That is such a great line.

I just read this book Arousal (psychology of fantasies) and the author talks about how masculinity is forged as a young man begins to separate his identity from his image of his mother. I’d heard recently (elsewhere) that men often define their identities by what they “don’t want to be.”

Putting all this together… it’s a sort of momma’s boy move to ask for advice on how to please. Super momma’s boy to believe it, and parrot those comments. Momma’s boys… not attractive.

A man’s IDENTITY begins as pulls away from that kind of relationship.

Men should buy their shoes in the men’s department.

Asking a woman how to win her heart is akin to asking a child how it should be raised.

But in the case of a hired female coach… presumably she’s in business and wants to make money…. and would realize that providing bad advice to her clients that will cause them to be unhappy with the results…. Now, if I follow this article correctly, despite that, she STILL can’t help herself from doing the things she would do to make sure that her clients are not worthy of her selecting them herself… even though she and they both know that she is not going to be dating any of them. Is this right? Or if not can you explan why she would do that?