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		<title>By: Sam Spade</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/22/a-ship-in-a-harbor/comment-page-1/#comment-2229</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sam Spade]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 18:03:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you kidding me? The well-traveled man is the best informed. Just as the man who&#039;s dated a variety of women understands females better than the guy who settled down at 18. Perhaps it&#039;s not an ironclad rule that one is better informed than the other, but that&#039;s the way I&#039;d lean.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you kidding me? The well-traveled man is the best informed. Just as the man who&#8217;s dated a variety of women understands females better than the guy who settled down at 18. Perhaps it&#8217;s not an ironclad rule that one is better informed than the other, but that&#8217;s the way I&#8217;d lean.</p>
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		<title>By: Jim</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/22/a-ship-in-a-harbor/comment-page-1/#comment-1993</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jim]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 19:38:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks Rollo.

When I have some extra cash, then I will travel to more places. It&#039;s fun to see new areas. Never getting married and not having kids makes it easier to travel. Wherever I can bring my pet dog. We can live in one place for a few years and then decide to continue staying there, or to move to a new place.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Rollo.</p>
<p>When I have some extra cash, then I will travel to more places. It&#8217;s fun to see new areas. Never getting married and not having kids makes it easier to travel. Wherever I can bring my pet dog. We can live in one place for a few years and then decide to continue staying there, or to move to a new place.</p>
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		<title>By: driveallnight</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/22/a-ship-in-a-harbor/comment-page-1/#comment-1991</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 17:32:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Damn skippy. Warm holiday greetings from Puerto Galera, Republic of Philippines.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Damn skippy. Warm holiday greetings from Puerto Galera, Republic of Philippines.</p>
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		<title>By: xsplat</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/22/a-ship-in-a-harbor/comment-page-1/#comment-1987</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 07:16:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some people like change.

Some people don&#039;t like change.

It would seem some people have nomadic temperaments.  They like adventure and changing scenery.  Some prefer to hang for life in the communities they grew up in.  They like traditions and strong local bonds.

This is an issue not only of informed decisions, but of temperament.  Enjoyment of a nomadic lifestyle may be something certain personality types are apt to fall into.

For people who value community and tradition and being settled, the place they were raised will naturally hold a high appeal.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some people like change.</p>
<p>Some people don&#8217;t like change.</p>
<p>It would seem some people have nomadic temperaments.  They like adventure and changing scenery.  Some prefer to hang for life in the communities they grew up in.  They like traditions and strong local bonds.</p>
<p>This is an issue not only of informed decisions, but of temperament.  Enjoyment of a nomadic lifestyle may be something certain personality types are apt to fall into.</p>
<p>For people who value community and tradition and being settled, the place they were raised will naturally hold a high appeal.</p>
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		<title>By: xsplat</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/22/a-ship-in-a-harbor/comment-page-1/#comment-1986</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[xsplat]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 07:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Papa was a rollin&#039; stone, my son.  Wherever he laid his hat was his home.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Papa was a rollin&#8217; stone, my son.  Wherever he laid his hat was his home.</p>
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		<title>By: driveallnight</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/22/a-ship-in-a-harbor/comment-page-1/#comment-1984</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[driveallnight]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 06:02:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Please, is this a joke? Home is where the hard-on is.

SE Asia.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please, is this a joke? Home is where the hard-on is.</p>
<p>SE Asia.</p>
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		<title>By: xsplat</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/22/a-ship-in-a-harbor/comment-page-1/#comment-1981</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[xsplat]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 05:08:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Perhaps people intuit that too much choice lowers satisfaction with choices.

It is a principle of mind that when we don&#039;t have options available, we decide that the options that we do have that we have chosen amongst are our best options.  This universal habit leads us to be happier with what we have.

I&#039;m all for being happy, and I understand the idea of appreciating the little things and accepting that which can not be changed.

But this parable is not about accepting what can not be changed.  It is about discovering options.  Would too many options lead to less satisfaction?  

Perhaps to some people.  I wonder, and don&#039;t know.  Some of us prefer to broaden our options, and the very act of doing so brings happiness.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Perhaps people intuit that too much choice lowers satisfaction with choices.</p>
<p>It is a principle of mind that when we don&#8217;t have options available, we decide that the options that we do have that we have chosen amongst are our best options.  This universal habit leads us to be happier with what we have.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m all for being happy, and I understand the idea of appreciating the little things and accepting that which can not be changed.</p>
<p>But this parable is not about accepting what can not be changed.  It is about discovering options.  Would too many options lead to less satisfaction?  </p>
<p>Perhaps to some people.  I wonder, and don&#8217;t know.  Some of us prefer to broaden our options, and the very act of doing so brings happiness.</p>
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		<title>By: YOHAMI</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 04:07:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Himself, duh.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Himself, duh.</p>
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