Comments on: Identity Crisis

By: It’s Their Game |

It’s Their Game | — Wed, 03 Apr 2013 01:37:58 +0000

[...] White Knight who’s only purpose is to bolster both women’s feeble positions to better identify with any woman in the hopes that she might be watching and, God willing, anonymously seek him out [...]

By: Nice Guy Deconstruction | Offense Wins Championships

Nice Guy Deconstruction | Offense Wins Championships — Sat, 02 Mar 2013 23:29:39 +0000

[...] Nice Guy Identity Problems: “This is the compromise of identity – to fundamentally and voluntarily alter one’s own personality to achieve the acceptability of another. Far too many young men maintain the notion that for them to receive the female intimacy they desire they should necessarily become more like the target of their affection in their own personality. In essence, to mold their own identify to better match the girl they think will best satisfy this need. So we see examples of men compromising their self-interests to better accommodate the interests of the woman they desire to facilitate this need for intimacy (i.e. sex).” [...]

By: Nice Like Me «

Nice Like Me « — Wed, 09 Jan 2013 20:24:37 +0000

[...] men jockeying for feminine approval by ever increasing declarations of being more suitable, more feminine identifying betas, than the so-called fraudulent Nice Guys they hope to expose. They’ve made a game of [...]

By: The Men in the Garage «

The Men in the Garage « — Mon, 03 Dec 2012 17:04:00 +0000

[...] me is the moment she loses respect for me in my independence because I’d be identifying with what she ‘thinks’ is best only to placate to her. There has to be that separation [...]

By: Boys will be Boys «

Boys will be Boys « — Tue, 27 Nov 2012 20:13:08 +0000

[...] willful denial or simple indifferent ignorance is debatable, but in either case these men take the identification schema of Beta Game to the logical extreme. In some instances I’m certain the most successful [...]

By: Chauvinism «

Chauvinism « — Mon, 26 Nov 2012 16:35:35 +0000

[...] themselves in avoiding anything even remotely construed as masculinity in a desperate attempt to identify with what other women repeating the same ideology (masculine equals domineering opression) have [...]

By: jadoescher

jadoescher — Tue, 02 Oct 2012 17:09:12 +0000

Relating to a woman and trying to see things from her perspective is good game (use it to your advantage), but changing oneself to match her identity is not.

By: Play Nice «

Play Nice « — Tue, 04 Sep 2012 14:58:29 +0000

[...] is down and Nice Guys are Jerks. Most Nice Guys have been playing the self-internalized Beta Game, identification scenario out for so long that to read something like this is akin to blaspheme. “Great now [...]