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	<title>Comments on: Taking things Slow</title>
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		<title>By: Driver</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/04/taking-things-slow/comment-page-1/#comment-89783</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2015 02:11:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#039;s hilarious to hear (read) women talking about how &#039;taking it slow&#039; represents getting to know them inside and out.  

You never listen to a woman, you only watch her actions.  

Women are only going to tow this line after they are coming off of the carousel (close to the wall).  They&#039;ve ridden the carousel through the better parts of their lives and now they come along giving men this &#039;holy advice&#039; on how we should just love and accept them (the way they are, any way they are, inside and outside, etc...).  It&#039;s bullshit, gentlemen.  

A woman hot for a man will gladly jump at the chance (see Fifty Shades of Grey, Twilight, etc...).  It&#039;s all right there in front of you.  Any woman giving you an excuse as to why you should wait or take it slow is pretty much putting you off (for one reason or another).  Don&#039;t buy into it and call bullshit when you hear it. 

These same women gave it up pretty quickly to certain men when they were younger (but won&#039;t admit to it or feel shamed).  They&#039;ll just continue preaching this nonsense about how men are fucked up for not waiting because men are &#039;low value&#039;.  Again, I&#039;m calling bullshit.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s hilarious to hear (read) women talking about how &#8216;taking it slow&#8217; represents getting to know them inside and out.  </p>
<p>You never listen to a woman, you only watch her actions.  </p>
<p>Women are only going to tow this line after they are coming off of the carousel (close to the wall).  They&#8217;ve ridden the carousel through the better parts of their lives and now they come along giving men this &#8216;holy advice&#8217; on how we should just love and accept them (the way they are, any way they are, inside and outside, etc&#8230;).  It&#8217;s bullshit, gentlemen.  </p>
<p>A woman hot for a man will gladly jump at the chance (see Fifty Shades of Grey, Twilight, etc&#8230;).  It&#8217;s all right there in front of you.  Any woman giving you an excuse as to why you should wait or take it slow is pretty much putting you off (for one reason or another).  Don&#8217;t buy into it and call bullshit when you hear it. </p>
<p>These same women gave it up pretty quickly to certain men when they were younger (but won&#8217;t admit to it or feel shamed).  They&#8217;ll just continue preaching this nonsense about how men are fucked up for not waiting because men are &#8216;low value&#8217;.  Again, I&#8217;m calling bullshit.</p>
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		<title>By: celebriticat</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2015 22:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A better way to relate: http://www.reuniting.info/node/7970]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A better way to relate: <a href="http://www.reuniting.info/node/7970" rel="nofollow">http://www.reuniting.info/node/7970</a></p>
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		<title>By: celebriticat</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/04/taking-things-slow/comment-page-1/#comment-87042</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2015 11:39:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For my part, taking it slow has a rationale. I want to find out if we enjoy each other and are good for each other outside the bedroom. Sex skews the data, causing us to think those good feelings are going to be present in all aspects of the relationship. 

Good sex can only make up for an otherwise inharmonious relationship for so long before the cracks in the relationship start breaking into the sexual arena, as well. Since women give so much of ourselves in sex, some of us have decided not to let anyone into the holy of holies who hasn&#039;t first bothered to really get to know and appreciate the person occupying the temple, and demonstrated that he has our best interests at heart. 

If you want a fast woman, there&#039;s nothing wrong with that. Just be honest with yourself and her that what you want is a convenience fuck, not a real relationship.There are women who would be content with that. The rest of us want something deeper.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For my part, taking it slow has a rationale. I want to find out if we enjoy each other and are good for each other outside the bedroom. Sex skews the data, causing us to think those good feelings are going to be present in all aspects of the relationship. </p>
<p>Good sex can only make up for an otherwise inharmonious relationship for so long before the cracks in the relationship start breaking into the sexual arena, as well. Since women give so much of ourselves in sex, some of us have decided not to let anyone into the holy of holies who hasn&#8217;t first bothered to really get to know and appreciate the person occupying the temple, and demonstrated that he has our best interests at heart. </p>
<p>If you want a fast woman, there&#8217;s nothing wrong with that. Just be honest with yourself and her that what you want is a convenience fuck, not a real relationship.There are women who would be content with that. The rest of us want something deeper.</p>
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		<title>By: celebriticat</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/04/taking-things-slow/comment-page-1/#comment-86932</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2015 00:01:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow. This is a very sad post to me. No wonder so many women are giving up on men. I hope this is not representative of the mindset of most men, because some of us keep courageously pressing on in the hopes that there are men out there who actually love women, not just vaginas.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. This is a very sad post to me. No wonder so many women are giving up on men. I hope this is not representative of the mindset of most men, because some of us keep courageously pressing on in the hopes that there are men out there who actually love women, not just vaginas.</p>
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		<title>By: infinitemptiness</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/04/taking-things-slow/comment-page-1/#comment-53190</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[infinitemptiness]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2014 15:32:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you guys dump a chick cuz she won&#039;t put out on the 1st date or on YOUR terms and timeline then you are NOT relationship material and that&#039;s why you&#039;re here whining and pulling each other&#039;s dicks for a little comfort. 

You want women to accept you while acting macho and talking about &#039;dumping her ass.&#039; Dude that chick and her friends are laughing at your childish bullying antics. 

Oh btw if you think your opinions here are valid how about you run them past your sister or mother? See what they think of your macho desperate posturing.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you guys dump a chick cuz she won&#8217;t put out on the 1st date or on YOUR terms and timeline then you are NOT relationship material and that&#8217;s why you&#8217;re here whining and pulling each other&#8217;s dicks for a little comfort. </p>
<p>You want women to accept you while acting macho and talking about &#8216;dumping her ass.&#8217; Dude that chick and her friends are laughing at your childish bullying antics. </p>
<p>Oh btw if you think your opinions here are valid how about you run them past your sister or mother? See what they think of your macho desperate posturing.</p>
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		<title>By: Daniel</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/04/taking-things-slow/comment-page-1/#comment-32251</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Daniel]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2014 20:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Caroline apparently is too dense to understand that &quot;weeding out the junk&quot; works both directions. Also, she doesnt seem to understand the double standard between Cancun guy and beta provider guy. She unknowingly affirms this articles truth one thousand times over.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Caroline apparently is too dense to understand that &#8220;weeding out the junk&#8221; works both directions. Also, she doesnt seem to understand the double standard between Cancun guy and beta provider guy. She unknowingly affirms this articles truth one thousand times over.</p>
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		<title>By: Caroline</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/04/taking-things-slow/comment-page-1/#comment-23696</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Caroline]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Oct 2013 01:48:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Seriously?? You are going to bash a woman for being selective about who she has sex with and when? Do you not get the whole point of loving yourself as woman and being of quality, is that men of a lower caliber will always bail, that&#039;s how a woman weeds out the junk..and I can tell from these posts it&#039;s a strategy that works!:)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seriously?? You are going to bash a woman for being selective about who she has sex with and when? Do you not get the whole point of loving yourself as woman and being of quality, is that men of a lower caliber will always bail, that&#8217;s how a woman weeds out the junk..and I can tell from these posts it&#8217;s a strategy that works!:)</p>
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		<title>By: Judge nismo</title>
		<link>http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/04/taking-things-slow/comment-page-1/#comment-22551</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Judge nismo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Sep 2013 13:27:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[TWISI, if a woman tells me she wants to take it slow, her ass is dropped. She might as well be giving me a LJBF! LTIS and LJBF are both rejections!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>TWISI, if a woman tells me she wants to take it slow, her ass is dropped. She might as well be giving me a LJBF! LTIS and LJBF are both rejections!</p>
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