Comments on: Mr. Perfect

By: A New Hope |

A New Hope | — Mon, 29 Sep 2014 04:34:22 +0000

[…] he needs to re-imagine himself in a red pill-primary context, when women are presented with ‘the perfect guy‘ in a blue pill context they gradually (sometimes immediately) come to despise him. As proven […]

By: Perseverating……… | My journey to thrive….

Perseverating……… | My journey to thrive…. — Sat, 04 May 2013 14:41:35 +0000

[…] is reframed to be behaviors that activate or lower, the random reinforcement. As Rollo says, perfect is boring. It’s boring because it doesn’t activate any of the addiction/attraction chemical […]

By: boxsterpaul

boxsterpaul — Tue, 30 Apr 2013 16:12:33 +0000

I didn’t realize what a great post this was until this morning, hearing my ex girlfriend of 6months. Go on and on about her current boyfriend of 1yr and how “imperfect” he is. What I could tell was her hamster was running trying to solve this problem, the addiction of one that doesn’t submit to Perfect.

My question is, this, he but the burden of where to go, and what to do with her on mothers day. There is a fine line between “Mr Perfect”, and “Just Gets it”.

Anyhow, this is interesting.

By: ww

ww — Sat, 24 Dec 2011 09:53:43 +0000

P.S. Don’t use biological arguments when making a social based complaint. Your problem is with changing social gender identity values not basic biology.

By: ww

ww — Sat, 24 Dec 2011 09:51:02 +0000

Sex= biological.
Gender= conditioned and heavy cultural context
Please use the proper term in the proper place or what you are trying to communicate doesn’t make sense.

By: The Shocker

The Shocker — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 22:11:52 +0000

Men don’t play perfect because they want sex. They play perfect because they want to be idealized by their woman.

Men objectify women at first, and then gradually idealize them in a LTR.

Women prefer to start relationships with men they initially idealize, then subconsciously gradually objectify them as the gloss wears off.

Sex is present at every stage.

The benefits of being idealized by women are immensely gratifying. This is when girls start saying things like, ‘dancing with you doesn’t feel like dancing with anyone else.’ The problem is guys really have no clue how to achieve this, so they AFC date dance.

As a side note, here’s a half-baked theory of mine: the recipe for idealization is a combination of alpha hook (sometimes attitude and social skills, usually an identity thing like ‘he’s a dj, we’re the same race, he plays baseball,’ etc.) and ambient, contextual ‘x.’ x is not betaness, which is a PUA meme right now, because betaness is supplication. x is real-time emotional connection/communication and its expression in dialog and body language that compels a positive feeling of ‘we’re special.’

For fun attractive guys, running with an alpha attitude is easy. Done, case closed, here’s your diploma, enjoy your diminishing returns from the game community. It’s achieving a high degree of x with very attractive women in the short period of time you have their attention when you’re out at night that’s challenging. Being a genuinely awesome alpha is good game, but it doesn’t make you a PUA. If the PUA community can progress and figure out how to create x as well, then we’d all be getting laid more. However, with the rise of inner game as the right way to achieve alpha demeanor, we’ve abandoned the social hacks of Mystery’s day which were really just rudimentary repeatable experiments in surfacing x.

By: Jim

Jim — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 19:01:27 +0000

Because it fits her prime agenda/objective of a provider giving her higher status (for increasing HER status/Value so she looks like she is in a stable relationship to her family and friends, money, pocketbooks, shoes, car, house, kids). To a woman sex is only a means to this end result (hence, less sex once married because she used it to get this objective she really wanted, then if the AFC doesn’t maintain this agenda she can divorce him and to the victor goes the spoils, either way she gets what she wants). She will fuck an Alpha man (who usually does not have a lot of money), but she will live with a feminized-Beta provider (who usually has the money to buy her a house, etc). The AFC thinks he has to give her all this to get the end result of the sex he wants, but by doing this he has given up his power and played into her hands (there will be decreasing amounts of sex) and he lost. The man with Game knows this game, avoids this trap, plays the game and wins.

As a man, never complain because it appears like weakness. As a man, do not try to please a woman (doing things that she wants you to do that you do NOT really want to do) because she will not appreciate it anyway, it will make you miserable, it will not make her happy, and it makes you look weak. Do not let any woman turn you into an AFC.