Comments on: Borderline Personality Disorder http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/20/borderline-personality-disorder/ Thu, 09 Apr 2015 21:33:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: melasoban http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/20/borderline-personality-disorder/comment-page-1/#comment-87410 Mon, 09 Feb 2015 12:17:25 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=808#comment-87410 Rollo Stated “It’s very easy and comforting to ascribe a general lack of social intelligence or a retardation in social maturity on Asperger’s Syndrome. I’m not suggesting that Asperger’s isn’t a legitimate pathology, but I think the frequency with which men will conveniently attribute their social awkwardness to it delegitimizes the real illness.”

What I am stating is that social intelligence/retardation can easily become a “not learned behaviour” if a guy spends most of his time behind interactions with machines instead of persons, therefor he could display some traits that are related to asperger’s

]]> By: Factcheck http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/20/borderline-personality-disorder/comment-page-1/#comment-86889 Fri, 06 Feb 2015 20:33:00 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=808#comment-86889 @melasoban: Get your facts straight. Aspergers is genetic while bpd is learned behaviour.

]]> By: melasoban http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/20/borderline-personality-disorder/comment-page-1/#comment-85815 Mon, 02 Feb 2015 14:39:54 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=808#comment-85815 I think the increment of Asperger traits on men and BPD on women is dictated by the abuse of brain stimulation through continuous arousal fueled by novelty. If you watch the famous TED talk “The Demise of Guys” you will find out that Phillip Lombardo describes the increment of guys who are struggling on communicating with the opposite sex among other problems like lack of motivation to engage in longer term rewarding activities.
There I decided to start researching behavioural patterns to find out how to overcome procrastination and porn (which in the end are related). Yourbrainonporn gave me the cues I was looking for in order to understand our brain’s reward center.
I have the idea that stimulus-seeking compulsive behaviours are reinforced by novelty abuse in both sexes: mostly porn & gaming on men and status-seeking activities like FB or Instagram on females. Then you of course you have movies, series, etc.
Unplugging from the continous stimulus/arousal is necessary for both genders: Besides the fact that it is producing a delay on the development of social behaviours, because of the neuroplasticity, it is reinforcing both the extreme male brains or “asperger” and extreme female brains or “BPD”.
I am trying to find guys with asperger traits who haven’t been playing games, watching porn…in the end abusing from novelty for a long time but so far, I have not been able to find any evidence to disproove my theory.
I also believe our widespread subconscious belief regarding the magic pill has been developed by the abuse of instant gratification. This also reinforces procrastination behavioural patterns.
Each time left behind instant gratification activity I boosted my social skills up. I encourage you guys to do the same

]]> By: Arm Candy | http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/20/borderline-personality-disorder/comment-page-1/#comment-83537 Fri, 23 Jan 2015 18:40:14 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=808#comment-83537 […] and several other women most guys just fantasize about – half the reason I stayed with the BPD girlfriend for so long was because she was just so fucking hot – but not once did I have any thought of […]

]]> By: alexi http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/20/borderline-personality-disorder/comment-page-1/#comment-77720 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 20:45:54 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=808#comment-77720 Really? Wow. Yeah I can’t wait to get a narcissistic psychopath like you to bug my phone, cheat on me, verbally abuse me and critique my sexual performance. Sounds fuckin awesome (obvious sarcasm). Anyway, I’m now unsubscribed and won’t be able to see future comments from crazy assholes. Goodbye.

]]> By: emmanuel omassi http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/20/borderline-personality-disorder/comment-page-1/#comment-77719 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 20:36:50 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=808#comment-77719 typical run away, in life people have to be responsible, for what they do. you cannot run forever, I you start something in life you have to finish, at least I am taking the initiative to change and understand the problem and change. I do not run away from things, unlike you as I see, typical coward, like you said earlier, you have decided that you cannot be with men, because you cannot deal with it, so run along little girl.

]]> By: alexi http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/20/borderline-personality-disorder/comment-page-1/#comment-77718 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 20:30:00 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=808#comment-77718 Wow. What an entitled narcissist prick. As a romantic partner, you’re scum. I don’t care what “projects” you may be working on. If she can’t let go, then its your duty to let go of the failed relationship. No one is holding a gun to your head. And get a shrink if you can’t seem to use logic or be a good partner. I’m done and won’t be answering this thread anymore. I’m unsubscribing. Bubye.

]]> By: emmanuel omassi http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/20/borderline-personality-disorder/comment-page-1/#comment-77715 Wed, 31 Dec 2014 20:18:46 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=808#comment-77715 also during time that we are together I have never been verbally abusive, you have to understand we get along amazing, we do not even ever have an argument, it is only after she had her episodes that I become abusive.

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