“I would love to practice this concept more. Any tips for how to apply this in an LTR?”

To connect the former statement and the latter question, simply know this: to make your feelings important to her, in the context of an LTR, you must simply punish her for your bad feelings. and you do this by going silent and ignoring her for a while. the ‘soft next’, if you will.

Dijo sin hablando does not make sense, as Alonso said.
“Comunicarse sin hablar” would be a more apt title.

But anyways, that’s just nitpicking. A great post on an equally great blog. Keep it up, Rollo!

It’s strange because she was the one giving me the IOI’s.

I got a text about 3 hours before our meet up at a casual, cool place.

She claimed she wasn’t feeling well and hoped it’d ‘understand’.

She is in my social circle, so i will no doubt see her again.

But is the best response….no reply at all?

is not speaking, speaking loudly? Or should there be some witty rejoinder to her clear flake.

In analyzing this, based on our interaction, we got on great, lots of kino, laughs, she’s laughing at everything, all the IOI’s are there.

So since she doesn’t live in my city could it be a shit test?

Could this be a flake based on her own nervousness?

Or could this be her genuinely not feeling well and afraid to make a bad impression?

Best to let her wonder what I’m thinking by not speaking?

Never fully disclose anything to a woman.

Dijo – past-tense of to say
sin- without
hablando -imperfect of hablar, speaking

I’m probably full of it so please correct me