We are now living in an age where female primacy (hypergamy) is priority and mating is totally stack against men.
Here are the list of social conventions that was conditioned to be the norm:

1. Convention: Monogamy is the not only legal recognition of social union. It is natural that men and women are innately monogamous.
Purpose: To shame men’s preferred polygyny sexuality.
Reward for Women: The security of living with a man when they hit the wall..

2. Convention: Women are advertised as not wanting sex.
Purpose: To advance women coquetry mating strategy.
Reward for Women: Any relationship is a give and take exchange process. Under this context, women would be doing men a favor since women don’t enjoy sex, it would only be fair for men to compensate women in another aspect. Usually in the form of compliance or money. (Be my doormat if you want sex or pay for the sex that I am giving you.)
Truth: Women do want and enjoy sex.

3. Convention: Women are encouraged to hide their sexual apetite.
Purpose: To advance women coquetry mating strategy to capture the men with the best financial resource when they decide to settle down.
Reward for Women: Money and guilt leverage against men.
Truth: Women do want and enjoy sex.

4. Convention: Women care about a man’s sensitivity, humor, chivalry, etc.
Purpose: To keep men blind from learning women’s true sexual arousal trigger.
Reward for Women: To keep the supply of beta healthy for women retiring from the carousel.
Truth: Betas do not sexually arouse women.

5. Convention: Women are advertised as emotionally stable.
Purpose: To position themselves as equal of men that men historically enjoy. IE. To advance career opporunities.
Reward for Women: Money, social position, power.
Truth: Women have the capacity to be rational human beings (in a life/death situation, I doubt a woman’s action would be emotionally driven), but women are encouraged to act according to their emotion in a femininst society. Just look at the all the useless crap they buy and the drama they create!

6. Convention: Women control birth right because it is a woman’s body. I.E. Women have birth control pills, abortion rights etc while men do not.
Purpose: Allowing women to control whom to have a family with.
Reward for Women: Control over men and family creation.
Truth: It takes two to tangle. A woman alone cannot possibilty conceive a new born. So why is men booted from the decision making process?

7. Convention: Men who have not started a family by the age of 40 are branded as a adolescence who refuse to grow up.
Purpose: To push men to work as hard as possible to interest a female to start a family with him.
Reward for Women: Free labor.
Truth: Not all men are fit or want to become fathers.

8. Convention: Men abandoned by women during marriage are social outcast and are subjected to extreme social adversity.
Purpose: To provide women with the legal tool to discipline their husbands such as the threat of divorce.
Reward for Women: Women’s control over men and the household.
Truth: Allow women to threaten a beta’s life-long saving.

9. Convention: Women are advertised as not wanting to be mothers. They are a victim of societal construct.
Purpose: Instill a sense of guilt in men. Men should compensate women for their mothering labor.
Reward for Women: Money and guilt leverage against men.
Truth: Motherhood is a common theme in all of animal kingdom. Female animals’s default state is wanting to be mothers.

10. Convention: Men are encouraged to be fathers. An ideal ‘real men’ are would not penalize a single mother for her poor mating choice. Men who do not get married are selfish. (Man Up!)
Purpose: Encourage men to play the female coquetry mating strategy.
Reward for Women: To provide women with a safety net for those who are tired of riding the carousel.
Truth: Not all men want the financial liabilities of being a father. Not starting a family does not make a man less of a man.

11. Convention: Men are discouraged to look at women’s sexual history.
Purpose: Women are free to ride the carousel without the associated cost.
Reward for Women: Exciting sex with alpha without compromising future mating opportunity.
Truth: It is pragmatic to look into any entity’s historic performance to estimate future performance. Think of it as a business decision. Women’s sexual past is an indicator, whether accurate or not, of future sexual activity, which in term tells whether she will be a reliable mother.

12. Convention: Women are by default a stable nurturer. Men are by default violent. The result of women’s emotional instability must be the initiation of men’s violence. Society (cops) must keep men’s violence in check.
Purpose: Control over men’s behavior while excusing women’s.
Reward for Women: Indirect tool of violence.

And after a few generations. Most men have become betas or PUAs and the women ask, where have all the good men gone?

If you have problem unplugging from the feminist world we are living in. Just imagine the opposite.
In an alternate masculine primacy (polygyny) driven world, all actions are totally stacked against women. These are the social conventions that people are led to believe as the norm.

1. Convention: Polygyny is a legal recognition of social union. It is natural for men to ‘possess’ multiple women.
Purpose: To provide men with the social recognition of having multiple sex partners.
Reward for Men: Sex

2. Convention: Prosmiscuity is a celebrated feature in women.
Purpose: To encourage prosmiscuity in women.
Reward for Men: Sex

3. Convention: Women are encouraged to experiment sex as early as possible to secure a reliable mate.
Purpose: To remove the social stigma of having sex too young.
Reward for Men: Sex

4. Convention: Men care about the acrobaticity and intensity of sex women give. Women are valued heavily on the ability to arouse sexual interest. Women would give their best show in the bed all the time, every time.
Purpose: To encourage women to discover how to ‘hit the spot’ for men.
Reward for Men: Sex.

