is buying that line either.

By: Redwood Raven

Redwood Raven — Thu, 24 Oct 2013 09:58:00 +0000

“weeded out real quickly” equates to having standards, which also ties into being “shallow”.

By: livingtree2013

livingtree2013 — Tue, 22 Oct 2013 17:30:18 +0000

Oh, and incidentally, as a woman, I make my selection of relationship companions not based on looks, or money, or ambition, or how much they want me.

All those things are nice, and sometimes its enough to get a first date, but I my decision to continue dating someone based on one factor alone: does he have class?

Sadly, this means I don’t find I date much. They get weeded out really quickly. I suggest you guys do the same. There really isn’t much out there to choose from, among men or women I’m afraid, but if we are all making our mating decisions based on…looks, or money, or ambition, or how much they want us… well, then we are fostering bad character in each other.

By: livingtree2013

livingtree2013 — Tue, 22 Oct 2013 17:23:44 +0000

RM, did you actually mean what you said, “The single most common shaming tactic that women use against men is “shallow””? And you are upset about that? Thank god for that! What I wouldn’t do to be in mens’ shoes if that is the case.

The list of shaming tactics men use against women is so incredibly hostile and hurtful that I can hardly even repeat them, and it embarrasses me you’re even complaining about being called shallow. What I wouldn’t do to be called shallow instead of an fat ugly angry bitch gold-digging selfish feminist whore whenever I speak my mind about something controversial.

You guys have no idea how good you have it, if being chastized for being shallow is the biggest of your problems.

By: Sex, Lies and Statistics. |

Sex, Lies and Statistics. | — Sun, 20 Oct 2013 23:06:52 +0000

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By: Jen

Jen — Fri, 18 Oct 2013 23:05:15 +0000

One thing I disagree with is that you’ve conflated hot with sexually available. As a young, thin, attractive woman (and no, not a woman with a long sexual history) I am sick and tired of men my dad’s age hitting on me, especially if they are married. I am sexually available to my 27-year-old boyfriend, not to an overweight 55-year-old. It’s almost insulting that they think we are on the same level, and honestly it just makes me think of their poor wife and kids. Even if they have money (and by the way, even if I were single, money wouldn’t make up for 100% lack of physical attraction) it’s never even enough to brag about. Other women tend to care about money more than me, but even then, nobody is impressed by some obese guy in his 60s bragging about his $50K per year.

And just in case you’re assuming these guys are hitting on me because I’m ugly, they’re just the lower end of the men who hit on me. My boyfriend of several years is probably an SR9. I’m not a perfect 10, but for all intents and purposes I am very attractive (at least for the mean time, I’m aware I’m going to decline if it hasn’t started already- but that is why I partnered up at a young age to a guy who has an awesome personality instead of just alpha “game” and sex appeal).

By: julia

julia — Sun, 21 Jul 2013 19:27:26 +0000

Haha. Men r stupid. It is natural for women to date men who’s taller and has more money. But men call her shallow .
But men who date women because they’re attractive and then women call them shallow, men get upset.

The things is is that you’re not talking about women in general. Since all men don’t like ugly, fat fatties then how can u say women r shallow? You’re not talking about women, only the hot ones. That’s OK though.

As an ugly fat woman myself I could care less wat men say about women. As long as you’re not talking about me and as lond as u stay the fuck out of my way then there won’t be a problem.

I think feminism should leave men alone so men can fuck with the hot bitches, complain about the hot bitches, treat the hot bitches like shit, tell their hot daughters not to mess with men like “daddy”, and watever it is that men like to do. Let men be hypocrites and let them deal with their daughters or other female relatives. After all, no man wants his daughter to be fucked over by men. But…..its gonna happen. That’s wat men want, that’s wat men get.

Thank God I’m ugly