Comments on: Girl’s Night Out

By: tim

tim — Fri, 26 Apr 2013 19:27:11 +0000

My wife went out with her girl friend years back and said only girls but it was happening to much so i asked a few questions and went later to her friends house any ways and her friends car was in the drive way still after my wife told me she was driving . i called my wife on the phone she told me again her friend drove and they are at the bar i asked her why is her car still at her house she told me nothing was going on she is drunk .I went down the street and waited she pulled up in a truck with her friend and 2 guys .I zipped down there catching her in a lie , and i was yelling pissed ,if the guys would not have driven off i would have killed them .I was already past reason yelling at them asking my wife who they where .
she keep saying nothing happened her friend was saying the same thing
i was yelling your fucking liars . Why should i believe you. she has never said anything about girls night out sense then , but sometimes she wants to go out she will ask if I want to come . sometimes she says she might be drinking and pass out at her friends and i tell her thats a bad idea .
she is married she should be home at night . she will say your not going to be home your working ,and i tell her it doesn’t matter she should not be drinking so much she cant come home and make me worry or thank shel doing anything wrong .

By: Bobbington

Bobbington — Fri, 01 Feb 2013 21:57:29 +0000

So in the event your girl goes out and makes a drunken mistake without telling you and you end up with some incurable sexually transmitted disease, then what?

By: Bobbington

Bobbington — Fri, 01 Feb 2013 21:56:58 +0000

So in the event your girl goes out and makes a drunken mistake without telling you and you end up with some incurable sexually transmitted disease then what?

By: Boys Night Out

Boys Night Out — Thu, 03 Jan 2013 00:36:04 +0000

“At this point I should also add that this in no way excuses the woman who CONSTANTLY goes on GNOs as some kind of ritual with her girlfriends. This is symptomatic of a larger problem and this, again, is based in desire. If you ever find yourself in this circumstance your best recourse is to NEXT and remove your attentions entirely. ”

Does the same apply for BNOs?

By: EltaX

EltaX — Sat, 15 Dec 2012 21:29:10 +0000

If a 25 yo woman is considered young, what about a 26 yo?

By: Djeed

Djeed — Thu, 06 Dec 2012 15:36:30 +0000

I do not fully understand many comments of this post. Maybe it is because I have been a beta for too long but, if any of you have the ability to seduce hot women at will, why the hell would you care about one of them having a GNO?

Sincerely, I imagine myself being a true seducer now, and I can’t see any reason I would even start to care about a GNO.

By: DaddyCool

DaddyCool — Thu, 01 Nov 2012 02:17:16 +0000

Stupid advice. If you gf is doing this you need to go out and make it obvious you don’t give a shit about her.
If your gf/wife is doing this she is likely to end up with Yareally’s dick in her mouth.
A prince will kick her out of the palace as soon as she comes back and sees him with the next woman.

By: Corey

Corey — Mon, 17 Sep 2012 21:48:08 +0000

It depends mostly on the venue. If she’s going out with her friends to a bowling alley where there’s a small chance she’ll be hit on, that’s one thing. But if she’s going to a bar/club or any environment where she’s guaranteed to be hit on, that’s a huge disrespect to the boyfriend regardless of whether she actually intends to hook up with these other males.

A lot of PUAs say you should act like you don’t care, suggesting that passivity equals alpha/confidence. That’s doublespeak in my opinion. The alpha is supposed to be the strongest, most dominant male in the group. I cannot picture an alpha caveman or an alpha chimpanzee passively allowing other males to hit on his girl. In all likelihood, the beta chimp or caveman would likely get a severe beating. Of course, you can’t do that today, but you can at least put your foot down verbally.

Now, if you tell your girlfriend that GNO is unacceptable, she will, in all likelihood, accuse you of being insecure, but that’s just a really clever shit test. She’s trying to reframe your alpha male behavior as beta male behavior so as to intimidate you from acting alpha. The beta male who’s just acting alpha will fail this test because his chief concern is her perception of him as an alpha male. The true alpha male doesn’t care whether others perceive him as such. You either treat him with respect or face the consequences. It makes no difference to him either way.