“Dealing with women on a dating site is like being a negotiator during a bank robbery. They need the bus, helicopter, plane, a million in cash – all up front before releasing one hostage.”

It doesn’t get any more accurate than that.

Too many women will list their requirements and then they’ll get upset when a man has a list (and they don’t fit it). What man in their right mind wants to take on raising (and paying for) her kids? Not I. That one, alone, is a deal breaker.

The point you make about women taking things personally, getting upset (by not being qualified) and not simply moving on (they had to respond) is priceless.

Dealing with women on a dating site is like being a negotiator during a bank robbery. They need the bus, helicopter, plane, a million in cash – all up front before releasing one hostage.

I’m a 23 year old woman who considered herself highly feminist throughout college, got into the real world, saw that shit didn’t work, and that any of the morals that first attracted me to feminism (the opening of women’s professional and political options) were actually being harmed by neo feminists who directed more of their energies at railing at men then actually trying to help in causes that mattered (say, opening up opportunities for Ghanian women to gain access to education, etc.).

Anyway, what I’m really trying to say is that I do find such entitlement disgusting from women on their profiles when they right such specifics for men to follow and I never truly realized the extent of the problem until I did see it reversed when those expectations are flipped on to a woman from a man. But wouldn’t it be more progressive to note that any such expectations at all is detrimental to both people in the situation, not just men and women?

I mean, I would never be dating my boyfriend of 3 years now if he had come to me with those expectations, and I suspect he never would either if I threw this crap on him.

I wish you luck in your future adventures as a cuckold servant.