Agree….and a very good point. The problem with our society, today, is that we’ve given women what they wanted….equality. One of their chief complaints regarding equality is that men can sleep around (any time and any where) without being called out…it was “acceptable”.

Fast forward to today and we’ve given women the same rights (only now they want it all). Women want to be able to hold onto the benefits from the past (she’s such a good girl…not a slut or ASD) while simultaneously having the option to be the bad girl at any moment.

Society “back when” placed a social restriction on a woman because a high value man (i.e. money, land, etc..) didn’t want to marry a slut (or perceived slut). This social shaming was the only thing that kept many women from sleeping around at the time. We now have women who make their own wealth and want to sleep around with multiple partners. But, they still want to be considered “good girls”, today…they want it all.

You have to laugh at this entitled attitude of wanting to have the goods from the past with the goods of today. They wanted equality but they only wanted the many good things that this equality brought to them…none of the bad stuff (men can keep it).

They want to be strong and independent women (be like men) without all of the bad stuff that comes with the job.

I am 57. It got tossed out by my ex 10 years ago. The whole beta provider cuckhold after the second kid, the freeze came on. I am sure she was fucking around. She would holler at me “I am not your slut” when I would ask her wear thongs to bed. Once when she was packing for a business trip I needed something from her cosmetic bag thing and when I went to get it from her suitcase, there were thongs galore. I challenged her and she was defiant. The sex between us sucked and a lot of it was my fault. I had gotten fat. And immediately after the divorce I started getting ED. I moved to another city, Montgomery Alabama to get away and just did the AFC thing there, then I got transferred to Atlanta and more of the same. I was hitting 50 and it was severe handicap. Men got a wall also. Unless you want old crazy bitches. I started online dating in Colombia. I went down there and it was the early days and not a lot of guys had gone yet. 2005. I had a girlfriend that I had talked with for months and we hit it right off physically. She was 20 years younger than me. The sex was good, but my ED still fucked with me. I lacked confidence. But I could still make her have orgasms. I started to get some swagger back. Then I went back again for another woman. I had lifted weights and dropped maybe 20 pounds and was pretty buff for 50. This other woman was 23. At first she was cold and after a weekend of this I told her “Look you just want a visa but you don’t love me. So go away” and she said “No, I have little experience with men” and that night she fucked me and I made her have orgasms. And I started being more dominant physically during sex. Not a lot but more. Mostly pinning her arms over her head. Being rougher when I moved her into positions. Holding her face still where I wanted it when we kissed. And she responded to it.

My third trip back to Colombia, I stayed for months. I had met this girl online that literally was the best looking woman in my life. Ever. And I was 51. She had plastic surgery for tits, lipo, abs and literally had a perfect body. Perfect. I showed a coworker in America her photo and he accused me of copying some photo from the internet and lying. He said No way that girl was with you. Yes she was. And during sex with her I started to dominate her. Pull her hair. Spank her. Anal sex. Choke her. And most importantly I would tell her she was a slut “Puta” and she would say “I am not” and I would say “Yes are you and I know it” and she would get excited. I would say “You can fool people on street but I know you are a slut”. And I owned this woman. She was with me for months and never turned me down for sex and every time I treated her like slut. I broke up with her. Just dumped the best looking girl I ever had because she annoyed me. She sang in the car with horrible voice. She talked on the phone too much in the bed while I was watching TV. She drank too much for my taste. And I had someone else. And I treated that one like a slut in bed and with the same result. She was black girl from Cartagena with breast implants and a killer body and she reacted the same way.

And I started getting cocky. I was with this one a month and dumped her. Just put her in a taxi and said “Adios”. The kicker was next one. I don’t know shit about game and that time nothing about alphas, betas, hypergamy. Partially I had come to this idea of domination during sex after thinking about this club I used to go in Atlanta and there was a lot of interracial stuff there. These girls were corporate bitches that would crucify some guy at work over the slightest off color comment and in this club, black guys would grab their asses and they would giggle. The dude would dominate them and they fell all over him and my AFC chump ass went home alone. And this was Georgia. Also it seemed the male animals on the discovery channel would dominate the shit of the females. And everything I tried with these women they let me do it to them. Maybe it’s a Latina thing.

So the kicker was the next woman. I was back in Medellin in a disco alone and this woman comes over and stands by my table. Really it more that my Spanish was difficult in a club in a disco with the noise but I just ignored her. Eventually she spoke to me in English. But conversation was difficult and we left to go a restaurant close by that was easier to have conversation. She was a doctor. She was very tall and thin with implants. The whole country has implants if they can raise the cash. It’s titty heaven there. She worked for a foundation restoring the jaws of children that accidents or correcting birth defects like cleft palate. I called her a slut right to her face in the restaurant. She was divorced, had 2 kids and had lived alone with them for 8 years with no resident man. I said “So you are a saint then. You got good grades in school, never gave your parents trouble, went to university, studied hard, got into Med school, got married after school, had kids, and then divorced your husband because he cheated on you with young girls. You have the money to live without a man and you are devoted to your children. You do miracle stuff to give kids back their faces. Everyone thinks your perfect”. She shrugged like “Yes”. I said “I am pretty sure you are a slut”. She looked at me like “Excuse me?”. I said “You’re out for the night. You see an American. You think he’s a tourist with hotel room. You can go back with him, fuck him, and then he leaves to go back to America and you have no troublesome man that wants a relationship. Let’s just go now.”. And I got up and she followed me. And I treated her exactly the same way as the others except she got off more than the others when I called her “Puta” in her ear. I would get my fingers wet in her vagina and smear it on her face and tell “See, your a fucking slut. I knew just by looking at you”. And she was a fucking doctor. She got off to the rough treatment more than the others. I would say “You’re a bad girl” and she would say “Then punish me”. I was with her a couple of months and continually treated that way. She would get so wet it would drip onto the bed and leave a ring 8 inches in diameter. My ex-wife had screamed at me “You’re the worst fuck I ever had”. And with a change in style and adopting dominance, excellent looking women were submissive and were so wet it would ruin the sheets.

