Comments on: Identity Crisis

By: Idealism |

Idealism | — Fri, 20 Mar 2015 21:28:54 +0000

[…] to “treat a woman” if he wants to get with her. A Blue Pill mindset is characterized by identifying with the feminine, so being false is equated with anything counter to that […]

By: Tony Figueroa

Tony Figueroa — Sat, 07 Feb 2015 15:07:55 +0000

I’m late to the party but better late than never in this case. I learned how to identify with women very early on and it damaged me greatly. I grew up fatherless and raised by a single mom who had a strong attraction for bad boys/Alpha males. So strong was the attraction that even the regular physical abuse her and I received from these guys wasn’t enough to break the spell of Alpha attraction. My mother and her friends were a sad sorority of battered single moms who although they bemoaned their state would never ever entertain the notion of leaving because, as stated in another post, they preferred to cry over an asshole than a boring Beta. You have never heard a woman enjoy sex with an Alpha as much as my mother did as many times as I did as a boy. However, as I was a child I had no context with which to understand anything except that these men were bad and that I wouldn’t be them as an adult. You see, unlike adults children are not paralyzed by intellectual considerations. They do however grasp reality through instincts which are in many ways deeper than the malleable nature of intellect. My oath to not be like those guys along with social conditioning made me into a MegaBeta. I was the protector, the friend, the counselor and the white knight. I was also very lonely, rejected and cheated on. I was very good looking, fit, intelligent and a hard worker. Growing up in the projects and ghettoes of Brooklyn and PR gave a surface Alpha aspect but once you peeled that back it was Beta down to the DNA. I was a good looking doormat; attractive at first glance but you still wipe your feet on it anyway. So what changed? It took until my forties and having my heart ripped from my chest three times and much involuntary celibacy to stumble upon Game. It has been a difficult, ongoing but immensely rewarding challenge to accept that all that I knew and was self defeating and to go from that to day by day, hour by hour, moment by moment doing the hard work needed to become a Man in the true sense of the word. Thanks for this blog and your work. It’s best to get them while they’re young but even an older man like me can still change for the better.

By: Vulnerability |

Vulnerability | — Mon, 24 Nov 2014 02:54:34 +0000

[…] from a conditioned belief that doing so will prove their emotional maturity and help them better identify with the women they mistakenly believe have a capacity to appreciate […]

By: Rollo on a roll | Alfa NL

Rollo on a roll | Alfa NL — Mon, 03 Nov 2014 17:39:26 +0000

[…] a feminine-primary, supportive Beta role for themselves and as many other men they can convince to identify more with the […]

By: Alpha Tells |

Alpha Tells | — Mon, 03 Nov 2014 03:26:02 +0000

[…] a feminine-primary, supportive Beta role for themselves and as many other men they can convince to identify more with the […]

By: Game Works |

Game Works | — Thu, 09 Oct 2014 05:39:22 +0000

[…] your blue pill conditioning, the reasons for your predispositions towards a Savior Schema, feminine identifying, why a LJBF is a rejection, why Beta Game comes naturally to men but is self defeating, or why SMV […]

By: The Myth of the ‘Good’ Guy |

The Myth of the ‘Good’ Guy | — Tue, 02 Sep 2014 03:32:51 +0000

[…] So when he models himself (often over the course of a lifetime) to personally identify with this checklist of attractive prerequisites he’s often frustrated and angered when all of […]

By: Game Changers |

Game Changers | — Wed, 30 Jul 2014 18:22:28 +0000

[…] become intimate with a girl. I described this a bit in Beta Game where I outlined the Beta plan of identifying with women’s “needs” and adopting a feminine-primary mental point of origin in […]