“Men were designed to live short nasty brutal lives. Women were designed to live long miserable ones.”

Most humans are wired, through millions of years of evolution, to feel uncomfortable when not in a position to mate, and to feel satisfied when in such a position.

It’s not a philosophical issue of whether we can be satisfied alone and whether we need sex or not. We simply have those feelings, and nothing other than sex and intimacy makes us feel better. And nothing in the world – no drug, no other experience – feels as good on a consistent moment to moment day by day basis as that initial flush of being romantically involved.

Therefore I propose that serial or parallel monogamy, with changing up the girls from every 6 months to two years is the path that will lead to maximizing happiness and well-being and life satisfaction for those of us who are not strongly family and child oriented.

Sex like food? Nah, how many times we heard that? Without food we die. And without sex? If it were true, a lot of betas would be dead right now and the population would be very smaller.

It’s simple – women live in the present, men live in the future.

If a woman sees a possibility to make the present moment more enjoyable, she would do that in a heartbeat no matter what the future consequences are.

She would return the cake she ordered at the coffee shop three times if it’s not absolutely to her liking, with just the right amount of chocolate sauce and sprinkled cocoa.
She would turn the heating up by just 1 degree if she’s just a tiny
bit cold.
If you do something that she doesn’t like then fuck you! she’s pissed! crying and screaming. you’ve ruined her perfect moment!
If that other guy is into her and no one’s around – she’ll fuck him! then come back home and cook dinner like nothing happened.

Men, on the other hand, will suffer in the present if they believe that it will be worth it in the future. We will work hard, eat cup ramen in college and earn money in order to attain financial security.
We can eat every day the exact same meal and get used to that and move on.

Women will never have the mental constructs necessary to just view men’s suffering and sacrifice as beneficial at the current moment. they cannot see how the present sacrifice extends into the future.

However, when a women realizes that her current happiness is derived from a man’s past effort, it is very different to her – they call it “romantic”.
At that present moment when she realizes this, the man is genuinely appreciated by her.

As that moment passes and becomes past, so does her appreciation.

Those bastard-not-even-hell-would-suffice-for marriage counselors have this mantra that they spout at couples – “marriage is constant effort”
Wrong you bastards! marriage is MEN’s EXCLUSIVE constant effort!

It is very easy to label women that do this (read – all women) as the whiny bitches that they are. However, this is the reality we live.

It is in our hands now to decide how much we’re willing to put up with in order to get sex/love/whatever and realize that we will never be able to achieve that fairytale true lasting love without putting an irrational amount of effort into it. and even then, it may not be enough.