Comments on: There is no One. http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/ Thu, 09 Apr 2015 20:41:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Shade http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/comment-page-1/#comment-93858 Thu, 26 Mar 2015 02:35:07 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=48#comment-93858 Good article. I like your perspective. This ONEitis can probably also be referred to as codependency in clinical psychology. Codependency as a term is fairly broad and can relate to many different subjects of dependency… but it is the idea that a person becomes unhealthily tied/preoccupied (dependent) to another person, substance, etc. The person is their life and reality, the focus of all their energy and time; the person is entirely controlled or tries to entirely control their subject of dependence. Anyone interested should check it out. I like that you acknowledge specifically the soul mate myth and how that works against people. That is something that gets ignored and SO many people are unaware of. Just wanted to put more information out there for you or anyone who reads this. -Shade

]]> By: James http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/comment-page-1/#comment-93230 Sun, 22 Mar 2015 16:11:09 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=48#comment-93230 How much money does she have?

Two can play this game.

Since we threw the whole concept of trust, love, and understanding between the sexes out with the bathwater a couple of generations ago.

]]> By: James http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/comment-page-1/#comment-93229 Sun, 22 Mar 2015 16:09:36 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=48#comment-93229 How much money does she have?

Two can play this game.

]]> By: Californication Season 1 | noxtheater http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/comment-page-1/#comment-91289 Fri, 06 Mar 2015 12:00:55 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=48#comment-91289 […] his oneitis, Hank embodies many elements of alpha, such as his outcome independence and cocky funny attitude. […]

]]> By: Eso de la única es un mito. No existe la ÚNICA | eltiporacional http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/comment-page-1/#comment-90845 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 08:47:54 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=48#comment-90845 […] parcial y reinterpretación del artículo: There is no One escrito por Rollo Tomassi para The Rational […]

]]> By: The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi | Patient Ambition http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/comment-page-1/#comment-90110 Thu, 26 Feb 2015 21:22:21 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=48#comment-90110 […] elements that have been critical to my personal development over the past several years, namely: ONEitis (a subsection of The Basics) and Plate […]

]]> By: kobayashii1681 http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/comment-page-1/#comment-84460 Tue, 27 Jan 2015 13:46:03 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=48#comment-84460 1000 fish in the sea…literally

]]> By: One Man’s Trash Is Another Man’s Treasure http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/30/there-is-no-one/comment-page-1/#comment-78516 Sun, 04 Jan 2015 13:25:15 +0000 http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/?p=48#comment-78516 […] an undeserving woman, for that’s what socially expected of him. Worse, he succumbs to his oneitis: a mental hoax again partly influenced by his societal […]

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