Comments on: Ultimatum

By: NoMoreGames

NoMoreGames — Fri, 23 Jan 2015 18:22:03 +0000

And as far a the second shift statement — same as men say when they babysit their children. Indicates the message, I’m owed for what I am doing and baby you’d better comply. Such statements are not spoken by people desiring to be in the relationship. Those relationships are in trouble.
But who give a bleep because single people with equal to poor behavior are a dime a dozen – leave when it isn’t working out for you :)

By: NoMoreGames

NoMoreGames — Fri, 23 Jan 2015 18:18:48 +0000

hmmm, utlimatums and games and power. As a woman, I allowed my first man of 30 years to game on me — never again. No man is worth all that is written here, nor any woman for that matter. Relationships are about respect each other and valuing each other not getting oneself a dog. So … game it on and you will lose your love. :)

By: Boundaries |

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By: Titanic

Titanic — Wed, 05 Mar 2014 13:00:31 +0000

This is exactly what struck me as weak in Leif’s refusal of Jenny’s LJBF … in came in the form of an ultimatum and therefore signaled a significant level of powerlessness.

You’ve got to start somewhere though …

By: groverman

groverman — Sun, 23 Feb 2014 09:41:23 +0000

i recently fucked up by giving a woman i had been chasing for a long while a begging ultimatum. It was, as Rollo says, an indication of my powerlessness in getting her to treat me with respect. Accordingly, I didn’t even get a reply. Her silent treatment then baulked me into being the one who then announced that the whole thing was over: “that’s it; it’s over”. She kept her cool — or basically didn’t care — she didn’t say one word at the time or in the five months since. I shot myself in the head. Never give an ultimatum.

By: Financial Frame | The Reinvention of Man

Financial Frame | The Reinvention of Man — Sat, 21 Dec 2013 04:09:42 +0000

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By: deadliftman

deadliftman — Tue, 08 Oct 2013 16:38:55 +0000

I didn’t get what your alternative was? Setting rules and boundaries? When do you set those boundaries? A lot depends on that. If you set them at the beginning of a relationship, you are setting the frame. If you set them after she did something that you did not like, that’s as good as an ultimatum.

By: Mark in Orlando

Mark in Orlando — Thu, 01 Nov 2012 18:54:37 +0000

if you give her an ultimatum that you will cut her out of your life, it frees you, and that is the power