5. Convention: Women are advertised as emotionally unstable.
Purpose: Justification of social discriminations. “We need to keep these women (inferior beasts) in line!”
Reward for Men: Control and power over women.

6. Convention: Men control birth right. I.E. Men have birth control pills women’s birth control pills are outlawed.
Purpose: Enable men to pump and dump and give men the choice of whom to have a family with.
Reward for Men: Control over family creation.

7. Convention: Women who have not been given birth by the age of 30 are ostracized as being a social failure.
Purpose: To push women to use any means possible to capture a man willing to take her in to avoid ostracization.
Reward for Men: Easy sex and other material resource.

8. Convention: Women abandoned by men during marriage are social outcasts and are subjected to extreme social adversity.
Purpose: To provide men with the legal tool to discipline their wives.
Reward for Men: Men’s control over the household.

9. Convention: Men are advertised as having little to no interest in playing the father role.
Purpose: Women would do whatever it takes to entice the men to close the deal or face osctracization. Men are doing women a favor by offering them the possibility of marriage.
Reward for Men: Control over women.

10. Convention: The ideal women are expert in satisfying their husband both sexually and financially.
Purpose: Encourage women slut up and to be the breadwinner of the household.
Reward for Men: To allow men to experience the best of both worlds.

11. Convention: A man’s sexual history and future sexual activities has no correlation to his reliability to be a good husband.
Purpose: Marriage does not inhibit a man from having sex with other women outside marriage.
Reward for Men: More sex.

12. Convention: Men are by default a stable protector. Women are by default emotionally unstable. The result of domestic violence must be the initiation of women’s emotional instability. Men must act violently to keep the house in order.
Purpose: Men’s control over women.
Reward for Men: Tool of violence.

And after a few generations. Most women have become over used or manipulative and the men ask, where have all the good women gone?

I do not condone such behavior or mentality. I am merely making a point on the current societal conventions we are living in. It is pretty clear that neither pure feminine primacy nor pure masculine primacy are sustainable. I am sure such society did exist at some point in history where female work much more and enjoy much less than the male population. Needless to say, these cultures were wiped out by societal evolution or outcompeted by a more efficient society. We are now in the transition where men are waking up to the societ injustice inflicted heavily on us. I hope that more men will rise up either by equipping themselves with game or educating other women that leads to a better, sex-fair society.

This is again why PUAs ignore the gay “scientific studies” done by keyboard jockey nerds in ivory towers under unrealistic conditions that aren’t even targeted at asking the right questions…because we’re out there regularly shitting all over their “theories”.

Do you count Roissy as one who “ignore[s] the gay ‘scientific studies'”? Every other post of his is something that refers back to dorks in lab coats.

Our resident Jesus-Freak wrote: “Do you not yet understand that we can smell the resentment on you, no matter how much you attempt to conceal it with pretensions of superiority?”

What’s the old saying about the pot calling the kettle black…?

This is why I stress going out and putting in field time and setting goals and using routines and putting in effort. I even recommend hyper-focusing on it for a while. Because while game is easy for me now, I still remember very clearly what it was like when I started out and the shitty “Just work on yourself and the girls will come” advice would have been no more useful than the “Just be yourself” advice girls gave me back then.

The irony is that “just be yourself” is accurate, it’s just that you have to go through a lot to understand what that actually means when you’re starting out from a beta headspace. Ultimately in the game you come full-circle back to where you started, but it’s like playing a videogame a second time through and having all the stats and skills you finished it with on the first play-thru.

“When another guy wins by not playing by the first guy’s rules he then needs to invalidate that win.”

Thus the guys who harp on how you need money (because they’re chasing money or have plans to make lots of money in the future where they envision they’ll have their harem), a 6-pack, drink alcohol, have a nice car, etc. to get the hot girls.

In their heads it’s “but I’m following the rules!! I know this is right, I’ve dedicated most of my life to it so I can’t be wrong or I’d be an idiot! That guy over there shitting all over my rules and getting the success I’ve been working toward must be lying, or a scammer, or he’s only fucking hammered low-quality bar sluts, or blah blah blah”

This is again why PUAs ignore the gay “scientific studies” done by keyboard jockey nerds in ivory towers under unrealistic conditions that aren’t even targeted at asking the right questions…because we’re out there regularly shitting all over their “theories”.

The hardest thing to accept about pickup is how easy it ultimately is.

How old are you by the way?

“When is the best time to plant a tree?”
“30 years ago.”

“When is the next best time to plant a tree?”
“Now.”

In the past one or two years I’ve had a second awakening in big part due to this blog. I certainly hope it isn’t too late to start building an empire.