I haven’t still swallowed the whole red pill. I’m in the “Bargaining” phase. “Surely not ALL girls in ALL countries are like that, dammit?” I’ll have to experience it by myself if I’m to move on to the next stage.

Actually I love the women and the food in all of those areas but the cultural differences seem too steep the further east you go.

And just to be clear I wouldn’t be moving solely for the women. I love history and culture as well. If I were to move anywhere for a significant amount of time these things would hold as much or more weight than the women. Matter of fact EE wouldn’t be my first choice if it were only about the women. I love the beer, the food, and the rich history in that part of the world. The Philippines isn’t even on my list despite the fact that I would kill to have a chick like the one who was born there that I dated a few years ago. Minus the western instilled bullshit, of course.

Maybe I won’t find “what I’m looking for”, but I can’t imagine it being any worse than it is here. I have had quite a few relationships in the past 20 some years and I just can’t see myself settling down with the women I have met. In addition to it having the worst odds of any bet you will ever take in your life, these chicks fail to inspire me to want to be the master of their universe.

Despite having to deal with the issues inherent to moving to another part of the world I haven’t heard of too many men who were itching to com back after spending some time in one of these countries.

Also, the negative feminine traits that are often kept in check by a token attempt at rationality can be given full reign, and the girls allow themselves bouts of more intense girlish insanity.

Also, the girls are more deceptive and cunning and will play you into the ground until you learn to play back.

I prefer it here. I like these rules. I’ve adapted well, and perhaps you could too. I suggest you read all thousands of readers submissions at stickmanbangkok.com . I even have a few hidden in there. The complaints over the girls and culture differences make up a good portion of the submissions.

The grass is in some ways greener. But that 70% that stays the same here stays gets amplified. Femininity has downsides. And western rationality has upsides.

When reading those submissions you might laugh finding out that many of the complaints about Thais are the same complaints that westerners have against western women. I guess a lot of guys don’t really get heavily into dating until they come out here, and so this is where they learn what women is. Then they mistakenly think that negative female traits are cultural.

If its true that women are feminine as an occupation, and I believe that it is, it will be important no matter where you live to be able to keep your woman wanting to be feminine – to keep her occupied with your incentives. Sell her the dream of a future or outright domesticate her and have her attend to you.

One last word – there are player girls here who can run circles around the inexperienced man. Pack your wits.