Which scenario do you think is more likely to be actualized and why? In other word’s which is the more likely scenario to come true in reality?

The first (singles sex) scenario is generally more likely, because a woman’s agency with any man is sex.

Which scenario would you rather participate in in reality? Why?

Probably the married one, mostly because I began to sour on one night stands or first-night sex toward the end of my single life. They usually left me feeling a little bit sickened and with some regret. I know that sounds weird, but it’s true. There’s always a risk involved, but that risk is higher if you are letting a woman you met hours earlier put her mouth around it. I preferred to do the 2-3 date thing and build tension.

Which scenario do you think would make for the best sexual experience?

Probably #1, because sex with someone for the first time is usually more interesting for a man.

Has a woman ever seduced YOU whether single or by your wife?

Yes.

Just an addendum, my wife is a frequent initiator of sex. Sometimes I turn HER down because I’m not in the mood. (I try to limit this. But sometimes I’d rather be alone, watch TV, or even jack off than have sex.) I don’t know if she’d go through all the planning detailed in the scenario above, but she’s definitely “seduced” me. However we’ve only been married a couple of years.

Women, when freed to be a women, like to do this. Men, when freed to be a man, get to have this.

You can bet your life, Grandma was doing this for Grandpa back in the day. No quickie divorces and both knew that what was best for them was to keep it together.

Always thinking someone else is better kills hot sex.