Comments on: The Surrogate Boyfriend

By: YOHAMI

YOHAMI — Wed, 24 Dec 2014 21:49:52 +0000

“It’s also possible for you to be forced to want to have sex with someone who you find physically attractive.”

Get help.

By: Chibiabos

Chibiabos — Wed, 24 Dec 2014 20:29:03 +0000

Emotional tampon? Goddam you people are creepy.

There’s little mystery here and you don’t need some creepy, kludgy, sociopathic scheme of social theory to explain it. Guy met girl, they danced around each other for a while, guy was tired when girl was frisky and girl got a little sour grapes at him.

Maybe Darren should accept the fact that being an adult is complicated and try to reconnect with his friend. It’s pretty normal to be attracted to someone and not want to have sex with them. It’s also possible for you to be forced to want to have sex with someone who you find physically attractive. It’s unhealthy and all sorts of poisonous but people still do it.

If you look at someone and can only see return on investment then it’s their prerogative and a demonstration of their sound judgment to reject you.

By: Mike

Mike — Thu, 10 Oct 2013 06:20:03 +0000

Hey Darren all you need is just turning the table..This is right what happened to me, but I was playing a donkey for 3,5 years with colleague ..(but fucking from time to time other women secretly).. then realizing that I told her to go to hell..Told her she is kicked out of my life..I let her know either I fuck her or no more “friendship”… So I started chasing other women and let her know about that..I started acting like a man..I stopped contacting her whatsoever..She is chasing me now but I ignore that stupid bitch…She doesn t deserve my dick. But the truth is that once I show my own value to her and am unavailable to her, she is after me a hundred times more..

By: Appeals to Reason |

Appeals to Reason | — Wed, 07 Aug 2013 18:30:09 +0000

[…] like this generally end up as the infamous emotional tampon, or the Surrogate Boyfriend to a woman who’s banging the most Alpha Man her looks can attract. However, this […]

By: Opus

Opus — Wed, 13 Jun 2012 13:01:35 +0000

It’s difficult for Darren as she is someone he works with. He is thus unable to avoid her, and seeing her will only inevitably rekindle his feelings. If he is offish with her he will only tend to look bitter.

I don’t think women are really sufficiently self-aware to realise how cruel and unfair they are being. Women who split their attentions between Tampons and Jerks tend to be women who ‘have problems’ anyway, so are best avoided.

By: matt

matt — Sun, 15 Apr 2012 19:11:57 +0000

Ya but so what? As a guy I also have emotionally needs.I will have “surrogate girlfriends” too who I use to bitch about problems I wouldn’t with the girl I’m sleeping with or my guy friends. Why is this is a bad thing? Sure I’d bang some of my surrogate girlfriends, but I’d bang 25% of the planet.

By: Claire

Claire — Sat, 14 Apr 2012 06:29:39 +0000

PaleoGuy – I hope I don’t sound heartless, but how would she just realise unless you told her or demonstrated in some way that you wanted to be more than friends?

By: PaleoGuy

PaleoGuy — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 21:41:14 +0000

Reading 30Darren’s post feels like reading my own autobiography. I can’t count how many times I cluelessly played the “surrogate boyfriend,” hoping that the woman in question would eventually realize that I was what she was looking for all along.

Holy shit was I ever a clueless chump.