But basically that has become the major aspect of my sexual and dating style. They are sluts and I know it and I am going show them that they are and fuck them like they are. I had some episodes particularly with younger girls, early 20s, where I didn’t do it and reverted to AFC form and got chumped. Maybe it was because they didn’t see me as ideal because of my age and it wouldn’t have worked anyway. But the last woman before I left Colombia was 26 and she had a child no husband. The kid was 11. She got pregnant at 14. She was over at my house. I kissed her twice with two little peck kisses and then I yanked her head back by her ponytail and kissed her hard. Her whole demeanor changed. It was a seminal moment for me. She had her eyes open as I kissed her and I could she was smiling like “Oh, you’re like that then”.

And I won’t ever revert back. I don’t know much about game and that’s why I am here. But my sexual experiences are that women respond to sexual domination both verbal and physical. Maybe it is just a Colombiana thing. I haven’t tried it here in the US. But every time when I would converse with a woman on line and I would say “I am very sexually dominant to the point of violence. I am going to tell you right now that I am going spank you, pull your hair, slap you and you are going to want me to do it you. It doesn’t start out like that but it is a voyage that I will take you on and in the end it will happen. And you will want it. I am going to find your inner slut because I am sure you have one and you know you do.” They would “No. I don’t want that. I don’t want to be slapped”. And I would say “Yes you will, you’ll see” and never once did they back away.

So when women use ASD on you, it is a lie. They are sluts almost all of them. It’s almost like imagining the audience in their underwear to fight nervousness during a speech. Just adopt this thought in your head. She is a slut and I am going to fuck her and spank her. And she wants to be fucked and spanked. I am not insane. It happened too often. And the more professional the more they wanted it. There is some bodice ripper best seller out that has bondage as the theme and women are buying it like hotcakes and there is an upsurge in sales in light bondage stuff like velvet wrist restraints. The female news announcer on TV said some feministic shit like “Women are super women in so many facets of life and they like to be submissive in the bedroom”. Whatever. They’re sluts.

The Colombians have this term Pareja Ideal, literally it means Ideal Couple. When a guy says Pareja, he means the couple. When a women says Pareja, she means the man. Ask a guy what is the Pareja Ideal and he says something like “We get along well. Good Sex. She’s not a bitch. Respects costs of things, etc”. She would answer “He’s the man of my dreams. He has the cash I want and gives it to me and he looks good enough.” If you are the Pareja Ideal then she is decent to you. If you are not then she screws you over left and right. She is inconsiderate, rude, dishonest, greedy, tardy. She makes excuses to not see you. If you are the Pareja Ideal then she will sleep with you every night. She will let your fuck her in the ass and ask you if like her asshole while you fuck her. If you are not the Pareja Ideal she rarely answers your calls and they are even more tied to their cell phone than American girls. They literally carry it in their left hand 100% of the time. If you call and she looks down and sees that it is you and doesn’t answer then you are the chump and not the man. If you are not the Pareja Ideal then you best leave. If you don’t then she will play you with all these sob stories about cutting her electricity and she needs money and she come over just long enough to get the money and then use some excuse to escape. She’ll bring her friends on dates and want the most expensive places. If you are stupid enough to stay then you deserve the ass whipping you will get.

Of all the stuff that I have gotten from the Manosphere. I would have to put the actual definition and awareness of Hypegamy as number 1 and this topic, ASD, and filibustering in general, in the top 5. So if you are receiving any of this bullshit then you are not the Pareja Ideal. Split. Next. In general if you are not getting treated right and things are not preceding in a normal pace, and you know what pace should be, then you’re plan B or C or D or H. Don’t be any woman’s bitch. I will say this last thing. After getting this attitude and setting these limits or I bail, I have never felt bad after cutting a relationship prematurely. It is easier than you think. I did feel bad when I hung around like a idiot thinking things would work out. Like I said above. I am 57 years old. If there is anything I would have done different it is that I would have pressed for what I wanted sooner and held women’s feet to the fire. This is America. If that bitch goes on a date with me. I got a right to try to fuck her. Get it in your mind. She owes you sex. She’s not your fucking friend. Like it’s some kind of secret that boys want to fuck girls? Don’t act like its the elephant in the room that nobody talks about. Push the subject. Fuck me now. Why not? When? Why you waiting so long? Fight back on the ASD. Call her bluff. She would fuck Brad Pitt on the first date and call her friends while he was fucking her and say “Guess who’s fucking me”. If she ain’t fucking you then she is fucking you. Walk.