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By: wingwoman

wingwoman — Sun, 01 Jul 2012 22:49:54 +0000

You could make your wife feel secure loved and appreciated instead of playing asshole circular mind games. If she’s lost trust or respect for you that might not work so hot.
How the fuck do you know about this other guy yet claim you were going to be cuckholded? That’s takes you not knowing or willing to be a doormat if she did. She probably did the same thing you’re saying to do which is to make you aware you’re replaceable or just dumpable even without a replacement. She was sick of your shit long before she said something to you about it. Most woman are super passive aggresive like that.

By: wingwoman

wingwoman — Sun, 01 Jul 2012 22:30:33 +0000

By true colors I meant what a self serving asshole a guy is not beta which isn’t being used in it’s proper sense.

By: wingwoman

wingwoman — Sun, 01 Jul 2012 22:27:52 +0000

There’s no such thing as a shit test. Fuck men are so stupid. She was giving it to this guy dead straight. She doesn’t like his bullshit she was tolerating it probably because she thought he’d get more serious and stop being such a fuckwad. At this point it’s put up or shut up and gtfo.
Woman don’t know what to expect out of a guy at first. We like to try and get to know them which takes a while but there’s no substitute. Lucky for men in the mean time we don’t have too many expectations in the initial phase etc depending on the circumstances.
The only reason game works is on people with low self esteem( damaged goods but is that really what you want), the naive, and short term. Seasoned people get bored and jaded just like pretty chicks who constantly have to deal with people hitting on them because shit gets old and meaningless but sounds awesome to loser who have a chip on their shoulder because their egos and expectations are out of portion to reality. Your true colors come out eventually and any bitch that isn’t crazy is going to walk and be happier for it.

By: wingwoman

wingwoman — Sun, 01 Jul 2012 22:17:05 +0000

Someone needs to meet actual women and stop reading… Nobody is dom or sub 100% of the time. There has to be some give and take. Most of the problems are just people who aren’t willing to compromise because of their egos or some power trip to compensate for whoever fucked them over.

By: Beenthereseenit

Beenthereseenit — Sun, 01 Jul 2012 22:08:14 +0000

Different people have different tolerance and preferances. So if your friend is happy with it, be cool with it. When/if he wises up or raises his standards…etc just be his friend and don’t say anything like I should of told/warned you so it’ll just salt the wound.

By: VersLaGloire

VersLaGloire — Tue, 26 Jun 2012 21:11:16 +0000

This. Although i can’t really complain. Losing frame and hand in a LTR and not being able to figure out why was what put me in a mindset receptive to new ideas. It allowed me to take the red pill. It was devastating, maintained a near perfect LTR for 4 years, let it all go in a matter of months. The true shame of the situation was that it took me almost 3 more years to figure out that I had destroyed the relationship beyond repair in a few short weeks of weakness (depression due to legal troubles that were entirely my own stupid fault).

It took a lot of strife before i realized that a month or two of beta will easily and permanently destroy a LTR, even with years of solid hand and frame behind you. Once a girl sees you as beta, that image is nearly irrevocable.

By: Black Man, Red Pill

Black Man, Red Pill — Tue, 26 Jun 2012 15:26:54 +0000

I read this post a little too late but I’m glad you posted this. The same things happened to me in my previous LTRs, I got too comfortable and lost alpha.I was the leader and I basically abdicated the throne.