No dude you don’t “put yourself out there” by professing your puppy love to her in words — you literally physically kiss her and attempt to make a move and either get rejected or not.

No woman ever agrees in advance, using words, to “love you like that,” especially after you were her beta puppy dog for 10 years!!!! You don’t negotiate physical attraction, not with words anyway.

“me me I me I I I I me I I I benefitted me me me I me me I.”

Isn’t it better to get the last laugh (and maintain hope) by NOT expressly rejecting the friendship offer, but then go radio silent and literally never respond to her even for months until she’s sent at least 3 texts really trying to get you back in her life?

Like I have a LJBF situation right now where the girl does not know much about me at all (does not know that I am red pill aware–not that she even knows what that is). It is impossible for me to “show” her that I have game by text. She has a BF, but yet SHE initiated contact with me (we had met 6 months ago). She keeps sending texts. She would not respond at all if she were not interested.

She says beta beta, complaining about her BF, implying that she never has any fun, acting like she’s going to dump him.

If she meets up with me in person, I will try to push her against the wall and make out with her immediately, because she needs to see that I am a lover not a provider.

But she has pre-emptively, via text, tried to LJBF me, not knowing that I really don’t care. I do not have one-itus for her, and I have other plates spinning. She’s underestimated me (or overestimated my betaness).

So is my move to simply go radio silent or even say “lol” then radio silence, not butthurt explicitly tell her that I don’t accept friendship offer.

And now I will indeed go radio silent until SHE invites me to do something fun. I gave her an offer to do something fun and she fucked up (so far) by declining it.

Her loss, and that is TRULY my inner mentality about it.